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I'm so trying so hard to understand Teamint. Boy, astrologers sure understate the innate difference of the opposite. T & S are so similar, so attracted to each other, but the differences are what do them in. I was raised a Catholic girl in a strict family. All that did was bound me to my BFs for years. I have not been single since I was 13, and the longest time I've spent single is 2 days. Maybe, it's all the libra in me.

My 1st BF and a few after were Taurians. They were very decent and were into traditional roles like me. I'm beginning to think that Taurus men should do what my 1st BF did...Find a young scorp girl and just mold her. It might last if he can keep from pissing her off. Funny, I've only had the powerful attraction we talk about with this "one" guy. Although our exclusivity started the 1st day we met and the other ones seemed like "ideal" men, I wasn't drawn to them.

Here's the truth. Porn...At an early age, I looked at porn like a manual. Seriously, I don't look at it as sick (well depends, I have limits). I can watch it with no emotion. Really, it's all about technique and about making a mental note about what kind of fantasies are out there. Ok, I like it. Still, I think a lot can be learned from it. During their divorce, my girlfriend threw out that she "caught" her husband watching it and claimed he was cheating on her. I bought porn online for my husband's brother, so he would have something to watch while he house sat for us. I view it as natural. When I've entered relationships I ask them directly to show me the mags and porn they watch. It's like me showing them what kind of purses I like.

I love all the things you mentioned too...lux baths, candles etc. In fact, my husband needs the romance turn on to get him started. But, I guess it's our view on sex that is different?
Taurian men are suppose to have huge libidos, how can that be true if sex isn't so important?

TY for explaining the sexual & sensual. Is the biggest problem between these signs that both are seductive and sexy, but they view sex entirely different?
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I hate common sex, makes me sick. I like the ritual around, the tub filled with scented oil , white sheets , candles , food and drink at hand , watches out , all out, just you and me.



Yeah, this is pretty much how I am.....And this is how I've always interpreted as "sensual" vs. "sexual", the former of which Taurus is said to be. I like candle light, and the environment needs to be beautiful. I need to *see* my partner's body - take it all in, appreciate it, enjoy it. Music is really important for me during sex as well. I like every sense to be stimulated. I also like to take it really slow, stretch out the kissing, stretch out the foreplay, eye contact....I don't like quick sex, just to relieve an urge. My SO likes to have sex every night, quickies even....but for me, that gets boring if we aren't making it significant. I can wait all week, and would prefer to, if that's what it takes to have really good sex. I actually like withholding - it makes it more enjoyable for me. Its like dieting all week, then indulging on the weekend - the food tastes better to me because I'm craving it more.
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I usually don't listen to the songs I love often because I don't want to be bored of them!N when i finally play it I enjoy listening to it..sinking everything in...



Same! LOL, me and my Libra best friend talk about this all the time. We exchange music ALL DAY long....And we will be like "Yo man...this is a good one. Don't overplay it. Use it wisely...." LOL!

I have to be honest; I feel this way about relationships too. Of course there will be that infatuation where you want to be around each other all the time, but I also like to not see the person I love for like a week, and then hang with them. Everything is so much more intense; you can't keep your hands off of each other. I just feel so much more.

It was actually my Scorpio dad who told me that the perfect relationship would be where you would see the person only on the weekends. You get all your crap done, then you can focus on them entirely on your time off, you have a ton to talk about, you don't get bored of each other or on each other's nerves. Its probably more ideal than practical but the thought of it always appealed to me.
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Also, contrary to what justeva said ,I won't make the first move with the chasing thing...like ever..! I sure will "create" opportunities n may give reasons for the guy to chase/court me! But me ain't ever making a pass!



Same for me really. I don't make moves or chase. I don't even create opportunities. I just stare at you like a cow. lololol....
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But, scorpios need to be chased. If no one makes a move. How can a relationship happen? I'm sorry, but scorpios drown themselves in their partners, they like to be one with them. Absence is overrated. I don't see how you can get to know someone unless you've weaved into their life.

