Sunshines and Rainbows

There was a lot of negativity before when it came to people's opinions about my Pisces Taurus relationship.

We have been going to events together and she suddenly told me she hated her mom amidst crying and the next day wanted to move in with her 3 cats. So she is now moved in and it seems to me like she is serious about us and we are heading for marriage soon.

She did say at church that if all goes well then we would be walking down the alter by July 19, 2019 which was also random.

Well congrats?!

Best of luck, hope it work out!

Thank you. She is Co fusing though. Is she just anxious about the future when she says that if it doesn't workout she will still talk to me? I have warned her that if we breakup I /WON'T/ stick around.. so the opposite of what she claims she will do.

I have clearly told her I want to be with her and will not breakup with her. She has asked me not to say I'll love her for forever of she stops talking about if we ever break up ..

She claims she only moved in because she thought I was lonely yet she says she hates her mom and her cats had nowhere to live if she goes back to school... so bs it seems..

Thoughts? It was a weird thing for her to bring up at 1230am

I would def not get married at this point

She seems to be moody but all Tauruses seem to be. Definitely getting married to her -- there is no doubt in my mind. She is taking care of our meals and helping out with chores around the place.

She talked about possibly being pregnant last night and I said we would keep the baby and raise it together if that is the case. She seemed worried that I would kick her out but I never would.

Why do I get such weird cringy vibes from this...I almost imagine this girl being chained and locked up in your basement.

"She seems to be moody...she's doing chores around the house and cooking for us"...you talk about her like an object and not a person.

I'm sorry to be rude

3 cats 👀👀

See cat ladies of dxp, there is hope! 😂😂

Are you sure she’s not already pregnant?

She seems kinda all over the place talking about breaking up and then walking down the isle. I’ve heard pregnancy hormones are a bitch.

Posted by Boots1313
Why do I get such weird cringy vibes from this...I almost imagine this girl being chained and locked up in your basement.
"She seems to be moody...she's doing chores around the house and cooking for us"...you talk about her like an object and not a person.

I'm sorry to be rude

Maybe via association?

Not sure why you would think that. She has encouraged to be more independent from me and her parents and seems to be enjoying it. No one has asked her to do chores around the house and actually, I've been the one doing the cooking. She is making our lunches the last few days.

I don't believe I am referring to her as a person at all or any differently as I would mention anyone else.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Are you sure she’s not already pregnant?

She seems kinda all over the place talking about breaking up and then walking down the isle. I’ve heard pregnancy hormones are a cookiemonster.

I don't believe so. She said she was sick a while ago and we thought she was pregnant back then. We have been very careful and used condoms and never had them tear as far as we know. She has mentioned that she has been eating more with her 2 hour breaks and having nothing else to do. Her job is also very stressful and her contract could end suddenly at this end of this month and then she has no guaranteed hours anymore. Before she was working under a 3 month contract and it got extended by 1 month, but then chose to move in after I had proposed and gave her two engagement rings (combined worth of $ 1000, which I have since paid off in full, fortunately!)

I guess she wants stability and so do I. Her first bf did kick her out for no reason so that could have caused it... and her last bf got her pregnant and she had to have an abortion, so she is often worried about being pregnant when having sex it seems. Her last bf also did seem to be dating another woman and may have been married to her before or after they had dated? We don't know. So perhaps that is why??

Posted by Boots1313
Why do I get such weird cringy vibes from this...I almost imagine this girl being chained and locked up in your basement.
"She seems to be moody...she's doing chores around the house and cooking for us"...you talk about her like an object and not a person.

I'm sorry to be rude

i get it too.

Whoa, lots of jealous people in this thread.