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Posted by TeaMint
Eva, this problem as T & S says, can not stop. You can physically move away but he has in your head every day, and if you have telepathic connection , etc, as many of these connections happens, then one day he will come into your mind, other you enter into him, etc, etc. You will not have a day "off".
This happens to me with two taurus men, not one , two! for years!
Yeah, pretty much exactly this...lol.
Posted by Teena
Lol! And maybe that's what runs through every S or T going through this?
But what do you think? Is the pull usually on both the sides? Or is there any chance of one of the parties being indifferent? This bull also seems flighty kinda.. Maybe because he got his venus in Gemini.. But that's same as yours! Are you the flighty by any chance? Or been into playing games?
Depends on the person, and if they are playing games with me. She was testing me, teasing, etc., so I definitely responded in kind. I wouldn't say I'm flighty. I am easily bored, not of this connection though. With this, it has just been impossible to eliminate.
Posted by Teena
@TLS : This bull,as i mentioned before, never stared at me anytime before we started talking...atleast I didn't catch him doing that!N i never started it like your Scorpio did!I still don't play any stare games!But later it went the way i mentioned in here >>
Posted by TeenaPosted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Teena
Umm...I dunno! Maybe i can take the pain of not having that person rather than make a move!
Pretty much for me as well....Plus, its a matter of pride, like "What? My cow stare is not enough for you?"...hahahahha
Lol! Well...but what about the Scorpio pride? You know she's stared at by almost every man in the room !(I know that sounds very immodest...don't lash back..but that's how it is..)
I should agree though,that the bull's stare is something like I've never experienced before!But you obviously must be knowing that you're not the only one doing that!So how can that be enough?
In my case..this guy does know that many guys were trying to hit on me!His best friend was one among them!But what actually made me curious about this guy was, he not trying to hit on me(this is before i talked to him n the staring part started only after i befriended him..immediately after though )Iclick to expand
I stared right in her eyes but then wasn't able to after a while. It was too much. Anyway, yes, every man always checked her out, but she completely ignored them and focused on me, even while *talking* to them, which I thought was amazing...lol. So I just knew....In fact, I know no one has ever been attracted to me as much as she was. Its not really about what I'm doing, and whether or not I'm the only one doing it; its about what both people feel. Its something different. Its why we see all these threads. Its why I've had 100's of Scorp women pm me, saying the same exact stuff....Its real. There needs to be a 12-step program for this....
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Teena
@TLS : This bull,as i mentioned before, never stared at me anytime before we started talking...atleast I didn't catch him doing that!N i never started it like your Scorpio did!I still don't play any stare games!But later it went the way i mentioned in here >>
Posted by TeenaPosted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Teena
Umm...I dunno! Maybe i can take the pain of not having that person rather than make a move!
Pretty much for me as well....Plus, its a matter of pride, like "What? My cow stare is not enough for you?"...hahahahha
Lol! Well...but what about the Scorpio pride? You know she's stared at by almost every man in the room !(I know that sounds very immodest...don't lash back..but that's how it is..)
I should agree though,that the bull's stare is something like I've never experienced before!But you obviously must be knowing that you're not the only one doing that!So how can that be enough?
In my case..this guy does know that many guys were trying to hit on me!His best friend was one among them!But what actually made me curious about this guy was, he not trying to hit on me(this is before i talked to him n the staring part started only after i befriended him..immediately after though )I
I stared right in her eyes but then wasn't able to after a while. It was too much. Anyway, yes, every man always checked her out, but she completely ignored them and focused on me, even while *talking* to them, which I thought was amazing...lol. So I just knew....In fact, I know no one has ever been attracted to me as much as she was. Its not really about what I'm doing, and whether or not I'm the only one doing it; its about what both people feel. Its something different. Its why we see all these threads. Its why I've had 100's of Scorp women pm me, saying the same exact stuff....Its real. There needs to be a 12-step program for this....click to expand
This bull gets lot of female attention!Not that anyone approaches him though..I think it's because girls think he's out o
@TLS : did you just say she got her moon in Taurus? Wow...I got my moon in Taurus too! Maybe it's the Taurus moon which stopped her from taking any charge or initiating any talk or chasing you? I wouldn't be that stubborn.. My Gemini rising is strong in me! I can relate a lot of my traits to Geminis!
every man always checked her out, but she completely ignored them and focused on me, even while *talking* to them, which I thought was amazing...lol.
Follow you talking about me, I like it. Lol!
This just a little bit of "scorpio magic", if you are "inside" we will tell so subtle ways...
https://brunettebuffy.wordpress.com/theres-something-about-scorpios/
"She knows lots more. Another girl might rush headlong into your arms and shout her love from the rooftops. The Scorpio girl walks toward you slowly, seductively, and silently delivers her private message..
...Whisper something romantic that would melt another girl out of her senses, and the Scorpio girl will simply give you an intense, penetrating look that will see right straight through to your real intentions."
This is so true...
"She knows lots more. Another girl might rush headlong into your arms and shout her love from the rooftops. The Scorpio girl walks toward you slowly, seductively, and silently delivers her private message..
...Whisper something romantic that would melt another girl out of her senses, and the Scorpio girl will simply give you an intense, penetrating look that will see right straight through to your real intentions."
This is so true...
Posted by aurora
i had a situation with another taurus guy at work as well. we were both taken but the difference is that i didn't like him that way. i only felt a certain awkwardness with him but i wasn't sure why. he made a move after 3 years, 2 weeks after i broke up with another taurus. i told him what was going so he immediately broke up with his girlfriend. i didn't know that, i found out later. he was also very full of himself and he was convinced that i feel the same way.
so years are nothing to a taurus. he is maybe waiting for the perfect moment, maybe he waits for you to do something about your marriage - to end it. and in the mean time he is kinda "helping" you to decide. idk really, but i think taurus men are not really into making the first move, unless they are totally sure they won't be rejected.
