Crappy 2005

I don't know about anyone else but I have been having one of the toughest years. IT's just one thing after another. All of my friends have scattered about and I can't seem to have things go my way at all with work or my family. This is especially true in the relationship arena. Seems lately (for the last year) I cannot get anyone's attention or interest. This never was an issue with me before. It could be that people are intimated by me and I've heard that many people just assume I am dating someone (people are surprised when they hear I am not dating anyone).

What the heck can I do to change this besides pray (although that hasn't worked either)?

When all else fails---blame Saturn. No, really...I think its particularly tough for us because Saturn is transiting OUR side of the hemisphere and in particular, some touchy house positions. I always see it as a time to go inside ourselves, root around for whatever isn't working, and get rid of it. Saturn transits are good for shedding old crap we bulls are sometimes to stubborn to get rid of.

I see only brighter days coming, kids. We're going to get better with time. I already feel the clouds breaking up more and more this year, which has been a bit crappy on the relationship front, but excellent for work.

Remember to always be flexible in those areas where we encounter resistance, especially if its coming from within us. Me personally, I haven't been in a serious relationship for about 4 years, and I've used my time off to build up my career status (doing quite well), shed the excess crap in my life (I live alone now, finally) and focus on creating a world I want to live, learn, and love in.

With Saturn moving into our comfort/security/home sector, I feel myself getting ready to plunk down some roots, get focused, and hell, I'm ready for love now more than I have been in years.

keep the faith, bulls. it's only going to get better.

Thanks for that encouragement. I think I remember reading those 2005 year forcast and all mentioned something about a huge transition in October-especially affecting the relationship aspect of your life. I might have to go back and reread-not like I truly depend on it but at this point, any sign or hope or light would be nice.

I am trying to focus on my work and advancing myself at the moment as well. That's all I can do to keep myself sane. I am a people person and hate coming home to an empty or quiet house. Last year I was in different place and there were so many people coming and going. I loved it. This year has just been so depressingly quiet and challenging.

I can actually say I feel the same way!!!!! Day to day gets harder sometimes..jus sittin back and waitin until the "right one" comes along...I hate bein lonely too!!!
Mayb soon, it will come to me....

I feel for you T2, my prayers are out for you....take care and try not to get depressed...put a smile on your face and make everyone around you wonder y your smiling...hehe

*hugs an kisses*
CT

hey girlz + boyz, I'm jumping on the boat with you guys! I didn't read my forecast for the year, but I believe there's a God, & when praying one day in the new year, I got the feeling that this year would be full of struggles and I would persevere near the end of the year. Strangely enough things are falling that way. It's also been kinda of a blah year, that I just want to get it over with.

The last week alone has sucked. My boy didn't show up for a thing, my purse & cell stolen & today, I had to race to the hospital from work as I sliced my hand badly with a large exacto. OMG, I was crying in the waiting room! I was so embarrased! Do you taurus girls cry easy? I used to NEVER, pride, I don't know. But this year I have been so emotional, I'm wondering what's gotten into me. I'm frustrated with my circumstances & with myself in a way. Sagitauries, I remember you mentioned in one thread about being too hard on yourself. Well, I feel the same way when things just don't work out. I feel like I could've made it better - and I probally could have, but for real, running myself down on it only makes it worse & me more depressed.

OK, and the single question that had been brought to attention. hmmmm, ya I'm not sure I think I'm losing my sex appeal too. Maybe we're just losing our confidence with the changing of the planets! hehe By christmas time we'll be God's gift to the world! lol 😉 Another thing, we may put too much priority or care in how people respond to us sexually? What do you guys think?

Yup I think that we do put too much care on how people respond to us sexually. Maybe I'm going in another direction here but my friend had started hanging out with this one chic who it turns out didn't like me so I figured whatever, for some reason I tend to get that quite a bit, some grls dislike me and I'm not a bitch, or a shit-talker, don't mind anyones business, just very easy-going and I have more guy friends than girlfriends- just good buddies.

