JustEva
@JustEva
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Posted by TeaMint
I hate common sex, makes me sick. I like the ritual around, the tub filled with scented oil , white sheets , candles , food and drink at hand , watches out , all out, just you and me.

Posted by Teena
I usually don't listen to the songs I love often because I don't want to be bored of them!N when i finally play it I enjoy listening to it..sinking everything in...
Posted by Teena
Also, contrary to what justeva said ,I won't make the first move with the chasing thing...like ever..! I sure will "create" opportunities n may give reasons for the guy to chase/court me! But me ain't ever making a pass!

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Teena
I usually don't listen to the songs I love often because I don't want to be bored of them!N when i finally play it I enjoy listening to it..sinking everything in...
Same! LOL, me and my Libra best friend talk about this all the time. We exchange music ALL DAY long....And we will be like "Yo man...this is a good one. Don't overplay it. Use it wisely...." LOL!
I have to be honest; I feel this way about relationships too. Of course there will be that infatuation where you want to be around each other all the time, but I also like to not see the person I love for like a week, and then hang with them. Everything is so much more intense; you can't keep your hands off of each other. I just feel so much more.
It was actually my Scorpio dad who told me that the perfect relationship would be where you would see the person only on the weekends. You get all your crap done, then you can focus on them entirely on your time off, you have a ton to talk about, you don't get bored of each other or on each other's nerves. Its probably more ideal than practical but the thought of it always appealed to me.click to expand

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Teena
Also, contrary to what justeva said ,I won't make the first move with the chasing thing...like ever..! I sure will "create" opportunities n may give reasons for the guy to chase/court me! But me ain't ever making a pass!
Same for me really. I don't make moves or chase. I don't even create opportunities. I just stare at you like a cow. lololol....click to expand

Posted by JustEva
But, scorpios need to be chased. If no one makes a move. How can a relationship happen? I'm sorry, but scorpios drown themselves in their partners, they like to be one with them. Absence is overrated. I don't see how you can get to know someone unless you've weaved into their life.
Oh no, the sensual description is totally my husband. Thanks, it's nice to know that stuff is really important to him. I thought he was doing it for me.
Posted by JustEva
But, scorpios need to be chased. If no one makes a move. How can a relationship happen?
Posted by Teena
Umm...I dunno! Maybe i can take the pain of not having that person rather than make a move!
Posted by Teena
Lol!!! I "felt" the bull's stare...like literally! I only heard of people talking about a scorpio's stare...but i say someone should really experience a Taurus's stare!It's piercing..lol..i can't explain it!

Posted by JustEva
But, scorpios need to be chased. If no one makes a move. How can a relationship happen? I'm sorry, but scorpios drown themselves in their partners, they like to be one with them. Absence is overrated. I don't see how you can get to know someone unless you've weaved into their life.


Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Teena
Lol!!! I "felt" the bull's stare...like literally! I only heard of people talking about a scorpio's stare...but i say someone should really experience a Taurus's stare!It's piercing..lol..i can't explain it!
Its the only move I have. It conveys a lot though. All these things she is saying he conveyed in his stares, even the pathetic stuff...lol, I did the same. Its easy with Scorps, bc they are a good read. My Scorp had a STARE though....It was more powerful than mine, for sure. Terrifying really....lol. It was like Medusa. I could barely move under her gaze; very intimidating. We would have wars and she'd usually win. I beat her a couple times; that was great. I remember we had a long staring contest one day, and I told myself I am not budging, I don't care how long this goes. I think I was sweating by the end of it. She caved, then she looks down at the ground, looks back up and gives me the sweetest smile. The smile was indescribable. She never smiled like that - only very serious, or the sexy smirk. This was like a sweet/kind smile that showed her innocent/vulnerable side, and literally made me want to cry. I know that sounds crazy.....lol. I felt like she gave me a little prize for winning the stare down....lol.click to expand


Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Teena
Umm...I dunno! Maybe i can take the pain of not having that person rather than make a move!
Pretty much for me as well....Plus, its a matter of pride, like "What? My cow stare is not enough for you?"...hahahahhaclick to expand

