How Do I Win the Heart of a Taurus Woman?

All this talk about Taurus Men. What about the women?

I've been seeing and talking this Taurus woman and I'm attracted to her. We're just friends for now, but I want to take it to the next level. What should I do?

Okay...how long have you been seeing her? By next level, do you mean you want to ask her to be your girlfriend?

Oh...and why do you want to win her heart? Has she won yours? Are you a cappy?

I'm attracted to her and I can't stop thinking about her. I met her a while back, but never contacted her. One day she calls me out of the blue and wanted to talk about her goals and what she wants to do, and she wants me to help her, and then she asked me to hang out her. Next thing I know, I find myself wanting to see her more. I don't know her for that long, I've been hanging with her and talk to her every other day for a little over a week. I know it's only a short while, but I like her a lot.

And yes, I'm a Cap.

And yes, I want her to be my girlfriend.

Capital-
Giving advice on how to win a girl's heart is hard. She's unique. I think you should take a chance and let her know the real you. The you that gets nervous, the you that thinks of her, the you that wants to take it to the next level. Let her see that you have a life, and show her snipetts of it by asking her to join you to lunch with your family and friends. THose are always my favorite.

I've been in love twice. I first fell in love with a Gemini at age 19. He chased me (hint). He was himself, and charmed me with persistence and flirty comments. I must of said no to the guy 20 times, but he insisted, and I finally gave in. I can't tell you what ingredients there were, except that he was geniune at the time. He made me feel important by telling me that he told his family about me. He was excited for me to meet them. When I did meet his family, they knew all about me already. They were key components in me falling for this guy. He slipped though, and managed to flirt himself into bed with someone else and that was the end of that. I forgave and walked away.
Bachelor # 2 (a cancer) was my favorite. I was 22, working 2 jobs. There was this fedex guy that delivered boxes to our shop. Kinda cute, tall, and shy around me. He stopped by the shop one day out of his work clothes and asked me out to lunch. Sent me flowers after our first date, introduced me to his family a week later, and I fell in love within a month. Again...I think he was real and I knew he had good intentions when he took me to meet his family (and he didn't try to get in my pants). That lasted 2 years.
Just be yourself Capital, I'm sure she's probably interested too. She wouldn't keep seeing you if she wasn't.

Thanks the little advice and sharing your story, SensualTaurus.

I'm so passive about the situation. For now, I'm just being her friend and not try to push anything. I don't even flirt with her. I do joke a little bit. I think she only sees me as a friend. But it's really hard to tell how she feels about me. Maybe I should take the risk and really show her that I'm interested. It might risk our friendship if she doesn't feel the same. But I figure if I don't try, I'll never know.

Capital

Cap men and taurus women have an understanding that is totally unexplicable. There might have been several instances when you may have mentioned some things and she understood u perfectly. Several factors between a cap-taurus combination make it a very good match.

Like sensual taurus already told you, you hav to chase her cause we like it; if the right person chases us and wants us. Or if you wanna be friends with her, then you gotta make sure that she gets to be a real close fren and sooner or later the taurus woman will surely give u the hints that u do need; to take it to the next level.

Best of luck.

Cap-you need to update us on the progress. I'm excited for you. I do have a concern though. YOu stated above that you are "passive" and "being a friend" (which is fine) but the don't even flirt stuff is what concerns me. Its okay to throw little ones in,or you might be placed in the "friend box". YOu don't want a taurus girl to do this. From the experience my girlfriends (of all signs) and I have-its very hard for a guy to ever come out of the "friend box". So if you want her to see as more then just a friend you got to start initiating sporadic flirt bombs. And not just verbal flirts, sometimes just eyelocking for a few seconds followed by a smile. Or Looking at her when she's not looking at you, and look away when she catches you. That happend to me last night. I caught my friends cousin checking me out. It was so cute, because once he was caught he got embarressed but smiled. And I smiled back.

