How to put the Taurus Fan club in CHECK (Page 2)

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Posted by Rabbit

Set a bear trap baited with bacon and Little Debbie's....

lol

The public response videos may be taking this "friendship" a bit too far. They're speaking to each other through music. Is this a Taurus thing? Still learning about Taurus characteristics over here.

I'm sure it doesn't really mean anything, but yes she's seeing if she can get you upset. You may have to talk to him and draw a line you can agree on as a couple.

yes it is. every taurus i've dated has given songs where whatever they were feeling was in the lyrics to the song. sometimes taureans suck at verbalizing feelings so that's one way that we can communicate what we're feeling. i do it too.

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He posted the song "Tears in Heaven" by Eric Clapton. I sang that to him the other day on the subway.. #ftw

Posted by PVAF

Posted by anonymousheart
SOOOO He texted me inviting me to this in school open mic (a few stops from my work) I didn't respond bc I'm A)pissed B) working and C)He told me he wasn't performing anyways.


Then he called me and invited me. I said I already took lunch. I guess I was just very cold and blank, one word answers. It was the best I could do for the moment. Turns out he was performing and was very "nervous". Still I had nothing to say. Then he starts with his verbose apology stating he is just slow and it took time to see my point of view and how that could have disrespected me, and that he was going to take action so it never happens again. I said, "Ok." He is like umm ok, so I'm gonna head back in now. Me: Ok, bye.

I appreciate his recognition and honesty, but I don't need to hear a recap verbally about his actions. I'm only interested in his actions. He can recap that after he's fixed the problem. Hopefully I will cool down by then and can weigh my options outside of an emotional realm. But I feel very suspicious of him and if he's right for me. He's a good bit younger, and I don't want to keep having these kinds of misunderstandings. It is very distracting and negative.

Who are you kidding, you know you just want that angry sex later. 😛 haha. J/K He deleted the Facebook comment atleast. And yes he still needs to straighten her out. With that said, throw the man a little bit of an olive branch. Atleast go to his performance and encourage him.

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I can't go because he called me last min to tell me he was going on (he said he wasn't yesterday) and I am at work! It's the middle of the damn day for Christ sakes. And I have a job, I'm not a school kid. Olive branch wise, I already bough us both tickets to this amazing concert next weekend LOL... I bought them just morning thinking, well if we make up he can go, if not, I will just give the ticket away. No sex for him! Hmph!

Posted by aurora
Funny thread lol.
You don't have to worry about anything, you are the first thing on his mind. With this other girl, he mentioned you at the end of a convo (translation yes, yes I'm cute, now like my girlfriends page and back off), and with first he posted a song you sang to him. But you are cute I must, say in all of that rage. Show it to him a bit, he'll like it. But don't be a psycho bitch 🙂

Thanks for the re-read 😉
Bxtches get stitches.
I do love him, and I know he's quite a catch, so I when I feel anyone getting in the way I see blood.
I don't wanna show it to him!!! haha, it's embarrassing!

Posted by anonymousheart

Posted by CluelessCancer
Who do the fuk uses the word "cuddle" with male friends?

i don't know what that's all about, but that should have been the red flag. 1 she tagged only males.

your boyfriend is a fuking clueless idiot. but hey don't get bent out of shape about it, most men are extremely dumb.

accept it.

Exactly to the first part. and the last part? I'm not sure if I can...Who wants a dummy?

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lmao. omg you all are funny.

if you tell ANY guy "cuddle" in a sentence, when you're single, they're gonna think.... COMMITMENT?! YAY! or..swwooonsss.... she lurrves meeee! That's a no-no! Best say that to your teddy bear.

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Posted by anonymousheart

Posted by CluelessCancer
Who do the fuk uses the word "cuddle" with male friends?

i don't know what that's all about, but that should have been the red flag. 1 she tagged only males.

your boyfriend is a fuking clueless idiot. but hey don't get bent out of shape about it, most men are extremely dumb.

accept it.

