Stpatrickspisces
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Smitten with a Taurus man! Long distance though...
Hello Luscious, I agree with both ladies. Without a doubt.
Hey Sweetie! Good for you!
Now, you already know I'm going to be the odd woman out, but I do blame my Venus in Aries as I get bored easily, so long distance works well for me, in that whenever I'm with the person it's always a good time and something different. There is never any of the monotony of a day-to-day relationship (NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT 🙂 ). I do like familiarity and some sort of routine too (after all, I AM a Taurus), but I really don't need to spend a lot of time with the person, as long as the time I do spend with him is quality time. NOW, with that being said, there will come a time when you will need to make a tough decision; especially if your relationship is going along swimmingly, as you can't indefinitely be dating someone who lives far away. I don't honestly think you should worry about that right at this moment, because I think you should be enjoying the "getting to know him stages", but if it's something that you feel in your heart after awhile that you would really like to seriously be with this man, then you will need to sit down and determine if you'd be willing to move where he is. Not to say he wouldn't move to be with you, but I think if he's well established and has money as you stated, the likelihood of him moving will be slim; especially given he's a Taurus male! Just my .02! Have SOOOO much fun with this!
Now, you already know I'm going to be the odd woman out, but I do blame my Venus in Aries as I get bored easily, so long distance works well for me, in that whenever I'm with the person it's always a good time and something different. There is never any of the monotony of a day-to-day relationship (NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT 🙂 ). I do like familiarity and some sort of routine too (after all, I AM a Taurus), but I really don't need to spend a lot of time with the person, as long as the time I do spend with him is quality time. NOW, with that being said, there will come a time when you will need to make a tough decision; especially if your relationship is going along swimmingly, as you can't indefinitely be dating someone who lives far away. I don't honestly think you should worry about that right at this moment, because I think you should be enjoying the "getting to know him stages", but if it's something that you feel in your heart after awhile that you would really like to seriously be with this man, then you will need to sit down and determine if you'd be willing to move where he is. Not to say he wouldn't move to be with you, but I think if he's well established and has money as you stated, the likelihood of him moving will be slim; especially given he's a Taurus male! Just my .02! Have SOOOO much fun with this!
Thank you so much everyone! I really do love all of you Bullettes on here b/c you truly rock!!! 😄
I do want to have fun with it b/c even if it doesn't work out in the long run I would love to continue being friends with him. He is so upbeat and positive like I am and we just get along so well and the chemistry is off the charts! It's crazy b/c I have had my profile hidden most of the time on the dating site but I just happened to make it public again the day he messaged me!
He has been texting me since he went home and that is so nice but I already miss him! So crazy and I haven't felt like this since the Virgo I was seeing earlier in the year.
I will definitely keep ya'll posted.
I would love to hear the Taurus men's comment as well! 😉
I do want to have fun with it b/c even if it doesn't work out in the long run I would love to continue being friends with him. He is so upbeat and positive like I am and we just get along so well and the chemistry is off the charts! It's crazy b/c I have had my profile hidden most of the time on the dating site but I just happened to make it public again the day he messaged me!
He has been texting me since he went home and that is so nice but I already miss him! So crazy and I haven't felt like this since the Virgo I was seeing earlier in the year.
I will definitely keep ya'll posted.
I would love to hear the Taurus men's comment as well! 😉
Long distance relationship can be very hard for a Taurus because we need to be able to physically touch you etc. However, if the person is really worth it then I can deal with LDR.
Hehehehhehee.
echo what USC said.
my suggestions would be to get your head out of the clouds and ask yourself a simple question...
are you willing to move to california? if he's "unable" to move to tx and makes more money than you, then chances are if things got serious, you would be moving to where he is. are you willing to do this? if not, move on but you'll always have a stellar kiss.
my suggestions would be to get your head out of the clouds and ask yourself a simple question...
are you willing to move to california? if he's "unable" to move to tx and makes more money than you, then chances are if things got serious, you would be moving to where he is. are you willing to do this? if not, move on but you'll always have a stellar kiss.