Oh no, the sensual description is totally my husband. Thanks, it's nice to know that stuff is really important to him. I thought he was doing it for me.


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I usually don't listen to the songs I love often because I don't want to be bored of them!N when i finally play it I enjoy listening to it..sinking everything in...



Same! LOL, me and my Libra best friend talk about this all the time. We exchange music ALL DAY long....And we will be like "Yo man...this is a good one. Don't overplay it. Use it wisely...." LOL!

I have to be honest; I feel this way about relationships too. Of course there will be that infatuation where you want to be around each other all the time, but I also like to not see the person I love for like a week, and then hang with them. Everything is so much more intense; you can't keep your hands off of each other. I just feel so much more.

It was actually my Scorpio dad who told me that the perfect relationship would be where you would see the person only on the weekends. You get all your crap done, then you can focus on them entirely on your time off, you have a ton to talk about, you don't get bored of each other or on each other's nerves. Its probably more ideal than practical but the thought of it always appealed to me.
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I really dunno how to put it in better words..but if I keep listening to a song I love often,I feel I'm kinda cheating on it!
I know it sounds crazy!But I feel because it's my favorite song.. it should remain so! By listening to it less often I'm doing it n myself a favor :p...

N yeah this logic holds good for my relationships too! Somehow I never felt that infatuation where I want to be around the person all the time though there was mad love!I totally agree with your dad!It's like I always needed little time n space before i meet a person next time..only so that I can love the person better..or rather show love in a better way!I wouldn't want to "get used" to the feeling of love..It should feel special every time...I like that idea!

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Also, contrary to what justeva said ,I won't make the first move with the chasing thing...like ever..! I sure will "create" opportunities n may give reasons for the guy to chase/court me! But me ain't ever making a pass!



Same for me really. I don't make moves or chase. I don't even create opportunities. I just stare at you like a cow. lololol....
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Lol!!! I "felt" the bull's stare...like literally! I only heard of people talking about a scorpio's stare...but i say someone should really experience a Taurus's stare!It's piercing..lol..i can't explain it!
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But, scorpios need to be chased. If no one makes a move. How can a relationship happen? I'm sorry, but scorpios drown themselves in their partners, they like to be one with them. Absence is overrated. I don't see how you can get to know someone unless you've weaved into their life.

Oh no, the sensual description is totally my husband. Thanks, it's nice to know that stuff is really important to him. I thought he was doing it for me.




Umm...I dunno! Maybe i can take the pain of not having that person rather than make a move! I know it's stupid n makes no real sense but that's how it works with me...!Also I feel it's a man thing to do the chasing!
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But, scorpios need to be chased. If no one makes a move. How can a relationship happen?



It can't for me, lol. Women either pursue me, or I only meet women when they are in my same social circle or we actually work together - like on a project, not just at the same company; always happens naturally. That's just me though. Venus in Aries bulls seem to be a lot different when it comes to pursuit. On the matter of time apart, I don't think I could really stick to it, or that I'd ever be likely to be with a woman who would want to, I just really like the thought of it. I get bored of people very easily though, especially when I feel like I know them inside and out.
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Lol!!! I "felt" the bull's stare...like literally! I only heard of people talking about a scorpio's stare...but i say someone should really experience a Taurus's stare!It's piercing..lol..i can't explain it!



