Can't we all get along? *sigh*
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Posted by Damnata
It doesn't work for me personally. I have a lot of Scorpio gfs...but the men...ugh.
With the men it always gets to a point where I can feel they push me not for the sake of "us" but for their own sake. The moment I feel someone makes it about their ego and not about our common goal..I am out. I have no problems with people who push me to achieve more or who make it clear I should change smthg for the sake of the relationship...but I cannot stand ego tripping. If Taurus Men are the same, I am giving up on the whole axis.
Virgo Man/Scorpio Woman works better imo.
Funny, that was/is my exact issue with a Scorpio woman. The ego-tripping was incredible. Never seen anything like it and its very unattractive. She was young though. Most of the older Scorps I've talked to don't seem to be like this.
We were young..there's a backstory but the whole thing went down when I was 20-21. He's still the same way now as he was then...but we're 25 so maybe he will grow out of it.
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by scorchedearth
then let TLS give you terrible self serving advice.
Stay mad.
not mad. you just give shit advice. always have. go shove your head back up the vagina of the scorp that didn't want you.click to expand
I'm laughing right now - really. I love to see you lurk and wait for the opportunity to vent your childish/simplistic rage. Keep kicking against the bricks.
Posted by tiziani
within reason, sure.
Yeah, it wasn't within reason for me. It was so out of reason, it had its own space ship and traveled around the universe.
Posted by Damnata
Can't we all get along? *sigh*
Fire-for-brains and I will never get along. It was hate at first sight for her, and I think she has the personality of a wrecking ball (only those are usually under more intelligent control). I can easily ignore her though. But for her part, being basically an Aries man, she's not satisfied that she's gotten the upper hand in any of our exchanges, so she's going to keep ramming. It tickles me. I do feel bad for her though, because I really hate when anyone brings out my negativity, and that is really all her energy does.
Posted by scorchedearth
it's a shame you're completely dismissing an entire sign because you knew one douchebag. 😢
Cautious is the right word. I dismiss Geminis and I have them on my descendant. Me marrying a Gemini, that would be some funny shit.
Posted by scorchedearth
you really are a simpleton if you think i'm angry. that's the thing i hate about beta's though. they never fight directly they always hide behind being the "bigger" person. pathetic.
and i'm dont talking to you. say anything else to me and i'll just block you. you're not worth my time.
LOL...this makes me laugh too. I love when people still talk about the alpha/beta nonsense - crucial premises of which derive from faulty research done on wolves in the 1940's:
http://scienceblogs.com/clock/2009/08/23/no-more-alpha-male/<BR>
She's an "alpha" because she's selectively rude, profane, and fights with men on the internet over virtual territory. Please...lead me.
Please block me because I really would like to kill the negativity. PM me if you need the name of a good exorcist.
78 replies......and i have no idea how to reply to all of you but thank you for your advice 😄
We even have a spot for you in the harem if you don't get the leading role.
Lmao
Posted by Geminlove
78 replies......and i have no idea how to reply to all of you but thank you for your advice 😄
I wouldn't say it's a GOOD thing...he may just have a lot on his mind.
Oops didn't copy your whole post, but did he get upset with you? He might also be pissed.
@peacelove&happiness: 😢 its both, because of my aqua moon i can become detached for no reason and i havent been "reciprocating" but i dont even know if he loves me anymore 😢 hes hot n cold these days mostly cold
Posted by scorchedearth
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by scorchedearth
then let TLS give you terrible self serving advice.
Stay mad.
not mad. you just give butter advice. always have. go shove your head back up the vagina of the scorp that didn't want you.
---this made me laugh---
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by scorchedearth
then let TLS give you terrible self serving advice.
Stay mad.
not mad. you just give butter advice. always have. go shove your head back up the vagina of the scorp that didn't want you.
---this made me laugh---
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Theatrum
The more you care about and love the person, the harder it is to make a move and confess because the possibilty of rejection is too frightening. To fixed signs especially, imo. I don't know how people fail to see that. Taureans in particular, don't expect us to just come up and say "I love you" to your face. It probably won't ever happen. We will try to show it the best way we know how, with a look, a touch, a smile, feelings unspoken but not hidden.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
We'd like you to come and confess your feelings first. We feel we did enough by staring at you with that look that let you know we had feelings. You should be able to see that we're a little shy. We're kind and won't reject you harshly if we aren't ready or interested like you thought. We even have a spot for you in the harem if you don't get the leading role.
This is sad. Do u like being told how special u are how much we care for u. No we don't know this from a smile or the fact u don't reject us. For someone that has never experienced a Taurus all it states is he just nice to me. A smile, a budding touch.
Are u honest ok if u received only that from the other?click to expand
I don't see how it's "sad", but I'm not disagreeing with you.
"Do u like being told how special u are how much we care for u." ....sure?