3 years and 2 weeks? That's not slow...that's time warp. I don't leave men for another men. I wait until I can't stand the relationship. This is my 1st marriage, I know that he competes against my husband when he's around. This Bull has nice full puffy lips and when he doesn't like a guy around, he always clenches his lips and his eyes look more piercing. His stance also becomes aggressive. My husband isn't the jealous type, but he is a very self-assured and clever Piceses. For some reason, men give me flowers. A few times, I would let them die in our car. One time, my husband put it in a vase and told me that I should still appreciate the flowers. If he catches men looking at me, he'll nod and smile at them. It's clear, my husband's attitude pisses the Bull off. He has his limits, but he's proud of it. I am jealous and possessive.
Posted by LentoBull91
*friend and I would hate to be the reason why their 6 year relationship ends I believe in karma plus my mind will win over what my heart wants every time.
@LentoBull
Really? Are you saying that you wouldn't, even if your Scorpio made the 1st move? I'm positive, she would make you keep it a secret. You would over rule your heart? I am wondering if this is a heart thing, or if it's just a strange attraction. If I truly thought, I was in love, I would leave my husband for it. I would not be here writing posts. I'd be with that guy.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by JustEva
Honestly, am I just gonna burn for this guy? Is this attraction going to go away? I'm trying so hard to ignore him cold. The pull is too hard. He asked me why I was so sad today. Like, I could say anything. He just gave me some of his treasured glazed Macadamia nuts from Hawaii to cheer me up. I'm miserable. I can't get "cold" towards him.
Its almost impossible to be physically in their space and not cave in eventually to the connection again. If I were you, I'd do everything I can to get out of that division at work. Your connection seems strong but not as strong as mine was, or others I have spoken to. Mine has lasted over 2 years now. I don't even see her any more but think about her every day. I'm sure other placements are involved too. My Scorp has Taurus Moon, Venus in Scorpio (which really intrigues me), and we have N. Node conj. S. Node. Anyway, most of the stuff your bull is doing is not really cute; its immature. I think the connection is just skewing your point of view. Any other guy that did this stuff would probably just annoy you. You have to think of it like that.click to expand
I can't leave my work division. I'm the lead. I spent years working my butt off to get where I am. Besides, I caved in at the end of the day anyway. I ran away from him all day, and he managed to hold me hostage at the kitchen sink. He always washes my containers, and he forced his way into washing them. Maybe he just thinks I got mad that we ran out of food yesterday.
I should tell him that it's cute we are attracted to each other, but we are both married and everyone notices. I am, hmmm, aggressive at work. We looked at each other with a lot of "longing" yesterday. That is why I am having trouble coping now, it's not because we don't have a strong connection. I'm just trying to figure out why I am feeling this way with this guy. He didn't have to go through any hoops, and I am disgusted when married men hit on me. I don't know why I think I want to be with him. I just it will be safe, there's no opportunity for us to be alone with each other.
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I doubt if it would get any easier... Lol...we both are single..but it's still not happening! It's still painful..it hurts! Talking to you people is kinda making me feel better..or is it just for now? *shrugs*
I don't understand why we won't just talk it out ..it'd be a lot less messier! But everything seems so wrong..timing n other odds! It's like universe is enjoying the game ! I want to take this into my hands n laugh at the universe!I should give a best shot at it..I know i can.. But i dunno what's stopping me..makes me wonder if my soul is enjoying the pain too..why can't i just let it go! I know I'm better than this!
@Teena.
I am willing to talk it out with him. He keeps asking me out to lunch, or to go for a joyride in his car. It's confrontation the best thing? If he's really a Taurus, I'am not in danger of him making the 1st move anyway. The only thing that worries me is that, I have had Taurus BFs would were aggressive. From the posts here, they were really aggressive. Infect, it was caveman aggressive. I never thought that Taurus were passive sign until I met this one.
I doubt if it would get any easier... Lol...we both are single..but it's still not happening! It's still painful..it hurts! Talking to you people is kinda making me feel better..or is it just for now? *shrugs*
I don't understand why we won't just talk it out ..it'd be a lot less messier! But everything seems so wrong..timing n other odds! It's like universe is enjoying the game ! I want to take this into my hands n laugh at the universe!I should give a best shot at it..I know i can.. But i dunno what's stopping me..makes me wonder if my soul is enjoying the pain too..why can't i just let it go! I know I'm better than this!
@Teena.
I am willing to talk it out with him. He keeps asking me out to lunch, or to go for a joyride in his car. It's confrontation the best thing? If he's really a Taurus, I'am not in danger of him making the 1st move anyway. The only thing that worries me is that, I have had Taurus BFs would were aggressive. From the posts here, they were really aggressive. Infect, it was caveman aggressive. I never thought that Taurus were passive sign until I met this one.
gosh, what happen to dxp. my msg aren't posted properly.
Eva, I know you are strong. You are evolved Scorpio based on my observations.
Scorpio can't take the *shame lightly*. We conquer the world. We are not the slave of such emotions.
Emotions will decide to a wrong path. I am sure you already figured that out. The price is too high for you to
pay - family. shame. Don't wake up one and defeated in life.take care of your heart - heart is full of deception.
Eva, I know you are strong. You are evolved Scorpio based on my observations.
Scorpio can't take the *shame lightly*. We conquer the world. We are not the slave of such emotions.
Emotions will decide to a wrong path. I am sure you already figured that out. The price is too high for you to
pay - family. shame. Don't wake up one and defeated in life.take care of your heart - heart is full of deception.
