looneymoonmaiden
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hahahaha...i posted this as a comment in another thread but couldnt resist posting it as a new topic
cause it just cracks me up how taurus is misunderstood
rule number one (and i cannot stress this enough)...when it comes to taurus men:
DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL
if you were great 5 sec before his mood completely turns....let him be...go do your own thing
let the man just bounce back in peace...
and whateverrrr you do....dont make it about you....reallllyyy
love mr.bull...we mutually agreed, without saying it, we go by day and see how it goes...cause we have a complicated situation
but we even been through a long period without being able to contact
and we are still going strong. he is my besttttttttttt budddyyyyyyy......love him to pieces. he is such a support
he is amazing.....fascinating
and sometimes he drops of the face of the earth.not for long
we are not perfect
sometimes i stress........but then i think back of everything he ever said to me
what we've been through in such a short period of time
and if he wouldnt give a damn
he would have left by now
taurus is really not so complicated
actually they are practical and amazing people
earth......grounded
no chitchatters
dont like dramaaaa at all
loves intensly
is very passionate
if you want passion ladies then you also need to be able to deal with everrrrything passionate
so when he is distracted by things that need to be solved....if he needs to "empty his bucket" cause its been a bit much
let him be.......dont hold it against him cause to be honest, thats not fair...everybody has their own way of dealing with things
he has a right to space. so do we at times
when it comes to ladies that: not been loyal, see him as an option, lied to him....tried to make him jealous...yeahhh uhhhhh taurus doesnt care for childish games.....and i agree on that
play fair and honest, you get fair and honest
simple
Lol I feel we are a simple sign to get a long with. I usually tell people "what you see is what you get"
But I have learned not everyone is honest with themselves and there are a lot of "fake people" therefore when they meet someone real and true to themselves they don't know how to respond.
As a Taurus I'm blunt, I don't sugar coat things, I kind of say it how it is. And soooo many people can't handle it!
What sign are you? You seem to get it, and good for you!
Posted by Boots1313exactly what you say!!!Posted by looneymoonmaidenLol I feel we are a simple sign to get a long with. I usually tell people "what you see is what you get"
hahahaha...i posted this as a comment in another thread but couldnt resist posting it as a new topic
cause it just cracks me up how taurus is misunderstood
rule number one (and i cannot stress this enough)...when it comes to taurus men:
DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL
if you were great 5 sec before his mood completely turns....let him be...go do your own thing
let the man just bounce back in peace...
and whateverrrr you do....dont make it about you....reallllyyy
love mr.bull...we mutually agreed, without saying it, we go by day and see how it goes...cause we have a complicated situation
but we even been through a long period without being able to contact
and we are still going strong. he is my besttttttttttt budddyyyyyyy......love him to pieces. he is such a support
he is amazing.....fascinating
and sometimes he drops of the face of the earth.not for long
we are not perfect
sometimes i stress........but then i think back of everything he ever said to me
what we've been through in such a short period of time
and if he wouldnt give a damn
he would have left by now
taurus is really not so complicated
actually they are practical and amazing people
earth......grounded
no chitchatters
dont like dramaaaa at all
loves intensly
is very passionate
if you want passion ladies then you also need to be able to deal with everrrrything passionate
so when he is distracted by things that need to be solved....if he needs to "empty his bucket" cause its been a bit much
let him be.......dont hold it against him cause to be honest, thats not fair...everybody has their own way of dealing with things
he has a right to space. so do we at times
when it comes to ladies that: not been loyal, see him as an option, lied to him....tried to make him jealous...yeahhh uhhhhh taurus doesnt care for childish games.....and i agree on that
play fair and honest, you get fair and honest
simple
But I have learned not everyone is honest with themselves and there are a lot of "fake people" therefore when they meet someone real and true to themselves they don't know how to respond.
As a Taurus I'm blunt, I don't sugar coat things, I kind of say it how it is. And soooo many people can't handle it!
What sign are you? You seem to get it, and good for you! click to expandclick to expand
very true!
haha thanks! im a cancer sun pisces moon...but alot of air in my chart. aqua rising ghehe
Posted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by Boots1313Posted by looneymoonmaiden
hahahaha...i posted this as a comment in another thread but couldnt resist posting it as a new topic
cause it just cracks me up how taurus is misunderstood
rule number one (and i cannot stress this enough)...when it comes to taurus men:
DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL
if you were great 5 sec before his mood completely turns....let him be...go do your own thing
let the man just bounce back in peace...
and whateverrrr you do....dont make it about you....reallllyyy
love mr.bull...we mutually agreed, without saying it, we go by day and see how it goes...cause we have a complicated situation
but we even been through a long period without being able to contact
and we are still going strong. he is my besttttttttttt budddyyyyyyy......love him to pieces. he is such a support
he is amazing.....fascinating
and sometimes he drops of the face of the earth.not for long
we are not perfect
sometimes i stress........but then i think back of everything he ever said to me
what we've been through in such a short period of time
and if he wouldnt give a damn
he would have left by now
taurus is really not so complicated
actually they are practical and amazing people
earth......grounded
no chitchatters
dont like dramaaaa at all
loves intensly
is very passionate
if you want passion ladies then you also need to be able to deal with everrrrything passionate
so when he is distracted by things that need to be solved....if he needs to "empty his bucket" cause its been a bit much
let him be.......dont hold it against him cause to be honest, thats not fair...everybody has their own way of dealing with things
he has a right to space. so do we at times
when it comes to ladies that: not been loyal, see him as an option, lied to him....tried to make him jealous...yeahhh uhhhhh taurus doesnt care for childish games.....and i agree on that
play fair and honest, you get fair and honest
simple
Lol I feel we are a simple sign to get a long with. I usually tell people "what you see is what you get"
But I have learned not everyone is honest with themselves and there are a lot of "fake people" therefore when they meet someone real and true to themselves they don't know how to respond.
As a Taurus I'm blunt, I don't sugar coat things, I kind of say it how it is. And soooo many people can't handle it!
What sign are you? You seem to get it, and good for you! click to expand
exactly what you say!!!
very true!
haha thanks! im a cancer sun pisces moon...but alot of air in my chart. aqua rising ghehe click to expandclick to expand
Cancers and pisces seem to get taurus. Air signs seem to have issues with us or should I say I have issues with air signs...they are so aloof to me.
Ex: I went to see my bf family for the holiday and his brother is a virgo, both sisters cap, him and I taurus, his dad a cap and then his mother is a libra ...the only air sign surrounded by earth and she kept telling us we were a "buncha sticks in the mud, and so cynical " we were just hanging and enjoying being. Lol
Posted by Boots1313Posted by looneymoonmaidenCancers and pisces seem to get taurus. Air signs seem to have issues with us or should I say I have issues with air signs...they are so aloof to me.Posted by Boots1313Posted by looneymoonmaiden
hahahaha...i posted this as a comment in another thread but couldnt resist posting it as a new topic
cause it just cracks me up how taurus is misunderstood
rule number one (and i cannot stress this enough)...when it comes to taurus men:
DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL
if you were great 5 sec before his mood completely turns....let him be...go do your own thing
let the man just bounce back in peace...
and whateverrrr you do....dont make it about you....reallllyyy
love mr.bull...we mutually agreed, without saying it, we go by day and see how it goes...cause we have a complicated situation
but we even been through a long period without being able to contact
and we are still going strong. he is my besttttttttttt budddyyyyyyy......love him to pieces. he is such a support
he is amazing.....fascinating
and sometimes he drops of the face of the earth.not for long
we are not perfect
sometimes i stress........but then i think back of everything he ever said to me
what we've been through in such a short period of time
and if he wouldnt give a damn
he would have left by now
taurus is really not so complicated
actually they are practical and amazing people
earth......grounded
no chitchatters
dont like dramaaaa at all
loves intensly
is very passionate
if you want passion ladies then you also need to be able to deal with everrrrything passionate
so when he is distracted by things that need to be solved....if he needs to "empty his bucket" cause its been a bit much
let him be.......dont hold it against him cause to be honest, thats not fair...everybody has their own way of dealing with things
he has a right to space. so do we at times
when it comes to ladies that: not been loyal, see him as an option, lied to him....tried to make him jealous...yeahhh uhhhhh taurus doesnt care for childish games.....and i agree on that
play fair and honest, you get fair and honest
simple
Lol I feel we are a simple sign to get a long with. I usually tell people "what you see is what you get"
But I have learned not everyone is honest with themselves and there are a lot of "fake people" therefore when they meet someone real and true to themselves they don't know how to respond.