Exactly to the first part. and the last part? I'm not sure if I can...Who wants a dummy?

lmao. omg you all are funny.

if you tell ANY guy "cuddle" in a sentence, when you're single, they're gonna think.... COMMITMENT?! YAY! or..swwooonsss.... she lurrves meeee! That's a no-no! Best say that to your teddy bear.

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Exactly. And I saw what you commented previously about freedom. Thanks, we are totes on the same page. Trust me I don't have freedom issues. Usually the guy is stumbling around acting like a girl wondering why I haven't called. Meanwhile, I'm busy!

This is my impression of a Taurus taking an action:

Or this perhaps:

Mother fucking fuck.
Third time's a charm PVAF:

@anonymousheart is it ok if i pm you my taurus story? i need help with mine 😢 you and your taurus have a stable, fun relationship.....maybe you can also help me out with mine?

Sure. I'll help the best I can.

Saturn give this chaos. lol

anonymous you're right to be angry. And truly, if she was trying to befriend you, what kind of a move is that? A while back my roommate used to prance around in her undies around my boyfriend. It really bothered me and I told her to knock it off. She didn't stop. My boyfriend wasn't phased by it, he found her a complete turn off. One day she had her boyfriend over and I undressed and walked around him in my undies. She went through the roof! I simply and calmly said...I guess I've made my point and am I to understand it that you won't be walking around half naked in front of my boyfriend anymore? She, with venom coursing through her veins, said yes.

I understand this was more on him than her...but I don't know if I could have resisted telling that girl what an icky thing that was to do. And as a practical matter, offering up the name of a good counselor to help her with her issues.

Posted by Inspired13
anonymous you're right to be angry. And truly, if she was trying to befriend you, what kind of a move is that? A while back my roommate used to prance around in her undies around my boyfriend. It really bothered me and I told her to knock it off. She didn't stop. My boyfriend wasn't phased by it, he found her a complete turn off. One day she had her boyfriend over and I undressed and walked around him in my undies. She went through the roof! I simply and calmly said...I guess I've made my point and am I to understand it that you won't be walking around half naked in front of my boyfriend anymore? She, with venom coursing through her veins, said yes.

I understand this was more on him than her...but I don't know if I could have resisted telling that girl what an icky thing that was to do. And as a practical matter, offering up the name of a good counselor to help her with her issues.

LOL! That is such a great story.
Well I held my ground so he came to me with a million questions. I told him what was up down and sideways...and I let him know that she may be operating under the ruse of friendship, and I don't find her sincere, and do not want to be her friend. He is coming over tonight and went through all my songs last night and commented on all my videos and wrote me saying how much he loves me. Things are a bit better, but he still needs to tell the big fat clingy whale to knock it off! Cause if he doesn't, I sure will....

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Okay, so I need your advice on this.
He said sorry and that he would talk to her to prevent it from happening, but hasn't done it yet! He took the status down on his page, but its still on hers. I asked about this, and he says she doesn't have a phone he can call right now, only text (this is true) and he would probably have to skype with her. I was like just write her a message enough time has already passed, it will become irrelevant. He's like no, it's best if I'm actually talking to her.
I don't think he's lying, but I mean, come on....will it be months later when he speaks up?
Meanwhile, I grow more pissed and it's in the back of my mind.


This sh...is just too weird.
The girl things she's an energy healer and her videos for massage look more like she's taking sexual advantage of someone. It's just ALL WRONG.

this article is a bit silly, but she has done all of these things except 1, 11.
http://madamenoire.com/274265/ill-take-your-man-10-ways-to-tell-shes-trying-to-steal-your-boo/

Posted by IrresistableScorp
This is what happens when too many women get together to discuss how to put their man in his place. This will not end well.

The most dignified position in this case is to ignore it. It means nothing. Who cares? Is this man not allowed to have friends? If you felt secure in the relationship, a little light banter wouldn't mean a thing to you. Perhaps you should examine why you feel so insecure in this relationship?