For my part, although I can understand and empathize with the struggle, I can never really respect or trust a woman who cheated on her husband to be with me. Its weak. And I don't say that because I despise weakness in general like Scorps apparently do....but because it shows your love is weak, and your loyalty really can't abide the peaks and valleys of emotions, the more intense of the random exchanges of energy we all experience with others, etc. ....
@JustEva, I'm sorry.. But i don't think you should talk! You're only going to make things worser!I understand you like him n you don't want to hurt him..but you definitely wouldn't want to hurt yourself further right??You're just giving him a ticket!I dunno if you're conscious about it!Don't give in to the universe's game!If i made a move with my bull,it definitely wouldn't affect my life the way it would affect yours!I still decided to lay back!You've all your life set!I think we're evolved enough to understand where things would take us!Just let him stare..he maybe that aggressive type..but he'd be powerless without your attention! He behaves like he owns you.. But somewhere i feel it's because you gave him that power!Ignore him..please do!Don't involve in the stare games anymore!Just keep yourself busy at work n socialize with other people !That'd help if at all people were weirded out with your stare games too!Try showing he's not different from the rest!You don't want people talking about you right?You'll mess up your work life n just confirm people's thoughts about you both!N your husband.. You may physically not cheat him..but it'll definitely affect your marriage life.I'm not asking you to follow my advice... But it's my take on this..!I know it's easier said than done!I maybe young..but i don't think this is different for any of us(which is apparent) It comes down to your perception finally..I maybe totally wrong!You definitely know yourself,him n your situation better than me..But please do a little soul-searching before anything..
I never saw another man as "a man" when I was engaged in my relationship, this was something that surprised me a lot! If I saw would have made —??informed him, I think I could not go looking in their eyes and consider me worthy with this. Plus, we promised us this, always the truth , whatever it is. Even now, we are not in the same commitment but he knows there are another men. This is why we are always best friends, respect, "clean place".
Actually, you are already cheating your partners, if only consider deceit materialize something that is already a fact, in your minds and hearts. I do not want to offend anyone here, but you have a curious notion that loyalty and deception is. I get dizzy.
Actually, you are already cheating your partners, if only consider deceit materialize something that is already a fact, in your minds and hearts. I do not want to offend anyone here, but you have a curious notion that loyalty and deception is. I get dizzy.
Truth always, is one of my "insurmountable limits" if I 'm in love. You never talked with their partners about this possibility? Then, what speak with those who share your lives? That ceiling lamps need a little cleaning?
I know I have a lot Scorpio...but this is so basic and elemental in my values life, for more I see these situations never cease to amaze, chills run through my body.
I know I have a lot Scorpio...but this is so basic and elemental in my values life, for more I see these situations never cease to amaze, chills run through my body.
Posted by TeaMint
Even now, we are not in the same commitment but he knows there are another men. This is why we are always best friends, respect, "clean place".Actually, you are already cheating your partners, if only consider deceit materialize something that is already a fact, in your minds and hearts. I do not want to offend anyone here, but you have a curious notion that loyalty and deception is. I get dizzy.
I hate to constantly blame it on the stars. I'm a Scorpio with almost every aspect in Libra. Almost no fire.I've been told that my major aspects are trine.I don't consider my fascination with this Bull cheating & it doesn't affect my relationship with my husband. Libra-venus forces a person to balance/intellectualize everything, but they are indecisive and are excessively habitual. This attraction has thrown me off. I have had back to back BF's since I was 13, then married. The thought of sharing my body with 2 men repulses me. However, I always "try" to take a nonjudgemental look at things..I'll look at 3 people having sex and think "Oh that could feel really good," but I couldn't do it. A strong Libra aspect is extremely partnership driven. My husband doesn't like left overs or the same food twice in a row. I give our leftovers away at the office. When I shop for food, every choice I make is about him. My husband is extremely visual and I can't pick out the latest styles without his help. My sense always goes for classic. I wear shifts, a-line skirts basically. I survive that way. Four mos ago, my husband took me to the MAC counter. I admit, the style looks good, but it has taken me a while to get use to it. When the mea-over was done..I yelled, "You want me to look like a Goo Goo Doll Really?" I do the lashes and bare lipstick thing, but I am still getting use to it. When men look at me, my husband catches their eye and nods. He takes care of me and I take care of him. I married my only BF who did not have jealous temper, pick fights or yell. Still this Taurus guy is on my mind.
I just read this whole thing.
As someone who had my own share on the connection... OH MAN.. this TAur/Scorp connection is something you'd wish has never happened to you. At the same time, what an excitement, overflowing emotions, it makes you wanna cry. Like literally sit down and cry ur eyes out and scream from the bottom of ur lungs to the universe to make it stop. It feels like someone is trying to rip ur heart out so badly, and ur trying so hard to keep your heart in place. You are now pretty much fucked. You will never ever forget him/her. You will sit down and daydream about those long stares. Its like you look into eachothers eyes but ur actually looking through and what uve seen there, is what u cant let go of.
Now if you know about it And choose to stay, then take this pleasure and take it with the pain..
As someone who had my own share on the connection... OH MAN.. this TAur/Scorp connection is something you'd wish has never happened to you. At the same time, what an excitement, overflowing emotions, it makes you wanna cry. Like literally sit down and cry ur eyes out and scream from the bottom of ur lungs to the universe to make it stop. It feels like someone is trying to rip ur heart out so badly, and ur trying so hard to keep your heart in place. You are now pretty much fucked. You will never ever forget him/her. You will sit down and daydream about those long stares. Its like you look into eachothers eyes but ur actually looking through and what uve seen there, is what u cant let go of.