Its the only move I have. It conveys a lot though. All these things she is saying he conveyed in his stares, even the pathetic stuff...lol, I did the same. Its easy with Scorps, bc they are a good read. My Scorp had a STARE though....It was more powerful than mine, for sure. Terrifying really....lol. It was like Medusa. I could barely move under her gaze; very intimidating. We would have wars and she'd usually win. I beat her a couple times; that was great. I remember we had a long staring contest one day, and I told myself I am not budging, I don't care how long this goes. I think I was sweating by the end of it. She caved, then she looks down at the ground, looks back up and gives me the sweetest smile. The smile was indescribable. She never smiled like that - only very serious, or the sexy smirk. This was like a sweet/kind smile that showed her innocent/vulnerable side, and literally made me want to cry. I know that sounds crazy.....lol. I felt like she gave me a little prize for winning the stare down....lol.
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But, scorpios need to be chased. If no one makes a move. How can a relationship happen? I'm sorry, but scorpios drown themselves in their partners, they like to be one with them. Absence is overrated. I don't see how you can get to know someone unless you've weaved into their life.



Not Scorpio women need, women need ! Look at this powerful sexual energy that creates life, Men expelled (yang) to create life, out of, activate, Women (yin) retain , create.

And pornography is not about the senses , it is only to see, hypnotic images , some sick people that are unable to enjoy without , nothing sensual sex, only excite creating pictures in mind and when you believe images are fantasizing mind , hypnotized, you're not in this time with all your senses , you are not really there. Where you are, where your energy goes? It is healthy this? Sure? Have sex that's as you think you're playing the football game ... but you're only just sick on the sofa, watching, not playing. You're a spectator not an actor (and this has very, very profound implications that unfortunately by the language would be hard for me explain but think ... not something banal). Today, someone want we to live "hypnotized", when having sex too, all day watching tv, your phone ... And your energy goes to? A false reality, and life loses all his good sense while you live on your "screen". Someone wants you to live hypnotized.
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I'm really enjoying all your bull comments. S & T are so similar, but the wave lengths are parallel. I guess if these couple do get together it must be pretty incredible.

Honestly, am I just gonna burn for this guy? Is this attraction going to go away? I'm trying so hard to ignore him cold. The pull is too hard. He asked me why I was so sad today. Like, I could say anything. He just gave me some of his treasured glazed Macadamia nuts from Hawaii to cheer me up. I'm miserable. I can't get "cold" towards him.

I stared out the window during my entire sucky lunch and he just stared and stared and stared at me. He doesn't care who sees it.

I've been sharing my lunch with him for months. He's fun to feed. Today, I brought enough for 5 of us. The guys got there before he did. He looked really mad. I mean really mad. I had to lie and tell him I saved him a plate. I just ate salad.

I'm going to start leaving for lunch and I'll have to make dates so he doesn't come with me. I hate that. That sounds mean.

Lord, I need a Taurus-Scorpio deflection amulet. He's going to get me in in big trouble.

TLS, you are right from the beginning. My Pisces is so much easier to get along with.



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Lol!!! I "felt" the bull's stare...like literally! I only heard of people talking about a scorpio's stare...but i say someone should really experience a Taurus's stare!It's piercing..lol..i can't explain it!



Its the only move I have. It conveys a lot though. All these things she is saying he conveyed in his stares, even the pathetic stuff...lol, I did the same. Its easy with Scorps, bc they are a good read. My Scorp had a STARE though....It was more powerful than mine, for sure. Terrifying really....lol. It was like Medusa. I could barely move under her gaze; very intimidating. We would have wars and she'd usually win. I beat her a couple times; that was great. I remember we had a long staring contest one day, and I told myself I am not budging, I don't care how long this goes. I think I was sweating by the end of it. She caved, then she looks down at the ground, looks back up and gives me the sweetest smile. The smile was indescribable. She never smiled like that - only very serious, or the sexy smirk. This was like a sweet/kind smile that showed her innocent/vulnerable side, and literally made me want to cry. I know that sounds crazy.....lol. I felt like she gave me a little prize for winning the stare down....lol.
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Never a Taurus man won me to look, some tried but can not. However, about this Taurus-Scorp energy, life , death , sensual-sex , electro-magnetism between ... it's a black hole that swallows everything. Once you've tried ... you , you can die if you want. It's so wild and genuine, a drug. Jaja.