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by IrresistableScorp
This is what happens when too many women get together to discuss how to put their man in his place. This will not end well.

The most dignified position in this case is to ignore it. It means nothing. Who cares? Is this man not allowed to have friends? If you felt secure in the relationship, a little light banter wouldn't mean a thing to you. Perhaps you should examine why you feel so insecure in this relationship?

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This is what happens when trolls land in Brooklyn.
Cue- Aries desperate for attention.

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Posted by anonymousheart
RESURRECTED!
Okay, so I need your advice on this.
He said sorry and that he would talk to her to prevent it from happening, but hasn't done it yet! He took the status down on his page, but its still on hers. I asked about this, and he says she doesn't have a phone he can call right now, only text (this is true) and he would probably have to skype with her. I was like just write her a message enough time has already passed, it will become irrelevant. He's like no, it's best if I'm actually talking to her.
I don't think he's lying, but I mean, come on....will it be months later when he speaks up?
Meanwhile, I grow more pissed and it's in the back of my mind.


This sh...is just too weird.
The girl things she's an energy healer and her videos for massage look more like she's taking sexual advantage of someone. It's just ALL WRONG.

LOL! She sounds like a real piece of work. You might just have to let this one go. Can't he just send her a Facebook msg or something asking her not to post those types of statuses due to the inappropiateness? He can also explain the boundaries of their relationship.

Can you post your charts. I just really need to satisfy my curiosity. LOL.

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I don't know his 🙂 happily. I can always pm you mine. It's a lil cray, but I know how he thinks and he wants to have a talk where you can hear voice, and vibes so he doesn't offend.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
So let me get this straight. You are seriously feeling threatened by--in your words-- a fat ugly slag. Hmm. Really?

Let me tell you one thing, the more you focus on this woman to your BF, the more this woman is going to feel like she has the upper hand with your guy. I mean why would you waste time and energy on SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT MATTER? Unless you think she does? Why do you feel like she is a threat?

Because she's not a threat if your BF is not interested in her. Capiche? A little possessiveness is cute and adorable--especially to Bulls. They love that shit. However, now you are asking him to hurt someone he might actually feel sorry for if, in fact, she is as ugly and fat as you say.

That will come back to bite you. Pay her no attention. You are bigger and classier than that. Bulls demand a classy broad for long term. 😉

Actually yes. I think women that are EMOTIONALLY bonded are the most dangerous of all. A looker is just...a looker. I'm not at all asking him to hurt her. I'm asking him to let her know it's not appropriate to post about cuddling, and there is NOTHING wrong with that. At no point did I ask him to be cruel or unfriend her.

That being said, I agree with you about the focus part. I mean, big picture, no only do I need to take the focus off her.I need to take it off him as well. I have serious life goals to tackle! Thanks Scorp for a dose of tough love.

Posted by anonymousheart

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by IrresistableScorp
This is what happens when too many women get together to discuss how to put their man in his place. This will not end well.

The most dignified position in this case is to ignore it. It means nothing. Who cares? Is this man not allowed to have friends? If you felt secure in the relationship, a little light banter wouldn't mean a thing to you. Perhaps you should examine why you feel so insecure in this relationship?

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This is what happens when trolls land in Brooklyn.
Cue- Aries desperate for attention.

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you mad cuz I dont agree with you?

oh well get over it

Posted by IrresistableScorp
So let me get this straight. You are seriously feeling threatened by--in your words-- a fat ugly slag. Hmm. Really?

Let me tell you one thing, the more you focus on this woman to your BF, the more this woman is going to feel like she has the upper hand with your guy. I mean why would you waste time and energy on SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT MATTER? Unless you think she does? Why do you feel like she is a threat?

Because she's not a threat if your BF is not interested in her. Capiche? A little possessiveness is cute and adorable--especially to Bulls. They love that shit. However, now you are asking him to hurt someone he might actually feel sorry for if, in fact, she is as ugly and fat as you say.