Now if you know about it And choose to stay, then take this pleasure and take it with the pain..
this TAur/Scorp connection is something you'd wish has never happened to you.
Why? No!!! I'm happy to have it, the experience is fantastic and that "silly thing" that is like around you , as bothering you , come, go, ugh , agh , always there , you say "hey, I'll have to live with you until 100 years old?" This thing is not so difficult to treat.
You catch it and approaching to your heart (not your mind , because you feel in the heart ).
You see it's just a stupid thing that is away from you and you to it , as crystallized to you in an ugly way bothering (then already, something similar).
You have to look what is behind of, ask , "hey, why you stay so ugly , bugging , stupid thing" and feel it around as a consciousness, as it is orbiting you like the rings of Saturn.
Then, when you have there, finally, capsize and spill your heart over it. You will see that it was not ugly, just was asking for your help.
So this thing is changing and only experience to enjoy.
It is not easy for me to explain but it works.
Remember you are an alchemist, a magician.
Posted by seezythescorpion
I just read this whole thing.
As someone who had my own share on the connection... OH MAN.. this TAur/Scorp connection is something you'd wish has never happened to you. At the same time, what an excitement, overflowing emotions, it makes you wanna cry. Like literally sit down and cry ur eyes out and scream from the bottom of ur lungs to the universe to make it stop. It feels like someone is trying to rip ur heart out so badly, and ur trying so hard to keep your heart in place. You are now pretty much fucked. You will never ever forget him/her. You will sit down and daydream about those long stares. Its like you look into eachothers eyes but ur actually looking through and what uve seen there, is what u cant let go of.
Now if you know about it And choose to stay, then take this pleasure and take it with the pain..
This is exactly how I feel about it. It is such extreme bad and extreme good, I guess exactly what u would expect with opposites. The hard thing is that if you are in a relationship you are trying to preserve, it is like an acid that corrodes. You really have to fight extremely hard. It isnt really fair to your partner....
Posted by TeaMintthis TAur/Scorp connection is something you'd wish has never happened to you.
Why? No!!! I'm happy to have it, the experience is fantastic and that "silly thing" that is like around you , as bothering you , come, go, ugh , agh , always there , you say "hey, I'll have to live with you until 100 years old?" This thing is not so difficult to treat.
You catch it and approaching to your heart (not your mind , because you feel in the heart ).
You see it's just a stupid thing that is away from you and you to it , as crystallized to you in an ugly way bothering (then already, something similar).
You have to look what is behind of, ask , "hey, why you stay so ugly , bugging , stupid thing" and feel it around as a consciousness, as it is orbiting you like the rings of Saturn.
Then, when you have there, finally, capsize and spill your heart over it. You will see that it was not ugly, just was asking for your help.
So this thing is changing and only experience to enjoy.
It is not easy for me to explain but it works.
Remember you are an alchemist, a magician.click to expand
In my experience, it gives u heaven and hell all at the same time.
Sometimes im there sitting with the most silly smile (you could ever imagine) on my face only by remembering just a simple look he gave me, gives me chills.
Next minute there i am wishing i had never met him. Questioning why on earth i had to&still go through this mess.. for how much longer is it going to test my strength?
And you think i didnt try? I thought all the same as u have written above. So I chose to run from it phsically with all i have BUT eventhough i wont talk to or see him for weeks and months, he is right inside my head stuck in my mind all day every day.
I would like to add in there that i am actually good at controlling my thoughts&emotions. My mind will always rule my heart when i sense something isnt healthy and it wins most of the time. With this one... my heart says to my brain, "listen buddy, if you won't allow me, you are no longer alive cuz i will stop beating".
Thats how fucked up it can get. when its felt truly and strongly, It messes u up big time before you know what hit you.
And you cant really explain why you come across as an emotional dumbass with no logic (you see). Its just beyond you.
So dumb*** is replaced with donkey on dxp. Thats amazing. LoL
My mind will always rule my heart
I do not think so. "Thought" is much lower thing, when you are thirsty you have it before you think that you ared thirsty, before taking the glass of water on your hand (which in this case would be the "thought"), but thirst was there a few seconds before, and it was not a "thought".
This means, there is something before "thought" and appears/pops into your mind when you "write a story about".
With that "story mind" it is I work with but not from the mind, because there is no way out from mind, from something more elemental. Could tell "from the consciousness of thirst", is not exact, only for you understand. From something higher put your mind up about that. Mind can only rationalize, anything stupid it is, nothing more.
Moreover, if the mind rules the heart, would not be here in this thread.
"Heart has reasons that reason does not understand".
"Heart has reasons that reason does not understand".
Let's say everything is unconditional and you using your mind to condition, some worms that are bothering about. You have to look at them face to face ( chin down, from the heart ), feel like they are there run, run ... circling around you as a silly thing (that your mind thinks), but only because are in the same state as you, asking for help. Look at them and spill your heart on, then return where they came from, their unconditioned state. You are as before only this "stupid thing" you created with your mind when you had thirst but no water to fill (and then your mind only could think about thirst and water, jajaja), do not bugs you, is, but caaalm, unconditional.
Posted by TeaMint
Let's say everything is unconditional and you using your mind to condition, some worms that are bothering about. You have to look at them face to face ( chin down, from the heart ), feel like they are there run, run ... circling around you as a silly thing (that your mind thinks), but only because are in the same state as you, asking for help. Look at them and spill your heart on, then return where they came from, their unconditioned state. You are as before only this "stupid thing" you created with your mind when you had thirst but no water to fill (and then your mind only could think about thirst and water, jajaja), do not bugs you, is, but caaalm, unconditional.
