Scorpio woman Taurus man Attraction-Zero Move

I've been looking to make sense out of this attraction I have for a Taurus man. There is a strong pull between us that has been wrecking havoc in our heads for 2 years now. We are both married and have we haven't touched each other, but this attraction is uncontrollable. We work with each other off and on. The 1st time we met, we just stared at each other and went speechless. I thought he hated me because he just stared at me and was so slow to talk to me. I noticed the next few meetings that he would just stare at me and it made me uncomfortable. He got shy on the day he brought up he found me attractive, like a crush. Well, those days are over and he seems to enjoy making me uncomfortable with his staring. It has taken me 2 years to get use to it. In this 2 years, he has changed into everything I have suggested I find attractive...he's started working out, bought a car I like, vacations. He seems to take up anything I say I like. When I'm around he always draws attention to himself. One time we touched hands, and it was like electricity. So, I guess we have a crush on each other. What I don't understand is why he hasn't made a move. Yea, I don't want to cheat on my husband, but I don't understand this attraction. Why he would let this thing go on so long without even trying to kiss me. I thought Taurus men were suppose to be so manly. This is the 1st time I have ever felt this physical attraction with someone and I know he's hot for me. Although he is attractive, it's not entirely a visual thing for me and it's not that he is the better of my choices at all. There is just something mysterious that just pulls together. I am really starting to hate him for not making a move and getting over with it.

Thanks, but I seems you don't understand the "pull." And, no, I'm not being merely vain. I've seen a lot of men with control. men with true control can be attracted to someone and never show it. I wouldn't say he's that good at control. I admit, it's puzzling. I wouldn't have posted if I understood the attraction.

Eva,

Be his friend first. earned his trust so he can spit it out.you will understand him how he felt when he is around you.

Back to my experience with a taurus man at work. When he stared at me - I just looked at him closely without
flirting and he was smiling. I knew he liked me, he disclosed that to a virgo lady that he can't help himself
to fall in love with me. I don't recognize those feelings until he kept on telling me how he's going to get
mad when he is jealous. lol. so I asked.. Why is he saying that? he said because he really loved me..and I was surrounded those engineers at work. lol. He was jealous even I spoke to clients over the phone. after that he started to asked who and why?If I need something I should asked him first and he will figured that out what's next to do... I didn't know what to say then . I mean I kept reminding him that he is a married guy. but he kept on asking me does it matter M? so I said, I don't want to hurt his family.
Believe me that pair is really deep and painful.

I remember our log in time at work was 9 am.so he came early 7 am.
and he was waiting for me..I obeyed the rules 9 am. So he approached me and said that he came early 7 am.
I explained that our time should be 9 am. why did he came so early. He said.. he wanted to see me very early before he's going to his project. lol. and his project was really that far where our office located.
back then - he had patience. He even bought a car because he knew I wanted him to have that and I want him
on top so he can boost his self esteem.I even admired him and telling him he is handsome and why jealous.
all I heard was I had lots of admirers that made him jealous enough. lol.

I caught him several times staring at me, staring my black sexy stocking...watching me as I walked by closed to his desk...
everytime I caught him staring - I learned how to be playful so I *winked* at him and gave those flying kisses and that made him smiling through out the day. hahaha.

Keep it light eva - there's more to it. allow him to know you more. But we are jealous type as well so avoid
too much emotional attachment with that taurguy so you can avoid those drama.

Posted by JustEva
I've been looking to make sense out of this attraction I have for a Taurus man. There is a strong pull between us that has been wrecking havoc in our heads for 2 years now. We are both married and have we haven't touched each other, but this attraction is uncontrollable. We work with each other off and on. The 1st time we met, we just stared at each other and went speechless. I thought he hated me because he just stared at me and was so slow to talk to me. I noticed the next few meetings that he would just stare at me and it made me uncomfortable. He got shy on the day he brought up he found me attractive, like a crush. Well, those days are over and he seems to enjoy making me uncomfortable with his staring. It has taken me 2 years to get use to it. In this 2 years, he has changed into everything I have suggested I find attractive...he's started working out, bought a car I like, vacations. He seems to take up anything I say I like. When I'm around he always draws attention to himself. One time we touched hands, and it was like electricity. So, I guess we have a crush on each other. What I don't understand is why he hasn't made a move. Yea, I don't want to cheat on my husband, but I don't understand this attraction. Why he would let this thing go on so long without even trying to kiss me. I thought Taurus men were suppose to be so manly. This is the 1st time I have ever felt this physical attraction with someone and I know he's hot for me. Although he is attractive, it's not entirely a visual thing for me and it's not that he is the better of my choices at all. There is just something mysterious that just pulls together. I am really starting to hate him for not making a move and getting over with it.

you started to hate him because you like him and he is not making any move.

have fun with that ride. but again, remember you are both married. so always remind yourself when the heat
is present.. control and don't get burn.

