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Posted by imnotvirgoIām not saying that she said that at all. Just trying to make it clear that if she does decide to just be civil with her SIL her husband should be supportive of it.Posted by Mhmmm
Iām a Pisces who has a Taurus sister in law and cousin in law that are problematic to say the least, so I do understand the frustration in a way.
But I do agree with people here saying you should put boundaries up. And I think your husband shouldnāt expect you to be all pals with his sister if they as siblings were never close to begin with. You can still be civil whilst keeping your distance as a couple.
But again your husband shouldnāt expect you to have a close relationship with her if he isnāt close with her himself, youāve come in as an outsider and donāt know what their dynamic was as children growing up or their history.
There is not a single word in op's comments, which tells us that her husband wants her to be close with his SIL, he himself does not have good relationship with her, from what I got, OP's just saying that she knows that family however is important to him, so she's actually trying to find a way around her SIL's craziness and make things work. click to expandclick to expand
She did insinuate that heās big on family so there might be a reason why sheās trying so hard despite them not being close as siblings themselves.
Posted by imnotvirgoThis happened too. When I first met my SIL, she started sharing old stories about my husband, especially about his exās and all those girls she tried to hook him up with. She even said heās a guy that need to be tamed, dominated and order him to do things, and much much more. Everything she said about her brother were bad things. Itās like she wanted me to get Ā«cold feetĀ» or cut him off or even take her side in it and give her stories and talk bad about him - just so she can go home and tell her brother how awfull I talked about him. Because I wouldnt be able to refuse if I had done it.
ffs, some of the comments here are so stupid, I've been literally facepalming from the beginning of this thread.
I've had my share with a crazy-ass taurus chick, which was my ex's(scorp) non-blood related sister. Attention whoring 10/10, when she saw him and his mother gave me attention she started sharing old stories with all of them, but not like in the good way of sharing them with all of us on the table, she completely ignored me and tried to show that I wasnt there and wasnt part of all she was telling about Jealous af, without a freakin reason. Later that night she tried to seduse my ex, which I shared in this forum actually, and which gives me the creeps till now. Crazy woman. I'm pretty sure she has some mental problems or smh.
Which I also think is happening in your case. This does not sound like a normal behavior, no matter all of these "you're overreacting;she's flattering you by imitating you;stop whining" stupid comments. You came here to search for answers and gave us a lot of examples of why there is deff something that's not okay with her.
She screams when confronted? Is that normal for yall people who are defending that crazy taurus chick and spamming about OP's need to find the problem in herself? Bullbutter
Just ignore her crazy ass and forget about it
I saw right in to her and I could tell what she was doing, and she didnt try to do anything good, so I was just listening.
I was loyal to my husband before marriage, even more loyal after we got married, so I told my husband about my first meeting with his sis. And he wasnt surprised when I told him what she had said to me. He was upset she would tell me, his future wife atm, but he said she always share my bad moments with people just to show everybody how better she is than me. Despite him doing so many nice things for her..
Speaking of him doing nice things for her, I always assumed he always cared about her, and I know he did until she screamed at him and said stfu when he tried to confront her regarding a matter. This capricorn husband of mine is super patient and very family oriented, so all this time, he would do everything for his family no matter how bad she treated him.
When she screamed to him infront of me, was the last drop for him. He said to me he is done with trying to be civil with her. He said, and I quote: Ā«She is no longer my sister, she has done nothing but making my life miserable since childhood. Now that I am married and have my own family, I wont let her step all over me. She is no longer my sister, and I am no longer her brother. I dont care about her, no matter what happens.Ā»
These are strong words for a capricorn, even for anyone for that matter and I know he has been through so much because of her, I just listed the easy things.
My husband has tried, but he is done, thats why he doesnt want to take any part in having a relationship with his sister. Hence why I dont write about him in my posts.
I am quite family oriented myself, thats why I refused to give up without genuinly trying, and I have. For the last 3 yrs I have been trying to tolerate every time she ruins my moment. I never gave up on her till now.
I had respect for her despite every awfull thing she did, but she has crossed the limit and I dont know if there will ever be a bond between us.
I think it might be best to just cut her off, just like my husband has.