LOL...you probably didn't have it as bad as she did/does. I got hit so hard, every word she is speaking is exactly how I felt and still feel, and its like you both know the other is feeling the same thing, or something equally as intense. You can't mind-control it, will it away, with your stubborn little steel-trap Scorpio mind...lol. All you can do is make your decision and deal with the residual pain. You can't meditate it away, pray it away, distract yourself enough to believe its going to leave soon, drink it away, smoke it away...I tried everything...Its like they become part of you
Posted by seezythescorpion
I just read this whole thing.
As someone who had my own share on the connection... OH MAN.. this TAur/Scorp connection is something you'd wish has never happened to you. At the same time, what an excitement, overflowing emotions, it makes you wanna cry. Like literally sit down and cry ur eyes out and scream from the bottom of ur lungs to the universe to make it stop. It feels like someone is trying to rip ur heart out so badly, and ur trying so hard to keep your heart in place. You are now pretty much fucked. You will never ever forget him/her. You will sit down and daydream about those long stares. Its like you look into eachothers eyes but ur actually looking through and what uve seen there, is what u cant let go of.
Now if you know about it And choose to stay, then take this pleasure and take it with the pain..
Posted by seezythescorpion
I just read this whole thing.
As someone who had my own share on the connection... OH MAN.. this TAur/Scorp connection is something you'd wish has never happened to you. At the same time, what an excitement, overflowing emotions, it makes you wanna cry. Like literally sit down and cry ur eyes out and scream from the bottom of ur lungs to the universe to make it stop. It feels like someone is trying to rip ur heart out so badly, and ur trying so hard to keep your heart in place. You are now pretty much fucked. You will never ever forget him/her. You will sit down and daydream about those long stares. Its like you look into eachothers eyes but ur actually looking through and what uve seen there, is what u cant let go of.
Now if you know about it And choose to stay, then take this pleasure and take it with the pain..
Thanks. It's great to find Scorpios who can relate. Its been interesting. I've been easing my husband into helping me with it. He admits that he noticed a chemistry between the Bull and I. He doesn't think the opportunity will ever be there, and he wouldn't place any bet on him jumping off the fence. We'll eventually work our way away from each other. I guess I'll have to suffer with the daydreams. Better daydreams than a complete nightmare!
Posted by busyeyes88
I hv been rreading this thread and it reads like something out of a romantic novel.... It seems to be coming from the scorps.... It's just crazy. Besides I'll state this again.. The OP is MARRIED.. So I am curious as to why you scorps are entertaining it? I thought scorps would be against any kind of infidelity... Guess I was wrong...
Really, without any disrespect. I can't see how any explanation will work for you because you don't seem to get beyond your judgement issues.
People here have been giving their views, experiences...etc, and it seems all you offer is unconstructive
criticism.
Posted by busyeyes88
I hv been rreading this thread and it reads like something out of a romantic novel.... It seems to be coming from the scorps.... It's just crazy. Besides I'll state this again.. The OP is MARRIED.. So I am curious as to wwhy you scorps are entertaining it? I thought scorps would be against any kind of infidelity... Guess I was wrong...
I thought you said you've been "reading" this thread!Nobody suggested her to cheat on her husband nor is everyone talking on this thread a Scorpio!OP herself wasn't planning on cheating her husband..she wouldn't be here if she were to cheat n not feel guilty about it!She's confused..she wanted to deal with it!
N we're "entertaining"? Clearly you didn't read the thread...not even a quarter of it!We infact suggested her otherwise n shared our own stories n how we're/we've dealing/dealt with it!I'm sorry..but we're just more deep to actually "understand" something better n just not ward off people who're looking for help!God forbid,If you've to go through this shit at any point.. you might want to come back here!Also, don't you think it's sheer callowness to expect people to live by just what "you"(or many others for that matter) think is right?Maybe you can just let her live her life the way she wants because she's the one who gotta live the rest of her life n take both the pain n pleasure of her decisions?If you didn't want to give your take you should just have ignored this thread!Why bother to come here n tell off people who're trying to help her?If you're offended by any of this(which is not meant)please just strike me off as a woman who's not as blessed/gifted as you to have superior thinking capabilities n a sane mind.
Posted by JustEvaPosted by seezythescorpion
I just read this whole thing.
As someone who had my own share on the connection... OH MAN.. this TAur/Scorp connection is something you'd wish has never happened to you. At the same time, what an excitement, overflowing emotions, it makes you wanna cry. Like literally sit down and cry ur eyes out and scream from the bottom of ur lungs to the universe to make it stop. It feels like someone is trying to rip ur heart out so badly, and ur trying so hard to keep your heart in place. You are now pretty much fucked. You will never ever forget him/her. You will sit down and daydream about those long stares. Its like you look into eachothers eyes but ur actually looking through and what uve seen there, is what u cant let go of.
Now if you know about it And choose to stay, then take this pleasure and take it with the pain..
Thanks. It's great to find Scorpios who can relate. Its been interesting. I've been easing my husband into helping me with it. He admits that he noticed a chemistry between the Bull and I. He doesn't think the opportunity will ever be there, and he wouldn't place any bet on him jumping off the fence. We'll eventually work our way away from each other. I guess I'll have to suffer with the daydreams. Better daydreams than a complete nightmare!click to expand
Wow!! That sounds great already! Your husband seems to be a really good guy n you're lucky to have him on your side with this! Goodluck with the whole thing ..keep us posted though 🙂
Posted by seezythescorpion
So dumb*** is replaced with donkey on dxp. Thats amazing. LoL
Lol!! This cracked me up!!