Thanx so much M143! He does get jealous when I talk to other men. I find it strange, since he shouldn't think he has the right. And he's not good around my husband. my husband is a Pisces. My husband feels sorry for him. This Taurus guy got mad when I was just asking a co-worker what college he went to. He started yelling at me about nothing and another man said he was jealous.

If I show some skin he seems to lose it, I guess Taurian men are like that? Well, you know Scorpio females live to sex it up from time to time. Can't help it. I haven't even turned it up. It has me so curious...he seems to try to control me anyway he can. It's for very trivial things, like my time, who he thinks would work best with me, etc. He gets do adamant about the way "I should do things" that I just don't feel like arguing about something so senseless. This is such a huge change from the guy I would shy away from me for an entire year. I hate him because I think it's cute that he tries to act more manly around me with the control, the car, the muscles, etc, but he doesn't man up. I don't know any other male sign that would do this.

Honestly, I'm drawn to this guy. But, I have more respect for men who will make a move.

I will take your advice, but is this guy playing me?

you want him to make a move so you can shoot him down?

it seems he is just a toy for you to manipulate and effect. you like that you seem to cause this reaction in him and now feel frustrated that your 'powers' are limited.

and so you want him to cheat on his wife? are you thinking about her? the impact that this could have on their relationship or is it just an ego boost for yourself?

I think everyone is a bit egotistical and I've encountered very few Saints. Ill fated chemistry is what I've been trying to avoid here, but like I said there's an unusual pull between us that I can't explain. I know there are other guys out there. It's simply this weriod attraction I have with this one. I typically don't spend much time trying to understand someone who doesn't fit well in my life. I never have. Its natural to judge, I try not too place my own judgement on this guy or his situation because his wife is extremely egocentric (Leo) and he has said she has cheated on him for attention. It's a story several people have enlightened me about. I really don't know what to do with him because he surprises me all the time.

If I were to tell this story last year, I would say it was love at first sight. This year, he's not the shy guy trying to get my attention anymore. He has become more aggressive and temperamental. And he enjoys me not being able to keep his gaze and he meets my arguments head on.

I probably would not drop him if he kissed me. But, I hate all these games. That's what I don't understand...Taurians are suppose to abhor games. What I will probably do if he doesn't stop, is drop him cold and just ignore him completely. I still wonder about that weriod "pull" though.

You're under misconception if you think Taurus don't play games...Though they don't actually intend to "play" in the real sense! You can never be sure...n yeah they grow on us is what i learnt from the forums here (Scorpio -Taurus thing it is) n we only grow frustrated waiting for them to make a move or vice versa!Also heard the end is gonna be dirty either for both or one of the parties!I already feel awful about the whole thing...i dunno how this will end..!Though,being a scorpio, i can rule my mind over emotions n all i got to do is tell myself to just "leave" to get away from the chaos, it's not easy...!!

Thanks Teena. Thanks for understanding. I usually don't get easily drawn to men too. I never fell in love at 1st sight before. This guy has a prettier kind of face, and I never really liked that. He is also a bit shorter than my preference. But, it's that pull. I'm drawn to him 1st then I notice how handsome he is. They say bulls and Scorpios are opposites. That's for certain! Scorpions don't play these lengthy games or get indecisive whether they want to get close to someone, and they will take a risk. If your Taurus was a Scorpio, he would have dumped his girlfriend to be with you. ... I guess we'll both be stuck trying to figure it out. The staring freaks me out.

Posted by JustEva
I think everyone is a bit egotistical and I've encountered very few Saints. Ill fated chemistry is what I've been trying to avoid here, but like I said there's an unusual pull between us that I can't explain. I know there are other guys out there. It's simply this weriod attraction I have with this one. I typically don't spend much time trying to understand someone who doesn't fit well in my life. I never have. Its natural to judge, I try not too place my own judgement on this guy or his situation because his wife is extremely egocentric (Leo) and he has said she has cheated on him for attention. It's a story several people have enlightened me about. I really don't know what to do with him because he surprises me all the time.

If I were to tell this story last year, I would say it was love at first sight. This year, he's not the shy guy trying to get my attention anymore. He has become more aggressive and temperamental. And he enjoys me not being able to keep his gaze and he meets my arguments head on.

I probably would not drop him if he kissed me. But, I hate all these games. That's what I don't understand...Taurians are suppose to abhor games. What I will probably do if he doesn't stop, is drop him cold and just ignore him completely. I still wonder about that weriod "pull" though.

sorry, just this reinforces the impression that you like the drama of it all. The state of his relationship with his wife is none of your business. he is married. so are you. yes there is a pull, blah blah blah. your husband pities him and you want to kiss him even though you think there is no longevity in it. it just reads like some teenage novel.

i think you should join the rest of the adults in the pool and put your fanny flutter second to what is morally right for all parties, including your own husband. have you no second thought to the disrespect you are showing him?

I am being to think Taurus is the hardest zodiac sign to get along with..like on here hardly any good things said about being friends with or lovers.. who are we suppose to be capable with..I bet Taurus is the one that can survive the longest...with or without someone..that's OK too..I have never met another Taurus female either..and only one Taurus male ever.. a rare breed design by God...