Posted by butterfly30So you think my SIL would try to come back in our life if we cut her off?Posted by sierra_On my last comment I had to add to that comment about my other friend. She really a good example of why they do that bullbutter.. first girl I spoke about she was the type who only hung around a person that benefit her life style at the time. She wasn't always like that until she became well like on her job..found some new friends who taught her about money and possessions and it change her in a bad way. She started comparing every little thing that people do ...to her life. If she couldn't have it then she criticized it. For example I lost a lot weight at the time. I workout hard. She was overweight. I am talking about 300 lb women. She criticize me the whole treetrunking time and very nice nasty way. Even when I spoke about how being 170 was just too much for my body..and I am short. And not able to breath right..just all health stuff..this child just didn't like it. I never criticized her being 300lbs..but I think my success with that bothered her. I mean every chance she get she jokly talked about how I was too skinny. And said she's a healthy big curvy women...I knew she was insecure because she always talked about being big and curvy like she's boosting herself up...I knew her weight bother her because she didn't like going out as much. Let me add.. at that time she had a great career and was doing big things..and she was a beautiful women..but so focus on her insecurities and comparING to others.. But to your question I think they come back because deep in side they want to see what's going on in your life. It's like this obsession to be better then the next..or to have what the other have. click to expandPosted by butterfly30Posted by sierra_
i had to drop a taurus sun-leo moon friend who sent me a one-paragraph note on a dummy fb account a year after our fallout, just trust me when i say she was a greedy, selfish, irredeemable c-u-n-t and i say that with my polite @ss libra mars... had to do the same to a taurus sun-aqua moon friend... who was also šæ only ever around when she needs something and both are with scorpio men.. don't know how those poor embossed leather jacket wearing semi-pets ever put up with them
same with my taurus sun-taurus moon cousin who didn't invite me to her wedding coz i sided with her libra uncle over her greedy, lying taurus mom... poor libra was stripped off everything except the clothes on his back when they got in court oh how i pray for the men they'd con next
the only tauruses i give a butter about is my mom, cher and that trucker guy who i hitched a ride to when my battery was down to 11% in a remote, old gas station once.. insecure asf women but not in a broody way but more of a trigger-rage kinda way
you'd do well with them if you've no personality to speak of nor a desire to be independent as a person
but then again my dislike for that axis is second only to my hatred for aquarius men so.. i just don't trust them
Lmao..with the note butter. Two of my Taurus exfrieNDs did that same butter. One left me a email over a year and a half after I stop talking to her. She knew why we stop talking..but in the email she played dumb..she rant about how she so stress about her life... talkING about a long essay on her problems. Then in the very last 3 sentences she talk about how she love me. I am her family. Then went on to say I need to stop holding grudges. She did nothing wrong. After that I never heard of her again. It have been years. I read that email and didn't look back. I knew this girl since elementary school. She so caught up in herself. Just selfish. When her world is falling apart she can be the best person ever but when she good..she don't give a treetrunk about no one. click to expand
what's up with that?
do they just sit around and wait for a whole year
before actually acknowledging that they've hurt someone?
can't tell them apart by personality sometimes
same butter, just a different packaging click to expandclick to expand
Posted by MhmmmI have explained in my ealier posts why my husband doesnt want any part of this.Posted by imnotvirgoPosted by Mhmmm
Iām a Pisces who has a Taurus sister in law and cousin in law that are problematic to say the least, so I do understand the frustration in a way.
But I do agree with people here saying you should put boundaries up. And I think your husband shouldnāt expect you to be all pals with his sister if they as siblings were never close to begin with. You can still be civil whilst keeping your distance as a couple.
But again your husband shouldnāt expect you to have a close relationship with her if he isnāt close with her himself, youāve come in as an outsider and donāt know what their dynamic was as children growing up or their history.
There is not a single word in op's comments, which tells us that her husband wants her to be close with his SIL, he himself does not have good relationship with her, from what I got, OP's just saying that she knows that family however is important to him, so she's actually trying to find a way around her SIL's craziness and make things work. click to expand
Iām not saying that she said that at all. Just trying to make it clear that if she does decide to just be civil with her SIL her husband should be supportive of it.
She did insinuate that heās big on family so there might be a reason why sheās trying so hard despite them not being close as siblings themselves. click to expandclick to expand
My husband doent mind me having a relationship with his sis, when he hasnt! BUT he warned me, i have to be honest with that.
The reason I tried, the reason I opened this thread to hear your opinion is because I just want to know different perpectives, perhaps a solution, a better understanding from other, and also other taureans that can tell me how they think and what can have caused a taurus woman to react his way.
I have also explained I have a older brother of mu own whom I very much love. If my brother and I werent speaking, I would appreciate if thay didnt come in the way between my brotherās wife and me. I would still want to be with my nieces and nephews and behave like a family with them, if my relationship with my brother couldnt be fixed.