Capital

I am a Taurus woman who has been with a cappy for over 10 months. Our situation is a bit different (I chased him) BUT I must say the cap/Taurus combination is good and bad, Capricorn challenges me and pleases me, but he can also drift into a very private and closed off place, this hurts the naturally open and loving nature of Taurus. I guess what I am trying to say is, "if you plan on hooking a Taurus be prepared for a long relationship." We are in for good when we fall in love and Capricorn's can be a little be cold when they start to feel love.

My advice for getting a Taurus:
-talk to her about your family
-ask her questions about traveling, has she been anywhere, where would she like to go?
-She must enjoy good food, maybe take her to a great hole in the wall bistro

From my experiences most Tauruses are down to earth, nice girls who enjoy meeting new people, be bold, be brave, and if you get her, be as open as you can be!

good luck

Right on WTML!!
I think that is great advice for Capital. I want see him work out with the taurus gal. It doesn't seem to common for Capricorns to chase us, so I'm rooting for him and her!
I admire you WTML for taking charge and chasing after your cap. I would have chased the cap I'm interested in if he showed one little sign of trying to get to know me too. He just kinda secluded himself in his work,and I kinda left it at that.

I would love it to work for them too BUT I am in deep with this cappy and it can be hard work for the Taurus womans heart. SenTaurus, just so you know Capricorn men tend to all appear aloft and distant, this is what they would like the rest of the world to believe; not true! They feel so deeply and intensly about things they try and protect themselves from hurt, how do they do this? By not getting close to anyone except family members, who they often have unusally close relationships with, you will not get that close to them, maybe ever! Scary uh? Trust me girl I have learned this all first hand, oh, they all have this real boyish sweet nature that makes you hang on and love them unconditionally. sooo I hope, hope, it Capital goes for it that he tries to stay open and curious.

There's not much to update on the situation. Nothing's changed. I haven't seen her in over a week. But we chat online sometimes.

I honestly don't know what to do or say to her. I want to just call her and tell her how I feel. I'm not very romantic, or flirty, so I don't have any idea how to let her know how I feel about her indirectly without actually telling her. All I want to do is just be straight forward with her and tell her what I think about her and how she makes me feel. I don't even know if I should do that. Even though I want to, I'm so hesistant and afraid of rejection. Is this just me or is that typical of Caps?

I think I'm getting too close to the friendship category. *sigh*

You're right, wheretomylady, about feeling so deeply and intensely. Today, I could barely concentrate on work because I missed her so much and wanted to talk to her. We may not know each other for that long, but I like her so much, as if I was already in love. But I'm so afraid to tell her the truth, and I hate to feel hurt if she doesn't feel the same way about me.

I know I should be chasing her, but it's so hard. Being bold and brave is not easy for me.

What am I to do?

Capital-you need to do it!! Call her up and make a date like 25th described. When you have her in front of you tell her how YOU FEEL! Tell her "I'm not real good at talking about emotions, but I thought I'd give it a shot and let you know that I'm into you.
" [wait for a reaction from her to feel her vibe] If she responds with a smile and she's got mutual feelings then you go more in depth with your feelings.
Okay...if she responds that she doesn't feel the same, then you smile and make a funny comment like "strike one".
Relax Capital-there will only be regrets if you don't take the chance. Don't let your fears be in control of you.
Heres a question for you...describe how you would ask her out if you didn't have all these fears?

Capital

What do u have to lose? I guess u are not very good frens with the taurean girl so losing her friendship is out of the question. On the other hand, u stand to gain a lot by being direct with your feelings to her.

"But I'm so afraid to tell her the truth, and I hate to feel hurt if she doesn't feel the same way about me".
This hurt feeling is the one crippling factor that most capricorn guys have an issue with. Get past that. Trust me one day u will regret not making an attempt.

"Today, I could barely concentrate on work because I missed her so much and wanted to talk to her."
A cap man letting a lady affect his work, I think thats huge. Work is so high up on ur list of priorities that the taurean lady has to be special for you, to be affected so much.

Go for it capital.
:-)

Cap, I hope it works out for you. Us Taury ladies do like to be pursued, but once we know you are into us, then our attitudes change. I'm shy at first, but once I know that a man is into, I do like to take the reigns.

You need to tell her how you feel and lay it out there. The chances are good that she will turn you away. In fact, if she is a typical Taury, then she will admire your honest and upfront quality.