Who else has it hard?

Hard knock life..

Hm this sounds like a physical or emotional cheating type of situation..if you're married and thinking about other people that's a sign of problems in your relationship..

A Taurus will work it out and stick to a marriage don't even think of divorce...

.. I think space would help.. because if given the opportunity both wouldn't even think twice about your SO and you both would end up having sex since the attraction is there and regretting it, soon THE behaviour will change between someone and shit will hit the fan.

.Who is going to be honest first with your family? Then both will resent each other and work will be awkward.

Lol. You are right. I never should have posted on the Taurus forum. It seems true that only a Scorpio can understand or empathize.

Ha Bulls are like that.
Very reserved and if in a committed relationship will just stare at the women they are attracted to.
If they are going to remain faithful you are not going to get him acting like he is single and available.
I had a similar attraction to a Bull co-workers and me being a Cardinal sign I initiated communication with him. It ended in us bickering, that was the only way we could relieve the sexual tension.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Ha Bulls are like that.
Very reserved and if in a committed relationship will just stare at the women they are attracted to.
If they are going to remain faithful you are not going to get him acting like he is single and available.
I had a similar attraction to a Bull co-workers and me being a Cardinal sign I initiated communication with him. It ended in us bickering, that was the only way we could relieve the sexual tension.

Its not really that we're "just like that". Its that we can *get* like that with a special connection. This bull is basically in love - and obsessive love at that. She is reading him perfectly. His nervousness/shyness, then him working out, buying status symbols that make him more confident, etc. He's basically courting her very slooooowly. He's transforming himself into the person he thinks she wants him to be.

Thanks TLS. I was looking for an understanding about his behavior.

I've had Taurus boyfriends before and they were aggressive and direct from
the start, but we were all less weathered back then.

Posted by JustEva
Thanx so much M143! He does get jealous when I talk to other men. I find it strange, since he shouldn't think he has the right. And he's not good around my husband. my husband is a Pisces. My husband feels sorry for him. This Taurus guy got mad when I was just asking a co-worker what college he went to. He started yelling at me about nothing and another man said he was jealous.

If I show some skin he seems to lose it, I guess Taurian men are like that? Well, you know Scorpio females live to sex it up from time to time. Can't help it. I haven't even turned it up. It has me so curious...he seems to try to control me anyway he can. It's for very trivial things, like my time, who he thinks would work best with me, etc. He gets do adamant about the way "I should do things" that I just don't feel like arguing about something so senseless. This is such a huge change from the guy I would shy away from me for an entire year. I hate him because I think it's cute that he tries to act more manly around me with the control, the car, the muscles, etc, but he doesn't man up. I don't know any other male sign that would do this.

Honestly, I'm drawn to this guy. But, I have more respect for men who will make a move.

I will take your advice, but is this guy playing me?

Hahaha. the muscles, the car, the work he does, everything that made you think he is reliable - believe me he is throwing hint that he is a solid person and can provide all...just appreciate him. That's what I did in my past.

It was funny in my past... he even brought a food for me in the office and if he was running out of time He
sent a messenger to bring those. A Taurus man in love - very adorable and cute.

That guy is not playing with you. He just can't even understand himself. Just treat him nicely and be his friend. Be strong and be compassionate with him. I believe if he could just resist those feeling He already
did - like he was yelling because of something that triggers his emotion - He is owning you.. yet he is not
pursuing. He just wanted you to read all those actions without words. hahaha..

Posted by aurora

this sounds scary. i mean your explanation. my ex taurus used to buy things that i liked and to like things that i liked. from music, movies to life principals. i thought that he actually had no taste or opinion so he had to copy someone.

Though the extent will vary, mirroring others and sharing their interests is just something human beings naturally do when strong emotional connections are present, regardless of sign. Emotions cause human beings to synchronize with one another. It can be through focusing on mutual interests to affirm similarity, or widening the scope of one's interests to include the other's. We can mirror physical gestures when talking, etc. Even listening can be a type of mirroring, as we often listen much more intently and empathetically to others when falling in love, particularly when they are sharing more personal information that other's aren't privy to...so we share even their past experiences in a sense. As emotional bonds grow deeper, heart rate and breathing patterns can even synchronize....Its just two lives getting caught up in a dance with one another....The more intensely someone is interested, particularly if its on the level of an obsession, I'd assume, the more you're going to see this kind of behavior...

Posted by JustEva
What I don't understand is why he hasn't made a move. Yea, I don't want to cheat on my husband, but I don't understand this attraction. Why he would let this thing go on so long without even trying to kiss me. I thought Taurus men were suppose to be so manly. This is the 1st time I have ever felt this physical attraction with someone and I know he's hot for me. Although he is attractive, it's not entirely a visual thing for me and it's not that he is the better of my choices at all. There is just something mysterious that just pulls together. I am really starting to hate him for not making a move and getting over with it.