As a Taurus I'm blunt, I don't sugar coat things, I kind of say it how it is. And soooo many people can't handle it!
What sign are you? You seem to get it, and good for you! click to expand
exactly what you say!!!
very true!
haha thanks! im a cancer sun pisces moon...but alot of air in my chart. aqua rising ghehe click to expand
Ex: I went to see my bf family for the holiday and his brother is a virgo, both sisters cap, him and I taurus, his dad a cap and then his mother is a libra ...the only air sign surrounded by earth and she kept telling us we were a "buncha sticks in the mud, and so cynical " we were just hanging and enjoying being. Lol click to expandclick to expand
phahahaha this is so true.....with me im pretty proud...water and air...dont know why but it feels like it makes a good balance....cause my water is more stable.....im loyal but im social. i loveee being home but i also can be running round craving festivals and being outside. in the winter im perfectly happy with lazy days at home in the summer...revivallllllll. ghehe
my air ...aqua is my fun daring side....my water is my "mature" side. emotional at times. pisces is my radar......accurate 98% of the time...cancer sometimes messes that up...thats why i love taurus......keeps my emotions in check.....they can become a storm...he either crushes the threath of a storm or knows how to navigate through it hahahaha
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
Posted by boxcarmirntasounds bit familair.....just....the problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him 😉
good luck .
Posted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expandclick to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun!
Posted by boxcarmirntadepends on what you said in the texts. 😉Posted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expandclick to expand
its not really about being right....it might start as that..
taurus are very clever people.....but they wont let anybody near
the fact that your fight affected him says alot.
cause they can also really dont give a crap
i dont know how long you have been dating...how it started....what the fight was about
they may come across as tough but they are actually very warm and soft people
so its hard for me to pinpoint why he is not responding
but uhhhh
they struggle on their own
in the beginning my sweetheart and i were 24/7 in contact
but i found out he is actually thinking about more serious relationship
althought it was aaaaa freaking highhhhh at first and i fell so hard for him....rollercoaster
very fast............he told me he loved me actually.....and oh i love him too and told him
silence isnt always a negative sign
he could be looking if he wants to move into a serious relationship with you........
but then a little warning....if you cant see yourself with someone who is like this...be honest
cause when a taurus commits they commit and they are very kind and mind end up hurting
but like i said ...dont know all he details so hard to tell
mine sometimes drops of the face of the earth
he told me ....cause i made the same mistake many times...getting stressed out
and he told me: respect my space
and then reasurred me he was just dealing with things
and that we were fine
😉
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expandclick to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars?
Posted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaSadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)Posted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expandclick to expand
this!!!
so true
i have to tell this....to show how we (non taurus) can mess it up in just 5 minutes hahahha
he was so sweet...yesterday he had a bad day...he hasnt gotten much sleep lately....
and im helping him with something. love helping him! so he responded so sweet..
me...i was feeling bit lonely and nervous for an event this evening
instead of telling him this..i called him up....and tried to chitchat hahahaha
he told me he was drained and me....instead of getting the hint...tried to keep talking
became akward hahahha....just awful
i finally got my senses back and told him sorry and that i will just talk to him later
and then texted him i didnt mean it wrongly, admitted that it was kinda selfish of me...and that i understood were it went wrong......
he just texted with "thanks"
now ...when i was younger...i would have taken his reaction so personal
he literally said....dont know what to talk about...dont get what you expect of me....i would have gone sooo off....but now.....i get he is right
so right
you see what i mean?
i explained also why i sometimes just wanna talk to him with no particular reason or that im just nervous about something and that he calms me. but that it was selfish. and shared something with him we both love...a playlist. cause he isnt feeling well....maybe that will cheer him up a bit! -_-
i hate rubbing him the wrong way. i tend to do that
but anyway.......this is how we can annoy taurus too
Posted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
this!!!
so true
i have to tell this....to show how we (non taurus) can mess it up in just 5 minutes hahahha
he was so sweet...yesterday he had a bad day...he hasnt gotten much sleep lately....
and im helping him with something. love helping him! so he responded so sweet..
me...i was feeling bit lonely and nervous for an event this evening
instead of telling him this..i called him up....and tried to chitchat hahahaha
he told me he was drained and me....instead of getting the hint...tried to keep talking
became akward hahahha....just awful
i finally got my senses back and told him sorry and that i will just talk to him later
and then texted him i didnt mean it wrongly, admitted that it was kinda selfish of me...and that i understood were it went wrong......
he just texted with "thanks"
now ...when i was younger...i would have taken his reaction so personal
he literally said....dont know what to talk about...dont get what you expect of me....i would have gone sooo off....but now.....i get he is right
so right
you see what i mean?
i explained also why i sometimes just wanna talk to him with no particular reason or that im just nervous about something and that he calms me. but that it was selfish. and shared something with him we both love...a playlist. cause he isnt feeling well....maybe that will cheer him up a bit! -_-
i hate rubbing him the wrong way. i tend to do that
but anyway.......this is how we can annoy taurus too
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i really don't think you need to walk on eggshells like that with them.
they are a patient bunch. not easily annoyed.
Posted by looneymoonmaidenLol I will say also though just because I am a Taurus doesn't mean I don't rub my Taurus the wrong way. Usually we are one the same page but when we do disagree or get into an argument it can get quite frustrating because we are stubborn. The good news is we always compromise. One of us backs down (usually me) and after some reflection and thought I see how he was right or vise-versa.Posted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
this!!!
so true
i have to tell this....to show how we (non taurus) can mess it up in just 5 minutes hahahha
he was so sweet...yesterday he had a bad day...he hasnt gotten much sleep lately....
and im helping him with something. love helping him! so he responded so sweet..
me...i was feeling bit lonely and nervous for an event this evening
instead of telling him this..i called him up....and tried to chitchat hahahaha
he told me he was drained and me....instead of getting the hint...tried to keep talking
became akward hahahha....just awful
i finally got my senses back and told him sorry and that i will just talk to him later
and then texted him i didnt mean it wrongly, admitted that it was kinda selfish of me...and that i understood were it went wrong......
he just texted with "thanks"
now ...when i was younger...i would have taken his reaction so personal
he literally said....dont know what to talk about...dont get what you expect of me....i would have gone sooo off....but now.....i get he is right
so right
you see what i mean?
i explained also why i sometimes just wanna talk to him with no particular reason or that im just nervous about something and that he calms me. but that it was selfish. and shared something with him we both love...a playlist. cause he isnt feeling well....maybe that will cheer him up a bit! -_-
i hate rubbing him the wrong way. i tend to do that
but anyway.......this is how we can annoy taurus too
click to expandclick to expand
But honestly I think this is just with all relationships, sometimes we need to stop talking, relax, listen, and sometimes just back down...don't focus on being right or winning...that's how you lose anyone.
Posted by jeanedepends on the person...the other signs in their chart...what they have been throughPosted by looneymoonmaideni really don't think you need to walk on eggshells like that with them.Posted by Boots1313this!!!Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
so true
i have to tell this....to show how we (non taurus) can mess it up in just 5 minutes hahahha
he was so sweet...yesterday he had a bad day...he hasnt gotten much sleep lately....
and im helping him with something. love helping him! so he responded so sweet..
me...i was feeling bit lonely and nervous for an event this evening
instead of telling him this..i called him up....and tried to chitchat hahahaha
he told me he was drained and me....instead of getting the hint...tried to keep talking
became akward hahahha....just awful
i finally got my senses back and told him sorry and that i will just talk to him later
and then texted him i didnt mean it wrongly, admitted that it was kinda selfish of me...and that i understood were it went wrong......
he just texted with "thanks"
now ...when i was younger...i would have taken his reaction so personal
he literally said....dont know what to talk about...dont get what you expect of me....i would have gone sooo off....but now.....i get he is right
so right
you see what i mean?
i explained also why i sometimes just wanna talk to him with no particular reason or that im just nervous about something and that he calms me. but that it was selfish. and shared something with him we both love...a playlist. cause he isnt feeling well....maybe that will cheer him up a bit! -_-
i hate rubbing him the wrong way. i tend to do that
but anyway.......this is how we can annoy taurus too
click to expand
they are a patient bunch. not easily annoyed. click to expandclick to expand
true...not annoyed....not fast....but dont forget the horns. if you are fair and honest...they will steam alittle and then come back. if you respect their space
if you dont......you either get the horns....or he will dissapear....but thats the thing
i believe with a taurus
its logic...there is a reason why they do
im not saying you should take everything like a doormat
but what i learned....if you can see the lesson when you bump heads and share this insight with them they will share their part in it too.
