@Sola
20 Years1,000+ PostsLibra
Pure sex
Understanding Boundaries in Friends With Benefits Arrangements
Friends with benefits situations can involve blurred boundaries or clear agreements from the start. It depends on the individuals involved and their communication. Open discussions about expectations help prevent misunderstandings and ensure both parties are comfortable with the arrangement.
I know it usually never works, but this isn't ever going to be a typical situation.
Im just thinking nothing other other than "let's do this right now"!!! We can both be unattainable and im still looking for a regular bf.
First thing you need to do, imo, is to be veeery sure(at least as sure as you can ever be) that none of you will catch feelings. From experience, I can tell you that it's difficult af - maybe even impossible - to get rid of the feeling that: "Hmm, well, he/she is probably just in for the sex". Took me and one guy years to get to that point.
Set up clear rules and boundaries, and (as BG2 said) repeat as needed. Gl!
What I know for sure is that I don't want to have feelings, he's not the type of guy i would take that seriously. I don't think he's a bad type, but he is THAT type, good for a good time and no more. I would be very surprised if he wasn't feeling the same way about me. Except in my case it will be for one or two nights only. I'll probably post here in a month crying and suffering!!!
Hahaha!!! Why am I even about to start this?! Damned Taurus
The bringing it up in converstion, addressing the situation when the point comes "so we've being doing the for X amount of time, and now i LOVE YOU"!!!!! hahaha
@Op- As long as you can detach, and this is a void til you find the one. As long as the guy is dirt ugly. I mean no physical attract you get sidetracked if he is hot rather than medicore.Haha
Noooooo, this guy is stunningly attractive (to me)!!
Yikes watch out then. Haha@Sola.
Its beautifully complicated isn't it?!!
He is military, tattooed, sexy, not for the taking, ahhhhh.
Im asking for all I get really!!! Cant wait to get started 🙂
Sola,
I hope you're emotionally mature enough to handle a FWB with a Bull.
Don't allow his liberated approach to sex to confuse you. There is an underlying conventional nature to this man, no games, no BS.
Start out how you're going to keep out.
The Bull is 'fixed.'
Go back and read all the 10,000+ threads on a FWB with a Bull that never developed into anything else.
I'm the boss of this situation, and that's the way it will stay if it's to continue 🙂
I don't lack experience in any shape or form and it's something I've done in the past..but every time is different. He is Taurus with Aqua moon, I'm Libra with Sag moon so I think we'll be ok.
There's been no mention (yet) of what our expectations are, although he's adamant it won't be for one night only. I get the feeling he hasn't been single as long as me, and I'm also feeling that it'll come to a nice natural end on it's own..no scandal, no drama, no over attachment. I'm looking for a relationship, he knows that so as much as it might get tricky if I get attached, he equally has to accept that im not holding out hope for him, i intend to and will see other guys if he doesn't mind being the stop/gap then that's up to him.
It starts off black & white I know how to not act on my feelings and push them to the side. Can't say the same about the other person tho
It's amazing how this thread is on a Taurus board. I used to be able to do this when I was younger. Blame my Venus in Gemini and moon in Aquarius ! Perfectly perfectly fine with me! Till I had sex with a venusnin Scorpio and can never just sex for sex again hahaha.
He is also moon aqua....!!!!! What happened with the venus scorpio to change you—
Him
Sun Taurus
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Gemini
Venus Aries
Mars Libra
Jupiter Scorpio
Me
Sun Libra
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Libra
Venus Virgo
Mars Sagittarius
Does anyone know about reading charts
Posted by Sola
He is also moon aqua....!!!!! What happened with the venus scorpio to change you—
He's too intense, we don't have sex we make love lol.. He wakes up my psyche in Scorpio.. that one I can't seperate sex and emotion.. 😢
Want to keep conversations like this alive?
Real conversations about chemistry, attraction, and intimacy in Taurus are part of what makes dxpnet different. Support helps keep them available.
Every contribution helps keep dxpnet independent and ad-light.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
When you're setting up a FWB situations do you sometimes blur the lines or is the situation black and white from the start?