Its just extremely common between certain members of these two signs. We see it over and over again here on this board, you can read about it all over the web, etc. The mystery of it is part of what keeps you so hooked. Its definitely a physical thing you can actually feel; like you said it actually feels electric/energetic. Its insane really. I did *all* of these same things with the Scorp crush at work - the staring from a distance, though so shy up close, working out to be in the best shape for her, even mirroring the color of clothing she seemed to like. However, even with all that, that does not at all mean he will make a move. If he's married, I'm sure he's extremely conflicted internally, and just like the emotional connection isn't something he really has immediate control over, a lot of his and your behavior around each other is probably subconscious and automatic. And not just in ways you attract one another, but also in the ways you repel. I ran from her, feeling overwhelmed at times, and she did the same. At times when she approached me physically, she was SO freakin' nervous/tense, I could feel it and it pushed me away.

Anyway, this thing hardly ever works out. You are with a Pisces who you're much more compatible with. I think you should just look at it as an astrological glitch and really try to get away from this guy physically. It can get worse and really consume you. Even if you don't pursue it, but just stay around this guy, if it hasn't already, it can pretty much destroy your sex life with your partner....

Ok, I think I digested all of it. I can't blame him if it's as uncontrollable for him as for me. It's gives me relief to know he's not actually playing with me. I've seen Taurus guys use girls and throw them off. Well, men do that in generally. And it's safe if I know he won't make a move. So, I guess I'll just appreciate the wonder of that feeling we can't explain. And he is so adorable when he shows off. I guess, I'll treat it as a dual crush. It's just that crushes are usually one sided. I don't recall ever laboring over trying to figure a guy out.

I guess I have to appreciate how clever he his. He's so sweet when we are alone. I really don't consider his jokes funny, I only like them because he thinks he's being funny. It's cute. He takes he limited time we have and crams his hobbies and life in there.

After his weriod temper tantrum, I thought he's been playing me because when other people are around, he'll turn his back on them while he does his gazing thing. I get caught in the gaze, and it makes me look like I'm sprung. I hate that.

Two wks ago when my husband was around, he did it with the saddest puppy dog look on his face and he kept throwing that puppy dog look at me when he could get away with it. I just closed my eyes and hoped it would stop.

I just wish he'd flirt with another girl do I could detach completely. I've even been trying to get other girls to go flirt with him. That's how desperate I am to detach.

Oh that's great! LMAO. My Venus is in Libra and my Mars in Aquarius. His
Venus is in Aries and his Mars in Cancer...Basically, he's capable of a fling. I doubt that he hasn't before.

You gotta feel sorry for a Taurus with an Aries Venus. For the 1st year, I thought he was a Cancer. I wouldn't be surprised if that is his rising. He was so conflicted.

Personally, I'm not conflicted. I'm just drawn to this guy. Just like u, it's exciting, but I probably lose respect for him soon. I've been planning my escape, but I really don't want to hurt him.

I know a lot of Taurians may get mad at this, but I've had 3 attached Taurus men go after me before. I don't consider them the most loyal sign. They do take a long time, that's why I never noticed they wanted to get physical. It was great having them as friends. They are attractive, are great to go out with and are perfect gentlemen. Guys who I thought were my perfect "guy friend". I actually didn't know until they tried it kiss me. I know they are really sensitive because we never spoke to each other again. I was in a relationship all those times. And, I had never freed someone from "friend" mode. I really don't like surprises.

Goodness...I have to get away from him.

Taurus n Scorpio are two opposite signs... Making things worser my venus is in Sagittarius while his is in Gemini....again opposites!!

Taurus n Scorpio are two opposite signs... Making things worser my venus is in Sagittarius while his is in Gemini....again opposites!! we did start talking...pheww!I know we can't be together though neither of us are taken!I just wish this could get over somehow!

Plus his marriage is in shambles, so he doesn't have much to lose. Taking a cue from what other Scorps have said, if you are this open to what he's projecting, you may have to take a stronger look at ways to strengthen your own marriage. The dynamic with hims seems to have exposed some things. At the end of the day, this should be just like those other bulls who made moves on you when you were taken.

He may not be playing a conscious game, but he is putting your marriage in danger in a sense, driving a bit of a wedge in there. You have to respond protectively. Its very bold, disrespectful, and immature of him to look at you like that when your husband is around. If, bc the physical attraction is too strong, it can't be transformed into simply a friendship where you both drive each other in positive directions, you should just cut him off cold. You seem to mainly speak of it in physical terms, but there also seems to be an emotional pull as well, which I think is the real danger.

And its not that Taurus men aren't faithful; there just seems to be an anomaly with Taurus/Scorp bc of the opposite thing. Both Taurus and Scorpio are supposed to be the two most faithful signs, yet quite often we get a Scorpio woman in here on the verge of committing adultery with a Taurus. To me, it speaks less about how faithful the sign is, and more about how strong and blinding that connection can be.

Posted by Teena
I just wish this could get over somehow!

I hear ya.