but thats my experience
for me its good
he teaches me alot
Posted by Boots1313Posted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by Boots1313this!!!Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
so true
i have to tell this....to show how we (non taurus) can mess it up in just 5 minutes hahahha
he was so sweet...yesterday he had a bad day...he hasnt gotten much sleep lately....
and im helping him with something. love helping him! so he responded so sweet..
me...i was feeling bit lonely and nervous for an event this evening
instead of telling him this..i called him up....and tried to chitchat hahahaha
he told me he was drained and me....instead of getting the hint...tried to keep talking
became akward hahahha....just awful
i finally got my senses back and told him sorry and that i will just talk to him later
and then texted him i didnt mean it wrongly, admitted that it was kinda selfish of me...and that i understood were it went wrong......
he just texted with "thanks"
now ...when i was younger...i would have taken his reaction so personal
he literally said....dont know what to talk about...dont get what you expect of me....i would have gone sooo off....but now.....i get he is right
so right
you see what i mean?
i explained also why i sometimes just wanna talk to him with no particular reason or that im just nervous about something and that he calms me. but that it was selfish. and shared something with him we both love...a playlist. cause he isnt feeling well....maybe that will cheer him up a bit! -_-
i hate rubbing him the wrong way. i tend to do that
but anyway.......this is how we can annoy taurus too
click to expand
Lol I will say also though just because I am a Taurus doesn't mean I don't rub my Taurus the wrong way. Usually we are one the same page but when we do disagree or get into an argument it can get quite frustrating because we are stubborn. The good news is we always compromise. One of us backs down (usually me) and after some reflection and thought I see how he was right or vise-versa.
But honestly I think this is just with all relationships, sometimes we need to stop talking, relax, listen, and sometimes just back down...don't focus on being right or winning...that's how you lose anyone. click to expandclick to expand
lol hahahhaa love this!! yep you are a taurus
so true so true 😄
Posted by looneymoonmaidenYup! AccuratePosted by jeanePosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
this!!!
so true
i have to tell this....to show how we (non taurus) can mess it up in just 5 minutes hahahha
he was so sweet...yesterday he had a bad day...he hasnt gotten much sleep lately....
and im helping him with something. love helping him! so he responded so sweet..
me...i was feeling bit lonely and nervous for an event this evening
instead of telling him this..i called him up....and tried to chitchat hahahaha
he told me he was drained and me....instead of getting the hint...tried to keep talking
became akward hahahha....just awful
i finally got my senses back and told him sorry and that i will just talk to him later
and then texted him i didnt mean it wrongly, admitted that it was kinda selfish of me...and that i understood were it went wrong......
he just texted with "thanks"
now ...when i was younger...i would have taken his reaction so personal
he literally said....dont know what to talk about...dont get what you expect of me....i would have gone sooo off....but now.....i get he is right
so right
you see what i mean?
i explained also why i sometimes just wanna talk to him with no particular reason or that im just nervous about something and that he calms me. but that it was selfish. and shared something with him we both love...a playlist. cause he isnt feeling well....maybe that will cheer him up a bit! -_-
i hate rubbing him the wrong way. i tend to do that
but anyway.......this is how we can annoy taurus too
click to expand
i really don't think you need to walk on eggshells like that with them.
they are a patient bunch. not easily annoyed. click to expand
depends on the person...the other signs in their chart...what they have been through
true...not annoyed....not fast....but dont forget the horns. if you are fair and honest...they will steam alittle and then come back. if you respect their space
if you dont......you either get the horns....or he will dissapear....but thats the thing
i believe with a taurus
its logic...there is a reason why they do
im not saying you should take everything like a doormat
but what i learned....if you can see the lesson when you bump heads and share this insight with them they will share their part in it too.
but thats my experience
for me its good
he teaches me alot
click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaSadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)Posted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expandclick to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice.
Posted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
depends on what you said in the texts.
its not really about being right....it might start as that..
taurus are very clever people.....but they wont let anybody near
the fact that your fight affected him says alot.
cause they can also really dont give a crap
i dont know how long you have been dating...how it started....what the fight was about
they may come across as tough but they are actually very warm and soft people
so its hard for me to pinpoint why he is not responding
but uhhhh
they struggle on their own
in the beginning my sweetheart and i were 24/7 in contact
but i found out he is actually thinking about more serious relationship
althought it was aaaaa freaking highhhhh at first and i fell so hard for him....rollercoaster
very fast............he told me he loved me actually.....and oh i love him too and told him
silence isnt always a negative sign
he could be looking if he wants to move into a serious relationship with you........
but then a little warning....if you cant see yourself with someone who is like this...be honest
cause when a taurus commits they commit and they are very kind and mind end up hurting
but like i said ...dont know all he details so hard to tell
mine sometimes drops of the face of the earth
he told me ....cause i made the same mistake many times...getting stressed out
and he told me: respect my space
and then reasurred me he was just dealing with things
and that we were fine
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imma dm you my saga. 🙂
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expandclick to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaa taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.Posted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expandclick to expand
explain....
Ladies, if you are tough enough to deal taurus men go ahead. Once again Go Ahead. If all these people going
to give you a sound advise and seems not suitable for you for various reasons. Then don't come around and keep posting your drama. lol. I don't think there is formula of loving and leaving someone who is close in our heart but I am sure it is a Voluntary Will to love and to stay to someone we love. Know your worth.
After 3 yrs of battle with a taurus man and suddenly he switched to get back again with me an offer me a wedding. Oh God I didn't give my 100% trust. as Scorpio, I am guarded. I let you in once. You failed me. Next time around you come and give me your sweet loving words I gonna back off. I let you in again but know you cannot win my trust again. I chose to let go. I decide.
Ladies, I am married to Aquarius man and celebrating anniversary soon. He is my friend for 8 yrs. No romance. purely friend. I let go the taurus. He showed up the day before my wedding. Yeah. He was in pain but no to keep going and going nowhere. I am determined. Bold as hell.
to give you a sound advise and seems not suitable for you for various reasons. Then don't come around and keep posting your drama. lol. I don't think there is formula of loving and leaving someone who is close in our heart but I am sure it is a Voluntary Will to love and to stay to someone we love. Know your worth.
After 3 yrs of battle with a taurus man and suddenly he switched to get back again with me an offer me a wedding. Oh God I didn't give my 100% trust. as Scorpio, I am guarded. I let you in once. You failed me. Next time around you come and give me your sweet loving words I gonna back off. I let you in again but know you cannot win my trust again. I chose to let go. I decide.
Ladies, I am married to Aquarius man and celebrating anniversary soon. He is my friend for 8 yrs. No romance. purely friend. I let go the taurus. He showed up the day before my wedding. Yeah. He was in pain but no to keep going and going nowhere. I am determined. Bold as hell.
Is “complicated” another way of saying “not exclusive”?
Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaa taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.Posted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
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lol i saw venus taurus.
i have only known taurus sun with venus aries personally...and they come off more ... different.. but he had leo moon. lol
venus taurus. holy cow!!! lol
even if you are just "friends' omg. they are possessive af.
that venus is the harem of possessiveness. (he does have a scorpio moon)
but it's all good. xd
Posted by M143aw that is so sweet. congrats on ur anniversary.
Ladies, if you are tough enough to deal taurus men go ahead. Once again Go Ahead. If all these people going
to give you a sound advise and seems not suitable for you for various reasons. Then don't come around and keep posting your drama. lol. I don't think there is formula of loving and leaving someone who is close in our heart but I am sure it is a Voluntary Will to love and to stay to someone we love. Know your worth.
After 3 yrs of battle with a taurus man and suddenly he switched to get back again with me an offer me a wedding. Oh God I didn't give my 100% trust. as Scorpio, I am guarded. I let you in once. You failed me. Next time around you come and give me your sweet loving words I gonna back off. I let you in again but know you cannot win my trust again. I chose to let go. I decide.
Ladies, I am married to Aquarius man and celebrating anniversary soon. He is my friend for 8 yrs. No romance. purely friend. I let go the taurus. He showed up the day before my wedding. Yeah. He was in pain but no to keep going and going nowhere. I am determined. Bold as hell.