So I hope you guys get the picture.
I tried, because I am trying to do what I expect my brotherās wife should do if there was a conflict. I expevt she values me, respect me and genuinly try to undestand where my behaviour is coming from before she decides to cut me off or mend our relationship.
Posted by TotiI am so sorry to hear what happened. And I hope you are okay. You story about you ex-SIL sounds just like mine. I have cried so many times because some moments in life wont ever come agaim, no matter what. And when someone ruins it for you just because they want to have better, its just awful! Unacceptable. Like who would do such thing? If someone work hard to have something, why not let them have it, and work even harder to have better? That would be fair. It not right to ruin someone elses hard work, reputation, just to show the people around that you will do it better. My SIL is a taurean as you know and her husband is a scorpio. May I know what ended your marriage, if you dont mind?
I'm a Scorpio with Pisces moon. Two of my sisters in law are Taurus women and both behaved the same. I cried many times in silence because they were mean and obviously very jealous . Didn't want to say anything to my husband because I didn't want to bother him with such stupid things and create conflicts within a family. I confronted them and showed my tough side in a very polite way. After that they saw they can't play games with me. Anyhow, their brother was a Taurus as well and I divorced after 8 years of marriage.
Posted by MrsPiscesCapricornShe seems the kind of person with an instinct to criticize something she sees/hears for the first time. It's a way of protecting herself. She probably likes routine and is suspicious of anything new, which may disrupt her ways of thinking. Once she gets used to it, she accepts it and even likes it.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by MrsPiscesCapricornPosted by greylatern
Talk to her. You have nothing to lose at this point that you are not slowely losing already. The anger and resentment will build.
I'll take the high road and toss 2 possibilities I'vr seen around my life.
1. She wants to be close to her brother and sees you as a threat OR a model.
2. Jealously/envy of the relationship dynamic you guys have.
Instead of taking it personal since there is zero info that would make me think that is so, it maybe impersonal but have a negative effect on you. Your passive aggressiveness actually makes what she is doing possible. In human behavioral psychology lose respect. Try to really understand that last point.
Either way TALK to her, LEARN her, UNDERSTAND her. Find away to do so without tripping her defenses and she digs in her hooves. BEFRIENDED her.
I hear you. Thank you for getting back to me regarding my issue.
I have never been aggressive towards her directly, I am quite soft spoken, I have never disrespected her like she has disrespected me. I have broken into tears many times, because the issue has gotten far more serious that I can explain. She makes my life miserable so that she can have a better life, better image, better everything than me. I have never compared myself to her, and I never will. I am happy with who I am and everything I have achieved in life this far. I am not jealous of her at all, so why is she jelly of me?
If she has a good life, I would be beyond happy. I would be thinking: "Finally, she's doing her own thing now". Now some peace. But why isn't she making her own choices? click to expand
How is she not making her own choices tho? You say she is getting better things/image that you. Thatās not copying you, thatās one upping you. Tbh you sound like the jealous one... click to expand
Sweety, are you even reading what I am writing? I have repeated myself a lot of times now of whats going on.
I will let you know:
1. My husband and I got wedding rings with 2 circles that has a special meaning to us. She commented saying who would have circles on their wedding rings. And that is looks so hilarious. She got married 6 months after, and she had asked her husband in front of our nose to get rings with the same type of circles of their wedding rings. Why throw a harsh comment in my moment? but when she has her moment its all fine?
2. I was thinking about booking a venue for my husband birthday, but she made a fuss about there is not enough room for all he guests. So my mother in law told me to book another one, even though I had paid the deposit. I booked another venue, and we had a great party. 1 year later she books that same venue I had to cancel, and throws her husbands party with even more guests. Why would she do that? Why did she make a fuss when I booked it? click to expandclick to expand
I had to live with someone like that, also a Taurus, but she was my mother! You are not forced to live with her, or even be close to her. Isn't she married and lives elsewhere? Just avoid meeting her too often and if you meet, don't take everything she says or does personally. This is the way she is.
Besides, isn't imitation the highest form of flattery?
Sometimes people will just not like you/respect you for whatever reason, itās part of life. There honestly isnāt anything relevant to understand here from her POV.
If your husband has warned you of her then why not listen to him? Youāre half the problem here by persisting to form a relationship when your SIL doesnāt even like you by the sounds of it. Why not just let it go and go your own way?
You can either choose to be at peace in life or choose to further involve yourself in this nonesense drama.