To a minimum *

Posted by JustEva
Ok, I think I digested all of it. I can't blame him if it's as uncontrollable for him as for me. It's gives me relief to know he's not actually playing with me. I've seen Taurus guys use girls and throw them off. Well, men do that in generally. And it's safe if I know he won't make a move. So, I guess I'll just appreciate the wonder of that feeling we can't explain. And he is so adorable when he shows off. I guess, I'll treat it as a dual crush. It's just that crushes are usually one sided. I don't recall ever laboring over trying to figure a guy out.

I guess I have to appreciate how clever he his. He's so sweet when we are alone. I really don't consider his jokes funny, I only like them because he thinks he's being funny. It's cute. He takes he limited time we have and crams his hobbies and life in there.

After his weriod temper tantrum, I thought he's been playing me because when other people are around, he'll turn his back on them while he does his gazing thing. I get caught in the gaze, and it makes me look like I'm sprung. I hate that.

Two wks ago when my husband was around, he did it with the saddest puppy dog look on his face and he kept throwing that puppy dog look at me when he could get away with it. I just closed my eyes and hoped it would stop.

I just wish he'd flirt with another girl do I could detach completely. I've even been trying to get other girls to go flirt with him. That's how desperate I am to detach.

This so true. and that made me laughed. yeah they looked like a sad puppy dog when they get hurt.

I wouldn't say he's that good at control.

Strongly agree with this, not to be confused stubbornness with control or security. When it comes Taurus&Scorpio, I think for Taurus it's just the opposite. Scorpios take all out Tauru??s insecurity and Taurus behaves like a stubborn child. It's like they have a tantrum, like a child who does not know if prefer the ice cream or keep crying and hold their mother attention. Between a rock and a hard place 😉 Neither you, nor without you , you kill me, without you I die . Damn hard heads...

I use to think it was so fake too, but people have different reactions to stimulus and posture differently. Some men throw displays of money, strength, power. Some argue with you to prove how smart they are. My previous Taurus boyfriends threw all their favorites things out there, and went into a display of money right away. The Pisces BFs hid their money. But, back then there wasn't Facebook. This guy has obviously been reading threw my FB page.

I thought that was cute though. How would you get someone to like you? It might seem tacky that Taurus seems to point out stuff, but when I know he's going to be around, I get excited and plan for it. I wear skirts and try not to swear. Every time I swear I doublecheck to see if I've offended him. One day I saw him after swimming and I was a mess. I felt like I was going to have a nervous breakdown. I didn't plan to swim. My clothes didn't match, I was a dried out chlorine mess. I had zero make up on He ran after me and trapped me into a one hour conversation with a really sinister smile on his face the entire time. He would not stop smiling. Like he was enjoying me at my worst. I figured ok, you'll hate me, I'm not perfect and this will be over. Actually, I think that was the turning point. I thought you had to look perfect around a Taurus. He got more aggressive after that day.

It's really hard to deal with an opposite...you can't think like them. You have to have a lot of trust. It's like braving a new world. Worse, actually...you have to see something through someone else's eyes.

Anyway, the guys who debate, insult, or beg annoy me the most.

What does confuse me is his stubbornness. He was more adaptable. Since our encounter has evolved he just has to have things his way. We work on projects together and I know his nitpicking has more to do with just forcing me to do things his way. I don't fight it because I simply don't argue about trivial things, but I can hand off the work for someone else. Last week, I thought he was crazy. It was over something so simple. I mentioned that someone thought we should go about a drawing in a different way. Things he never cared about. Now he steps in for everything. We work our ideas through an interactive process and he takes every opportunity to override someone else only on what piece I'm working on. Is this how he thinks he's going to spend time with me? He constantly wants me to take his suggestions over anyone else's. I say ok, and don't do it. Seri

Seriously, does he think the controlling behavior is romantic? Or, is he doing it for fun, or to make me
think he's a man? I don't get it. Twice, he was wrong. I never pointed it out to him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Now, I just agree and don't follow his suggestions.

Posted by JustEva
I thought you had to look perfect around a Taurus. He got more aggressive after that day.

LOL...this is funny. My Scorp at work would avoid me often on days where she didn't feel like she looked good. On days where she would wear a dress, her hair was straightened, etc., she'd be strutting and seducing. You see there were initially days that she dressed up a lot, and got a really visceral response out of me. So I think she reasoned that I liked her better that way or something. Sure, I did acknowledge how amazing she looked on those days with my stares, but the truth actually, was that when she was looking her best, it made me nervous and less confident. I liked it best when she was dressed down, tomboyish, and just looking cute, because she was still sexy as hell, just like that, and less intimidating. The sexual vibe you give off is already so heavy. It helps me at least, to tone it down. I also just like to see a woman when she looks more natural.