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The famous Taurus stares that's our only move to show we want you the come hither look people need to remember we taureans are the essence of earth and Venus we attract towards us we don't chase we love to pull you towards us with out having to put in a lot of work with no cash prize at the end. And it doesn't matter that were guys and are "suppose" to chase women times have changed it's ok for women to chase in my oppinion I love me a women who knows what she wants and will stick by until she gets it. It's one of the traits I find the most appealing in Scorpio women they will get what they want one way or an other a very powerful force to whitness. If women would chase us taureans more often then you would see/hear more taureans being tied down trust me. Come to us be genuine and feminine and Your well on your way to our hearts. Oh but please don't chase the lower class manipulative Tauri I've come across them and they will use you.
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This would be so much easier we were both single. This really sucks.

So, I have to deal with the attraction. He'll just hate me if I start giving another guy at work attention, right? There's a libra guy at work who been inviting himself to my lunches. He's not shy. I just don't want a temper tantrum. It sounds stupid, but I don't want him staring at me forever.

I guess it does makes make emotional. I hope I'm not in lovesick. Hey, I don't get lovesick.
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Umm...I dunno! Maybe i can take the pain of not having that person rather than make a move!



Pretty much for me as well....Plus, its a matter of pride, like "What? My cow stare is not enough for you?"...hahahahha
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Lol! Well...but what about the Scorpio pride? You know she's stared at by almost every man in the room !(I know that sounds very immodest...don't lash back..but that's how it is..)
I should agree though,that the bull's stare is something like I've never experienced before!But you obviously must be knowing that you're not the only one doing that!So how can that be enough?
In my case..this guy does know that many guys were trying to hit on me!His best friend was one among them!But what actually made me curious about this guy was, he not trying to hit on me(this is before i talked to him n the staring part started only after i befriended him..immediately after though )I wasn't nervous when he stared at me..I was puzzled!In the very beginning i thought he's just lost somewhere(not "actually" looking at me) Later I thought he's trying to tell something but wasn't comfortable enough to start! So I used to look back n smile thinking I'm making him comfortable!But the weirdest part is he never smiled back nor twitched nor looked away.. He just continued to stare!Also one catchy thing was he never stared into my eyes...No!It's not the eyes he's looking at! Does that make sense?
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Lol!!! I "felt" the bull's stare...like literally! I only heard of people talking about a scorpio's stare...but i say someone should really experience a Taurus's stare!It's piercing..lol..i can't explain it!



Its the only move I have. It conveys a lot though. All these things she is saying he conveyed in his stares, even the pathetic stuff...lol, I did the same. Its easy with Scorps, bc they are a good read. My Scorp had a STARE though....It was more powerful than mine, for sure. Terrifying really....lol. It was like Medusa. I could barely move under her gaze; very intimidating. We would have wars and she'd usually win. I beat her a couple times; that was great. I remember we had a long staring contest one day, and I told myself I am not budging, I don't care how long this goes. I think I was sweating by the end of it. She caved, then she looks down at the ground, looks back up and gives me the sweetest smile. The smile was indescribable. She never smiled like that - only very serious, or the sexy smirk. This was like a sweet/kind smile that showed her innocent/vulnerable side, and literally made me want to cry. I know that sounds crazy.....lol. I felt like she gave me a little prize for winning the stare down....lol.
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I have never been into the stare games..!If i know someone's staring at me I never even bothered to give them a glance..at the most I give a filthy smirk or an indifferent *rolls eyes* expression unless ofcourse if the guy is my friend...then I'd just try n laugh it off to make the situation less awkward for him!But my guy friends still tell me that my gaze/stare scares them n they really can't talk to me looking into my eyes...They really do stop halfway many times even though my stare is very casual at that point!I'm sorry...but i don't understand.. What do you mean by wars?Stare into eachother's eyes n see who holds it for long?How does that work exactly?
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The famous Taurus stares that's our only move to show we want you the come hither look people need to remember we taureans are the essence of earth and Venus we attract towards us we don't chase we love to pull you towards us with out having to put in a lot of work with no cash prize at the end. And it doesn't matter that were guys and are "suppose" to chase women times have changed it's ok for women to chase in my oppinion I love me a women who knows what she wants and will stick by until she gets it. It's one of the traits I find the most appealing in Scorpio women they will get what they want one way or an other a very powerful force to whitness. If women would chase us taureans more often then you would see/hear more taureans being tied down trust me. Come to us be genuine and feminine and Your well on your way to our hearts. Oh but please don't chase the lower class manipulative Tauri I've come across them and they will use you.



