OOO Greatbull :)

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by cappysweetie on Wednesday, July 12, 2006 and has 7 replies.

Understanding What a Man Looks for in a Woman

A man seeking a meaningful relationship often values emotional connection, honesty, and shared values. His past experiences may influence his desires, but he typically appreciates someone who is genuine and supportive. Clarifying what you want can foster a deeper understanding and compatibility in relationships.

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@cappysweetie
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Exactly, what would you want out of a woman. I'm curious ... you seem to be a man that wants to give so much, were you hurt in the past? What is it that you are looking for? πŸ™‚

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Hey Greatbull,

you seem to want a well-rounded woman, you seem to want plenty of important things ... but I do have one question.

Why does her body make a difference? Why must her looks matter if you are looking for happiness?

Also, as a man what could you offer her (emotionally) in return? Are you willing to compromise with her ?

HAHAHA, I feel compelled to ask such questions because you have been venting about women and I want to know why πŸ™‚

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@cappysweetie
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i'd rather be content alone then in contemp together

I agree entirely greatbull.

Well, so the woman has to be ideally attractive. You are not the first man to state this ... haha, I guess I'm not just that shallow πŸ˜‰

However, I enjoy the fact that you were honest πŸ™‚

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"so the woman has to be ideally attractive. You are not the first man to state this...I guess I'm not just that shallow"

I think shallow is a matter of perspective. I think a man who only cares about the physical apprearance is shallow, but a man that is honest about wanting someone who he can relate to as well as desire physically is just that...honest. We all have different needs, if we recognize and acknowledge them, we have a better chance of being satisfied with our choices.

Sweetie, are there any areas where appearance is very important to you, or do you feel people should be blind to what looks good to them? I used to think appearances shouldn't matter, and still enjoy days without make up and doing my hair, or worrying about if my nails are broken and dry. But now I think it demonstrates a gift to those around me to look my best, eat right, exercize and take care of myself so that I am happy with who I see in the mirror, both mind and body and so that the ones I luv enjoy looking at me as well.

I don't think people should go to great lengths to change who they are, or it just doesn't work. But just as I would not want a man that is happy with his beer belly, moss growing on his teeth, burbing and farting, with a 5 day shadow on his face, I appreciate a man that takes care of himself and brings me pleasure to gaze on his "good" looks of personal grooming and care.