Okay sweet bullettes who are being so dear to collaborate with me on this!!! Here's his birth chart. The only thing I didn't have was time of birth.
The Taurus I am seeing. 🙂
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Taurus 16.02
Moon Cancer 26.32
Mercury Aries 19.37
Venus Taurus 22.28
Mars Virgo 10.21
Jupiter Gemini 3.12
Saturn Pisces 15.03
Uranus Virgo 10.45 R
Neptune Scorpio 18.43 R
Pluto Virgo 13.47 R
Lilith Capricorn 23.14
Asc node Gemini 13.59
Aspects
The following table shows the planetary aspects in your natal chart. Short interpretations are found below.
Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Venus 6.26 364
Sun Trine Mars 5.41 46
Sun Sextile Saturn 0.59 211
Sun Trine Uranus 5.16 44
Sun Opposition Neptune 2.41 -168
Sun Trine Pluto 2.15 79
Moon Trine Neptune 7.49 4
Venus Opposition Neptune 3.45 -158
Mars Opposition Saturn 4.42 -96
Mars Conjunction Uranus 0.24 345
Mars Conjunction Pluto 3.26 184
Saturn Opposition Uranus 4.18 -73
Saturn Trine Neptune 3.40 33
Saturn Opposition Pluto 1.16 -86
Uranus Conjunction Pluto 3.02 112
1422 -581 841
Asteroids & Chiron
The following table shows the positions of the four major asteroids and Chiron. These points are not as commonly used by astrologers, but are presented here for those interested in knowing where the asteroids are positioned in their birth chart.
Chiron Pisces 21.10
Ceres Pisces 17.45
Pallas Aquarius 20.48
Juno Aquarius 13.23
Vesta Taurus 14.36
Fortune Aries 0.00
South node Aries 0.00
The Taurus I am seeing. 🙂
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Taurus 16.02
Moon Cancer 26.32
Mercury Aries 19.37
Venus Taurus 22.28
Mars Virgo 10.21
Jupiter Gemini 3.12
Saturn Pisces 15.03
Uranus Virgo 10.45 R
Neptune Scorpio 18.43 R
Pluto Virgo 13.47 R
Lilith Capricorn 23.14
Asc node Gemini 13.59
Aspects
The following table shows the planetary aspects in your natal chart. Short interpretations are found below.
Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Venus 6.26 364
Sun Trine Mars 5.41 46
Sun Sextile Saturn 0.59 211
Sun Trine Uranus 5.16 44
Sun Opposition Neptune 2.41 -168
Sun Trine Pluto 2.15 79
Moon Trine Neptune 7.49 4
Venus Opposition Neptune 3.45 -158
Mars Opposition Saturn 4.42 -96
Mars Conjunction Uranus 0.24 345
Mars Conjunction Pluto 3.26 184
Saturn Opposition Uranus 4.18 -73
Saturn Trine Neptune 3.40 33
Saturn Opposition Pluto 1.16 -86
Uranus Conjunction Pluto 3.02 112
1422 -581 841
Asteroids & Chiron
The following table shows the positions of the four major asteroids and Chiron. These points are not as commonly used by astrologers, but are presented here for those interested in knowing where the asteroids are positioned in their birth chart.
Chiron Pisces 21.10
Ceres Pisces 17.45
Pallas Aquarius 20.48
Juno Aquarius 13.23
Vesta Taurus 14.36
Fortune Aries 0.00
South node Aries 0.00
Oh....sorry about just saying bullettes b/c there are other signs commenting! 😉
@ Caligula: I just asked myself that question again...Would I move to California for the right man? The answer is yes if it didn't happen too fast and I was sure of the love and security and companionship he would offer me. I would have to just get some affairs in order and finish school but I am open to that! I would have to feel very assured of how he felt about me though b/c I LOVE where I live. I have always had it in the back of my mind of someday getting to pursue my acting opportunities since my children are grown now and L.A. would be the place to do that. He even asked if I had recent head shots b/c one of his good friends is a casting director and he could give it to her.
