How to know a man copies you or is stalking you?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Queenaries2 on Sunday, March 25, 2018 and has 41 replies.

How to Tell if Someone Is Copying or Stalking You on Social Media

If someone mimics your online activity, like changing privacy settings or posting patterns shortly after you, it may indicate they are monitoring you. Stalking involves persistent, unwanted attention or surveillance that can feel overwhelming or intrusive. Recognizing these behaviors can help you determine if your privacy is being invaded or if someone is copying your online presence.

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Okay this may sound like a weird or hypocritical post. But there is this guy and I view his page every once in a while. I think he mirrors me a little on what I do on fb. Although we are not Facebook friends. We have mutual Facebook friends though.

Sometimes my Facebook page is extremely private and sometimes it’s public. I will keep a post public for a little then make it private. I think he does the same. I notice it a couple of days after I do it. When I change my photo default he will too. I randomly go public to private all the time randomly. He will then go private or possible delete stuff as well after me. It’s hard to explain and I know it’s obviously hard to prove. Whenever I see him in real life we barely talk. But sometimes he overwhelms me just by being there. It’s like he watches my every move. But I watch him too 👿

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Posted by Dolluxxe
This is a little paranoid and assumptive.

Maybe just a coincidence

Weird vibes every time we see each other

One time I asked him how he was and he gave an angry reply and 20 mins later he came outside and was watching me (I was babysitting)

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The stalkee watching the stalker lol

We were watching each other

It's not that I don't want to believe you; however, all I've got to work with so far is:

1) This person changes their Facebook Image frequently.

2) This person monitors the target audience of their posted content.

So... that took it from every Facebook Users to ~85% of them.

I mean... you don't have to prove anything to me... but doing so isn't going to hurt your cause. That I'm almost sure of.

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I don’t change it often

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The stalkee watching the stalker lol

We were watching each other

It's not that I don't want to believe you; however, all I've got to work with so far is:

1) This person changes their Facebook Image frequently.

2) This person monitors the target audience of their posted content.

So... that took it from every Facebook Users to ~85% of them.

I mean... you don't have to prove anything to me... but doing so isn't going to hurt your cause. That I'm almost sure of.

I don’t change it often

Now we're back up to ~ 90%

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Honestly I’m not even following what you are saying

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The stalkee watching the stalker lol

We were watching each other

It's not that I don't want to believe you; however, all I've got to work with so far is:

1) This person changes their Facebook Image frequently.

2) This person monitors the target audience of their posted content.

So... that took it from every Facebook Users to ~85% of them.

I mean... you don't have to prove anything to me... but doing so isn't going to hurt your cause. That I'm almost sure of.

I don’t change it often

Now we're back up to ~ 90%

Honestly I’m not even following what you are saying

"Sometimes my Facebook page is extremely private and sometimes it’s public." - Just like almost everyone else.

"When I change my photo default he will too." - I'd imagine at least 100,000 other people change theirs at the same time as you do also.

"I randomly go public to private all the time randomly. - Random Base Variable = Random Variable Results

All I'm saying is that everything you're saying about this person can also be said about a total stranger considering that their are 2.13 billion monthly active Facebook users.

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I don’t notice this about a lot of people

Especially particular posts

I will leave some public on purpose and private some

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Okay this may sound like a weird or hypocritical post. But there is this guy and I view his page every once in a while. I think he mirrors me a little on what I do on fb. Although we are not Facebook friends. We have mutual Facebook friends though.

Sometimes my Facebook page is extremely private and sometimes it’s public. I will keep a post public for a little then make it private. I think he does the same. I notice it a couple of days after I do it. When I change my photo default he will too. I randomly go public to private all the time randomly. He will then go private or possible delete stuff as well after me. It’s hard to explain and I know it’s obviously hard to prove. Whenever I see him in real life we barely talk. But sometimes he overwhelms me just by being there. It’s like he watches my every move. But I watch him too 👿

What about the person that's watching you watching him watch you?

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God

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

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Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

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We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

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You need to stop testing him. He's probably curious about you and wondering why you haven't approached him.

What exactly is it that's stopping you from establishing a connection with him?

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

You need to stop testing him. He's probably curious about you and wondering why you haven't approached him.

What exactly is it that's stopping you from establishing a connection with him?

