Just a rant. ..

I finally see how stubborn I really am as a Taurus.

TAURUS AND TAURUS relationship...oh my, when it's good, it's amazingggg but when those horns come out...

We're both just so Damm stubborn, agressive aND insanely jealous. It's true what they say when you date the same sign, your negative traits are amplified. ..

Eh, I love us none the less...just having a very off day.

Anyone else in a Taurus Taurus relationship? How do u deal with disagreements? I'm not generally one to walk away, I want to fix it then and there...he seems to like space and time

Sounds toxic. I'm a Pisces who had an off and on relationship with a Gemini and even got married to her. We were sort of together for 6.5 years. 🙂

Usually, with boat loads of aggressive sex.

Posted by earlorg16
Usually, with boat loads of aggressive sex.

Amen

Posted by rmactavish
Dramatic... But you both will make it work out. Taurus aren't the type of people to leave something half way through.

Thank you, That is very reassuring....my first time dating a Taurus...were 2 1/2 months in.

But we both know were worth it to eachother

Posted by piscesman707
Sounds toxic. I'm a Pisces who had an off and on relationship with a Gemini and even got married to her. We were sort of together for 6.5 years. 🙂

yeah geminis are flakey and flighty...(no offense Gems!)

I don't think its toxic, were just learning how to navigate and talk with each other...its still very new.

This was our first major fight and like I said above the TAURUS nature was just amplified.

as you age you will hopefully learn better ways to communicate or at least become a compromise and know how to handle - at least I did - I changed in a lot of ways but then again it also depends on other placements

I think besides aggressive sex, you both have to communicate KNOWING that there's a high possibility that you both will agree to disagree over certain things, and that's entirely okay! Just because there's a disagreement about something, doesn't make it a deal breaker or shouldn't be. Be open to change, be open to trying new things, and try not to stick with what's comfortable all the time. If you BOTH stick with what's comfortable all the time, there's a high likelihood that the relationship can grow stale and become almost TOO routine.

Posted by tctao
as you age you will hopefully learn better ways to communicate or at least become a compromise and know how to handle - at least I did - I changed in a lot of ways but then again it also depends on other placements

I feel as though i'm always the one compromising in all my relationships. I'm okay with that to keep the peace.

What I will say that i'm learning is NEVER have a discussion over texts. Inflections and nuances are just lost and that leads to misconstruing things

I think for the most part our placements work:

ME:

Sun Taurus

Moon Virgo

MERC: GEMINI

Venus Gemini

Mars Cancer

ASC Libra

HIM:

Sun TAURUS

MOON LIBRA

MERC ARIES

VENUS GEMINI

MARS CANCER

ASC: SAG

Also jealousy, can be kinda fun. Make it playful jealousy, and don't look at it as possessing one another. You both already have each other. If someone is say, checking you out or checking your SO out, be PROUD of it. Embrace that about one another, and joke around. It doesn't have to be so serious all the time.

Posted by Boots1313

Posted by tctao
as you age you will hopefully learn better ways to communicate or at least become a compromise and know how to handle - at least I did - I changed in a lot of ways but then again it also depends on other placements

I feel as though i'm always the one compromising in all my relationships. I'm okay with that to keep the peace.

What I will say that i'm learning is NEVER have a discussion over texts. Inflections and nuances are just lost and that leads to misconstruing things

I think for the most part our placements work:

ME:

Sun Taurus

Moon Virgo

MERC: GEMINI

Venus Gemini

Mars Cancer

ASC Libra

HIM:

Sun TAURUS

MOON LIBRA

MERC ARIES

VENUS GEMINI

MARS CANCER

ASC: SAG

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sounds good

I should prob mention we both have ALOT of baggage from past relationships...

I can see he is projecting a lot of his past hurts on our current relationship. I have to remind him in not his ex, and i'm not going to micromanage his life like she did.

He's been single 2 years and has his routine, and I understand its hard for him sometimes to let someone else in easily.

Posted by earlorg16
Also jealousy, can be kinda fun. Make it playful jealousy, and don't look at it as possessing one another. You both already have each other. If someone is say, checking you out or checking your SO out, be PROUD of it. Embrace that about one another, and joke around. It doesn't have to be so serious all the time.

I don't find jealously an issue, I revel in it.

Like you said I like to show off my man, and to me if shows he cares and knows what he has.

HE loves to show me off in public too...makes us both feel proud.

Just a rant, but curious of other Taurus and Taurus Pairings...

Taurus are fun when fun, but boy are they unnecessarily aggressive!

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Posted by piscesman707
Sounds toxic. I'm a Pisces who had an off and on relationship with a Gemini and even got married to her. We were sort of together for 6.5 years. 🙂

That's not related to Taurus forum in any way.

But to us, Geminis are all rotten to the core.

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I just don't understand the flightiness of air signs.

I do have Gemini venus, but thankfully I have that Taurus sun and Virgo moon holding me down.

Posted by Capri__unicorn

Posted by earlorg16
Usually, with boat loads of aggressive sex.

I thought this said buttloads....that would have been better. But yes...sex fixes everything. My Taurus ex finally gave it up and he is back to being nice again

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This was pretty much the issue, we were both "built up" because of "nature's abstinence " so we needed a good romp.

🙂

Posted by Aquastic
Taurus are fun when fun, but boy are they unnecessarily aggressive!

Well times that by 2 and it's a real barrel of monkey's!

Posted by Aquastic
Taurus are fun when fun, but boy are they unnecessarily aggressive!

😅 so me... I've had to reel it in over the years bc I'm super physical. I've knocked so many people over unintentionally just excited running up to hug them, but I end up jumping on them and just knocking us both over... and I hit my head a lot but barely notice 😁

Posted by AbbyNormal

Posted by Aquastic
Taurus are fun when fun, but boy are they unnecessarily aggressive!

😅 so me... I've had to reel it in over the years bc I'm super physical. I've knocked so many people over unintentionally just excited running up to hug them, but I end up jumping on them and just knocking us both over... and I hit my head a lot but barely notice 😁

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Hahaha guilty, my man and I are the biggest clutz. Just yesterday we slammed heads, he twisted his ankle, we both fell over trying to hug each other, I bumped by head, he twised his neck, we both tripped while walking...like a beautiful tornado hahaha

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Posted by earlorg16
Usually, with boat loads of aggressive sex.

I thought this said buttloads....that would have been better. But yes...sex fixes everything. My Taurus ex finally gave it up and he is back to being nice again

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Don't fall for it too quickly... Be wary.

Sex fixes everything? that's super naive after trying to get along with my Gemini ex-wife! I stand by what I wrote before.. Any double-sign is doomed in the long run and some compatibilities will "work" but there won't be harmony. (i.e. Pisces with Gemini, Pisces with Pisces, Taurus with Taurus, etc.)

Being too similar or dissimilar with the same strengths and weaknesses isn't good.

Sex can only make something amazing to super amazing, imo. 🙂

Forgot to mention that my girlfriend (Taurus) dated a male Taurus around a year ago and she claims it only lasted 2 months. I guess she was so unhappy that she cheated on him with her ex-Virgo bf because he refused to sleep with her (or so she claimed in the past).They get along together from what I have seen but it looks awfully boring from what I saw. From what I have personally experienced, the Pisces (me) gets the Taurus out of their shyness and lights the fire under the Taurus' butt to spend money and live life a little!