sjayblanco
@sjayblanco
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In love and hurt with a Taurus man...
I'm not a male but this is my opinion. Timing is bad. He is pretty much telling you what it is. He is not ready. I'm sure he cares for you deeply. We don't really go silent unless we are under stress/overwhelmed and need time to think and plan out our next move. It just boils down to him not mentally ready for commitment. You have talk with him and did ur part. Now the ball is in your court. U either accept it and keep ur options open or leave him alone until he knows what he wants. I know this will be hard. From my experience cancers and Taurus have this amazing connection but we also don't know how to break away from each other and it becomes this revolving door of in and out. Best wishes to u and lots of prayers!! I hope everything works out in ur favor!
im neither male nor a taurus but i think it comes down to what you want.
do you want a relationship?
or do you want him in whatever form that comes in?
you have to realise that a relationship with him might not be possible.
i went through this with my partner in the start. he didn't want a relationship. he felt he wasn't ready to commit or put himself on the line.
i understood that but i wanted a relationship with him. i didn't want a casual, no strings, let's see where it takes us sort of thing with him. so i told him and we ended it. sometimes you have to know what you want, where you boundaries are and what you are willing to accept or not accept. if you don't know yourself, how in the world would he?
do you want a relationship?
or do you want him in whatever form that comes in?
you have to realise that a relationship with him might not be possible.
i went through this with my partner in the start. he didn't want a relationship. he felt he wasn't ready to commit or put himself on the line.
i understood that but i wanted a relationship with him. i didn't want a casual, no strings, let's see where it takes us sort of thing with him. so i told him and we ended it. sometimes you have to know what you want, where you boundaries are and what you are willing to accept or not accept. if you don't know yourself, how in the world would he?
Posted by HoneybunniieThank you so much for your input and prayers , i really appreciate it ! This here what im feeling is real it does hurt. I have to think about myself now
I'm not a male but this is my opinion. Timing is bad. He is pretty much telling you what it is. He is not ready. I'm sure he cares for you deeply. We don't really go silent unless we are under stress/overwhelmed and need time to think and plan out our next move. It just boils down to him not mentally ready for commitment. You have talk with him and did ur part. Now the ball is in your court. U either accept it and keep ur options open or leave him alone until he knows what he wants. I know this will be hard. From my experience cancers and Taurus have this amazing connection but we also don't know how to break away from each other and it becomes this revolving door of in and out. Best wishes to u and lots of prayers!! I hope everything works out in ur favor!
Posted by jeaneThank you Jeane for your input ! i already knew these things yet im glad im getting this from other people so i can really understand what i need to do... by the way you said this is how your partner was in the beginning , did things change once you told him you wanted a relationship and ended it ? Did he come back or did it really end for good ?
im neither male nor a taurus but i think it comes down to what you want.
do you want a relationship?
or do you want him in whatever form that comes in?
you have to realise that a relationship with him might not be possible.
i went through this with my partner in the start. he didn't want a relationship. he felt he wasn't ready to commit or put himself on the line.
i understood that but i wanted a relationship with him. i didn't want a casual, no strings, let's see where it takes us sort of thing with him. so i told him and we ended it. sometimes you have to know what you want, where you boundaries are and what you are willing to accept or not accept. if you don't know yourself, how in the world would he?
Posted by Womii
I'm a cancer woman I know exactly how you feel
We are the ones who love more
We are the ones who care more
We don't give up easily on the ones we love even though they treat us so unfairly but then,when we make up our minds we move on and never look back.so,my fellow crab talk to yourself and listen to the inner you.I'm sure this situation is so tiring. Personally I don't think he actually wanted a real love relationship I think he was just lonely and he was tired of being lonely or he probably said to himself "let me just try this out and see if I'll fall in love"That's why they always say don't go into a relationship cause you're lonely..This is just my opinion tho I'm sorry you had to go through all these.It can be really heartbreaking .Make up your mind and take a decision no one should be treated that way it really hurts .
Thank you Womii , thats so true maybe this was just a fling for him. I never thought about it that way , only because i remember he would remind me to be patient.. that he WOULD make me his... that we DO have a connection... so with those confirmations i made sure i wasnt going anywhere. but now i have to stop this cycle altho i honestly dont want to but all this damn time & i still havent been appreciated... you are so right once were up & start to keep it moving we dont even bother to look back. it'll be an unfortunate thing if he decides to want me once i turn ice cold.
Posted by sjayblancoI told him what I wanted in very clear terms. He tried to convince me otherwise but that was a firm line I drew for myself. I wouldnt budge on it. He told me he was sad but he couldn't do it. I said ok and wished him the best and we ended it. I was fully prepared to walk away.Posted by jeaneThank you Jeane for your input ! i already knew these things yet im glad im getting this from other people so i can really understand what i need to do... by the way you said this is how your partner was in the beginning , did things change once you told him you wanted a relationship and ended it ? Did he come back or did it really end for good ?
im neither male nor a taurus but i think it comes down to what you want.
do you want a relationship?
or do you want him in whatever form that comes in?
you have to realise that a relationship with him might not be possible.
i went through this with my partner in the start. he didn't want a relationship. he felt he wasn't ready to commit or put himself on the line.
i understood that but i wanted a relationship with him. i didn't want a casual, no strings, let's see where it takes us sort of thing with him. so i told him and we ended it. sometimes you have to know what you want, where you boundaries are and what you are willing to accept or not accept. if you don't know yourself, how in the world would he?
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A few hours later he contacted me and after about a day (literally 24 hours, neither of us slept as we continued to hash it out through the night) of debating it (honestly it was like a un negotiation) he came round to my side. I made some concessions and we began our relationship.
Oh god they're all the same ?
Just forget him and move on. If they can easily do it, so can you. Deactivate your clingy cancer.
Just forget him and move on. If they can easily do it, so can you. Deactivate your clingy cancer.
Posted by SassyKiwi? yes ma'm , working on it !
Oh god they're all the same ?
Just forget him and move on. If they can easily do it, so can you. Deactivate your clingy cancer.
Posted by SassyKiwiVery narrow minded
Oh god they're all the same ?
Just forget him and move on. If they can easily do it, so can you. Deactivate your clingy cancer.
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