Posted by M143
Ladies, if you are tough enough to deal taurus men go ahead. Once again Go Ahead. If all these people going
to give you a sound advise and seems not suitable for you for various reasons. Then don't come around and keep posting your drama. lol. I don't think there is formula of loving and leaving someone who is close in our heart but I am sure it is a Voluntary Will to love and to stay to someone we love. Know your worth.
After 3 yrs of battle with a taurus man and suddenly he switched to get back again with me an offer me a wedding. Oh God I didn't give my 100% trust. as Scorpio, I am guarded. I let you in once. You failed me. Next time around you come and give me your sweet loving words I gonna back off. I let you in again but know you cannot win my trust again. I chose to let go. I decide.
Ladies, I am married to Aquarius man and celebrating anniversary soon. He is my friend for 8 yrs. No romance. purely friend. I let go the taurus. He showed up the day before my wedding. Yeah. He was in pain but no to keep going and going nowhere. I am determined. Bold as hell.
you got married?!??
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expand
lol i saw venus taurus.
i have only known taurus sun with venus aries personally...and they come off more ... different.. but he had leo moon. lol
venus taurus. holy cow!!! lol
even if you are just "friends' omg. they are possessive af.
that venus is the harem of possessiveness. (he does have a scorpio moon)
but it's all good. xd
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he was possessive, now he hates me.
Posted by ufo
dont take it personal but the way you type sounds annoying
was that really necessary? It seems free flowing to me.
Posted by ufoPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by ufo
dont take it personal but the way you type sounds annoying
was that really necessary? It seems free flowing to me. click to expand
not very metal of you click to expandclick to expand
to stick up for someone? Fuck yea it is..
Posted by boxcarmirntayes. The taurus man almost crying saw me holding hand with my man.Posted by M143
Ladies, if you are tough enough to deal taurus men go ahead. Once again Go Ahead. If all these people going
to give you a sound advise and seems not suitable for you for various reasons. Then don't come around and keep posting your drama. lol. I don't think there is formula of loving and leaving someone who is close in our heart but I am sure it is a Voluntary Will to love and to stay to someone we love. Know your worth.
After 3 yrs of battle with a taurus man and suddenly he switched to get back again with me an offer me a wedding. Oh God I didn't give my 100% trust. as Scorpio, I am guarded. I let you in once. You failed me. Next time around you come and give me your sweet loving words I gonna back off. I let you in again but know you cannot win my trust again. I chose to let go. I decide.
Ladies, I am married to Aquarius man and celebrating anniversary soon. He is my friend for 8 yrs. No romance. purely friend. I let go the taurus. He showed up the day before my wedding. Yeah. He was in pain but no to keep going and going nowhere. I am determined. Bold as hell.
you got married?!?? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Thanks Lisa.Posted by M143
Ladies, if you are tough enough to deal taurus men go ahead. Once again Go Ahead. If all these people going
to give you a sound advise and seems not suitable for you for various reasons. Then don't come around and keep posting your drama. lol. I don't think there is formula of loving and leaving someone who is close in our heart but I am sure it is a Voluntary Will to love and to stay to someone we love. Know your worth.
After 3 yrs of battle with a taurus man and suddenly he switched to get back again with me an offer me a wedding. Oh God I didn't give my 100% trust. as Scorpio, I am guarded. I let you in once. You failed me. Next time around you come and give me your sweet loving words I gonna back off. I let you in again but know you cannot win my trust again. I chose to let go. I decide.
Ladies, I am married to Aquarius man and celebrating anniversary soon. He is my friend for 8 yrs. No romance. purely friend. I let go the taurus. He showed up the day before my wedding. Yeah. He was in pain but no to keep going and going nowhere. I am determined. Bold as hell.
aw that is so sweet. congrats on ur anniversary. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by M143Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by M143
Ladies, if you are tough enough to deal taurus men go ahead. Once again Go Ahead. If all these people going
to give you a sound advise and seems not suitable for you for various reasons. Then don't come around and keep posting your drama. lol. I don't think there is formula of loving and leaving someone who is close in our heart but I am sure it is a Voluntary Will to love and to stay to someone we love. Know your worth.
After 3 yrs of battle with a taurus man and suddenly he switched to get back again with me an offer me a wedding. Oh God I didn't give my 100% trust. as Scorpio, I am guarded. I let you in once. You failed me. Next time around you come and give me your sweet loving words I gonna back off. I let you in again but know you cannot win my trust again. I chose to let go. I decide.
Ladies, I am married to Aquarius man and celebrating anniversary soon. He is my friend for 8 yrs. No romance. purely friend. I let go the taurus. He showed up the day before my wedding. Yeah. He was in pain but no to keep going and going nowhere. I am determined. Bold as hell.
you got married?!?? click to expand
yes. The taurus man almost crying saw me holding hand with my man. click to expandclick to expand
thought it was you and i on the aquarius forum, bitchin...one of em i can't remember but it wasnt taurus!
I think that was cancer forum boxcarmirnta. yeah. I have been left for awhile since taurus and I agreed to live together.
after 3 mos of being together with that taurus man and I never forget what we agreed on terms and condition prior moving with him. I called his attention.
while in balcony..
Me: So what is the plan? Tell me. I will listen.Are we going to get married since it had been 3 mos I am with you and prior agreeing to sleep with you I wanna get married. And I am serious on that.
Him: The question M, is are you deserving?
Me: (get up where I seated). Alright I don't wanna fight. buy my air ticket, pay my luggage, give me extra allowance as I left my job 3 mos ago per your demand.
Him: Ok.
Me: Alright. Thanks.
I hit the road alone. Know that he was really mad at me and tried to redeem the words.
Him: One night he came home. lied down and said M, I have lots of plans and love for you.
Me: I didn't heard that when I asked you. In fact you insulted me. You didn't even my questions. You add insult to the questions. so i don't know. I packed my things already as you can see.
Him: (Sad face)
lol.
after 3 mos of being together with that taurus man and I never forget what we agreed on terms and condition prior moving with him. I called his attention.
while in balcony..
Me: So what is the plan? Tell me. I will listen.Are we going to get married since it had been 3 mos I am with you and prior agreeing to sleep with you I wanna get married. And I am serious on that.
Him: The question M, is are you deserving?
Me: (get up where I seated). Alright I don't wanna fight. buy my air ticket, pay my luggage, give me extra allowance as I left my job 3 mos ago per your demand.
Him: Ok.
Me: Alright. Thanks.
I hit the road alone. Know that he was really mad at me and tried to redeem the words.
Him: One night he came home. lied down and said M, I have lots of plans and love for you.
Me: I didn't heard that when I asked you. In fact you insulted me. You didn't even my questions. You add insult to the questions. so i don't know. I packed my things already as you can see.
Him: (Sad face)
lol.
Posted by boxcarmirntaso sun opp moon. his personality going to have an internal struggle and conflict going on inside. the theory is that these people find it tough to be happy within themselves due to this ever present internal push and pull and often think that people don't understand them.Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expand
explain.... click to expandclick to expand
if we just look at the negative traits of taurus you have stubborn, can be insensitive to others feelings, possessive, silent, boring
if you look at the negative traits of scorpio - jealousy, manipulative, controlling, paranoid, resentful, intense feelings (+ and -), can be sensitive, arrogant.
if you get him at a point where he is feeling paranoid and distrustful of you, will he be wilful about it? will he shut down? will the deep feelings (whatever they be) overwhelm a taurus (who generally is not comfortable dealing with feelings)? how will he react when that happens? will he be fixed and immovable by when demanding something from you, after all he is right to demand this?
so mix this with mars which is all about action but also aggression and anger. he is going to be impulsive. quick to make decisions, quick to flare up, quick to shoot from the hip. he'll think about what actually happened later. if he is lead by paranoia and a need to control (himself or you), will he react in the moment and then stubbornly refuse to change his mind once the waters have calmed again?
so add all this up and you get what could potentially be a very difficult person.
then again he might be nothing like this. i could easily write one that focuses on the positive traits that he might possess. it's just that he has the potential to have this side to him.
i think @taurusintexas has a taurus sun and scorpio moon and she is adorbs. i'm certain that that placement doesn't always manifest itself in the way i have described.
Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expand
explain.... click to expand
so sun opp moon. his personality going to have an internal struggle and conflict going on inside. the theory is that these people find it tough to be happy within themselves due to this ever present internal push and pull and often think that people don't understand them.
if we just look at the negative traits of taurus you have stubborn, can be insensitive to others feelings, possessive, silent, boring
if you look at the negative traits of scorpio - jealousy, manipulative, controlling, paranoid, resentful, intense feelings (+ and -), can be sensitive, arrogant.
if you get him at a point where he is feeling paranoid and distrustful of you, will he be wilful about it? will he shut down? will the deep feelings (whatever they be) overwhelm a taurus (who generally is not comfortable dealing with feelings)? how will he react when that happens? will he be fixed and immovable by when demanding something from you, after all he is right to demand this?
so mix this with mars which is all about action but also aggression and anger. he is going to be impulsive. quick to make decisions, quick to flare up, quick to shoot from the hip. he'll think about what actually happened later. if he is lead by paranoia and a need to control (himself or you), will he react in the moment and then stubbornly refuse to change his mind once the waters have calmed again?
so add all this up and you get what could potentially be a very difficult person.
then again he might be nothing like this. i could easily write one that focuses on the positive traits that he might possess. it's just that he has the potential to have this side to him.
i think @taurusintexas has a taurus sun and scorpio moon and she is adorbs. i'm certain that that placement doesn't always manifest itself in the way i have described. click to expandclick to expand
bluh ...that sounds awful. And probably him to a T, i never luck out. I conflict with my aqua moon and mars on the regular....😢 BUTTTT....this one asshole scorpio i dated who iced me out tried to be my friend again a couple years later.....only bc he moved to the same small town i had moved to..and got the same job. :/
Posted by M143
I think that was cancer forum boxcarmirnta. yeah. I have been left for awhile since taurus and I agreed to live together.
after 3 mos of being together with that taurus man and I never forget what we agreed on terms and condition prior moving with him. I called his attention.
while in balcony..
Me: So what is the plan? Tell me. I will listen.Are we going to get married since it had been 3 mos I am with you and prior agreeing to sleep with you I wanna get married. And I am serious on that.
Him: The question M, is are you deserving?
Me: (get up where I seated). Alright I don't wanna fight. buy my air ticket, pay my luggage, give me extra allowance as I left my job 3 mos ago per your demand.
Him: Ok.
Me: Alright. Thanks.
I hit the road alone. Know that he was really mad at me and tried to redeem the words.
Him: One night he came home. lied down and said M, I have lots of plans and love for you.
Me: I didn't heard that when I asked you. In fact you insulted me. You didn't even my questions. You add insult to the questions. so i don't know. I packed my things already as you can see.
Him: (Sad face)
lol.
damn girl..well yr tough. And you get what you want!
Gotta Taurus co-worker and he’s one of the chillest people I know. Very good guy. What you see is what you get. Never says anything he doesn’t actually mean and, if he feels he misspoke, he WILL clarify or re-iterate. He’s into so many bizarre and interesting topics that he feels self-conscious about because he feels it makes him sound crazy. I’m talking conspiracy theories, outlandish hypotheticals, aliens...
If he has respect for you, he really does show affection in that he listens when you speak, values your insights and opinions, and shows concern if he senses something might be up. But he’s always careful not to intrude.
He and I clicked instantly, and he’s now one of my favorite people. If I were to ever have an affair, it would be with him, LOL.
If he has respect for you, he really does show affection in that he listens when you speak, values your insights and opinions, and shows concern if he senses something might be up. But he’s always careful not to intrude.
He and I clicked instantly, and he’s now one of my favorite people. If I were to ever have an affair, it would be with him, LOL.
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expand
explain.... click to expand
so sun opp moon. his personality going to have an internal struggle and conflict going on inside. the theory is that these people find it tough to be happy within themselves due to this ever present internal push and pull and often think that people don't understand them.
if we just look at the negative traits of taurus you have stubborn, can be insensitive to others feelings, possessive, silent, boring
if you look at the negative traits of scorpio - jealousy, manipulative, controlling, paranoid, resentful, intense feelings (+ and -), can be sensitive, arrogant.
if you get him at a point where he is feeling paranoid and distrustful of you, will he be wilful about it? will he shut down? will the deep feelings (whatever they be) overwhelm a taurus (who generally is not comfortable dealing with feelings)? how will he react when that happens? will he be fixed and immovable by when demanding something from you, after all he is right to demand this?
so mix this with mars which is all about action but also aggression and anger. he is going to be impulsive. quick to make decisions, quick to flare up, quick to shoot from the hip. he'll think about what actually happened later. if he is lead by paranoia and a need to control (himself or you), will he react in the moment and then stubbornly refuse to change his mind once the waters have calmed again?
so add all this up and you get what could potentially be a very difficult person.
then again he might be nothing like this. i could easily write one that focuses on the positive traits that he might possess. it's just that he has the potential to have this side to him.
i think @taurusintexas has a taurus sun and scorpio moon and she is adorbs. i'm certain that that placement doesn't always manifest itself in the way i have described. click to expand
bluh ...that sounds awful. And probably him to a T, i never luck out. I conflict with my aqua moon and mars on the regular.... BUTTTT....this one asshole scorpio i dated who iced me out tried to be my friend again a couple years later.....only bc he moved to the same small town i had moved to..and got the same job. :/ click to expandclick to expand
sounds like a libra thing to do.
Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntasounds like a libra thing to do. click to expandPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expand
explain.... click to expand
so sun opp moon. his personality going to have an internal struggle and conflict going on inside. the theory is that these people find it tough to be happy within themselves due to this ever present internal push and pull and often think that people don't understand them.
if we just look at the negative traits of taurus you have stubborn, can be insensitive to others feelings, possessive, silent, boring
if you look at the negative traits of scorpio - jealousy, manipulative, controlling, paranoid, resentful, intense feelings (+ and -), can be sensitive, arrogant.
if you get him at a point where he is feeling paranoid and distrustful of you, will he be wilful about it? will he shut down? will the deep feelings (whatever they be) overwhelm a taurus (who generally is not comfortable dealing with feelings)? how will he react when that happens? will he be fixed and immovable by when demanding something from you, after all he is right to demand this?
so mix this with mars which is all about action but also aggression and anger. he is going to be impulsive. quick to make decisions, quick to flare up, quick to shoot from the hip. he'll think about what actually happened later. if he is lead by paranoia and a need to control (himself or you), will he react in the moment and then stubbornly refuse to change his mind once the waters have calmed again?
so add all this up and you get what could potentially be a very difficult person.
then again he might be nothing like this. i could easily write one that focuses on the positive traits that he might possess. it's just that he has the potential to have this side to him.
i think @taurusintexas has a taurus sun and scorpio moon and she is adorbs. i'm certain that that placement doesn't always manifest itself in the way i have described. click to expand
bluh ...that sounds awful. And probably him to a T, i never luck out. I conflict with my aqua moon and mars on the regular.... BUTTTT....this one asshole scorpio i dated who iced me out tried to be my friend again a couple years later.....only bc he moved to the same small town i had moved to..and got the same job. :/ click to expandclick to expand
Noooooooo I hate libras. I'm fucked.
Posted by ufoPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by ufoPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by ufo
dont take it personal but the way you type sounds annoying
was that really necessary? It seems free flowing to me. click to expand
not very metal of you click to expand
to stick up for someone? Fuck yea it is.. click to expand
I was just goofing relax, cuz she said to all taurus chasers "dont take it personal" yall read too much into dxp sometimes click to expandclick to expand
i also was not serious..
Posted by M143
I think that was cancer forum boxcarmirnta. yeah. I have been left for awhile since taurus and I agreed to live together.
after 3 mos of being together with that taurus man and I never forget what we agreed on terms and condition prior moving with him. I called his attention.
while in balcony..
Me: So what is the plan? Tell me. I will listen.Are we going to get married since it had been 3 mos I am with you and prior agreeing to sleep with you I wanna get married. And I am serious on that.
Him: The question M, is are you deserving?
Me: (get up where I seated). Alright I don't wanna fight. buy my air ticket, pay my luggage, give me extra allowance as I left my job 3 mos ago per your demand.
Him: Ok.
Me: Alright. Thanks.
I hit the road alone. Know that he was really mad at me and tried to redeem the words.
Him: One night he came home. lied down and said M, I have lots of plans and love for you.
