Taurus came back..update..

If you read my post about taurus disappearing and then stalking about a month ago..

He text me after seeing I had deleted my profile on the dating site where we met..

He said he owed me na explaination but assumed i had met someone so he wouldn't bore me..

Text him back I wanted to know..

He showed up at my house later...hugged me, held my hand..and said..

"I got back together with my ex g/f..(2nd time around)and didn't know how to tell you. I realize i have no feelings left for her. And I want YOU back. I was going to tell her this weekend and you... if things dont work out with other guy, call me.."

My answer...TOO LATE! I am seeing my longtime platonic virgo friend who came back into my life(long story there after he caught feelings and ran away...)and its going so well, i wont give him up. I told him I apprecaite his honesty now, I have closure, and we can remain friends.

He of course initiated sex with me..remember the FWB issue i had with him?? "I just miss your feel..I need to feel you..." GF and him apparently over the last month didn't have much of a sex life either. And U know us Caps😉 Little too late on that now too..LOL

So..thats how it went. He'll always hold a place in my heart. And when he left, he looked as if he wanted to kick his own ass ..

Oh.. a part of me felt he didnt tell me then because it was his way of keeping me around in case it didnt work with her. I dont think it ever entered his mind I would have a serious relatinship w/someone while he was making up his mind..

Good for you Capbaby! I hope all goes well with your Virgo.

Thanks! Aftre 12 years of friendship with Virgo we're finally able to be together and it has been heaven. he tells me everyday he loves me, hes old-school which as a cap i love, etc etc.

Congrats.

Now that is a good ending. What I liked about this is a). Although a little too late, his honesty. To me, that shows that there was enough respect and like for you to be honest in an attempt to mend the situation. He still could have lied but he didn't.b) I like that you didn't wait around for him and you moved on with your life. I also like that you still kept it cordial with him. I see you appreciated the honesty and closure he gave as well.

Hopefully he learned a lesson that its not good to try to get over someone with someone else. If he pursued you while being completely open and without any ties to his ex then things would be much different.

Congrats on you and the Virgo too!

ITA Inana.

I knew he had feelings for me but he just couldn't move forward as I could at the time. And he lost me. But I also believe in fate that if it is/was meant to be it will/would be.

Friends have said he chose her over me, and i became 2nd best, an option. I don't see it that way only because I know this man better than they do..they only saw his surface. He had to know if it was truly over with her, so he found his answer. I can't fault him for that. And believe now he can move forward completely. it just won't be with me.