How to win back the heart of a Taurus man? (Page 2)

doesn't hear from you i meant

Posted by saweetz1988
Please leave the stuff alone. I know its an excuse to try to communicate and see him again ( been there done that)

He needs to breath. Leave the stuff there , TRUST ME if you want him back....give him the space..try to focus on yourself and what you did wrong and what you could do better if you were to get back together.... send him a post card for his birthday and thats THAT>

Trust me after a while, and he doesn't care from you and your stuff and memories are lingering,,, then there's a much higher chance of him wanting to reconnect with you.....

This is my advice, it will work on me... 🙂

asking for the STUFF back will really push the button, that would mean it will be over for all.. if thats what you really want then go ahead..but i'm warning you it won't end well 🙂

I understand. I'm in no rush to get my things back. I won't contact him on his birthday, but will ask how it was at work or something. I don't want to contact him for a while.

Posted by ally99

Posted by saweetz1988
Please leave the stuff alone. I know its an excuse to try to communicate and see him again ( been there done that)

He needs to breath. Leave the stuff there , TRUST ME if you want him back....give him the space..try to focus on yourself and what you did wrong and what you could do better if you were to get back together.... send him a post card for his birthday and thats THAT>

Trust me after a while, and he doesn't care from you and your stuff and memories are lingering,,, then there's a much higher chance of him wanting to reconnect with you.....

This is my advice, it will work on me... 🙂

asking for the STUFF back will really push the button, that would mean it will be over for all.. if thats what you really want then go ahead..but i'm warning you it won't end well 🙂

I understand. I'm in no rush to get my things back. I won't contact him on his birthday, but will ask how it was at work or something. I don't want to contact him for a while.

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... You seem to have a blatant disregard for the term 'no contact'. Please explain why?

No contact means absolutely NO CONTACT no matter what the occasion, need or whatever you whish to do or impose on a person. That includes asking how his birthday was.

You deliberately want to step over the line he has drawn.

Look, I am trying to help you from getting trampled by this guy. I am myself a Taurus, if you haven't noticed, and if you did this with me after I TOLD you otherwise I WILL destroy you. He is show the same attack stance. You are waving that darn flag in front of the bull while he has already kicked up a dust storm warning you. Next thing WILL be a set of horns up your behind as the bull casts you away. He is already seeing red, please don't push it for heaven sake.

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Posted by ally99

Posted by saweetz1988
Please leave the stuff alone. I know its an excuse to try to communicate and see him again ( been there done that)

He needs to breath. Leave the stuff there , TRUST ME if you want him back....give him the space..try to focus on yourself and what you did wrong and what you could do better if you were to get back together.... send him a post card for his birthday and thats THAT>

Trust me after a while, and he doesn't care from you and your stuff and memories are lingering,,, then there's a much higher chance of him wanting to reconnect with you.....

This is my advice, it will work on me... 🙂

asking for the STUFF back will really push the button, that would mean it will be over for all.. if thats what you really want then go ahead..but i'm warning you it won't end well 🙂

I understand. I'm in no rush to get my things back. I won't contact him on his birthday, but will ask how it was at work or something. I don't want to contact him for a while.

... You seem to have a blatant disregard for the term 'no contact'. Please explain why?

No contact means absolutely NO CONTACT no matter what the occasion, need or whatever you whish to do or impose on a person. That includes asking how his birthday was.

You deliberately want to step over the line he has drawn.

Look, I am trying to help you from getting trampled by this guy. I am myself a Taurus, if you haven't noticed, and if you did this with me after I TOLD you otherwise I WILL destroy you. He is show the same attack stance. You are waving that darn flag in front of the bull while he has already kicked up a dust storm warning you. Next thing WILL be a set of horns up your behind as the bull casts you away. He is already seeing red, please don't push it for heaven sake.

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K I won't. Just trying to be nice.

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Posted by ally99
It's more than that. It was our plans for the future, our families loving each other, sharing a common passion and working on it together, getting pregnant and losing the baby, mutual friends, coworkers, traveling the world, sharing and creating traditions...and it's all over.

funny, you didn't mention a thing about him.

lol

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You can leave this thread, thanks.

Posted by ally99

Posted by tiziani

Posted by jeane

Posted by ally99
It's more than that. It was our plans for the future, our families loving each other, sharing a common passion and working on it together, getting pregnant and losing the baby, mutual friends, coworkers, traveling the world, sharing and creating traditions...and it's all over.

funny, you didn't mention a thing about him.

lol

You can leave this thread, thanks.

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lol

Posted by INTJBull
Ally (((Hugs))) I'm not going to ream you a new one. Taurus people can just be really blunt sometimes but don't mean any harm (most times) Anyway, I'm a Taurus sun but I also have my moon & venus in Gemini so I understand both sides to this coin.... Unfortunately for me.

From the Taurus side, YES one of the worst things a person can do is come on too strong, contact me too much, appear clingy, needy, desperate. It makes me feel suffocated & I feel backed into a corner. And that's were the harshness from ex comes from. As others have said don't contact him, not for your things & not for his birthday. I always come back after some space has been given (unless this is a new person I've just met & I'm not invested) Having said that, if this is an ongoing problem & I'm tired of it when I come back it might be to end the relationship OR it might be to work things out. It really just depends & how you are right now is going to help determine if he's done or not so you REALLY need to be careful right now.

On the Gemini side, everything up there that I said I hate as a Taurus I have been guilty of doing (which I hate lol) My gemini side can be impatient & impulsive. Sometimes I get into my feelings & I get a little courage & I need to spill my guts immediately. My Taurus is sitting on one shoulder telling me to stop & telling me what a terrible idea this is (Taurus is my brain) & my Gemini is on the other shoulder saying go for it, Carpe Diem! lol (Gemini is my heart) Usually Gemini wins & immediately after I end up feeling foolish & punishing myself for being so stupid & coming off like a psycho. So I do get where you're coming from & I don't think you're a bad person. But I do think you need to sit on this & practice patience. Which for me means doing absolutely anything & everything to keep my mind busy & away from that situation. And to ignore the gemini on my shoulder whispering to just go for it, what's the worst that could happen?

Thank you. I'm pretty sure he is done for good. If there is any sort of reconciliation, it would be for the best if we didn't get back together or even become friends..I've hurt him too much and I don't want to do it anymore.

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Posted by ally99

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Posted by jeane

Posted by ally99
It's more than that. It was our plans for the future, our families loving each other, sharing a common passion and working on it together, getting pregnant and losing the baby, mutual friends, coworkers, traveling the world, sharing and creating traditions...and it's all over.

funny, you didn't mention a thing about him.

lol

You can leave this thread, thanks.

Charmed, I'm sure.

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Cool.

I see him today...