Me: I didn't heard that when I asked you. In fact you insulted me. You didn't even my questions. You add insult to the questions. so i don't know. I packed my things already as you can see.
Him: (Sad face)
lol.
no offense.....really not...but i can see why you and taurus didnt match well...... -_- i wouldnt know how to handle your approach either...cause i dont really get it ......you marry with just a friend— you tell him how much you gave up for him?? i dont hear much about his side of the story . not meant wrongly but i think you and him werent a match no
Posted by boxcarmirntahoney you did it again...............you said "he hates me" .................thats taking it personal right there....oh and assuming..........they hate that toooooPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expand
explain.... click to expand
so sun opp moon. his personality going to have an internal struggle and conflict going on inside. the theory is that these people find it tough to be happy within themselves due to this ever present internal push and pull and often think that people don't understand them.
if we just look at the negative traits of taurus you have stubborn, can be insensitive to others feelings, possessive, silent, boring
if you look at the negative traits of scorpio - jealousy, manipulative, controlling, paranoid, resentful, intense feelings (+ and -), can be sensitive, arrogant.
if you get him at a point where he is feeling paranoid and distrustful of you, will he be wilful about it? will he shut down? will the deep feelings (whatever they be) overwhelm a taurus (who generally is not comfortable dealing with feelings)? how will he react when that happens? will he be fixed and immovable by when demanding something from you, after all he is right to demand this?
so mix this with mars which is all about action but also aggression and anger. he is going to be impulsive. quick to make decisions, quick to flare up, quick to shoot from the hip. he'll think about what actually happened later. if he is lead by paranoia and a need to control (himself or you), will he react in the moment and then stubbornly refuse to change his mind once the waters have calmed again?
so add all this up and you get what could potentially be a very difficult person.
then again he might be nothing like this. i could easily write one that focuses on the positive traits that he might possess. it's just that he has the potential to have this side to him.
i think @taurusintexas has a taurus sun and scorpio moon and she is adorbs. i'm certain that that placement doesn't always manifest itself in the way i have described. click to expand
bluh ...that sounds awful. And probably him to a T, i never luck out. I conflict with my aqua moon and mars on the regular.... BUTTTT....this one marker scorpio i dated who iced me out tried to be my friend again a couple years later.....only bc he moved to the same small town i had moved to..and got the same job. :/ click to expandclick to expand
ask....dont assumeeee....im still learning to do that lol
Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expand
explain.... click to expand
so sun opp moon. his personality going to have an internal struggle and conflict going on inside. the theory is that these people find it tough to be happy within themselves due to this ever present internal push and pull and often think that people don't understand them.
if we just look at the negative traits of taurus you have stubborn, can be insensitive to others feelings, possessive, silent, boring
if you look at the negative traits of scorpio - jealousy, manipulative, controlling, paranoid, resentful, intense feelings (+ and -), can be sensitive, arrogant.
if you get him at a point where he is feeling paranoid and distrustful of you, will he be wilful about it? will he shut down? will the deep feelings (whatever they be) overwhelm a taurus (who generally is not comfortable dealing with feelings)? how will he react when that happens? will he be fixed and immovable by when demanding something from you, after all he is right to demand this?
so mix this with mars which is all about action but also aggression and anger. he is going to be impulsive. quick to make decisions, quick to flare up, quick to shoot from the hip. he'll think about what actually happened later. if he is lead by paranoia and a need to control (himself or you), will he react in the moment and then stubbornly refuse to change his mind once the waters have calmed again?
so add all this up and you get what could potentially be a very difficult person.
then again he might be nothing like this. i could easily write one that focuses on the positive traits that he might possess. it's just that he has the potential to have this side to him.
i think @taurusintexas has a taurus sun and scorpio moon and she is adorbs. i'm certain that that placement doesn't always manifest itself in the way i have described. click to expandclick to expand
you realllyyy...really have to understand their language
imagine being thoughtfull...adoring...attentive...all the time......are you like ALWAYS happy?? 24/7? no...
wellll here is where i think people misunderstand taurus.....
if you look at the stories you will notice: "i dont understanddddd in the beginning....he/she was all over meeee......was always thereeee.....did soooo muchhhh"
lets just focus on that for a second....
nobody can be like that...non stop
we are wired differently ...we change daily.....ladies...fellow watersigns you know what i meannn
in one day....diff moods...and dont even say thats not true
taurus gives and gives and gives and gives and then....snap!
its human...can you really blame them— no!
however: you have to wanna know why the snap!
if you really cant think of something you did......and i dont mean pretending like you dont know....and he might actually tell you its not you....then believe him
he just needs to recharge and yesss that means...sometimes....he falls of the face of the earth
but.........if you did do something or you had a fight.....think back at the conversation and evaluate
trust me...it did not came out of nowhere
with me.........i am too enthousiastic....about him
and i kept making the mistake of texting him when he told me certain hours he needs his peace...
did i listen? noooooooooo so in love wanted to share every freaking detail of my life hahaha
pretty awful.....im laughing but not funny
i had afriend who said "wel that stupid.....why wont he wanna talk with you?"
and then i realized.....thats a selfish thought!
do we stop having a right to me time when we get with somebody—? nooooo
if you did something wrong: cheating.....not respecting him and his boundaries...if you are giving up signs you dont trust him or are playing games.....then he will at some point .....snap or even worse...just dissapear
if he "dissapears" but no reason and isnt really away but ...his mood changes....and he becomes distance
let him be..he needs to figure stuff out or recharge
love taurussss
i feel like the annoying one hahahaha i learn so much from him
cause i have alot to learn when it comes to social skills
Posted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by jeaneyou realllyyy...really have to understand their languagePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expand
explain.... click to expand
so sun opp moon. his personality going to have an internal struggle and conflict going on inside. the theory is that these people find it tough to be happy within themselves due to this ever present internal push and pull and often think that people don't understand them.
if we just look at the negative traits of taurus you have stubborn, can be insensitive to others feelings, possessive, silent, boring
if you look at the negative traits of scorpio - jealousy, manipulative, controlling, paranoid, resentful, intense feelings (+ and -), can be sensitive, arrogant.
if you get him at a point where he is feeling paranoid and distrustful of you, will he be wilful about it? will he shut down? will the deep feelings (whatever they be) overwhelm a taurus (who generally is not comfortable dealing with feelings)? how will he react when that happens? will he be fixed and immovable by when demanding something from you, after all he is right to demand this?
so mix this with mars which is all about action but also aggression and anger. he is going to be impulsive. quick to make decisions, quick to flare up, quick to shoot from the hip. he'll think about what actually happened later. if he is lead by paranoia and a need to control (himself or you), will he react in the moment and then stubbornly refuse to change his mind once the waters have calmed again?
so add all this up and you get what could potentially be a very difficult person.
then again he might be nothing like this. i could easily write one that focuses on the positive traits that he might possess. it's just that he has the potential to have this side to him.
i think @taurusintexas has a taurus sun and scorpio moon and she is adorbs. i'm certain that that placement doesn't always manifest itself in the way i have described. click to expand
imagine being thoughtfull...adoring...attentive...all the time......are you like ALWAYS happy?? 24/7? no...
wellll here is where i think people misunderstand taurus.....
if you look at the stories you will notice: "i dont understanddddd in the beginning....he/she was all over meeee......was always thereeee.....did soooo muchhhh"
lets just focus on that for a second....
nobody can be like that...non stop
we are wired differently ...we change daily.....ladies...fellow watersigns you know what i meannn
in one day....diff moods...and dont even say thats not true
taurus gives and gives and gives and gives and then....snap!
its human...can you really blame them— no!
however: you have to wanna know why the snap!
if you really cant think of something you did......and i dont mean pretending like you dont know....and he might actually tell you its not you....then believe him
he just needs to recharge and yesss that means...sometimes....he falls of the face of the earth
but.........if you did do something or you had a fight.....think back at the conversation and evaluate
trust me...it did not came out of nowhere
with me.........i am too enthousiastic....about him
and i kept making the mistake of texting him when he told me certain hours he needs his peace...
did i listen? noooooooooo so in love wanted to share every freaking detail of my life hahaha
pretty awful.....im laughing but not funny
i had afriend who said "wel that stupid.....why wont he wanna talk with you?"
and then i realized.....thats a selfish thought!
do we stop having a right to me time when we get with somebody—? nooooo
if you did something wrong: cheating.....not respecting him and his boundaries...if you are giving up signs you dont trust him or are playing games.....then he will at some point .....snap or even worse...just dissapear
if he "dissapears" but no reason and isnt really away but ...his mood changes....and he becomes distance
let him be..he needs to figure stuff out or recharge
love taurussss
i feel like the annoying one hahahaha i learn so much from him
cause i have alot to learn when it comes to social skills
click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
that's amazing! you've shown me i really have a lot to learn about being in a successful relationship. thanks!
how long have you been with your partner for?