Taurus is simply not the sign to make the first move, approach first, confess first... vast majority of us at least. Unless we're absolutely sure that our feelings will be returned, or unless we have an Aries stellium. 😛 We are attracters, not pursuers. We're not risk takers. That's just how it is.
No, it probably wouldn't be enough from the other. Because it would go nowhere, you know? I'm not attracted to the same type of person I am.
Posted by Theatrum
Taurus is simply not the sign to make the first move, approach first, confess first... vast majority of us at least. Unless we're absolutely sure that our feelings will be returned, or unless we have an Aries stellium. 😛 We are attracters, not pursuers. We're not risk takers. That's just how it is.
This is it exactly, for me anyway.
probably hard for Scorps to understand. You folks apparently want to risk everything for love. If your heart explodes into a thousand pieces, you just glue it back together and emerge stronger. Sounds like fun, right? Not to a bull who isn't blessed with the same powers of regeneration. So we are a lot more cautious on the front end.
Posted by Geminlove
@peacelove&happiness: 😢 its both, because of my aqua moon i can become detached for no reason and i havent been "reciprocating" but i dont even know if he loves me anymore 😢 hes hot n cold these days mostly cold
Aha, totally understand. Went through that w/my ex Aries who was also an Aqua moon. We kept bouncing off each other, back and forth, round and round....it was insane! Unfortunately communication is very important during these sessions, try and clear the air, please. I know it may be hard for you aqua moons to express yourselves, but having a good r/s is no game.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Theatrum
When someone drops everything just to see you for a while, when you know for certian that they're the ones that you can call in the middle of the night if anything's up, when we look at you with adoration, when we can't help but to grin when you walk into a room, when you catch us staring at you longer than necessary, if you feel safe when we hug you, EVEN when we go hot and cold (we don't if we don't give a fuq), when you count all the little things we do, and we're really all about those, how is it not obvious? fire moons man *bangs head against the desk*
Wow....this is so accurate in every detail.click to expand
+1
Posted by idkPosted by Damnata
Yeah, you folks need to open your mouths at some point 😄
I can look at someone gazing at me all day long and still not have a clue. In my mind, it's delusional to assume they are into me, based only on that.
Subtle hints do not work. Strong hints do not work. Just say and do smthg that will leave me with no doubts in my mind about your interest.
i'm pretty sure i could send you a not so subtle hint that you'd positively adore.
but. i see your point.
so anyway. hey. wanna make out?click to expand
OF COURSE!
Cotton, wool, silk and leather. Ah yesh.
Posted by Theatrum
The more you care about and love the person, the harder it is to make a move and confess because the possibilty of rejection is too frightening. To fixed signs especially, imo. I don't know how people fail to see that. Taureans in particular, don't expect us to just come up and say "I love you" to your face. It probably won't ever happen. We will try to show it the best way we know how, with a look, a touch, a smile, feelings unspoken but not hidden.
This ^^^
If you're not a keen observer, active listener, or patient individual, then it's an easy hit or miss....
If someone is self-absorbed, pushy, looking for instant gratification, and constant reaffirmation in a short period of time...then it isn't love.
How can it be?
You haven't learned to understand us or get to know us to speak our language.
Posted by Theatrum
When someone drops everything just to see you for a while, when you know for certian that they're the ones that you can call in the middle of the night if anything's up, when we look at you with adoration, when we can't help but to grin when you walk into a room, when you catch us staring at you longer than necessary, if you feel safe when we hug you, EVEN when we go hot and cold (we don't if we don't give a fuq), when you count all the little things we do, and we're really all about those, how is it not obvious? fire moons man *bangs head against the desk*
This ^^^^^
Posted by Impulsv
This is sad. Do u like being told how special u are how much we care for u. No we don't know this from a smile or the fact u don't reject us. For someone that has never experienced a Taurus all it states is he just nice to me. A smile, a budding touch.
Are u honest ok if u received only that from the other?
I'm just talking about the initial courtship, before you actually even meet. The only initiating I do is through body language (and telepathy if such a thing works...lol). Once I know someone likes me, its very different. I'm alot more forthcoming.
TLS,
Yes. We don't really understand bulls.. You bull, Should act like adult. If not, Then we, as a
Scorpio women, don't like to move first. There are sooo many men out there and we don't like to
be in charge as if we are the one who's chasing the wind that blows north and south. lmao.
Scorpio women needs strong men. If bull is just too lazy and lying down in bed is his fascination
then we are not this best match.. We don't risk Love. We value it. So the first move must come from
a man not from a woman. Lol... after all we don't flirt. Bulls flirt!!!
M143 - cut the crap. You love us.
TLS,
hahaha. Once upon a time, yes. I maybe In love with a Taurus man my co-worker.
Thank you for all the replies 🙂
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