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by TeaMint
LOL...you probably didn't have it as bad as she did/does. I got hit so hard, every word she is speaking is exactly how I felt and still feel, and its like you both know the other is feeling the same thing, or something equally as intense. You can't mind-control it, will it away, with your stubborn little steel-trap Scorpio mind...lol. All you can do is make your decision and deal with the residual pain. You can't meditate it away, pray it away, distract yourself enough to believe its going to leave soon, drink it away, smoke it away...I tried everything...Its like they become part of youclick to expand
Oh please! Don't tell me!! :/ ...I'm having it pretty bad already! It takes a lot for me to shed a tear n this shit tears me up multiple times n randomly N i just try slapping myself to reality! I only wish i had more compassion for myself!Live with the residual pain? Umm...that sure sounds depressing...
Posted by seezythescorpionPosted by TeaMintthis TAur/Scorp connection is something you'd wish has never happened to you.
In my experience, it gives u heaven and hell all at the same time.
Sometimes im there sitting with the most silly smile (you could ever imagine) on my face only by remembering just a simple look he gave me, gives me chills.
Next minute there i am wishing i had never met him. Questioning why on earth i had to&still go through this mess.. for how much longer is it going to test my strength?
And you think i didnt try? I thought all the same as u have written above. So I chose to run from it phsically with all i have BUT eventhough i wont talk to or see him for weeks and months, he is right inside my head stuck in my mind all day every day.
I would like to add in there that i am actually good at controlling my thoughts&emotions. My mind will always rule my heart when i sense something isnt healthy and it wins most of the time. With this one... my heart says to my brain, "listen buddy, if you won't allow me, you are no longer alive cuz i will stop beating".
Thats how fucked up it can get. when its felt truly and strongly, It messes u up big time before you know what hit you.
And you cant really explain why you come across as an emotional dumbass with no logic (you see). Its just beyond you.click to expand
This is so beautiful n hilarious! N I'm pretty much like you...good at controlling emotions.. Mind ruling over heart N stuff ..!Never did my mind fail me!
Also going through a very similar thing... Day dreaming, that silly stupid smile..again wishing i hadn't talked to him in the first place!I see myself talking to him where he's not even there!Insane it is..but i know this is not any teenage or puppy love or "love" for that matter! It's just a weird connection! True..i don't find logic N that's annoying me!
Posted by JustEvaPosted by busyeyes88
I hv been rreading this thread and it reads like something out of a romantic novel.... It seems to be coming from the scorps.... It's just crazy. Besides I'll state this again.. The OP is MARRIED.. So I am curious as to why you scorps are entertaining it? I thought scorps would be against any kind of infidelity... Guess I was wrong...
Really, without any disrespect. I can't see how any explanation will work for you because you don't seem to get beyond your judgement issues.
People here have been giving their views, experiences...etc, and it seems all you offer is unconstructive
criticism.
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My thoughts put in a simpler way! --
Posted by TeenaPosted by JustEvaPosted by busyeyes88
I hv been rreading this thread and it reads like something out of a romantic novel.... It seems to be coming from the scorps.... It's just crazy. Besides I'll state this again.. The OP is MARRIED.. So I am curious as to why you scorps are entertaining it? I thought scorps would be against any kind of infidelity... Guess I was wrong...
Really, without any disrespect. I can't see how any explanation will work for you because you don't seem to get beyond your judgement issues.
People here have been giving their views, experiences...etc, and it seems all you offer is unconstructive
criticism.
My thoughts put in a simpler way! --click to expand
I've been reading about the "opposite" attraction. S & T are suppose to have the strongest magnetic pairing. However, the same sex of the opposite signs are suppose to exhibit competition. I love Scorpio women because they typically don't get jealous or compete with each other. I love how Scorpio, Gemini or Pisces women attract men, I Have found them to have a very seductive nature and to be very beautiful. There's a Taurus girl in my office who causes a lot of drama. She asks people what's going on in their lives and goes around telling other people what's wrong with them. It is very negative. Venus is a wonderful aspect to have, but it can also make a person conceited or be very critical of others.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by TeaMint
Let's say everything is unconditional and you using your mind to condition, some worms that are bothering about. You have to look at them face to face ( chin down, from the heart ), feel like they are there run, run ... circling around you as a silly thing (that your mind thinks), but only because are in the same state as you, asking for help. Look at them and spill your heart on, then return where they came from, their unconditioned state. You are as before only this "stupid thing" you created with your mind when you had thirst but no water to fill (and then your mind only could think about thirst and water, jajaja), do not bugs you, is, but caaalm, unconditional.
You can't mind-control it, will it away, with your stubborn little steel-trap Scorpio mind...lol. All you can do is make your decision and deal with the residual pain. You can't meditate it away, pray it away, distract yourself enough to believe its going to leave soon, drink it away, smoke it away...I tried everything...Its like they become part of youclick to expand
"Resistance " is a force. More you resist, more stronger you are doing to which you resist. "Mind??s addiction" does not leave this way. You have find and return to their unconditional state that what for "some reason" began to bother you. State "in peace" with it. Yes, it's a part of you, but rest is bothering you, you try to throw but again and again... or can only "be", accompany. From the mind and thin, you will not get it.
Taurus (especially with much of Gemini ) costing relax, turn off the mind, mental chatter. Learn this until, you first notice your consciousness then look for the conscience of the "dumb pain" and do the rest.
Taurus are physically affected but also unable to physically and mental relax, become aware of theis body and mind, like cows! Jajaja.