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Timing. The very last time I saw him we almost talked. The whole night the body language between us very intense. It was at a wedding and I was with my family. I was one of the bridesmaid. Sadly i was kind of sick, so i kind of was just chilling. I went to go take photos with my cousins and he was walking by. We made eye contact. The vibe was semi sexual but like calm at the same time. I kind of was focused on my cousins and I think he knew that. I can’t explain it but I think we speak more with our eyes and body language than anything else. The last time I had a chance to see him was for my baby cousins birthday. I didn’t go because I had to study and I want him to miss me a little. Idk I need to play the game a little with him. But If I was to date him I wouldn’t play with his head. I would actually be very faithful and probably commit to him if i like him. I would just make him chase me a little in that sense.

Also one time I swear I saw him at my job when we were closing. Same height and body type but I don’t reallt remember the mans face because at first I thought it was him. So I didn’t try to look. I doubt he would drive two hours though

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

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Not sure what deactivating your facebook is going to do. If I were him, keeping an eye on you, I would immediately catch the notion that you feel I am stalking you (creeping you out). I would then proceed to keep my distance.

If this guy interests, show him you're interested. Not the opposite.

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

Not sure what deactivating your facebook is going to do. If I were him, keeping an eye on you, I would immediately catch the notion that you feel I am stalking you (creeping you out). I would then proceed to keep my distance.

If this guy interests, show him you're interested. Not the opposite.

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Eh I’m sure he will find other ways

I have an Instagram. Even if we don’t end up dating I feel like we can kind of read each other’s minds

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

Not sure what deactivating your facebook is going to do. If I were him, keeping an eye on you, I would immediately catch the notion that you feel I am stalking you (creeping you out). I would then proceed to keep my distance.

If this guy interests, show him you're interested. Not the opposite.

Eh I’m sure he will find other ways

I have an Instagram. Even if we don’t end up dating I feel like we can kind of read each other’s minds

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He has Mercury Taurus right?

And Aries Venus yes?

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

Not sure what deactivating your facebook is going to do. If I were him, keeping an eye on you, I would immediately catch the notion that you feel I am stalking you (creeping you out). I would then proceed to keep my distance.

If this guy interests, show him you're interested. Not the opposite.

Eh I’m sure he will find other ways

I have an Instagram. Even if we don’t end up dating I feel like we can kind of read each other’s minds

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Instagram? So he can jerk off to you? What else is he going to do with it if there are no interactions between you and him online?

If you can read each other's minds, you wouldn't be here posting about him. You'd be arm locked with him talking about the upcoming weekend. There's no mind reading going on between you two. Only hindrance of action.

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

Not sure what deactivating your facebook is going to do. If I were him, keeping an eye on you, I would immediately catch the notion that you feel I am stalking you (creeping you out). I would then proceed to keep my distance.

If this guy interests, show him you're interested. Not the opposite.

Eh I’m sure he will find other ways

I have an Instagram. Even if we don’t end up dating I feel like we can kind of read each other’s minds

Instagram? So he can jerk off to you? What else is he going to do with it if there are no interactions between you and him online?

If you can read each other's minds, you wouldn't be here posting about him. You'd be arm locked with him talking about the upcoming weekend. There's no mind reading going on between you two. Only hindrance of action.

Please answer this. If a guy sends flowers and a sorry card, he really feels sorry? Or he's buying my loyalty?

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Kind of both actually. Just depends on if he's a flowers kind of guy or not. By that, I mean a flowers guy sends them and sweet notes out of nowhere, under no obligation. If you never get flowers from him, but do only when he fvcks up, then it is a nice gesture, but not necessarily a genuine one.

Loyalty is never bought, and cannot be bought. Only given. It's just a shame when those it is given to are not worthy of it.

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

Not sure what deactivating your facebook is going to do. If I were him, keeping an eye on you, I would immediately catch the notion that you feel I am stalking you (creeping you out). I would then proceed to keep my distance.

If this guy interests, show him you're interested. Not the opposite.

Eh I’m sure he will find other ways

I have an Instagram. Even if we don’t end up dating I feel like we can kind of read each other’s minds

Instagram? So he can jerk off to you? What else is he going to do with it if there are no interactions between you and him online?

If you can read each other's minds, you wouldn't be here posting about him. You'd be arm locked with him talking about the upcoming weekend. There's no mind reading going on between you two. Only hindrance of action.