I know someone would come up with this!"It's ok for girls to chase..times have changed N stuff" I'm not against the idea..nor would i judge women who do the chasing!But I really can't man up for a man to come upto me..No! It's just me..!Just like you've an opinion on this i have a different one!
The bull I'm dealing with told me something similar to what you said!He told he likes go-getters n independent women n a woman who can make a move kinda stuff appeals to him!That was a clue maybe? But I don't want to pick on that...!
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hahaha. Bulls are not that manly man to make a move. They just want to stare - which is very frustrating to some
other scorp.

Anyway, those bulls in experienced- they made a move because I ignored them all the time and no need for that
staring games.
Ignoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...
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hahaha. Bulls are not that manly man to make a move. They just want to stare - which is very frustrating to some
other scorp.

Anyway, those bulls in experienced- they made a move because I ignored them all the time and no need for that
staring games.
Ignoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...
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Yes I had 5 tauruses. 2 serious relationship that lasted 2 yrs and 3 challenger that only lasted months.

I even cannot relate why some bulls ignoring scorpios - I wasn't been ignored. I ignored them.

I received the many *i loved you's* from ex bulls.
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hahaha. Bulls are not that manly man to make a move. They just want to stare - which is very frustrating to some
other scorp.

Anyway, those bulls in experienced- they made a move because I ignored them all the time and no need for that
staring games.
Ignoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...



Yes I had 5 tauruses. 2 serious relationship that lasted 2 yrs and 3 challenger that only lasted months.

I even cannot relate why some bulls ignoring scorpios - I wasn't been ignored. I ignored them.

I received the many *i loved you's* from ex bulls.
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Lol!I really wish this bull just ignores me so that i can move on! He doesn't ignore me...he confuses me!I'd have thought he's not interested if he didn't take a promise from me to be with him for as long as possible n have his back!
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Ignoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...
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What do you mean by he'll read me— Will he know I want him to go away and leave me alone?

We had a really intense long look at each other today. And too many people saw! It's not right! He's a client. Some might even perceive that there is something going on. This is not right. He just doesn't care about appearances anymore. Everyone who's he's married. He just can't stare at me like that in front of everyone. And I look over and looked pathetic. I wanted to cry. This is not right. I don't want people thinking there's something going on.

This is exactly what I want...

#1 I want this whole gazing thing to stop. It's been 2 years, I can't do it anymore.

#2 I don't want a messy scene. Like when he lost his temper and started yelling at me in front of everyone.

#3 I don't want to hurt his feelings, because I like him.

#4 Tell me, if I can just tell him the truth. Can't I do it in a lighthearted way? And tell him... His wife is so lucky, I wish I met him before I got married.