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Teena
Lol!!! I "felt" the bull's stare...like literally! I only heard of people talking about a scorpio's stare...but i say someone should really experience a Taurus's stare!It's piercing..lol..i can't explain it!
Its the only move I have. It conveys a lot though. All these things she is saying he conveyed in his stares, even the pathetic stuff...lol, I did the same. Its easy with Scorps, bc they are a good read. My Scorp had a STARE though....It was more powerful than mine, for sure. Terrifying really....lol. It was like Medusa. I could barely move under her gaze; very intimidating. We would have wars and she'd usually win. I beat her a couple times; that was great. I remember we had a long staring contest one day, and I told myself I am not budging, I don't care how long this goes. I think I was sweating by the end of it. She caved, then she looks down at the ground, looks back up and gives me the sweetest smile. The smile was indescribable. She never smiled like that - only very serious, or the sexy smirk. This was like a sweet/kind smile that showed her innocent/vulnerable side, and literally made me want to cry. I know that sounds crazy.....lol. I felt like she gave me a little prize for winning the stare down....lol.click to expand

Posted by LentoBull91
The famous Taurus stares that's our only move to show we want you the come hither look people need to remember we taureans are the essence of earth and Venus we attract towards us we don't chase we love to pull you towards us with out having to put in a lot of work with no cash prize at the end. And it doesn't matter that were guys and are "suppose" to chase women times have changed it's ok for women to chase in my oppinion I love me a women who knows what she wants and will stick by until she gets it. It's one of the traits I find the most appealing in Scorpio women they will get what they want one way or an other a very powerful force to whitness. If women would chase us taureans more often then you would see/hear more taureans being tied down trust me. Come to us be genuine and feminine and Your well on your way to our hearts. Oh but please don't chase the lower class manipulative Tauri I've come across them and they will use you.



Posted by M143Ignoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...
hahaha. Bulls are not that manly man to make a move. They just want to stare - which is very frustrating to some
other scorp.
Anyway, those bulls in experienced- they made a move because I ignored them all the time and no need for that
staring games.


Posted by TeenaPosted by M143Ignoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...
hahaha. Bulls are not that manly man to make a move. They just want to stare - which is very frustrating to some
other scorp.
Anyway, those bulls in experienced- they made a move because I ignored them all the time and no need for that
staring games.
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Posted by M143Posted by TeenaPosted by M143Ignoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...
hahaha. Bulls are not that manly man to make a move. They just want to stare - which is very frustrating to some
other scorp.
Anyway, those bulls in experienced- they made a move because I ignored them all the time and no need for that
staring games.
Yes I had 5 tauruses. 2 serious relationship that lasted 2 yrs and 3 challenger that only lasted months.
I even cannot relate why some bulls ignoring scorpios - I wasn't been ignored. I ignored them.
I received the many *i loved you's* from ex bulls.click to expand
Posted by M143Posted by TeenaPosted by M143Ignoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...
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What do you mean by he'll read me— Will he know I want him to go away and leave me alone?
We had a really intense long look at each other today. And too many people saw! It's not right! He's a client. Some might even perceive that there is something going on. This is not right. He just doesn't care about appearances anymore. Everyone who's he's married. He just can't stare at me like that in front of everyone. And I look over and looked pathetic. I wanted to cry. This is not right. I don't want people thinking there's something going on.
This is exactly what I want...
#1 I want this whole gazing thing to stop. It's been 2 years, I can't do it anymore.
#2 I don't want a messy scene. Like when he lost his temper and started yelling at me in front of everyone.
#3 I don't want to hurt his feelings, because I like him.
#4 Tell me, if I can just tell him the truth. Can't I do it in a lighthearted way? And tell him... His wife is so lucky, I wish I met him before I got married.
The libra guy is so young, he's non-threatening. He makes a good separator. I'll never have to be alone with my poor Bull. _—. I'll miss him our quiet times. And his gentle conversation. Gosh, do I have to bring lunch for the 3 of us? I don't know if I can manage that all the time
Will that work?