The chances are good that she will NOT turn you away.

CRAP, I'm thinking slower than I can type this morning!

CRAP again, I meant to say that I'm typing slower than I can think...

My guess is she will be an asset to your life either as a girlfriend or a friend, so approach the situation in a gentle friendly manner, ask her out for a coffee or a beer, talk with her some more, in life its better to be slow in the beginning, and guess what? the taurus is a patient pupil, she enjoys attention and most of all mystery!


She is probably already wondering what you want from her, so why not let her know, without using the words of others though, be yourself, she already likes you right?

Yes indeed this is what lead me to my cappy, he was so silent and mysterious with these pentrating eyes and gentle slightly insecure nature, I just knew he needed to be mine! How my cappy and I ended up together was me sending out major signals (after 6 months of friendship), then getting sick and tired of him not responding, trying to leave one night pissed off, with him reaching out and just grabbing and kissing me....it must have taken him a lot of courage but he did it and almost a year later and we are still together, moral of the story can't hurt to try.

how to win taurus lady heart:

- be yourself but be special!
- take care of her but dont bore her with your person
- act try to get in the beginning but have your all heart for her once you get serious
- ask her out to nice places
- buy her nice things
- tell her nice things

tauruses like to enjoy their lives (not extremely though!) as long as things are nice and balanced, taurus is happy. of course , everyone needs a bit of stir up from time to time, but as i said - jsut FROM TIME TO TIME, as taurus doesnt like changes that much.

hope that helps!

Maybe buy her a gift, take her to see beautiful art or wine and dine her! I have Taurus within my moon and I must be the spokesperson for the general Taurean lady because the description always sounds exactly like me.

Taurus personalities can i have known reveal themselves in many ways. I know taurus ladies who are absolutely caring and understanding and fun to be around then i have also known one who was kinda narrow-minded and snobby taurus girl who i thought is just impossible. However those are rare mostly a taurus girl is great. And these women are pretty down to earth and like every one else's advice always remember to be yourself and give her as much comfort and freedom. She is a great companion i m guessing from the reading.

Here's a little update. It's been a month and I have yet to tell her how I feel. I don't know if I ever will. I don't have that feeling that she's interested in me. Maybe she isn't. I think most of the time I would know when a girl likes me, but with her, I feel nothing. But at the same time, she's giving me hope. It's torture to hang with her but not be with her. Whenever we go out, it's only the two of us. The things she says makes me feel like I'm nothing more than a friend to her. She even talked about us being best friends if we'd known each other sooner. I'm not used to being good friends with a girl that I hang out on a 1 on 1 basis, and it's confusing me. It makes me think that I have a chance with her. It's kind of driving me nuts that we hang out so much, but we're just platonic. For me, it's hard to accept her as just a friend because my heart is yearning for more. But, I can't tell her because I'm just too afraid to. I'm afraid because I don't want to be hurt. And I will be hurt because I like her that much, seriously more than every girl I've liked. I have no idea what to do. If keep being her friend, I'm gonna be miserable. Although I'm always happy to see her and happy when I'm hanging with her, deep down I'm really just sad. But if I tell her the truth and she only wants to be friends, I'm going to be miserable, too. However, I will atleast be able to know how she feels and I can truly move on, and start getting over her. But if I keep hanging out with her and being with her as a friend, I will never get over her and I'll keep having that hope of being with her, which will just make me miserable. Not telling her is not doing me any good, but telling her is possibly worst because she gives me no signs that she likes me. Maybe she does, but she's just subtle about it. I don't know. I know that I don't show a lot of interests in her. I act as if I was really just a friend, but deep down, I'm so into her, she doesn't even know. And all this is just killing me.

Should I bother telling her the truth even though she doesn't even show any signs of her liking me? If a girl shows no signs, does that automatically mean she doesn't have any feelings? I'm so undecided about whether to tell or not to tell. It's stressing me out, and I'm lost.

I don't even trust myself because one minute I feel like telling her and then the next minute I feel like I shouldn't even bother telling her.