The libra guy is so young, he's non-threatening. He makes a good separator. I'll never have to be alone with my poor Bull. _—. I'll miss him our quiet times. And his gentle conversation. Gosh, do I have to bring lunch for the 3 of us? I don't know if I can manage that all the time

Will that work?
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The Scorpio energy in you females will always have some type of pull effect on you towards us and vise versa you hear about it all the time. The bull and Scorpion were best friends/lovers when we were killed you sacrificed your lives for us the love and pain was that deep that's why we were put on the opposition of intensity for thousands of years we have shared this unknown bond that no other zodiac could ever experience or handle. you have to be a Taurus or scorpio to really know how it feels no other sign will ever understand what goes on in our world that we can create.
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The Scorpio energy in you females will always have some type of pull effect on you towards us and vise versa you hear about it all the time. The bull and Scorpion were best friends/lovers when we were killed you sacrificed your lives for us the love and pain was that deep that's why we were put on the opposition of intensity for thousands of years we have shared this unknown bond that no other zodiac could ever experience or handle. you have to be a Taurus or scorpio to really know how it feels no other sign will ever understand what goes on in our world that we can create.



That's great! That's the 1st explanation for this crazy attraction! Can you add a link?

So... Ur a male Bull. How can I get him to stop? The staring is getting too
inappropriate at work. I'm married, I can't have people thinking there's something going on between us. It's not decent. I don't think he's shy anymore. When someone asked him if he got what he wanted for his bday, he looked at me and he no. That's bad innuendo. He must have a aggressive chart. Who knows, maybe it's mid-life crisis.

I seriously think when he bought his car, he thinks he bought me too. Can you give me advice on how to chill him out.
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I don't like quick sex, just to relieve an urge.



Exactly, sex nurturing and full of energy leaves men and women satisfied for a week...and weeks, you are healthy, can yet work well in all aspects , you are less dense, less monkey...The other is only a false temporary that empty you not fill and becomes in addictive, a vicious circle, looking for what you lack and believe find but false time comfort. And about "pictures" there are millions of people who love and are excited only if imagine that they are in another situation , with another person / people (If mind is in sex, then sex is not there, it is something else, imagine, hypnotized). Can they remember when started this disease? I can imagine the answer, how do get it up there. See the amount of sterility, sexual system diseases, perversions, we have today in more and more young people?


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What do you mean by wars?Stare into eachother's eyes n see who holds it for long?How does that work exactly?



LOL, honestly, I don't really stare unless I REALLY like someone and then I can't help it. But the thing with her is that she really started all that. I felt she was out of my league and probably would not have tried to really establish direct eye contact with her. I would glance at her, but one day she perched on a desk near me, and just stared me in the face like a statue, boring into my eyes. I felt like she was looking into my brain...lol. It was so invasive. I literally ducked and hid, laughing about it a bit like "what IS this—". She did this often from then on. I started to like it, expect it, feel flattered by it, and return her stare. When I did that, she started to escalate...lol. I could not keep up with how sexual she made things and often I would tune out. I think this hurt/offended her possibly, but I also think she realized how shy I was.
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Posted by Teena


I doubt if it would get any easier... Lol...we both are single..but it's still not happening! It's still painful..it hurts! Talking to you people is kinda making me feel better..or is it just for now? *shrugs*
I don't understand why we won't just talk it out ..it'd be a lot less messier! But everything seems so wrong..timing n other odds! It's like universe is enjoying the game ! I want to take this into my hands n laugh at the universe!I should give a best shot at it..I know i can.. But i dunno what's stopping me..makes me wonder if my soul is enjoying the pain too..why can't i just let it go!



I have probably said all these exact words. I have seen it as the universe torturing me most of the time.
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Honestly, am I just gonna burn for this guy? Is this attraction going to go away? I'm trying so hard to ignore him cold. The pull is too hard. He asked me why I was so sad today. Like, I could say anything. He just gave me some of his treasured glazed Macadamia nuts from Hawaii to cheer me up. I'm miserable. I can't get "cold" towards him.