Anywho, the point is that this chic, I found out, was bi-sexual and was probably leaning more towards being a lesbian since she had had more girlfriends and blah blah. Wellll when I found this out all I could think of was, why the hell wasn't she attracted to me?! what the hell, the chics a freaken lesbian!

Lol, I'm new to this site. "Cookiemonster" "butter" ingenious. Well I'm definitely not a cookiemonster, I hate cookies! yes cookies- the kind you eat with milk- euwww

Hey tauruslady2 -- Astrology says in the last quarter of the year 2005, Taurus won't feel lonely. Many opportunities to meet potential encounters. Let's see! Spend time alone isn't that bad though. It 's time to clean up many things to prepare for the new excitement coming. Maybe it's time to fall in love with yourself before falling in love with someone. :-) And, I think love comes when you least expect it! Believe me 'cause it happened to me.


Ferdinand -- reading astrology is scary somehow. After a long and bitter relationship with a gemini ended two years ago, I wanted my life back so I went back to study master. I want to build up my career and focus on creating a world I want to live, like you. But as I said love comes when we least expect it. Right now I don't know what area I should focus. Astrology says it's time for taurus to get focused on security in both physical and spiritual things including personal and family life. How to interpret astrology? I read somewhere that the first six months (saturn enters leo in july) is like an introduction for us to know the game plan of what we have to handle Saturn in Leo for the rest two years. Hummm...

taurusgoddess -- I understand your feeling. I've been so emotional this year as well. A bit anxious with my life, career and love. There are many uncertainties. I think believing in higer power will bring good things into your life. You will be ok.
You're right about we put much much priority or care to other people. We become tired and depressed. Well, unconditional love is for yourself first. (Don't mistake it for selfish). My motto is : good things will happen if we have good attitudes.

hugs and kisses! taureans!

Hi Guys,

I had to laugh when reading this thread. My Taurus male (who is not into astrology) has even commented that the stars are all aligned wrong right now. LOL He says he doesnt know what is going on, but things arent going right for him and everyone in his family has been weird. So, I guess all the Taurus's are feelin it right now. Hope things improve for you guys, you deserve the best.

Sunshine...

Thanks for the encouragement. 🙂 Tauruschic, what's up with the lesbo's? hehe I'm kinda tomboy myself, grew up on the farm, like to get dirty 😉, and my best friends are guys. I wish I had my girlfriends in my life though. A true gf is better than any male friend. Mostly. The only chic I can totally trust & love is my scorp sis. Maymaid, totally right about we gotta prepare ourselves. Whenever we can we gotta build up our strength b/c u never know when the lightning will strike. I've been craving more spirituality myself these days, & not sure how to do it. Kind of like I think I've been doing it wrong; what a bad feeling.

Oh my, it seems we're all in the same boat.

Thanks TC for your prayers. I appreciate all support I can get.

I'm with you TG on this emotional rollercoaster of a year. Lately, I am so run down with all of life's negativities thrown my way that all it takes is the slightest thing to make me want to burst into tears. And I am not at all close to that kind of highly emotional person. It definitely is a pride thing. There are certain people I allow to see me cry and certain people I won't. That's interesting what you say about how we put too much priority or care to how people respond to us sexually. I am the same way. When I get attention, I like it but sometimes give the impression I don't care for it, but when someone doesn't have any interest, I am wondering why they don't like me!! Go figure....:-)

Maymaid-I agree that spending time alone can be very beneficial to yourself. I firmly believe that love comes when you least expect it. Problem is, it's been so quiet in my life that many times I am left alone with my thoughts and I think about wanting to settle down and be with someone. So how is it suppose to come when I least expect it when I think about it alot? Sort of a vicous cycle at the moment you know? I need some serious distractions I guess.

Well, I too am trying to stay upbeat to this. It has been a year of struggles. I thought 2003 was rough but this one takes the cake. Hopefully it will be brighter skies for all of us on this half of the year!