I just need to vent. I wish I could tell her everything I feel

"I wish I could tell her everything I feel"

Tell her. This undecided situation is not gonna help u. Rather than worrying, analyzing and thinking, y dont u just get it off ur chest. She will be do darn impressed that at least u took the risk.

We're not that hard to impress... or I don't know, maybe we are, since sincerity and genuineness is one of those very few things that can make us appreaciate a person greatly.

Heartfelt compliments, never ever use a cheesy line, one especially that you don't really feel.

Don't lie. We like you for who you are. The faster you show your true colors the better. We're not particularly fond of people who try to impress us too much, especially not by making yourself sound great... we know that no one is great.

As you can see, it all starts with YOU. If a Taurus likes you as a person, it shouldn't be too hard to win over our hearts. Don't move fast unless you sense some sort of attraction (trust me on this one, if you don't sense a romantic interest on her part... win it over, saying it straight out will make her uncomfortable) I distance myself in a situation like that.

Be subtle. Show an interest in being with her, take her out to the places she likes (for me personally, it would be a park, lake... mountains, beach) It's about memorable moments -keeping it light, easy going, you'd sense if she wanted more-
The more happy thoughts you can go back to with a certain person... the more they grow on you. SMILE.

Goodluck 🙂

Hey Capital-good to see you back on the boards. How old are you, and how old is she? So did you ever try any of my subtle flirting advice? Aye aye aye Capital...you are such a CAPPY!!!
I warned you last month about the "friendship box" last month and I'm not saying she's put you there yet, but you run the risk the longer you wait.....
I would NOTTTTT pour my heart out to her right now. Play it safe with subtle flirts. Instead of just "hanging out" call her (be confident) and say this, "you know what-I'd like to take you out for a nice dinner, I'll pick you up in proper date fashion...what do you say...?" If she says....no (you know that she isn't feeling the same) If she says yes...(dude she's interested in "dating" you. BY pouring your heart out right will definately scare her if she hasn't shown any signs. She doesn't seem like an aggressive taurus.
Good luck...no I don't believe in leaving it to chance Capital. I think you have to play to make your own luck.

I really don't sense that she's attracted to me, or maybe I'm just not good at sensing these things. The way she talks to me is very buddy buddy. She calls me Homie, Bud, or Brotha. We do stuff together that seems like dates but we're just "hanging out". One time, we spent the whole day together, eating lunch, take photos of the city, walk and talk, had dinner, and even watch a movie in the end.

I know she likes me as a friend. But God, I like her so much, it's almost as if I was in love already. I can't really truly be her friend if I feel this way because I'll always be wanting more. Ok, I know I'm just assuming that she wants nothing more than friendship, but if I don't sense it, then maybe I shouldn't bother chasing her and cut her out of my life.

I don't even want to flirt with her because I care too much about what she'll think of me. If she doesn't like me flirting, then I'll feel really bad.

I don't think I have a chance with her. She's kinda out of my league. I ain't good looking. I'm average and she's cute. I think I'm already in the friend box. *sigh*

It's hard being her friend, but also it would be sad to not have her in my life. I need to get over her!

What are your ages—
Its not even about looks Capital. I am soooooooooo attracted to a Capricorn right now. He's not hot, his looks did nothing to me when I first met him. I'll tell you what though, after I talked to him for 5 minutes I was suckered. He said things that I was thinking. We were on the same level with personal views, and we had so much fun together. Except that he always held back on telling me how he felt. So it didn't work out because I'm not going to put all my eggs in one basket if he isn't willing to show me where his heart is. Scared or not, you gotta consider the other person. I think he was too scared, and I don't want someone that is too scared. When I give myself, I give myself completely, but I gotta feel that the other person will too. I don't think he would have ever gave himself completely.
There is this movie that is coming out called "the last kiss" ...heres a link to the trailer http://www.apple.com/trailers/dreamworks/thelastkiss/trailer-medium.html<BR> Theres this part where Zach is talking to Rachel about plans and how he's got things figured all out, but its not really what he wants to do. Its more like what society excepts him to do at his age. And she replies "how boring"...I loved that part because thats how I felt with the Cappy Man. I do't want to settle and have this house and kids right now. I want to live life, with someone, and taste all that life has to offer. I can't wait for the movie to come out.
Anyhowdy, Capital. Don't be that person that lets life just happen. Grab it and make your moves, don't leave it to chance. Seriously, unless you like to torture yourself.

