I need a little advice from some Taurean ladies. Im a Virgo, I met this Taurus girl through friends. She was actually a neighbor, that was with an acquaintance I knew a few months. Well over the course of this time I caught her body language nothing outright flirty because she is loyal. Well we began a to become friends, her BF was a complete beta and DB treated her badly more emotional abuse then physical. Well it was her birthday and he was broke and a looser and wasnt getting her anything. I saw this as my opportunity to put my self on her map as a potential bf so I bought her roses and a card she loved them . Her bf raised hell that ultimately lead to there break up, they were already on the outs so the roses went the cause big blow out police I had her back.. By this time I had developed feelings for her because I was fighting for her and wanted to make her my girl eventually. I was dumping my terrible gf because she was a very nasty black hearted woman. Im 37 and my Taurean is 30. We were doing great although she was slow on some aspects which was ok I made my intentions clear from the jump I wanted her but on the right circumstances. I was little pushy sometimes without knowing it. I honestly care about her, I gave nice gifts not for obligation because that's just me I spoil and do for everyone in my circle. She said. Why do I keep buying her stuff my motto if Im fly you're fly.. Its just me Virgo are practical and logically it made sense I just wanted her to feel special and loved again put some ? back into her cause he dimmed her so much, she said I think you're just trying to get in my pants. I said look me in the eyes is that what u see she said yes but that's so not the case here.. Maybe she couldn't see it because she was hurt over her bf I dunno but in my eyes everything I did was giving off be with me grow lets live have fun experience life together be my teammate. My intentions are very good and hornerable. I have a very deep affection for her. I fixed her car got her shoes.. She hasnt had a new pair in 2 years got her earrings I mean I wanted her to know I was really down for her. Spending time with he was most important we have a bond. In the beginning her ex was on her head bad about me she blocked all of us. Then showed up one day cause her car messed up and said I need your help, I knew she wasnt using me cause neither of us are from VA and we established home base, a place where we could always call home being in an unfamiliar place, shes from Vegas and me Detroit. That's all ive ever directly asked from is her companionship and time for us to grow she openly said Im giving us a chance , she got to the point where she would hold my hand and kiss my cheek. I would never push her too far. Because I know that she was still healing, she stayed the night we got close she slept on my chest and we cuddled all night that good stuff but nothing excessive. and no sex cause I wanted long term with her. Also a good woman isn't going to put out fast anyways. So I go to North Carolina to do a show everything is great. I come back shes different. She still has dealings with her ex such as a lease that was broken and bills n stuff, I was gonna help her. I think like most exes he was messaging her. She openly admitted to still loving him but not being in love. She was supposed to come stay with me sat night movies bonding time, came by for 45 min said she forgot and had some stuff to do. I said okay not being pushy so lets do Sunday she said ok all day Sunday went by no message nothing I was waiting for her.. Later that evening I asked what happend to her I got things came up.. That's not an answer shed give, I knew something is wrong with my bullete then I tried to reason with her she was being snappy, the day went by so about 10pm she messaged me which I was happy to hear from her and said my ex and her friends were talking to her ex bf. But before that she said that everything in her is telling to stay as far away from me as possible.. What did I do to make her feel that? So as she stated she was unsure about me.. The exes situation came into play.. And as I began to explain to her and try and find out the truth about what was said cause my ex will say or do anything to keep me, she just hit me with the horns.. Said I don't like you don't want a relationship with you if I wasnt sure then Im damn sure now. I was blindsided because I know my ex lied she knows Im a great man and fucked up, her ex is bitter cause shes been with me and Im the guy he believes stole her. I didn't tell my ex to start her riff Raf now Im blocked shes not talking to me and I don't even know what was ? said. Im baffled, I haven't bothered her cause Im no beta although Id be lying if I said I wasnt sad as hell I am. I ordered her an edible arrangement to be sent to her work that says Im sorry with a little card.. How do I get my Taurean woman back when didn't do anything but try to build with her.. She also said she wasnt interested in anyone I asked was there someone or something else in the picture she said she dosent have time for me she wants to get her life in order and stay the hell out of her life ect.. I know some of this was out of anger if not most of it. How do u recover from something untrue said that was intentionally said to damage our relations?