If your husband has warned you of her then why not listen to him? Youāre half the problem here by persisting to form a relationship when your SIL doesnāt even like you by the sounds of it. Why not just let it go and go your own way?
You can either choose to be at peace in life or choose to further involve yourself in this nonesense drama.
Posted by greengemini_Hi Pisces here š and I call it how I see it. Bitch is playing the victim card.
And the one's calling you a victim or whatever don't like pisces...incase you didn't notice, that's how things work around here. You rarely get a.balanced view. People see what they want to see.
Posted by greengemini_that's a convenient way to look at things.
And the one's calling you a victim or whatever don't like pisces...incase you didn't notice, that's how things work around here. You rarely get a.balanced view. People see what they want to see.
"only listen to people who validate you, the others are just biased."
I find the SIL actions extremely annoying. It's a shame that someone can ruin your inner peace with their energy and comments. It's one thing to copy you, but it's another to have to hear her constantly comment negatively on what you are doing. I don't know anyone that would want to deal with that.
You will have to learn to ignore her existence. Not just her comments, or what she's wearing, but act like you don't see or hear her. If she see that she's getting no reaction from you, hopefully she'll stop wasting her time. If that's not possible, you gotta tackle it head on. Good luck.
You will have to learn to ignore her existence. Not just her comments, or what she's wearing, but act like you don't see or hear her. If she see that she's getting no reaction from you, hopefully she'll stop wasting her time. If that's not possible, you gotta tackle it head on. Good luck.
Posted by _wtf_
Too bad she's married, 'cause I was going to suggest you find her a husband in another state.lol š¤·āāļø
LOL! šššš
I have decided to cut her off and focus on my inner peace and my own happiness. I have tried to confront her and it didnāt end well. My husband was right about his sister, he has known her for 27 years. I was stupid to even give it a chance with this one, because she is not interested in having a good family chemistry, she just wants to make a drama over everything, even the simplest things.
A lot of you wrote that I am making a fuss because she copies me, but thats not the only reason I have been having a hard time with her for. Shes done a lot of cruel things for the past 3 years, I would need more time and energy to bring it up again and write about it. So i only mentioned the simple things.
When I see her, I only see a person who is insecure and hasnāt found her identity yet. I thing its sad. She is and angry person too. She is imitating others, instead of being herself, ruining others moments since she hasnt had those herself and gives all this negativity into others life, because she is miserable herself.
I came here to get others perpective on this, because I dont want to gossip about her and ask for advice from people who know her. That might backfire or not be a neutral opinion to genuinly be helpful.
Some of you said taurus can be jealous, and i am settled in that confirmation. She is jealous, I understand that. I dont want to be a part of that, and I dont want to let her into my life anymore.
Thats my decision.
Thank you to those of you guys for who wrote encouraging and calming things. Advicing me to let go and focus on myself. I really appreciate it.
A lot of you wrote that I am making a fuss because she copies me, but thats not the only reason I have been having a hard time with her for. Shes done a lot of cruel things for the past 3 years, I would need more time and energy to bring it up again and write about it. So i only mentioned the simple things.
When I see her, I only see a person who is insecure and hasnāt found her identity yet. I thing its sad. She is and angry person too. She is imitating others, instead of being herself, ruining others moments since she hasnt had those herself and gives all this negativity into others life, because she is miserable herself.
I came here to get others perpective on this, because I dont want to gossip about her and ask for advice from people who know her. That might backfire or not be a neutral opinion to genuinly be helpful.
Some of you said taurus can be jealous, and i am settled in that confirmation. She is jealous, I understand that. I dont want to be a part of that, and I dont want to let her into my life anymore.
Thats my decision.
Thank you to those of you guys for who wrote encouraging and calming things. Advicing me to let go and focus on myself. I really appreciate it.