That will come back to bite you. Pay her no attention. You are bigger and classier than that. Bulls demand a classy broad for long term. 😉

shes obviously insecure...read all her threads

a women who constantly has to put other women down to feel better about themselves is nothing but insecure. she keeps putting her taurus on this imaginary pedestal..lol

and he aint living up to it

Posted by anonymousheart
RESURRECTED!
Okay, so I need your advice on this.
He said sorry and that he would talk to her to prevent it from happening, but hasn't done it yet! He took the status down on his page, but its still on hers. I asked about this, and he says she doesn't have a phone he can call right now, only text (this is true) and he would probably have to skype with her. I was like just write her a message enough time has already passed, it will become irrelevant. He's like no, it's best if I'm actually talking to her.
I don't think he's lying, but I mean, come on....will it be months later when he speaks up?
Meanwhile, I grow more pissed and it's in the back of my mind.


This sh...is just too weird.
The girl things she's an energy healer and her videos for massage look more like she's taking sexual advantage of someone. It's just ALL WRONG.

sounds like nagging at this point

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by IrresistableScorp
So let me get this straight. You are seriously feeling threatened by--in your words-- a fat ugly slag. Hmm. Really?

Let me tell you one thing, the more you focus on this woman to your BF, the more this woman is going to feel like she has the upper hand with your guy. I mean why would you waste time and energy on SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT MATTER? Unless you think she does? Why do you feel like she is a threat?

Because she's not a threat if your BF is not interested in her. Capiche? A little possessiveness is cute and adorable--especially to Bulls. They love that shit. However, now you are asking him to hurt someone he might actually feel sorry for if, in fact, she is as ugly and fat as you say.

That will come back to bite you. Pay her no attention. You are bigger and classier than that. Bulls demand a classy broad for long term. 😉

shes obviously insecure...read all her threads

a women who constantly has to put other women down to feel better about themselves is nothing but insecure. she keeps putting her taurus on this imaginary pedestal..lol

and he aint living up to it

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^This

Posted by anonymousheart
RESURRECTED!
Okay, so I need your advice on this.
He said sorry and that he would talk to her to prevent it from happening, but hasn't done it yet! He took the status down on his page, but its still on hers. I asked about this, and he says she doesn't have a phone he can call right now, only text (this is true) and he would probably have to skype with her. I was like just write her a message enough time has already passed, it will become irrelevant. He's like no, it's best if I'm actually talking to her.
I don't think he's lying, but I mean, come on....will it be months later when he speaks up?
Meanwhile, I grow more pissed and it's in the back of my mind.


This sh...is just too weird.
The girl things she's an energy healer and her videos for massage look more like she's taking sexual advantage of someone. It's just ALL WRONG.

What's the history? Did he fill you in? unless it is big time history, much love and friendship or something that makes sense to YOU...there is NO reason in my mind he needs to talk to her whatsover. He shoudl unfriend, block, delete her. She's trouble. Who is more important? You? Or this chick he'll likely rarely if ever actually see in person? It's just stupid. The chick is being a sleeze and he's being too kind to patronzie her. Done and done. I

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by anonymousheart
RESURRECTED!
Okay, so I need your advice on this.
He said sorry and that he would talk to her to prevent it from happening, but hasn't done it yet! He took the status down on his page, but its still on hers. I asked about this, and he says she doesn't have a phone he can call right now, only text (this is true) and he would probably have to skype with her. I was like just write her a message enough time has already passed, it will become irrelevant. He's like no, it's best if I'm actually talking to her.
I don't think he's lying, but I mean, come on....will it be months later when he speaks up?
Meanwhile, I grow more pissed and it's in the back of my mind.


This sh...is just too weird.
The girl things she's an energy healer and her videos for massage look more like she's taking sexual advantage of someone. It's just ALL WRONG.

sounds like nagging at this point

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Ru? Is that you?

I can sense that Bull are too jealous. I don't know their feeling because they don't open up.

Last night Drama:

Me: (texting). Hi . I maybe late going home because my boss is here.