Posted by ufoPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by ufoPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by ufoPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by ufo
dont take it personal but the way you type sounds annoying
was that really necessary? It seems free flowing to me. click to expand
not very metal of you click to expand
to stick up for someone? Fuck yea it is.. click to expand
I was just goofing relax, cuz she said to all taurus chasers "dont take it personal" yall read too much into dxp sometimes click to expand
i also was not serious.. click to expand
cancer rising pisces sun, doubtful click to expandclick to expand
well its the truth. But in all honesty if i was serious ,you gaslit me, (ie tried to make me feel bad for having a normal reaction) which isnt cool at all...so think before you speak.
Posted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expand
explain.... click to expand
so sun opp moon. his personality going to have an internal struggle and conflict going on inside. the theory is that these people find it tough to be happy within themselves due to this ever present internal push and pull and often think that people don't understand them.
if we just look at the negative traits of taurus you have stubborn, can be insensitive to others feelings, possessive, silent, boring
if you look at the negative traits of scorpio - jealousy, manipulative, controlling, paranoid, resentful, intense feelings (+ and -), can be sensitive, arrogant.
if you get him at a point where he is feeling paranoid and distrustful of you, will he be wilful about it? will he shut down? will the deep feelings (whatever they be) overwhelm a taurus (who generally is not comfortable dealing with feelings)? how will he react when that happens? will he be fixed and immovable by when demanding something from you, after all he is right to demand this?
so mix this with mars which is all about action but also aggression and anger. he is going to be impulsive. quick to make decisions, quick to flare up, quick to shoot from the hip. he'll think about what actually happened later. if he is lead by paranoia and a need to control (himself or you), will he react in the moment and then stubbornly refuse to change his mind once the waters have calmed again?
so add all this up and you get what could potentially be a very difficult person.
then again he might be nothing like this. i could easily write one that focuses on the positive traits that he might possess. it's just that he has the potential to have this side to him.
i think @taurusintexas has a taurus sun and scorpio moon and she is adorbs. i'm certain that that placement doesn't always manifest itself in the way i have described. click to expand
bluh ...that sounds awful. And probably him to a T, i never luck out. I conflict with my aqua moon and mars on the regular.... BUTTTT....this one marker scorpio i dated who iced me out tried to be my friend again a couple years later.....only bc he moved to the same small town i had moved to..and got the same job. :/ click to expand
honey you did it again...............you said "he hates me" .................thats taking it personal right there....oh and assuming..........they hate that tooooo
ask....dont assumeeee....im still learning to do that lol click to expandclick to expand
how can i ask if he won't talk to me?! Hahah.
Posted by jeanePosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by looneymoonmaidenPosted by boxcarmirnta
You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
click to expand
thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
click to expand
explain.... click to expand
so sun opp moon. his personality going to have an internal struggle and conflict going on inside. the theory is that these people find it tough to be happy within themselves due to this ever present internal push and pull and often think that people don't understand them.
if we just look at the negative traits of taurus you have stubborn, can be insensitive to others feelings, possessive, silent, boring
if you look at the negative traits of scorpio - jealousy, manipulative, controlling, paranoid, resentful, intense feelings (+ and -), can be sensitive, arrogant.
if you get him at a point where he is feeling paranoid and distrustful of you, will he be wilful about it? will he shut down? will the deep feelings (whatever they be) overwhelm a taurus (who generally is not comfortable dealing with feelings)? how will he react when that happens? will he be fixed and immovable by when demanding something from you, after all he is right to demand this?
so mix this with mars which is all about action but also aggression and anger. he is going to be impulsive. quick to make decisions, quick to flare up, quick to shoot from the hip. he'll think about what actually happened later. if he is lead by paranoia and a need to control (himself or you), will he react in the moment and then stubbornly refuse to change his mind once the waters have calmed again?
so add all this up and you get what could potentially be a very difficult person.
then again he might be nothing like this. i could easily write one that focuses on the positive traits that he might possess. it's just that he has the potential to have this side to him.
i think @taurusintexas has a taurus sun and scorpio moon and she is adorbs. i'm certain that that placement doesn't always manifest itself in the way i have described. click to expand
you realllyyy...really have to understand their language
imagine being thoughtfull...adoring...attentive...all the time......are you like ALWAYS happy?? 24/7? no...
wellll here is where i think people misunderstand taurus.....
if you look at the stories you will notice: "i dont understanddddd in the beginning....he/she was all over meeee......was always thereeee.....did soooo muchhhh"
lets just focus on that for a second....
nobody can be like that...non stop
we are wired differently ...we change daily.....ladies...fellow watersigns you know what i meannn
in one day....diff moods...and dont even say thats not true
taurus gives and gives and gives and gives and then....snap!
its human...can you really blame them— no!
however: you have to wanna know why the snap!
if you really cant think of something you did......and i dont mean pretending like you dont know....and he might actually tell you its not you....then believe him
he just needs to recharge and yesss that means...sometimes....he falls of the face of the earth
but.........if you did do something or you had a fight.....think back at the conversation and evaluate
trust me...it did not came out of nowhere
with me.........i am too enthousiastic....about him
and i kept making the mistake of texting him when he told me certain hours he needs his peace...
did i listen? noooooooooo so in love wanted to share every freaking detail of my life hahaha
pretty awful.....im laughing but not funny
i had afriend who said "wel that stupid.....why wont he wanna talk with you?"
and then i realized.....thats a selfish thought!
do we stop having a right to me time when we get with somebody—? nooooo
if you did something wrong: cheating.....not respecting him and his boundaries...if you are giving up signs you dont trust him or are playing games.....then he will at some point .....snap or even worse...just dissapear
if he "dissapears" but no reason and isnt really away but ...his mood changes....and he becomes distance
let him be..he needs to figure stuff out or recharge
love taurussss
i feel like the annoying one hahahaha i learn so much from him
cause i have alot to learn when it comes to social skills
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that's amazing! you've shown me i really have a lot to learn about being in a successful relationship. thanks!
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ahahhaha thanxxx honey....however trust me....we are far from perfect and we are in position you dont wish for any couple
anyhow........let me count.....we are now going into the 5th month......
been through alot of crap in those months and one month we werent able to talk....but still here
not saying we will last...you never know
but with him
he is the first that i really really love and wont never be able to close the door
just cant
we had a bond from day 1...........
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dont take it personal but the way you type sounds annoying
was that really necessary? It seems free flowing to me. click to expand
not very metal of you click to expand
to stick up for someone? Fuck yea it is.. click to expand
I was just goofing relax, cuz she said to all taurus chasers "dont take it personal" yall read too much into dxp sometimes click to expand
i also was not serious.. click to expand
cancer rising pisces sun, doubtful click to expand
well its the truth. But in all honesty if i was serious ,you gaslit me, (ie tried to make me feel bad for having a normal reaction) which isnt cool at all...so think before you speak. click to expand
🤔 you keep taking me seriously tho esp. after I stereotyped your sun and rising
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*sigh* omg.......i didnt until you took it too far. Ugh .move ooonnnnnn
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You and i sound really similar. Similar chart!! I appreciate your advice. Im dealing with one right now .but refuses to talk to me bc we fought, basically saying the same thing but in different ways. I dont know what to do. I should just let it go, but i miss him.
sounds bit familair.....just....they problem is...if you want to be with a taurus (at least this is what i think)
you have to except they are very strong willed people. and trying to prove your point or "win an argument"
that whole idea.....let go....not gonna work
i think....how odd it may sound...but a soft approach and understanding works better
i dont have a problem with this....cause with him....i for some reason dont mind putting my stubborn way aside and try to learn from what he says to me....but thats me
let it go....take a deep breath.....get relaxed and then just ask him..."(text him...whatever ): how he is doing and whenever he wants to talk you are there for him
good luck .