Posted by LentoBull91
The Scorpio energy in you females will always have some type of pull effect on you towards us and vise versa you hear about it all the time. The bull and Scorpion were best friends/lovers when we were killed you sacrificed your lives for us the love and pain was that deep that's why we were put on the opposition of intensity for thousands of years we have shared this unknown bond that no other zodiac could ever experience or handle. you have to be a Taurus or scorpio to really know how it feels no other sign will ever understand what goes on in our world that we can create.


I don't like quick sex, just to relieve an urge.


Posted by TeenaIgnoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...
Posted by Teena
What do you mean by wars?Stare into eachother's eyes n see who holds it for long?How does that work exactly?
Posted by Teena
I doubt if it would get any easier... Lol...we both are single..but it's still not happening! It's still painful..it hurts! Talking to you people is kinda making me feel better..or is it just for now? *shrugs*
I don't understand why we won't just talk it out ..it'd be a lot less messier! But everything seems so wrong..timing n other odds! It's like universe is enjoying the game ! I want to take this into my hands n laugh at the universe!I should give a best shot at it..I know i can.. But i dunno what's stopping me..makes me wonder if my soul is enjoying the pain too..why can't i just let it go!
Posted by JustEva
Honestly, am I just gonna burn for this guy? Is this attraction going to go away? I'm trying so hard to ignore him cold. The pull is too hard. He asked me why I was so sad today. Like, I could say anything. He just gave me some of his treasured glazed Macadamia nuts from Hawaii to cheer me up. I'm miserable. I can't get "cold" towards him.
Posted by JustEva
#4 Tell me, if I can just tell him the truth. Can't I do it in a lighthearted way? And tell him... His wife is so lucky, I wish I met him before I got married.
Will that work?

Posted by JustEva
One day I saw him after swimming and I was a mess. I felt like I was going to have a nervous breakdown. I didn't plan to swim. My clothes didn't match, I was a dried out chlorine mess. I had zero make up on He ran after me and trapped me into a one hour conversation with a really sinister smile on his face the entire time. He would not stop smiling. Like he was enjoying me at my worst. I figured ok, you'll hate me, I'm not perfect and this will be over. Actually, I think that was the turning point. I thought you had to look perfect around a Taurus. He got more aggressive after that day.

bull,as i mentioned before, never stared at me anytime before we started talking...atleast I didn't catch him doing that!N i never started it like your Scorpio did!I still don't play any stare games!But later it went the way i mentioned in here >>
Posted by TeenaPosted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Teena
Umm...I dunno! Maybe i can take the pain of not having that person rather than make a move!
Pretty much for me as well....Plus, its a matter of pride, like "What? My cow stare is not enough for you?"...hahahahha
Lol! Well...but what about the Scorpio pride? You know she's stared at by almost every man in the room !(I know that sounds very immodest...don't lash back..but that's how it is..)
I should agree though,that the bull's stare is something like I've never experienced before!But you obviously must be knowing that you're not the only one doing that!So how can that be enough?
In my case..this guy does know that many guys were trying to hit on me!His best friend was one among them!But what actually made me curious about this guy was, he not trying to hit on me(this is before i talked to him n the staring part started only after i befriended him..immediately after though )I wasn't nervous when he stared at me..I was puzzled!In the very beginning i thought he's just lost somewhere(not "actually" looking at me) Later I thought he's trying to tell something but wasn't comfortable enough to start! So I used to look back n smile thinking I'm making him comfortable!But the weirdest part is he never smiled back nor twitched nor looked away.. He just continued to stare!Also one catchy thing was he never stared into my eyes...No!It's not the eyes he's looking at! Does that make sense?click to expand
Posted by TeenaPosted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Teena
I doubt if it would get any easier... Lol...we both are single..but it's still not happening! It's still painful..it hurts! Talking to you people is kinda making me feel
Maybe because he got his venus in Gemini.. But that's same as yours! Are you the flighty by any chance? Or been into playing games?click to expand
I fell better with the advice too. I'm terrified. This feeling is too strong. I just want it to go away.
I only know that my Bull has a Venus in Aries and Mars in Cancer. I have been thinking about that lately, because he seems much more aggressive than the Bulls in here. He doesn't talk all that much. When he talks, it's always personal..his likes mainly. I would not be surprised if he had an Aries or Scorpio rising. For the 1st year, I thought he was a Cancer. He was so shy and crept up towards and away from me all the time. His rising is probably aggressive. We were all discussing Chinese zodiac signs yesterday. He is also a Tiger, probably the most aggressive Chinese zodiac sign there is.
He absolutely does not withdraw now, he looks like he's going to bite me. I want out of this. This is not going to be peaceful. The new libra guy IS a great separator. He is not threatening. Libras hate to be alone, and he has attached himself to me. He gets me to talk about my husband a lot, and he talks like he drinks Red Bull all day.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by TeenaIgnoring or playing games might get many guys' attention though I doubt if you'd get bulls attention, if that's what you're looking for...!They read you...