Capital,

I love reading your honest feelings about your Taurus girl. She sounds like she is very strong person who knows what she wants. My roommate(a girl) had a friend and they were very similar for months, than suddenly 2 weeks ago they totally hooked up! I was shocked, wow, you don't hear about that very often, just that women or men 'box' each other into friend zones.

I am a 30 year old taurus with a 26 year olf cappy, I had to make the first moves, but i knew he liked me but that still didn't make it easy. I had to be BRAVE and take a CHANCE....

Also dont be too sure that Taurus girl doesn't know how you feel about her, she would have to be pretty dull not to realize it. Women know....

My advice, watch a movie or find something that has a theme, heck you could even bring up astrology-tell her that you heard that capricorns and tauruses are a great match, look for her reaction, if that doesnt work maybe you should let it slip that capricorns are great lovers! No taurus good resist a little pleasure : )

"Also dont be too sure that Taurus girl doesn't know how you feel about her, she would have to be pretty dull not to realize it. Women know...."

Yes they do. Besides ur eyes say everything and she always knows that u cant possibly hide the lust..oops loev in ur eyes.

Come back with the happy posting of ur love story,Capital. U should be pretty darn impressed with urself for having so many taurean women on this board telling u to go for it.

We're both 25. I'm a little older. She hasn't finished school yet, but she's driven and ambitious. I know she's a strong woman. She seems confident and always enthusiastic. She's rarely down. She's outgoing and friendly to strangers. She's everything that I'm not and everything that I want in a Woman. Although she doesn't have a job and isn't exactly stable, she's determined to become successful. And that's what I love about her. She's got all these projects and goals that she wants to accomplish. However, she wants my help in attaining those goals. I'd feel bad if I didn't help her because she's such a good, sincere and geniune person and I know she could use the help I can provide her. I want her to be happy and to reach her goals. I would do anything to be with her. But one thing I couldn't do is tell her how I feel.

I'm afraid to tell her because I like her so much that I can't deal with the rejection. I don't really know how she feels, but she doesn't show any signs that she's interested. She may very well be hiding it. I'm not sure and I'm not willing to take the risk.

*sigh*

Capital-don't put all your eggs in one basket. You should not tell her how you feel, you should show her. Make your move...or someone else will.

Okay....Capital. You have reached my taurus limit....lol I seriously come on here to read if you have made a move.

Capital,

Don't assume that she's gonna be straightforward just because she looks confident. Some women just want to be sure of their partner's feelings before hooking up with them. Remember, she's taurean, so she means business. If you're not confident enough to tell her how you feel, I suggest you start by talking about the subject indirectly. Let's say you could ask her what kind of man she likes....whatever makes you feel comfortable would be fine. And listen to the hints and signals in her replies. But please Capital, make a move before we start turning nuts with this soap opera!

A friendly taurus woman

"If you're not confident enough to tell her how you feel, I suggest you start by talking about the subject indirectly. Let's say you could ask her what kind of man she likes....whatever makes you feel comfortable would be fine. And listen to the hints and signals in her replies. But please Capital, make a move before we start turning nuts with this soap opera!"

Amen to that. U cant get better advice than that. Indirect hints that can reveal some very direct answers.
:-)

Start small tell her he dress is very nice, hair is very pretty or something. See how she reacts to it. Then tell her that you are going to dinner at this new restaururant and would really like if she could join you. something to that nature. or you could find out what her something she doesnt have(not very expensive) but would like and then in the future, surprise her and say "I saw ths and I remembered that you said you liked this" or somethin. I think its easy to seduce a taurus woman because they tend to be the definition of all woman. You could also find out something she likes to eat and prepare it for her for dinner or bake her somethin. If not, you can always do it for me and I will be happy 🙂

Huh? The way to impress a taurus woman is cook her something and be funny, It works with most women. I just hav ea knack to draw taurus women which is just strange. And o yes sexxxxxxxxx, believe or not taurus are very sexual.