Wow!! That sounds great already! Your husband seems to be a really good guy n you're lucky to have him on your side with this! Goodluck with the whole thing ..keep us posted though 🙂
@Teena. My husband and I have come a long way. We have phenomenal communication. But he's a hot man. 😉 I always had jealously problems and I knew that I needed to to marry a man who would be smart enough to never let me find out if he cheated on me. In all honesty, the match works, but with a Piceses its really hard to know what they are doing, they are known to draw women and I see women crumbling around him a lot. He's so naughty, you would think he had some Scorpion in him. Today during lunch, he saw some guys looking at me and he laid his hand on my leg, patted it, laughed and winked at them. I really don't know what that means in "Guy Speak." There's a give and take. Its peaceful most of the time, especially once you're both secure.
Posted by TeaMintPosted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by TeaMint
Let's say everything is unconditional and you using your mind to condition, some worms that are bothering about. You have to look at them face to face ( chin down, from the heart ), feel like they are there run, run ... circling around you as a silly thing (that your mind thinks), but only because are in the same state as you, asking for help. Look at them and spill your heart on, then return where they came from, their unconditioned state. You are as before only this "stupid thing" you created with your mind when you had thirst but no water to fill (and then your mind only could think about thirst and water, jajaja), do not bugs you, is, but caaalm, unconditional.
You can't mind-control it, will it away, with your stubborn little steel-trap Scorpio mind...lol. All you can do is make your decision and deal with the residual pain. You can't meditate it away, pray it away, distract yourself enough to believe its going to leave soon, drink it away, smoke it away...I tried everything...Its like they become part of you
"Resistance " is a force. More you resist, more stronger you are doing to which you resist. "Mind??s addiction" does not leave this way. You have find and return to their unconditional state that what for "some reason" began to bother you. State "in peace" with it. Yes, it's a part of you, but rest is bothering you, you try to throw but again and again... or can only "be", accompany. From the mind and thin, you will not get it.
Taurus (especially with much of Gemini ) costing relax, turn off the mind, mental chatter. Learn this until, you first notice your consciousness then look for the conscience of the "dumb pain" and do the rest.
Taurus are physically affected but also unable to physically and mental relax, become aware of theis body and mind, like cows! Jajaja.
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Everything you two said is true. Basically, you can't mind control it and your nature will struggle with itself to fight it. IT SUCKS! PLAIN OLD SUCKS! That guy walks by me and all I can think of is...."Go away, look at hubbies pic., Go AWAY!" Still, I melted when he pushed me away from the sink to wash
Exactly Eva,
Teamint is right - Embrace it. Don't resist. By doing so - you surrender that your emotions runs deep and that
you could think some thing is going wrong and you have to investigate within yourself.
Be his friend. You will understand him and yourself better.
and I'm sure you'll be over that soon. Don't be deceive by those glances coming from him.
See the truth in you and live with it. Conquer the lies of the shadow. You will be fine soon.
Posted by M143
Exactly Eva,
Teamint is right - Embrace it. Don't resist. By doing so - you surrender that your emotions runs deep and that
you could think some thing is going wrong and you have to investigate within yourself.
Be his friend. You will understand him and yourself better.
and I'm sure you'll be over that soon. Don't be deceive by those glances coming from him.
See the truth in you and live with it. Conquer the lies of the shadow. You will be fine soon.
I keep playing it in my head. It's horrible. The only thing that keeps me sane is that I'm not alone! The poor Bull probably feels the same too, but he's probably having to deal with it alone. _—
Posted by M143
Exactly Eva,
Teamint is right - Embrace it. Don't resist. By doing so - you surrender that your emotions runs deep and that
you could think some thing is going wrong and you have to investigate within yourself.
Be his friend. You will understand him and yourself better.
and I'm sure you'll be over that soon. Don't be deceive by those glances coming from him.
See the truth in you and live with it. Conquer the lies of the shadow. You will be fine soon.
Exactly, all the force exerted in one direction generates an equal counter . You can not leave anything only with the will or mind , you can leave it, but it will always be there , run, run ...
You have to use your imagination.
Sorry, I meant , it generates an opposing force of equal power (minimum) .
Posted by busyeyes88
I hv been rreading this thread and it reads like something out of a romantic novel.... It seems to be coming from the scorps.... It's just crazy. Besides I'll state this again.. The OP is MARRIED.. So I am curious as to wwhy you scorps are entertaining it? I thought scorps would be against any kind of infidelity... Guess I was wrong...
I believe everyone has a mind of their own and will take what he/she thinks is the best advice on here. Having said that, I know the OP will not cheat on her husband. I can assure you that the thought of it will not for one second cross a true scorpions mind. She is only confused by the strong pull,as u dont get to experience such connection with many and she is trying to understand it because it is so against her nature especially as a married (scorpio)woman to even think about another man. I would bet you on anything, if this man she talks about was not a Taurus, she wouldnt give him a second look.
But they got caught in eachothers eyes and its so intense that this is where it leads you.
Regardless star signs, i personally am strongly against cheating between partners in a committed relationship. Since Taurus and Scorpio are the most loyal of the zodiac (going by sun sugns here only) I doubt anything unhealthy(cheating wise) will take place here on both parties but i cannot say the same about spiritual/mental damage the connection will cause.
Posted by JustEva
@Teena. My husband and I have come a long way. We have phenomenal communication. But he's a hot man. 😉 I always had jealously problems and I knew that I needed to to marry a man who would be smart enough to never let me find out if he cheated on me. In all honesty, the match works, but with a Piceses its really hard to know what they are doing, they are known to draw women and I see women crumbling around him a lot. He's so naughty, you would think he had some Scorpion in him. Today during lunch, he saw some guys looking at me and he laid his hand on my leg, patted it, laughed and winked at them. I really don't know what that means in "Guy Speak." There's a give and take. Its peaceful most of the time, especially once you're both secure.