I found it amazing how shy she was in close range. You see, this girl is BEAUTIFUL. Physically out of my league for sure. A couple of times we were in the breakroom together or on the elevator, and if I was at an angle where I could see her, particularly from the side, she would tilt her head down, and let her hair hang in her face using it as a veil, even when talking to someone else. It was very obvious. I remember one time she almost lied in front of me to save face. She had an amazing curvaceous body (used to weight train a lot), but was just maybe a tad overweight at one point (which I thought was cute). We were on the elevator and she had breakfast from our cafeteria at work in a box. I could smell that there was bacon or sausage in there. This guy on the elevator asks her really loudly "Whatcha got for breakfast?!!!". And she mumbles "Oh, just some eggs.....(4 second pause)....and sausage". LOLOL. I could tell she really did not want to confess the sausage. She knows I work out heavily, always saw me getting salads for lunch, and she used to compete in fitness contests herself so I think had a bit of shame around eating unhealthy. Now, she is back in the gym full time and competing again in these contests apparently, displaying her trophy at her desk, has since gotten breast implants, etc. Her body is "flawless" now, but I liked her better the other way....

Posted by aurora
idk really, but i think taurus men are not really into making the first move, unless they are totally sure they won't be rejected.

Yes for me. Don't like to take risks....

Oh TLS, you poor boy. Hope you still see her. Looks like she has a crush on you too. The females only get "shy" around their crush. Unless, they have some aggressive element. Not scorp men though. The men are typically completely aggressive after a returned stare. When I act shy or insecure around a guy, it means I like them. And that means, that I would be with them. I'm always in male dominated environments and my confidence doesn't go down at all. If you catch her trying to please you then you are already in. If you keep your body strong, it's more important than having a pretty face. Actually, I don't think scrop women like pretty faces. They like the more masculine or even geeky, but strong type. Also, if she was embarrassed about what to eat around you, she must really like you. Scorpions really don't give a crap about anyone else's opinion. She probably forces her family to smell her stinky feet in private.

So, Scorpio women all have their favorite things. Whether color, animal or type of material. Give her something and see how she reacts. Trust me, it'll be fun. Keep it under $ 10, it's that you were thinking of her that counts. A stuffed animal will probably make her cry. If you are on a date never miss the pet shop or zoo. Then, you have to ask her out...coffee? Food? Just remember, don't go so damn slow. Too much anticipation is a turn off. Scorpio's know who they would sleep with way before the person knows. What's more dangerous is turning them on without finishing. If you do that, you are toast. If she's a bit dark, she'll let someone else easier release her, but don't worry she'll think about you. The thing is, people don't see the whole "sex" thing with scorpios. Sex is very important to them...very important. It's as important as money is to s capi, a cancers mother, a libra a peace of mind, or a Geminis new thing. If you can't give her that thing, she'll wonder what the point of a relationship is. I bet she has guy friends she does other things with.

Also, you have to make the 1st move. I envy my Aries and Leo girlfriends who can do that. I think this is the weirdest thing. A Taurus man won't make the 1st move and a Scorpio woman won't. Actually, she is thinking that she has made her move if she lets you alone with her and gets quiet. That means she's waiting for you to stop talking and touch her. If you touch or rub her between the legs and you don't follow through..she will freeze you out of her life.

Ok....if you get her al

Ike's... If you get her alone on a date and it gets quiet. Especially if she turns away, that's the moment. If you can't bring yourself to kiss her, could you dumbly put you leg on your thigh? Then, she might go nuts and reach for the kiss. At best, she'll probably go half way. Is that good enough? I think that the most attractive thing about Taurus men is that they are gentlemen, but being a tease is lame. Also, if anything does transpire don't wait out the next contact too long. Scorpios hate the games, they want to know that someone wants them period. She'll probably get sexier around you after. She'll do it just for you, so you don't have to worry it's for anyone else. If she gets ridiculous, tell her to tone and keep it for private. She'll understand.

Lol. I meant put you leg on her thigh.

she would tilt her head down, and let her hair hang in her face using it as a veil, even when talking to someone else. It was very obvious. I remember one time she almost lied in front of me to save face.

I swear, only taurus men who have been able to intimidate me and make me shy and insecure. I can read that they are more nervous than me and this help me nothing.

One Taurus watching me, "our eyes meet" , when I walk in front of him ( there is no other way to go, and yes, with my head down and my face hidden by my hair), he grabs my arm to talk to me. He escapes from his own situation with humor and nervous gestures , completely lost his usual composure very worthy ( something I love about taurus , stand and walk as insurance, in its own space ) , his face and his hands exaggerated gestures, have their own life. Me worst than he, really, my shyness faded when grabbed my arm to increase when I felt him so nervous , I was very very nervous because his nervios! He turned a moment to meet a friend and I took the moment to run away without saying goodbye or anything. I guess a Taurus understand this as "insufficient security", "Crazy girl, I turn around two seconds and she us gone!".
Silly yes, jajaj , but real.

JustEva - its a long story but nothing is going to happen between us. I appreciate the advice on courting a Scorpio, but all that is just not my thing to be honest. I just would rather be real and if it doesn't happen naturally, then it doesn't happen, and its not meant to be. All I will do at this point is acknowledge her and say "hi" if I see her in close quarters, hold a door for her, etc.

