taurean guys are confusing

I've been good friends with this Taurean guy for about 4 months now, and for awhile we've been stuck in that phase - we're more than just good friends but not exactly together yet. In the beginning we started off as friends who had things in common and eventually we started texting each other everyday and going out alone at least once every week - we even celebrated my birthday together. (I'm a Gemini) All of our mutual friends think we should be together, and yet I happen to know that he's very attached to people from the past, especially a girl that he used to have a huge crush on for four years. Although we still text each other and go out occasionally and all, I'm kind of confused about where this is going -- does he like me or what? I'm a little afraid he's just been leading me on for the past few months. Please give me your opinion!

well keep waiting! i think he's still testing u out and it might be a while. it may be especially prolonged the more he finds out about u that doesn't necessarily sit well with him.

my best friend is a taurus (also gay; relevance revealed as u read) and he was seeing this guy for a few months. he even refrained from having sex with him because he felt a pretty strong connection from the start. they hung out constantly the entire time and it was revealed to me that he realized that there wasn't much substance about the guy (the guy was also a gemini come to think of it!). another thing irked him and that was the fact that this guy, although proclaimed gay, would engage in sex with females every once in a while. this was a HUGE turn off for my best friend. he eventually came to the conclusion that it was mostly a heavy sexual attraction. to be honest, my friend might still be with him (he only just broke it off a few weeks ago) if he hadn't gotten beligerantly drunk and told him. wtg liquid courage!

tauruses take an insane amount of time to let go and it's because they are quite loyal. for example, he and i shared a mutual friend. we were friends with her for years but she kinda went off the deep end a few years ago. he only just gave up on her to come around in may.

i personally think, since it's been a few months, that u should ask him straight up. the tauruses i know are pretty honest and straight-forward when u ask them outright. i associate them with caps usually, except when it comes to this. if u ask a cap too soon, they run for the hills! trust me, i know from personal experience! anyway, hope this helps some!

My taurus husband took forever...I basically had to ask him out and to be my man. We would go out and come back to his place and just sit in the car for hours and talk. I had to ask him if I could come inside!! Turns out it was because he was afraid of corrupting me (I was 18 at the time...he was 24). Little did he know that I was the corrupter 😉
10 years later, we are still together. Taurus take their time at just about everything...took 7 years to marry me!
Just go with the flow and see where things go. You have to be patient with this very patient sign. As an Aries, I still struggle with this daily 🙂

*He was 23...I mean...not that it really matters, but I'm all about accuracy!