Please answer this. If a guy sends flowers and a sorry card, he really feels sorry? Or he's buying my loyalty?

Kind of both actually. Just depends on if he's a flowers kind of guy or not. By that, I mean a flowers guy sends them and sweet notes out of nowhere, under no obligation. If you never get flowers from him, but do only when he fvcks up, then it is a nice gesture, but not necessarily a genuine one.

Loyalty is never bought, and cannot be bought. Only given. It's just a shame when those it is given to are not worthy of it.

He's not a gift giving guy I think. He screwed up and been trying to meet me. So he sent me some flowers. They weren't over the top also. Simple. That I liked... Nothing vulgar...

Yeah you are right. But it would look like I folded easily. And that annoys me lol

You are good with these things... Start a relationship forum!

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You give me too much credit. I merely have 20/20 hindsight, so I am really good at knowing what fvcks relationships up lol.

Simple is good from a guy like yours. Extravagant would likely mean someone else sent them for him. You don't need me to tell you that though. So him not being the gift giving type, you already know this is not his method of giving affection. Again, it is a nice gesture so no reason to not accept it, at the same time though don't cave into bullschite. Be wary of guys who serve hearty portions of it.

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

Not sure what deactivating your facebook is going to do. If I were him, keeping an eye on you, I would immediately catch the notion that you feel I am stalking you (creeping you out). I would then proceed to keep my distance.

If this guy interests, show him you're interested. Not the opposite.

Eh I’m sure he will find other ways

I have an Instagram. Even if we don’t end up dating I feel like we can kind of read each other’s minds

He has Mercury Taurus right?

And Aries Venus yes?

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Yes

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

Not sure what deactivating your facebook is going to do. If I were him, keeping an eye on you, I would immediately catch the notion that you feel I am stalking you (creeping you out). I would then proceed to keep my distance.

If this guy interests, show him you're interested. Not the opposite.

Eh I’m sure he will find other ways

I have an Instagram. Even if we don’t end up dating I feel like we can kind of read each other’s minds

Instagram? So he can jerk off to you? What else is he going to do with it if there are no interactions between you and him online?

If you can read each other's minds, you wouldn't be here posting about him. You'd be arm locked with him talking about the upcoming weekend. There's no mind reading going on between you two. Only hindrance of action.

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I’m talking about in person

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Put two shy kids who like each other in the same room, and see how long it takes before they actually interact with each other...

Want to know why you won't find a whole lot of conclusive results on such a test? Because not even an immortal geologist has the time.

This isn't stalking, this is two people waiting for the other person to say hi.

It’s hard when I felt something the first time I saw him

Play your cards right, and you can feel something else the next time you see him.

We talked very little in person. One time I saw him coming and i said hey how are you? Just in a normal tone. He said good! In an angry tone and walked inside. About 30 mins later he came outside to smoke and was just observing me.

See I’m overly an EXTREMELY obersvant person and I know and feel people watching me or i notice things they change. I notice this with everyone especially people I like.

I deactivated my Facebook tonight so i want to see if anything happens. Just simple testing

Not sure what deactivating your facebook is going to do. If I were him, keeping an eye on you, I would immediately catch the notion that you feel I am stalking you (creeping you out). I would then proceed to keep my distance.

If this guy interests, show him you're interested. Not the opposite.

Eh I’m sure he will find other ways

I have an Instagram. Even if we don’t end up dating I feel like we can kind of read each other’s minds

Instagram? So he can jerk off to you? What else is he going to do with it if there are no interactions between you and him online?

If you can read each other's minds, you wouldn't be here posting about him. You'd be arm locked with him talking about the upcoming weekend. There's no mind reading going on between you two. Only hindrance of action.

I’m talking about in person

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Lol. ok, gotcha.

I don't know. These chants in my head just keep saying, "jump his bones! jump his bones!" but proceed however you feel best.

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A little update: I went even more private including all my information in my bio. I also made some photos private

The guy did the same thing lol

I think we watch each other

I have mutual friends with him and I blocked them from my timeline

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Posted by Queenaries2
Okay this may sound like a weird or hypocritical post. But there is this guy and I view his page every once in a while. I think he mirrors me a little on what I do on fb. Although we are not Facebook friends. We have mutual Facebook friends though.