All that stuff about Scorpio sexuality you said....I've heard similar things from some, and different from others. If she is like you say, I'd take a pass as soon as I found out, thinking we're ultimately too different. For me, when I really feel love for someone, which I did for her automatically, a soon as I saw her, its not enjoyable to have sex with someone else while that person is still in my head/heart. Sex to me is sacred, not just "important". No judgment though....

Then I thought even he did not have the need to turn to meet his friend , maybe just wanted to take a few seconds to turn back and catch his breath , but I could not stand it and left. I have seen many nervous men around me but never one so haggard just as he was able to make the most difficult. It's very crazy all.

Lol.sorry... I meant put your hand on her thigh, then stare at her.

And...I guess that did not help much either...when he grabbed me I said him " hello , I'm glad you stopped acting as if we were strangers ". Lol. Damn my Mercury in Scorpio —??, I always get the worst hand at the most inopportune moments.

TLS:
Dang. See how stubborn Taurus' is. Ok. J/k. Hmmm... If a chick got you hot and bothered and withdrew. Wouldn't it make you crazy? Or is it truly just that you just want to be the one to make the 1st move period. Is this a control thing? Control of yourself or control of the girl or situation? I'm trying to see eye to eye here. Opposing signs do not perceive things the same way. BTW, sex is sacred to female scorps too, but many don't have to fall in love to do it.
Synergy in sex, helps them fall in love because they think that a person who truly knows their body can be the one. They usually don't let many men get there and they "love" but don't "fall in love" easily. But, if the scorp female is truly slutty, stay clear. I've found that all the other seductive females signs get slutty or look for men with money. If you look at the most beautiful Scorpio women, they don't date men strictly for money. Most of the scorp females I know are in long term relationships...like the Taurus men I know. So, to find one alone is rare.

Teamint: Lmao. Ur probably right. When I got along with Taurus' I was a bit demure. I didn't talk much with my boyfriends. I didn't get that communicative until I met my husband. But that was the downfall of my Taurus relationships, I didn't talk to them about what I wanted. I was young and figured it was easier to find someone else. But later I found them to be good family men.

Nonetheless, I think a T & S could be a great match. If their polarities match, it could be exciting, committed and satisfying.

BTW, sex is sacred to female scorps too, but many don't have to fall in love to do it.

For me it is also sacred , but if I do not have a relationship where I'm happy (I've only had one that lasted 15 years) , sometimes I need the privacy to have a man above or below me ... human I am.
Money? Some people say we all have a price, I do not. First is my quality of life which includes not sell me for money, I try work to live , not live to work. Some man tried to buy me, all women knows some man this kind, are pathetic but they have their femenine audience.

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TLS:
Dang. See how stubborn Taurus' is. Ok. J/k. Hmmm... If a chick got you hot and bothered and withdrew. Wouldn't it make you crazy?

I really don't put too much stock in all that. I'm a guy, so sexual arousal is sort of unremarkable/run-of-the-mill, and easily controlled. And I'm Venus in Gem so I typically won't be attracted unless a woman stimulates my mind. What was interesting to me was the emotional connection, particularly when looking into each other's eyes. It felt like love, bypassing really all of my normal criteria. It was beyond sex for me. Definitely a real magnetism there....

Oh yea. I know what you mean. I have a libra rising, moon, Venus and Aquar Mars. I dissect everything.

I know we all keep talking about the attraction. It's like we should all hold a Scorpio Taurus meet up to see what happens. Hilarious.

Hmmm, you define that feeling as emotional? When I had that feeling, it truly scared me. I'm serious, I felt "scared." My heart was pounding and I couldn't believe someone made me that nervous. When I'm in love it's different, and my whole world is different. Its consumed with that person. Basically, I think I have to give them everything first to be in love with them. It's not the same thing.

So, I guess it would be true that Taurus is sensual but not sexual? Can you tell me the difference? I really can not discern the difference. How could you be sensual in a partnership without wanting to feel
the epitome of what two people can do.

A Taurus man won't make the 1st move and a Scorpio woman won't. Actually, she is thinking that she has made her move if she lets you alone with her and gets quiet. That means she's waiting for you to stop talking and touch her. If you touch or rub her between the legs and you don't follow through..she will freeze you out of her life.

If you get her alone on a date and it gets quiet. Especially if she turns away, that's the moment. If you can't bring yourself to kiss her, could you dumbly put you leg on your thigh? Then, she might go nuts and reach for the kiss.

