After a brief fling in the summer, me and a Taurus male started talking again in October. This time, things between us were kept a secret because it had previously affected our work environment. However, things started off very differently this time. He would call and IM me all the time, but always played it off like I didn't really mean much to him. He doesn't like to compliment and he would tease me constantly about other girls that like him. A few weeks ago, we finally had sex for the first time. About a week and a half later, he told me that he worries about having me as his girlfriend because he thinks that he would lose some friendships over it. He also told me that he felt like he holds me back from achieving my dreams because he just started college and I'm already getting my Master's. (There's a bit of an age difference, he's almost 19 and I just turned 23). He told me that he's afraid that I will end up hating him somehow and that he would rather me hate him now. During our argument, he made some rude remarks and told me that he was through with me completely. The next day, though, he told me that he had changed his mind. I just don't understand all of this confusion. Right now, we're going through one of our many silent treatments again. They last a few days and then things go back to being amazing. Please help me figure out his confusion. Thank you.