Sometimes my Facebook page is extremely private and sometimes it’s public. I will keep a post public for a little then make it private. I think he does the same. I notice it a couple of days after I do it. When I change my photo default he will too. I randomly go public to private all the time randomly. He will then go private or possible delete stuff as well after me. It’s hard to explain and I know it’s obviously hard to prove. Whenever I see him in real life we barely talk. But sometimes he overwhelms me just by being there. It’s like he watches my every move. But I watch him too 👿

Yes, you re definitely stalker. As for him, who knows 🙂))

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Posted by Queenaries2
A little update: I went even more private including all my information in my bio. I also made some photos private

The guy did the same thing lol

I think we watch each other

I have mutual friends with him and I blocked them from my timeline

Smdh

He's probably doing this 🤔 everytime you make changes to your profile.

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Posted by Queenaries2

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facebook tells you who visits you the most so maybe he checks out your page cuz you check out his and vice versa

How would you know

I’m not Facebook friends with him

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Facebook usually brings a notification if someone is constantly checking your profile. It happened to me when I was dating this other girl. She would check my Facebook profile without telling me. She never sent me friend request.But Facebook usually sends me notification of potential friends and she was one of them. I remember she hinted on that she was stalking me. Then I started stalking her as well but her profiles are private. She never accepted my friend requests.

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Posted by chris19

Posted by Queenaries2

Posted by ufo
facebook tells you who visits you the most so maybe he checks out your page cuz you check out his and vice versa

How would you know

I’m not Facebook friends with him

Facebook usually brings a notification if someone is constantly checking your profile. It happened to me when I was dating this other girl. She would check my Facebook profile without telling me. She never sent me friend request.But Facebook usually sends me notification of potential friends and she was one of them. I remember she hinted on that she was stalking me. Then I started stalking her as well but her profiles are private. She never accepted my friend requests.

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What do you mean they sent you a notification?

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Posted by Queenaries2

Posted by chris19

Posted by Queenaries2

Posted by ufo
facebook tells you who visits you the most so maybe he checks out your page cuz you check out his and vice versa

How would you know

I’m not Facebook friends with him

Facebook usually brings a notification if someone is constantly checking your profile. It happened to me when I was dating this other girl. She would check my Facebook profile without telling me. She never sent me friend request.But Facebook usually sends me notification of potential friends and she was one of them. I remember she hinted on that she was stalking me. Then I started stalking her as well but her profiles are private. She never accepted my friend requests.

What do you mean they sent you a notification?

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So the notification will come as follows. Facebook will suggest to you that Jane Doe would make a friend.

So this person, Jane Doe constantly checks your profile and therefore Facebook recommends that you become friends. This feature is automatic so you can just check for recommended friends by Facebook on the notification board.

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Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by chris19

Posted by Queenaries2

Posted by ufo
facebook tells you who visits you the most so maybe he checks out your page cuz you check out his and vice versa

How would you know

I’m not Facebook friends with him

Facebook usually brings a notification if someone is constantly checking your profile. It happened to me when I was dating this other girl. She would check my Facebook profile without telling me. She never sent me friend request.But Facebook usually sends me notification of potential friends and she was one of them. I remember she hinted on that she was stalking me. Then I started stalking her as well but her profiles are private. She never accepted my friend requests.

That's not true ..i have 2 profiles because i use one to promote art .i would check my other profile from my personal one several times a day to see how stuff looked ...i never got a notification of any sort ..

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I also have two profiles and they both showed me this feature.

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@Queenaries2
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Posted by chris19

Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by chris19

Posted by Queenaries2

Posted by ufo
facebook tells you who visits you the most so maybe he checks out your page cuz you check out his and vice versa

How would you know

I’m not Facebook friends with him

Facebook usually brings a notification if someone is constantly checking your profile. It happened to me when I was dating this other girl. She would check my Facebook profile without telling me. She never sent me friend request.But Facebook usually sends me notification of potential friends and she was one of them. I remember she hinted on that she was stalking me. Then I started stalking her as well but her profiles are private. She never accepted my friend requests.

That's not true ..i have 2 profiles because i use one to promote art .i would check my other profile from my personal one several times a day to see how stuff looked ...i never got a notification of any sort ..

I also have two profiles and they both showed me this feature.

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I have two as well and it only suggests people I never met in my life. No mutual friends nothing. One my no friend profile it does that at least. My other page never does it