Posted by HankJWimbletoni'm talking about personal experiences with female taurusesPosted by butterfly30Posted by sierra_Posted by butterfly30Posted by sierra_
i had to drop a taurus sun-leo moon friend who sent me a one-paragraph note on a dummy fb account a year after our fallout, just trust me when i say she was a greedy, selfish, irredeemable c-u-n-t and i say that with my polite @ss libra mars... had to do the same to a taurus sun-aqua moon friend... who was also šæ only ever around when she needs something and both are with scorpio men.. don't know how those poor embossed leather jacket wearing semi-pets ever put up with them
same with my taurus sun-taurus moon cousin who didn't invite me to her wedding coz i sided with her libra uncle over her greedy, lying taurus mom... poor libra was stripped off everything except the clothes on his back when they got in court oh how i pray for the men they'd con next
the only tauruses i give a butter about is my mom, cher and that trucker guy who i hitched a ride to when my battery was down to 11% in a remote, old gas station once.. insecure asf women but not in a broody way but more of a trigger-rage kinda way
you'd do well with them if you've no personality to speak of nor a desire to be independent as a person
but then again my dislike for that axis is second only to my hatred for aquarius men so.. i just don't trust them
Lmao..with the note butter. Two of my Taurus exfrieNDs did that same butter. One left me a email over a year and a half after I stop talking to her. She knew why we stop talking..but in the email she played dumb..she rant about how she so stress about her life... talkING about a long essay on her problems. Then in the very last 3 sentences she talk about how she love me. I am her family. Then went on to say I need to stop holding grudges. She did nothing wrong. After that I never heard of her again. It have been years. I read that email and didn't look back. I knew this girl since elementary school. She so caught up in herself. Just selfish. When her world is falling apart she can be the best person ever but when she good..she don't give a treetrunk about no one. click to expand
what's up with that?
do they just sit around and wait for a whole year
before actually acknowledging that they've hurt someone?
can't tell them apart by personality sometimes
same butter, just a different packaging click to expand
On my last comment I had to add to that comment about my other friend. She really a good example of why they do that bullbutter.. first girl I spoke about she was the type who only hung around a person that benefit her life style at the time. She wasn't always like that until she became well like on her job..found some new friends who taught her about money and possessions and it change her in a bad way. She started comparing every little thing that people do ...to her life. If she couldn't have it then she criticized it. For example I lost a lot weight at the time. I workout hard. She was overweight. I am talking about 300 lb women. She criticize me the whole treetrunking time and very nice nasty way. Even when I spoke about how being 170 was just too much for my body..and I am short. And not able to breath right..just all health stuff..this child just didn't like it. I never criticized her being 300lbs..but I think my success with that bothered her. I mean every chance she get she jokly talked about how I was too skinny. And said she's a healthy big curvy women...I knew she was insecure because she always talked about being big and curvy like she's boosting herself up...I knew her weight bother her because she didn't like going out as much. Let me add.. at that time she had a great career and was doing big things..and she was a beautiful women..but so focus on her insecurities and comparING to others.. But to your question I think they come back because deep in side they want to see what's going on in your life. It's like this obsession to be better then the next..or to have what the other have. click to expand
@Sierra,
I don't know about the element of truth in your comments, but you were pretty biased about me being a 'aggressive childish teenager who knew nothing and is a stone head because I'm a Taurus who defended myself against raging crooks'.
Like Nevamore said, flanderizing me because of my sign sort of makes you a Satanic figure more or less. Besides, I never met you, I don't know you, and I don't want to.
I know it's your Virgo trait, but that doesn't excuse it. If you judge, prepare to be judged. click to expandclick to expand
you're a taurus male and you and i live different lives
you can't fathom my life, the way i can't fathom yours
i have never called you a 'stonehead' nor an 'aggressive childish teenager'
instead, i called you 'quite combative and unreceptive to another's opinion'
also i've never extended an invitation to you
and with the way you're going on, i too would have to say that it's not wise to meet each other
guess that's something we can definitely agree on
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On my last comment I had to add to that comment about my other friend. She really a good example of why they do that bullshit.. first girl I spoke about she was the type who only hung around a person that benefit her life style at the time. She wasn't always like that until she became well like on her job..found some new friends who taught her about money and possessions and it change her in a bad way. She started comparing every little thing that people do ...to her life. If she couldn't have it then she criticized it. For example I lost a lot weight at the time. I workout hard. She was overweight. I am talking about 300 lb women. She criticize me the whole fucking time and very nice nasty way. Even when I spoke about how being 170 was just too much for my body..and I am short. And not able to breath right..just all health stuff..this child just didn't like it. I never criticized her being 300lbs..but I think my success with that bothered her. I mean every chance she get she jokly talked about how I was too skinny. And said she's a healthy big curvy women...I knew she was insecure because she always talked about being big and curvy like she's boosting herself up...I knew her weight bother her because she didn't like going out as much. Let me add.. at that time she had a great career and was doing big things..and she was a beautiful women..but so focus on her insecurities and comparING to others.. But to your question I think they come back because deep in side they want to see what's going on in your life. It's like this obsession to be better then the next..or to have what the other have.