Thank you all for your input and we will even have to see if it becomes serious at all...lol. 🙂
@ Caligula: I just asked myself that question again...Would I move to California for the right man? The answer is yes if it didn't happen too fast and I was sure of the love and security and companionship he would offer me. I would have to just get some affairs in order and finish school but I am open to that! I would have to feel very assured of how he felt about me though b/c I LOVE where I live. I have always had it in the back of my mind of someday getting to pursue my acting opportunities since my children are grown now and L.A. would be the place to do that. He even asked if I had recent head shots b/c one of his good friends is a casting director and he could give it to her.
Thank you all for your input and we will even have to see if it becomes serious at all...lol. 🙂
i think you should sit down and think of how soon, realistically, you would be able to move to LA. if it's not within a year, seriously, don't waste your time.
Caligula made some valid points...My perspective...He's on a dating site looking for dates, I believe she's moving too far ahead, too fast, slow down your not 18/20 years old, your a grown ass woman thinking about uprooting your whole life before he's even shown he's trustworthy available as in no commitment barriers, get both of your feet on the ground, I'm totally not against online dating nor LDR's but a woman has to have her head on straight and understand the pitfalls that come with these kind of connections. Get to know him first before assuming b/c you both shared a few details and stories that you already know him in as knowing he wants YOU that misperception can equate to deep disappoint. Chemistry for men doesn't mean love nor does it mean swept away so much so that I only want ONE woman.
If it were me I would continue to find someone closer as I wait to see how this one California guy plays out, he could easily flake out on you after he's read the whole book (YOU).
If it were me I would continue to find someone closer as I wait to see how this one California guy plays out, he could easily flake out on you after he's read the whole book (YOU).
Posted by tiki33
Caligula made some valid points...My perspective...He's on a dating site looking for dates, I believe she's moving too far ahead, too fast, slow down your not 18/20 years old, your a grown ass woman thinking about uprooting your whole life before he's even shown he's trustworthy available as in no commitment barriers, get both of your feet on the ground, I'm totally not against online dating nor LDR's but a woman has to have her head on straight and understand the pitfalls that come with these kind of connections. Get to know him first before assuming b/c you both shared a few details and stories that you already know him in as knowing he wants YOU that misperception can equate to deep disappoint. Chemistry for men doesn't mean love nor does it mean swept away so much so that I only want ONE woman.
If it were me I would continue to find someone closer as I wait to see how this one California guy plays out, he could easily flake out on you after he's read the whole book (YOU).
Thanks for responding Tiki but I think you misconstrued some of what I said. 🙂
I use the word "smitten" b/c I really did have and incredible time and we have been talking via other means before that and I really "like" him. The reason for the thread is to get opinions on "if" he seems truly interested in me and what people's thoughts are on a long distance relationship. Caligula asked me to ask myself if I would ever move for him "if" it came to that (I am thinking of that in terms of "if" we work out in the long run...not NOW). I do think this is an important question to ask b/c why even get involved in seeing where it leads if I am not willing to relocate. Then I would've wasted both our time and effort. I have NO idea if this is or will be anything, so I don't have my head in the clouds and I am acting like a mature and level-headed woman on this. I have already been contacted recently by a couple of other men that are local and we are making plans to meet so I am not putting my eggs in one basket already...lol. I don't "know" if he likes me enough to even pursue anything further and I know that only time will tell. This is just to kick around if he seems interested as in his signals/words spoken and whether other people had thoughts and ideas on long distance relationships.
Just wanted to clarify so you would know where I truly am on this. 😄
Yes he seems interested IMO but it seemed more physical and casual, only time will tell if he felt the connection on an emotional level, the only way he's going to attempt to move forward is if he felt something on an emotional level, something that stood out for me is he asked for a kiss so soon which means I want sex which means on some level it was part of his agenda which is not necessarily all bad but that would wear on my nerves if my agenda was to find a boyfriend yet maybe your not looking for that and thus he picked up on that and moved right into some casual fun but every woman has her level of physical comfort.
If I got a dime every time someone said how great kissing a Taurus was....hmmmm
And how little it had to do with the actual relationship. So many have fallen by the wayside so do not let make-out sessions be an indicator of something more meaningful. T's are make-out artisans & literally cannot do it badly if they TRIED. Time can only tell how serious he is.
