He just threw me a MASSIVE curve ball...

Ok so I've posted about the bull I've been dealing with a few times. As of recently he became extremely busy and EXTREMELY distant to the point that I was convinced that he was no longer into me. So I hitched up my big girl panties and kept it moving. I blocked all contact and just made myself focus on things I love these past few days. It sucked but hey that's life.
Anyway around the new year my dog with whom I love and have had since she was 6 weeks old got out of the gate and ran off. Normally she'd come right back home after a quick run but since I've recently moved she doesn't know her way to the new house. After weeks of searching and tears I'm still holding out hope that I'll find her.
So today I come to my neighborhood and I notice new lost signs posted on all the poles with pics I've never taken. I take a closer look and the signs are offering a reward and the contact info is his. He's also added a link to a video of my dog that he took months ago. AND posted all of this on his FB page. My mouth has not left the floor since seeing all of this. It's literally the sweetest thing ever. Now I don't know what to do. I was all set in my "move on" frame of mind but this definitely made things a little less clear. And I have no idea what to say (besides thank you) since I resolved not to respond to him anymore. I won't ask anything as cliche' as "what do you think this means" or "does this mean he loves me" I'm just hoping the ensuing dialogue (if any) will help me to decide what to do with this taurguy once and for all... Thanks for letting me obsess...

We like to help people, and me more so because of my Venus in Cancer. Hell I would be willing to help someone I just got 10 minutes into knowing them if they seem genuine enough for the help. I see it as helping a friend in need, nothing else. You're right on with if he was truly interested he'd at least keep up the contact. Just give him a genuine thanks. Hope you find your baby!

but why aren't you obsessing more over your lost dog?!?! poor baby all alone out there!!

I'm not following here ....

If you made a determination of his intentions without having a discussion with him ... then how are you justifying his throwing of any ball?

You said, ... "I was convinced that he was no longer into me. So I hitched up my big girl panties and kept it moving. I blocked all contact ...." which means you made the wrong assumption, and then acted on it.

YOU changed the parameters without YOU communicating to him what you've done .... so how exactly is he responsible for your emotional discomfort?

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Am I in the Taurus room?


Over and Out

This thread needs to be referenced every time someone mentions the mysterious "Taurus Disappearing Act". Quite possibly, we're busy trying to rescue your lost puppy.

Hey P...actually I had several conversations with him about it. He remained super busy which wasn't my issue. My issue was the fact that I was getting the feeling he was no longer interested and I hate being that chick who's so busy chasing a guy I don't realize he doesn't want to be caught so I fell back and did my own thing. I'll only address things so many times with no results before I move on and stop talking about it altogether. Right or wrong that's how I am.

I don't recall blaming him for anything. Certainly not my emotional discomfort. I'm very aware that where I/we are in our relationship is a direct result of what I allow to happen and that includes any discomfort I might find in not speaking with him. And to be fair he changed the parameters of our interactions not me. I'm just responding to those changes with as little fuss as possible.

@kupochan I can relate to what youre saying. I actually sent a thank you text and told him it was very sweet. He replied that he really does love me... which was sweet. But instead of overanalyzing it in true virgo form I'm just going to let it be a nice gesture from a friend until shown otherwise.

Lol @ TLS...touche'