I would say that marrying someone who we hope is shady enough to keep cheating hidden, is on some level just a type of settling.
Maybe you are either unsatisfied with what seems like a questionable level of commitment in your marriage, or have just accepted/settled for a more cynical view of love/commitment. With Taurus/Scorpio - two of the most possessive, jealous, and loyal signs, that kind of love will never work. You can feel that it won't work, just from the exchange of energy. So maybe that is part of what you're drawn to, and maybe its to point out an area in your marriage you need to work on - deepening your commitment to one another. If you think about it, that is exactly what you standing strong does - solidifies, affirms, and re-constitutes your loyalty to your husband.
Posted by seezythescorpion
I believe everyone has a mind of their own and will take what he/she thinks is the best advice on here. Having said that, I know the OP will not cheat on her husband. I can assure you that the thought of it will not for one second cross a true scorpions mind. She is only confused by the strong pull,as u dont get to experience such connection with many and she is trying to understand it because it is so against her nature especially as a married (scorpio)woman to even think about another man. I would bet you on anything, if this man she talks about was not a Taurus, she wouldnt give him a second look.
But they got caught in eachothers eyes and its so intense that this is where it leads you.
Regardless star signs, i personally am strongly against cheating between partners in a committed relationship. Since Taurus and Scorpio are the most loyal of the zodiac (going by sun sugns here only) I doubt anything unhealthy(cheating wise) will take place here on both parties but i cannot say the same about spiritual/mental damage the connection will cause.click to expand
You nailed it! This whole thing is about the attraction. It's too strong. It's apparent, I probably wouldn't even get along with guy if we were both single. I just want this attraction to stop, but it's uncontrollable. All of us who have had it are ALL on a teeter totter that won't stop.
Posted by JustEva
I would say that marrying someone who we hope is shady enough to keep cheating hidden, is on some level just a type of settling.
Maybe you are either unsatisfied with what seems like a questionable level of commitment in your marriage, or have just accepted/settled for a more cynical view of love/commitment. With Taurus/Scorpio - two of the most possessive, jealous, and loyal signs, that kind of love will never work. You can feel that it won't work, just from the exchange of energy. So maybe that is part of what you're drawn to, and maybe its to point out an area in your marriage you need to work on - deepening your commitment to one another. If you think about it, that is exactly what you standing strong does - solidifies, affirms, and re-constitutes your loyalty to your husband.
No, it's not that. How I feel about my husband doesn't have anything to o with how I feel about this Taurus. I would not have been attracted to this guy in the 1st place. I don't like his style ,I don't like his height, I struggle to get his jokes, I think it's stupid that he got my fav car without enough HP.
I know It's a no win situation. It doesn't make sense. I always come back to the 1st time when we saw each other, that pause, that unshakable electricity. THERE I GO AGAIN! My husband and I have been together since 99'. When we were building our careers we didn't see each other for wks. That is how it is sometimes. He knows if he tells me he cheated on me, there's no going back. Preserving our relationship is our #1 goal. People need to feel attractive or young sometimes, I don't need or want that I my face. He handles guys who look or hit on me well, I try (w/out my scorpion temper) to do the same. I have had fits of jealous rage about girls showing him attention, but in the end it's ridiculous and unbecoming. I think our relationship has survived the test of time. I don't blame him for being attractive or charismatic. There was a time when he was so worried that if a girl looked at him, I'd go ballistic. I don't want a relationship where someone is walking on eggshells all the time. We have adapted to each other in almost every way. That's a Scorpio-Piceses relationship...so I think...we are learning everyday.
I'm not at all confused about my marriage. I'm confused about this attraction thing. I can't put it out of my min
Eva - its hard to get where you're coming from just with how you communicate. From what you said about needing a guy who is a crafty cheater, I really get the impression that you've accepted that it may happen, and if it did, you wouldn't want to know about it. Anyway, its your life, so I'll take your word for it. What you say about your Pisces sounds really nice. And I have few male and now recently female Pisces friends; the charm is real...lol. I guess that is just something one has to accept about being with a Pisces. Just always keep karma in mind with how far this bull thing goes. If anyone else is subject to similar mystical connections with members of the opposite sex, its my male Pisces friends. They get them with quite a few ladies at the office, the lady in the massage parlor, etc. LOL...not saying *anything* about your Pisces, but just being real in that both of my close male fish friends have gone so far off of a strong emotional connection with another woman, that they have either physically cheated (both have amazing wives), or had a serious emotional affair, and with them the delusion was really strong/long-lasting. When they felt that emotional connection, I would say neither simply had what it took to keep them on the right side of things....It totally took over.
Posted by JustEvaPosted by JustEva
My husband and I have been together since 99'. When we were building our careers we didn't see each other for wks. That is how it is sometimes. He knows if he tells me he cheated on me, there's no going back. Preserving our relationship is our #1 goal. People need to feel attractive or young sometimes, I don't need or want that I my face. He handles guys who look or hit on me well, I try (w/out my scorpion temper) to do the same. I have had fits of jealous rage about girls showing him attention, but in the end it's ridiculous and unbecoming. I think our relationship has survived the test of time. I don't blame him for being attractive or charismatic. There was a time when he was so worried that if a girl looked at him, I'd go ballistic. I don't want a relationship where someone is walking on eggshells all the time. We have adapted to each other in almost every way. That's a Scorpio-Piceses relationship...so I think...we are learning everyday.
I'm not at all confused about my marriage. I'm confused about this attraction thing. I can't put it out of my min
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Awww! How I wish I'd marry someone like your husband!The relationship you both share seems adorable!N the way he treats guys who hit on you...Woah!Cute thing! Makes me curious to know your story!! I feel so jealous n also so happy for you!!!
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