Its almost impossible to be physically in their space and not cave in eventually to the connection again. If I were you, I'd do everything I can to get out of that division at work. Your connection seems strong but not as strong as mine was, or others I have spoken to. Mine has lasted over 2 years now. I don't even see her any more but think about her every day. I'm sure other placements are involved too. My Scorp has Taurus Moon, Venus in Scorpio (which really intrigues me), and we have N. Node conj. S. Node. Anyway, most of the stuff your bull is doing is not really cute; its immature. I think the connection is just skewing your point of view. Any other guy that did this stuff would probably just annoy you. You have to think of it like that.
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Posted by JustEva


#4 Tell me, if I can just tell him the truth. Can't I do it in a lighthearted way? And tell him... His wife is so lucky, I wish I met him before I got married.


Will that work?



Probably not. Could get more dangerous. It will probably only confirm your attraction to him. This is exactly what I wanted to do. I wanted to tell her how I feel in this kind of "if only..." sort of way. But really, I think it would probably just open up further channels of communication. At the same time that I wanted to do this to get closure, part of me knew it would bring me closer to her in a way. The first step in this T/S connection is acceptance. Accept that your are fucked. lol.
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@Just Eva,

Ive been reading this post for that last few days. I am friends with an Aries Sun, Mars in Cancer, Venus in Taurus. Weve known each other for over 5 years and only recently within the last year he made a move. My threads about him are on the Sag board.

Long story short, I am a Moon in Scorpio and a Sag 3 degrees and i kid you not, everything you wrote. Ive done/thought/everything. Even the lil point about only wearing dresses and not cursing around him. When i saw that you wrote that. my heart skipped.

Now, My heart dropped after i read this.

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One day I saw him after swimming and I was a mess. I felt like I was going to have a nervous breakdown. I didn't plan to swim. My clothes didn't match, I was a dried out chlorine mess. I had zero make up on He ran after me and trapped me into a one hour conversation with a really sinister smile on his face the entire time. He would not stop smiling. Like he was enjoying me at my worst. I figured ok, you'll hate me, I'm not perfect and this will be over. Actually, I think that was the turning point. I thought you had to look perfect around a Taurus. He got more aggressive after that day.


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The day b4 the party, i was having a meeting with my bff and i told her that i was so intrigued by him and it wrecks my mind like daily. This is me not even knowing he liked me. I just always felt a "pull," and indescribable urge to bond with him.

The day he made a move, it was at a pool party. I myself had just gotten down swimming and i didnt think i looked bad but definitely not my best. whatever i looked like was his ideal apparently. After that day, he is exactly what you described; aggressive. I was sitting in the back of a truck watching the fireworks and he was the last person i would suspect to come over. Gurl, we watched the fireworks together, hand n hand. it was the most electrifying thing ever. Id never seen this side of him, damn sure not towards me. again, my thread is on the sag board. ive never been so bold with someone but i just kept feeling these urges.

since that day, things were never the same.

So thank you for sharing. Shit, I thought i WROTE this thread.
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bull,as i mentioned before, never stared at me anytime before we started talking...atleast I didn't catch him doing that!N i never started it like your Scorpio did!I still don't play any stare games!But later it went the way i mentioned in here >>


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Umm...I dunno! Maybe i can take the pain of not having that person rather than make a move!



Pretty much for me as well....Plus, its a matter of pride, like "What? My cow stare is not enough for you?"...hahahahha



Lol! Well...but what about the Scorpio pride? You know she's stared at by almost every man in the room !(I know that sounds very immodest...don't lash back..but that's how it is..)
I should agree though,that the bull's stare is something like I've never experienced before!But you obviously must be knowing that you're not the only one doing that!So how can that be enough?
In my case..this guy does know that many guys were trying to hit on me!His best friend was one among them!But what actually made me curious about this guy was, he not trying to hit on me(this is before i talked to him n the staring part started only after i befriended him..immediately after though )I wasn't nervous when he stared at me..I was puzzled!In the very beginning i thought he's just lost somewhere(not "actually" looking at me) Later I thought he's trying to tell something but wasn't comfortable enough to start! So I used to look back n smile thinking I'm making him comfortable!But the weirdest part is he never smiled back nor twitched nor looked away.. He just continued to stare!Also one catchy thing was he never stared into my eyes...No!It's not the eyes he's looking at! Does that make sense?
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I doubt if it would get any easier... Lol...we both are single..but it's still not happening! It's still painful..it hurts! Talking to you people is kinda making me feel
Maybe because he got his venus in Gemini.. But that's same as yours! Are you the flighty by any chance? Or been into playing games?
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I fell better with the advice too. I'm terrified. This feeling is too strong. I just want it to go away.