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thanks..i did do something similar but probably still tried to win too hard. I just dont understand why being right is more important than being with me...like did he value me at all? Id gladly reassure him and all that if he'd just talk to me. HEs ignored my last three txts after the fight...its been like 2 wks! We had so much fun! click to expand
Sadly we can be hard headed and dare I say selfish?...it's not about being right, it's more about people just understanding how we function. We aren't really one to change ourselves and needs for others...not that we don't value you just we need to be gently coaxed. (Fixed sign)
Unfortunately, we also know or if we feel we are being taken advantage of or if something just seems off to us, and we feel fights are always going to happen or someone won't agree to disagree with us, we would rather just burn that bridge and move on.
If time wasn't invested we can move on, if it is, then we are loyal and will stay and fight well beyond the time frame we should.
What's your taurus venus/mars? click to expand
venus: taurus mars: aries. Moon: scorpio. My venus is aries i thought we'd mesh. Yea makes me sad hes not fighting for it...we had such a great time together..and when we fought we were basically saying the same thing just different ways. Normally we never conflict at all. Im gonna try and coax him out...sigh...thanks for the advice. click to expand
a taurus sun and a scorp moon with an aries mars?? ugh, that doesn't sound good.
certainly try and coax him out if you want to but this guy could have a not so good side to him based on those three placements.
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explain.... click to expand
so sun opp moon. his personality going to have an internal struggle and conflict going on inside. the theory is that these people find it tough to be happy within themselves due to this ever present internal push and pull and often think that people don't understand them.
if we just look at the negative traits of taurus you have stubborn, can be insensitive to others feelings, possessive, silent, boring
if you look at the negative traits of scorpio - jealousy, manipulative, controlling, paranoid, resentful, intense feelings (+ and -), can be sensitive, arrogant.
if you get him at a point where he is feeling paranoid and distrustful of you, will he be wilful about it? will he shut down? will the deep feelings (whatever they be) overwhelm a taurus (who generally is not comfortable dealing with feelings)? how will he react when that happens? will he be fixed and immovable by when demanding something from you, after all he is right to demand this?
so mix this with mars which is all about action but also aggression and anger. he is going to be impulsive. quick to make decisions, quick to flare up, quick to shoot from the hip. he'll think about what actually happened later. if he is lead by paranoia and a need to control (himself or you), will he react in the moment and then stubbornly refuse to change his mind once the waters have calmed again?
so add all this up and you get what could potentially be a very difficult person.
then again he might be nothing like this. i could easily write one that focuses on the positive traits that he might possess. it's just that he has the potential to have this side to him.
i think @taurusintexas has a taurus sun and scorpio moon and she is adorbs. i'm certain that that placement doesn't always manifest itself in the way i have described. click to expand
you realllyyy...really have to understand their language
imagine being thoughtfull...adoring...attentive...all the time......are you like ALWAYS happy?? 24/7? no...
wellll here is where i think people misunderstand taurus.....
if you look at the stories you will notice: "i dont understanddddd in the beginning....he/she was all over meeee......was always thereeee.....did soooo muchhhh"
lets just focus on that for a second....
nobody can be like that...non stop
we are wired differently ...we change daily.....ladies...fellow watersigns you know what i meannn
in one day....diff moods...and dont even say thats not true
taurus gives and gives and gives and gives and then....snap!
its human...can you really blame them— no!
however: you have to wanna know why the snap!
if you really cant think of something you did......and i dont mean pretending like you dont know....and he might actually tell you its not you....then believe him
he just needs to recharge and yesss that means...sometimes....he falls of the face of the earth
but.........if you did do something or you had a fight.....think back at the conversation and evaluate
trust me...it did not came out of nowhere
with me.........i am too enthousiastic....about him
and i kept making the mistake of texting him when he told me certain hours he needs his peace...
did i listen? noooooooooo so in love wanted to share every freaking detail of my life hahaha
pretty awful.....im laughing but not funny
i had afriend who said "wel that stupid.....why wont he wanna talk with you?"
and then i realized.....thats a selfish thought!
do we stop having a right to me time when we get with somebody—? nooooo
if you did something wrong: cheating.....not respecting him and his boundaries...if you are giving up signs you dont trust him or are playing games.....then he will at some point .....snap or even worse...just dissapear
if he "dissapears" but no reason and isnt really away but ...his mood changes....and he becomes distance
let him be..he needs to figure stuff out or recharge
love taurussss
i feel like the annoying one hahahaha i learn so much from him
cause i have alot to learn when it comes to social skills
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that's amazing! you've shown me i really have a lot to learn about being in a successful relationship. thanks!
how long have you been with your partner for? click to expandclick to expand
am i wrong in saying it sounds like you have to bend to his will.all the time? Or am i just reading it wrong..
I don't feel any offense in commenting like that. At the age of 39. Are you seriously giving me advise?
Knowing him for 3 yrs. I know the game, darling. Also I mentored ladies who can't even made up their mind.
Lastly, I have a good husband. Good - no games. no playing womens emotions and knows what he really want in a relationship. Also, you now giving me your doubts? I have been 5 taurus guys. My patient after 3 yrs would not survive.Taaurus knows me well that I am intense as hell but he was the one who made the move after several break ups. The thing is I can control my actions but not him. Also, if you insult me which is unreasonable in the first place you were the one promising this time you made it well.. nah baby, I am not stupid not to remember the details. The fact you made me decide to give up my career which is in the first place it was a battles of lots of break ups because i didn't do it and when I do you just insulted me? are you serious? let alone it was not for me though he was in pain looking at me with another man. lol.
Looneymoon, I have a high EQ. The taurus is not a regular man you have. He is director of the company. and I am accountant of big company. We clashed for many reasons.
Know, that my husband and I are peaceful. content. and less drama.
Knowing him for 3 yrs. I know the game, darling. Also I mentored ladies who can't even made up their mind.
Lastly, I have a good husband. Good - no games. no playing womens emotions and knows what he really want in a relationship. Also, you now giving me your doubts? I have been 5 taurus guys. My patient after 3 yrs would not survive.Taaurus knows me well that I am intense as hell but he was the one who made the move after several break ups. The thing is I can control my actions but not him. Also, if you insult me which is unreasonable in the first place you were the one promising this time you made it well.. nah baby, I am not stupid not to remember the details. The fact you made me decide to give up my career which is in the first place it was a battles of lots of break ups because i didn't do it and when I do you just insulted me? are you serious? let alone it was not for me though he was in pain looking at me with another man. lol.
Looneymoon, I have a high EQ. The taurus is not a regular man you have. He is director of the company. and I am accountant of big company. We clashed for many reasons.
Know, that my husband and I are peaceful. content. and less drama.
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ahahhaha thanxxx honey....however trust me....we are far from perfect and we are in position you dont wish for any couple
anyhow........let me count.....we are now going into the 5th month......
been through alot of crap in those months and one month we werent able to talk....but still here
not saying we will last...you never know
but with him
he is the first that i really really love and wont never be able to close the door
just cant
we had a bond from day 1........... click to expand
well you sound confident in your advice for a couple who have been together 5 months.
i hope you manage to see your way through your issues.
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rule number one (and i cannot stress this enough)...when it comes to taurus men:
DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL
if you were great 5 sec before his mood completely turns....let him be...go do your own thing
let the man just bounce back in peace...
and whateverrrr you do....dont make it about you....reallllyyy
love mr.bull...we mutually agreed, without saying it, we go by day and see how it goes...cause we have a complicated situation
but we even been through a long period without being able to contact
and we are still going strong. he is my besttttttttttt budddyyyyyyy......love him to pieces. he is such a support
he is amazing.....fascinating
and sometimes he drops of the face of the earth.not for long
we are not perfect
sometimes i stress........but then i think back of everything he ever said to me
what we've been through in such a short period of time
and if he wouldnt give a damn
he would have left by now
taurus is really not so complicated
actually they are practical and amazing people
earth......grounded
no chitchatters
dont like dramaaaa at all
loves intensly
is very passionate
if you want passion ladies then you also need to be able to deal with everrrrything passionate
so when he is distracted by things that need to be solved....if he needs to "empty his bucket" cause its been a bit much
let him be.......dont hold it against him cause to be honest, thats not fair...everybody has their own way of dealing with things
he has a right to space. so do we at times
when it comes to ladies that: not been loyal, see him as an option, lied to him....tried to make him jealous...yeahhh uhhhhh taurus doesnt care for childish games.....and i agree on that
play fair and honest, you get fair and honest
simple