Ahhh, but living in LA with a lot of money & is he in the entertainment biz? Eh, not so good but hey, he could be
looking for a good girl to settle down with. Wish you all the best & keep us posted!
And how little it had to do with the actual relationship. So many have fallen by the wayside so do not let make-out sessions be an indicator of something more meaningful. T's are make-out artisans & literally cannot do it badly if they TRIED. Time can only tell how serious he is.
Ahhh, but living in LA with a lot of money & is he in the entertainment biz? Eh, not so good but hey, he could be
looking for a good girl to settle down with. Wish you all the best & keep us posted!
Thanks Tiki and Mistery for your input!
@Tiki, I totally understand about the meeting on an emotional level. We shall see but I felt we had at least a little of that if not more. We have talked and just have so much in common and see things in the same ways. He said he really liked who I was and where I am coming from on life issues as well as him saying he wanted a southern woman. We are still communicating frequently so we shall see b/c I know that time will only tell.
I have made plans to meet a professor I met on site this weekend and another nice gentleman as well that are here in my city. 🙂
@Mistery, LOL. 😉 He is definitely a make-out artisan and I can be one too so I guess that's what made it sooo AWESOME!!! The good thing is that he is not in the entertainment business himself and he said he is so ready for a real relationship and doesn't want a woman from California and especially not from L.A. and he he said he wants someone to grow old with. It will just take time to see if he thinks I am worth the effort and if I even want to do it b/c I have never had a long distance relationship myself.
What about his chart and my chart to those who are good at that kind of stuff? 🙂
@Tiki, I totally understand about the meeting on an emotional level. We shall see but I felt we had at least a little of that if not more. We have talked and just have so much in common and see things in the same ways. He said he really liked who I was and where I am coming from on life issues as well as him saying he wanted a southern woman. We are still communicating frequently so we shall see b/c I know that time will only tell.
I have made plans to meet a professor I met on site this weekend and another nice gentleman as well that are here in my city. 🙂
@Mistery, LOL. 😉 He is definitely a make-out artisan and I can be one too so I guess that's what made it sooo AWESOME!!! The good thing is that he is not in the entertainment business himself and he said he is so ready for a real relationship and doesn't want a woman from California and especially not from L.A. and he he said he wants someone to grow old with. It will just take time to see if he thinks I am worth the effort and if I even want to do it b/c I have never had a long distance relationship myself.
What about his chart and my chart to those who are good at that kind of stuff? 🙂
Thank you beautiful Bells! I did start reading his chart but was sidetracked doing other things. I will have to delve deeper and look our stuff up on how we match up.
The other guys I am going to meet are an Aries (eeekk) and a Leo! 😉
The other guys I am going to meet are an Aries (eeekk) and a Leo! 😉
You have a really positive attitude Stpat and with that you can't lose, if this guy flakes out someone is going to snatch you up fast LOL as you stated with time you will find out if he was blowing smoke or if he's truly going to step up and make a genuine effort to maintain the connection, most LDR's due to difficulty with the distance and little physical contact is hard to maintain the first few months, if you make it past the 6 the month mark things could be promising.
Thank you Starfish and Tiki!!!
The wonderful thing about all of this dating stuff is that I am very happy with being single right now so I am NOT going to settle for just any man!!! I am having just as much fun with my friends and doing stuff for ME than anything else! I am finally confident in myself and am getting to know myself even better than ever!
I will NOT rely on a man for happiness but if I find one along the way that is worthy of my time and effort and brings me even more happiness then I will give it a go!
😄
The wonderful thing about all of this dating stuff is that I am very happy with being single right now so I am NOT going to settle for just any man!!! I am having just as much fun with my friends and doing stuff for ME than anything else! I am finally confident in myself and am getting to know myself even better than ever!
I will NOT rely on a man for happiness but if I find one along the way that is worthy of my time and effort and brings me even more happiness then I will give it a go!
😄
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Any kind of input would be helpful and fun! 😄