^^^^reading this reminds me of a experience that I have been avoiding for my own sake having to due with a scorp girl. she did exactly what u stated above we get along great she tells me she feels like she needs to protect me because I remind her of her lil nephew. the last time we actually hung out together was at a mutual friends party in which me and her stayed up till 5 in the morning just talking and getting to know each other better. the whole time we were together one of her friends was their watching us and pointed out how we seem to really be liking each other a lil too much to be just friends or hanging out alone without her bf(who is a friend of mine)which is why I choose to avoid her at all cost. once the friend had fallen asleep we started to clean up everyones mess and we would just stare at each other and smile the energy was sooooo intense I felt like I was gonna loose my cool in a flash grab her and kiss her passionately it took a lot of self restraint not too. we would look into each others eyes smile and go silent until she would melt me with that devilish smile asking me what im looking at and I could not come up with an answer just stand their woth a blank face I was sooo overwhelmed by the situation. even as I went to hug her goodbye we both just held each other not like a typical hug that last a matter of seconds we held on which was awkward but at the same time felt so right her heart beat matching my own. she even told me that she hoped that we would be able to hangout again soon which I really wanted too but knew that it would not be a good thing because I was not sure if I could keep on resisting her.I keep on telling myself that it was nothing that maybe shes just that friendly but after reading what you wrote makes me think that she also felt that instant attraction and was testing me to see what I would do. But now I choose to avoid her because I respect my fri

*friend and I would hate to be the reason why their 6 year relationship ends I believe in karma plus my mind will win over what my heart wants every time.

Sorry LB91, I'm married and I have a conflict. Breaking that cardinal rule of all time would be an even worse idea. You would lose all of your friends and lose all honor. Too many people would know. When married people cheat, it's called a fling and no one is suppose to find out. It seems that you two can get along, so that's really bad. What we've been discussing is just the attraction, but since you two have hung out and get along, that IS dangerous. Waiting out the natural end of their relationship might be the best thing. I'm a married woman making goo goo eyes at a married man so I can not tell you
that it's easy to control this attraction.
I feel for you, but scorpios are complicated and if you date she might blame you later for taking her away from her BF.

Someone told me earlier today that something weriod has been happening to Taurus since last year, so maybe all of you taurians should look into that.

Here's my advice:
Young Scorpios can't resist love. They do things without caring what happens or what people will think of them. You can't pull out all the drama and position to be "the one." Then wait it out!

She'll break up with her BF if she really falls in love or is so hot for someone she can't control it. Their relationship is up to the 7 year itch, so you might be lucky. Even then, her BF might turn into a misogynist. Scorpios tend to seek out controlling and possessive partners (like themselves), so watch out. I learned to leave BFs easy... Because I was afraid they would kill me. Seriously.

If she calls you and tells you they broke up, that's an invitation and you might have a short time to take her up on it. So, if you go for the kiss, go for the upper thigh too. And it's done.

Young scorp women are also experimenting with power, so it will mess your head up if she does that. She'll pull the excuse... "I have a BF." If you enjoy the tease, it's fine. They can get really intimate without having sex. If it seems like she can give you a lap dance and walk off..take your precious heart and find a young Scorpio girl you can mold to your Taurus heart.

You seem like a nice guy. You stayed and helped clean! But, the more immature the scorpion the more set they are on sex roles. She could feel that her "I have a BF" status is an shield even if she gets naked in front of you. There might be a danger that she considers her passed out BF the "real" man and you the "nice" guy.

Scorps are complete night owls, so if her

Scorps are complete night owls, so if her BF can't stay up all night, they probably won't last. If you are under 25, wait it out. If the attraction she has for you is the same we girls here have been talking about...don't worry she'll come after you. Scorpio women will chase you if they want it bad enough. But, make the move or you'll tick her off forever. If there's an opportunity, make it look like an accident.

So, I guess it would be true that Taurus is sensual but not sexual? Can you tell me the difference? I really can not discern the difference. How could you be sensual in a partnership without wanting to feel
the epitome of what two people can do.

For me It's similar to difference between eroticism and pornography, sensual it's more about five senses, a sexy woman is one who dresses to be, she imposes, it gives. A sensual awakens "something" unintentionally, even with a taliban dress. Venus in Scorpio we invent this, jaja. Last weekend I took a dress cap from the neck to the feet and my hair in a bun, a guy approached me and said "hey, *tunic*, you're the hottest of the night." There were dozens of half-naked sexy girls saying "hey, look my perfect body, whether you want or not."
Taurus is sensual and loves the sensual , is what makes them special and different other men that usually are more sexual than sensual. Bulls came from Venus!

I opened a thread called "within every Scorpio is a Taurus, within each Taurus there is a Scorpio". I hate common sex, makes me sick. I like the ritual around, the tub filled with scented oil , white sheets , candles , food and drink at hand , watches out , all out, just you and me. There are two kinds of sex, sexual, a cheap substitute only for download the daily accumulated evil energy, and sensual, that carrying it, healthy, gives life and positive energies.
People who disrespect sex (most powerful energy) does not respect himself and entering in a vicisiososick circle which ends sick all, body, soul and spirit.
And this is our responsibility as women because men energy is yang and we are yin, and as you do not harmonize well these two, different problems will consume the couple. Unavoidable.

I always tell people is wrong when they say "sex is something that comes after the feelings, is very important to have feelings, bla, bla bla"... No , sex provokes feelings! Can raise, can ruin. If everyone understood this and would respect such a powerful energy the world would not be what it is. This should be taught in school, not the evil jew-theories about women envious of the penis. (And the most unimaginable bizarre pornography "gifted " to a single click).