I only know that my Bull has a Venus in Aries and Mars in Cancer. I have been thinking about that lately, because he seems much more aggressive than the Bulls in here. He doesn't talk all that much. When he talks, it's always personal..his likes mainly. I would not be surprised if he had an Aries or Scorpio rising. For the 1st year, I thought he was a Cancer. He was so shy and crept up towards and away from me all the time. His rising is probably aggressive. We were all discussing Chinese zodiac signs yesterday. He is also a Tiger, probably the most aggressive Chinese zodiac sign there is.

He absolutely does not withdraw now, he looks like he's going to bite me. I want out of this. This is not going to be peaceful. The new libra guy IS a great separator. He is not threatening. Libras hate to be alone, and he has attached himself to me. He gets me to talk about my husband a lot, and he talks like he drinks Red Bull all day.
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Ignoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...



True...She would do this often. I'd just out-ignore her. We'd go for about 2 weeks, then we'd have a reunion...lol.
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I'm going to try to find a balance. I won't ignore him, I can't ignore him anyway. I'm not going to get caught lingering into his eyes. Yesterday was bad. Imagine two married people staring at each other, while 4 immature guys are looking at them just looking at each other. The guys didn't know what to do, but make comments and laugh. When I saw him today, I just looked at my husband's picture, every time I thought about looking over.
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I am full of Scorpio , today was up in the elevator with a customer I do not know and I felt in my skin "Taurus energy", it happens to me often on the street, I meet with a men and bang! on the skin!... i think this is a Taurus , clear .. I checked when I had a chance to see their documents (work) I'm right. From my active kundalini this (and more) is completely crazy to me, constant vibrations throughout my body, Taurus vibration have very well identified .
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@Just Eva,

Ive been reading this post for that last few days. I am friends with an Aries Sun, Mars in Cancer, Venus in Taurus. Weve known each other for over 5 years and only recently within the last year he made a move. My threads about him are on the Sag board.

Long story short, I am a Moon in Scorpio and a Sag 3 degrees and i kid you not, everything you wrote. Ive done/thought/everything. Even the lil point about only wearing dresses and not cursing around him. When i saw that you wrote that. my heart skipped.

Now, My heart dropped after i read this.

Posted by JustEva


The day b4 the party, i was having a meeting with my bff and i told her that i was so intrigued by him and it wrecks my mind like daily. This is me not even knowing he liked me. I just always felt a "pull," and indescribable urge to bond with him.

The day he made a move, it was at a pool party. I myself had just gotten down swimming and i didnt think i looked bad but definitely not my best. whatever i looked like was his ideal apparently. After that day, he is exactly what you described; aggressive. I was sitting in the back of a truck watching the fireworks and he was the last person i would suspect to come over. Gurl, we watched the fireworks together, hand n hand. it was the most electrifying thing ever. Id never seen this side of him, damn sure not towards me. again, my thread is on the sag board. ive never been so bold with someone but i just kept feeling these urges.

since that day, things were never the same.

So thank you for sharing. Shit, I thought i WROTE this thread.
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It sure does feel good, not to be alone in the world! Thank you too. If I were not married, I would probably set the stage to be with this guy. But, we are both married. I won't destroy everything. I don't think this is "true love." This is some sort of karmic attraction. It's a crazy experience. I have built a beautiful life with a kind and loving man and this guy's wife is mean as hell. I need this attraction to stop.