Him: Very rude reply.

I get home at 8:30 pm.

Me: Hi.

Him: hello.

I saw some of my stuff in the living room.

Me: what is this again? Drama? we already talked this and agreed. What's the matter with you?

Him: Just get out of my house.

Me: You know what... we agreed already but you seems very PROVOCATIVE. tell me exactly..

are you jealous and insecure. So I know where to stand.

Him: There's nothing to be Jealous of.

Me: Fine.

I went down at 10:00 pm because I was really mad. soooo mad. I packed my things and let him do the

rest. I am tired dealing this BULL***shit. He was paranoid.

I get back home at 12 midnight. the whole house was dark.He switch off all the lights. So I go

directly to my room and picked up my Cellphone, He sent msg at 11:40 pm. He didn't know I left my

Cellphone inside the room. lol As I switch on the lights I saw him...

OMG. he was sitting in the couch and holding a golf driver stick in a dark place.

thanks God I don't have this nervous issues.

Me: Oh... I thought you slept already. I just went outside because you are yelling at me loudly.

Him: No talk. Stood up and went to his room.

Lol. I don't know what's going with him. lol

I just ignore that nut bag. She's on block -> bkbella86(desperate cries for attention through negative behavior..zzz)

Inspired: They DO have history. I don't wanna get into it here, but we can pm about it- I don't feel like it's fair for me to ask him to unfriend her unless she crosses the line. I would want him to respect my friendships the same. Honestly the close he and I get the less she seems to matter.
It does grind my gears to go on FB this morning and see her liking something he posted on my wall. She has my block list in her future. Her name in writing raises my blood pressure. Maybe as a Leo you can relate, when I don't like someone, it's instant, and I JUST DONT LIKE THEM- and that's really all there is to it! Always felt this way about her, and more and more I'm seeing why. She's intrusive.

Actually, I do put my Taurus on a pedestal. And the cool thing about a Taurus, is the they do grow to meet your expectations for them. They do grow, and improve. Unlike say...an Aries, or a Libra.


Sorry, can't take advice from anyone 20 years old or younger.....ZING!

Sorry you're going thru this but bottom line...she seriously strokes his ego and he's liking the attention. Seen this many many times.

This is exactly why I don't do Facebook :😄RAMA::

Happy face? No!

I meant to type DRAMA

Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
Sorry you're going thru this but bottom line...she seriously strokes his ego and he's liking the attention. Seen this many many times.

This is exactly why I don't do Facebook :😄RAMA::

Lol, thanks. You're sweet 🙂
You're totally right.
Nothing is perfect though...so yea. Gotta deal with this. Will only make me stronger and more refined!

Posted by anonymousheart
Actually, I do put my Taurus on a pedestal. And the cool thing about a Taurus, is the they do grow to meet your expectations for them. They do grow, and improve. Unlike say...an Aries, or a Libra.


Sorry, can't take advice from anyone 20 years old or younger.....ZING!

Ouch...... 😛

Don't do facebook? *gasp*

LOL 😛

Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
Sorry you're going thru this but bottom line...she seriously strokes his ego and he's liking the attention. Seen this many many times.

This is exactly why I don't do Facebook :😄RAMA::

fb is the biggest drama ever.

who is checking up on who, who is dating who, why did she/he post that on the page,
how dare he/she post up a photo that looks provocative, is she/he trying to get attention?
how dare they!
oh did you know that so and so went to this and that...

it sounds like perezhilton.com

^ thanks girl, but that seems like too much work.
Rather than be cornered, it's likely I'll just walk away.
The king of the jungle doesn't compete.
I don't wanna be with anyone that makes me feel I need to.

Well he 'checked' the girl finally. So it's all good!

@anonymousheart thats good to hear :3 hope u 2 live happily ever after 🙂 hehe

Posted by aftershine
@anonymousheart thats good to hear :3 hope u 2 live happily ever after 🙂 hehe

Ahaha. I totally will. With or without HIM!