Yes, we are sexual...but only with the right mate.

i met this taurus girl, at times she acts like she's really into me but at times she acts like she doesn;t care... i think about her everytime i wake up, and cant stop thinking about her throughout the day. im 18 and this is the first time i feel towards a girl this way. im afraid to chase her because i dont want her to think that im annoying. What should i do, i really like her and i dont want to lose her

capital, im feeling the same way that you are feeling

lol no one reposted them they just added a comment after about a year. Anyway, I'd say its ok to pursue her, but do it with a confident dignity. Dont throw yourself at her, rather court her and show her your intentions in thoughtful ways.

1. Ask her out on a date.
2. Look behind her and ask in a 'gasped' voice; "Is that Brad Pitt!?"
3. When she turns around to look slip a pill in her glass.
4. Profits.


You're welcome.

Hi, I wish to address this to all the Taurus women and hopefully some would reply back. Am a scorpion and I met a Taurus girl in 2011. It was a slow progress and not the fantasy type love at first sight kind but I did fell in love with her and everything that she is. And it only took 3 months. But because of who I really am,because of my past I had my reasons to be distant with her. I tried, i battled with my own feelings but could keep my self away from what was about to happen. I am hopelessly in love with her. During this time there were many little things happened that made me feel that may be she too have some inclination towards me. But i could have been mistaken for a friendly nature though i doubt that in-spite of the fact that we come from two different cultures as well. It feels like she is my other half, her beauty have no boundaries and her sensuality is beyond measure. If the word beauty were to be personified, be it in any language it will always be her and so would be the word woman. She makes me feel miserable, impulsive and passionate to extents that i have never known. Last year i did something because of which I think i have lost everything between us. But I want to know her, understand her not because I can't but because I love her and don't know how to stop doing that. Life without her is like death keeping you alive but life refuses you. I have told her how i feel for her and much more. She did expressed her disappointment over the complete truth about me but didn't said anything about my feelings. Hence i am trying to understand her and her disappointment and would like to know if in an impossible moment did she ever felt something for me. Which is why i am even ready to share the things that haven't talked about on a public platform such as this. Looking forward to your comments.

Cheers.

Hehe it's funny because I am in the same situation here with a taurus girl who is also one of my best friends for 5 years and training partner at the gym. She just got seperated from her husband and I could feel that she changed in the way we act towards eachother. We touch alot more than when she was married (not so standoff??ish), but at that time I never thought about her in that way, as to me it was impossible for me to be with her. Everytime we finish our workout and I go to my car and she is walking to her place, we hug everytime. I have told her that I have a hard time with her cause I like her alot and I truly believe she is my soulmate. I am a cap guy and I am good at making the girls laugh and her too of course, and I am good at picking up on things to kind of surprise her with. I know as it is right now we have to take our time and also because she told me "As for right now I see u as this amazing friend and not more" But it is like the chemistry between us is incredible and I know that no one could make her as happy as me. I just hope that she remembers how I am when she is ready for dating and finding a boyfriend again.
At first when she got separated she didn't want to visit me as she said it probably wasn't a good idea, which I didn't understand, but after I opened up and told her face to face "how can something that feels so right be so wrong" she said on our run one day where it was very humid and hot outside that we one day we should jump in the lake, and she was at this party where she texted me, that it would be nice to go by the water and sit and have a couple of beers and I agreed, and told her that we should definitely do that someday.
I myself used to train MMA so I watch all UFC events and the other night I asked her if she wanted to join me and she said she would like to but she had plans she couldn't get out of, and I thought it was just an excuse, so I wrote her that it was okay if she didn't want to and she could just tell me if she wasn't okay with being with me here at my place, and she wrote back that she would like to if she didn't have those plans already. So it seems she is changing her ways, just hope it will be for the good of her and I then🙂
Maybe if some Taurus women here could give their opinion on this and how I should proceed?

man these Taurus women got us real bad huh 😉

Anyway thanks in advance