Posted by DMV
@Just Eva,
Ive been reading this post for that last few days. I am friends with an Aries Sun, Mars in Cancer, Venus in Taurus. Weve known each other for over 5 years and only recently within the last year he made a move. My threads about him are on the Sag board.
Long story short, I am a Moon in Scorpio and a Sag 3 degrees and i kid you not, everything you wrote. Ive done/thought/everything. Even the lil point about only wearing dresses and not cursing around him. When i saw that you wrote that. my heart skipped.
Now, My heart dropped after i read this.
Posted by JustEva
The day b4 the party, i was having a meeting with my bff and i told her that i was so intrigued by him and it wrecks my mind like daily. This is me not even knowing he liked me. I just always felt a "pull," and indescribable urge to bond with him.
The day he made a move, it was at a pool party. I myself had just gotten down swimming and i didnt think i looked bad but definitely not my best. whatever i looked like was his ideal apparently. After that day, he is exactly what you described; aggressive. I was sitting in the back of a truck watching the fireworks and he was the last person i would suspect to come over. Gurl, we watched the fireworks together, hand n hand. it was the most electrifying thing ever. Id never seen this side of him, damn sure not towards me. again, my thread is on the sag board. ive never been so bold with someone but i just kept feeling these urges.
since that day, things were never the same.
So thank you for sharing. Shit, I thought i WROTE this thread.click to expand
It sure does feel good, not to be alone in the world! Thank you too. If I were not married, I would probably set the stage to be with this guy. But, we are both married. I won't destroy everything. I don't think this is "true love." This is some sort of karmic attraction. It's a crazy experience. I have built a beautiful life with a kind and loving man and this guy's wife is mean as hell. I need this attraction to stop.


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I'm so trying so hard to understand Teamint. Boy, astrologers sure understate the innate difference of the opposite. T & S are so similar, so attracted to each other, but the differences are what do them in. I was raised a Catholic girl in a strict family. All that did was bound me to my BFs for years. I have not been single since I was 13, and the longest time I've spent single is 2 days. Maybe, it's all the libra in me.
My 1st BF and a few after were Taurians. They were very decent and were into traditional roles like me. I'm beginning to think that Taurus men should do what my 1st BF did...Find a young scorp girl and just mold her. It might last if he can keep from pissing her off. Funny, I've only had the powerful attraction we talk about with this "one" guy. Although our exclusivity started the 1st day we met and the other ones seemed like "ideal" men, I wasn't drawn to them.
Here's the truth. Porn...At an early age, I looked at porn like a manual. Seriously, I don't look at it as sick (well depends, I have limits). I can watch it with no emotion. Really, it's all about technique and about making a mental note about what kind of fantasies are out there. Ok, I like it. Still, I think a lot can be learned from it. During their divorce, my girlfriend threw out that she "caught" her husband watching it and claimed he was cheating on her. I bought porn online for my husband's brother, so he would have something to watch while he house sat for us. I view it as natural. When I've entered relationships I ask them directly to show me the mags and porn they watch. It's like me showing them what kind of purses I like.
I love all the things you mentioned too...lux baths, candles etc. In fact, my husband needs the romance turn on to get him started. But, I guess it's our view on sex that is different?
Taurian men are suppose to have huge libidos, how can that be true if sex isn't so important?
TY for explaining the sexual & sensual. Is the biggest problem between these signs that both are seductive and sexy, but they view sex entirely different?