Taurus disappearing due to a 3rd party prank

Posted by scorchedearth
if you've "fallen" for this taurus what the genuine fuck are you doing talking to a virgo guy behind his back? you sound disloyal as fuck. if you were really invested in the taurus the way you pretend you are you wouldn't be talking to anyone else. so spare me.

I concur!

Honestly I panicked, I felt like the night we met up, he was just going to dump me,I even told him that, so the next day when he doesn't even address me, especially considering I was the one spending hours talking to him trying to reassure him about everything, then he just freaked out on me again out of nowhere, really hurt. He knew how much the things he said about me the day before hurt me so I got scared. The messages that have gone back and forth between me and the other guy have strictly been about music. Absolutely nothing flirtatious. I'm just trying to keep my mind not panicking on the Taurus man at the moment as I've got work to do involving my Thesis, and all of this has caused me to just back off from that completely. I honestly just want to meet people, his profile said the same thing.

We've only been dating for three weeks, yeah I've fallen for him, but I wont allow him to hurt me. Normally I'd hang out with my friends, but spring break has taken them all away, so yeah I wanted to meet someone to take my mind off things. I know it sounds like a bunch of excuses, it probably is, but I've just been through two other situations where a guy sleeps with me then disappears. Taurus is aware of that, at this point I'm terrified of getting used again.

Sorry, I know I'm probably terrible for all this. I just don't know if we are even anything anymore, or where he stands at all. I asked him that night and when I asked if he still wanted to see me, he was so hesitant, kept saying I don't know. It was only after I "debunked" his fears that he seemed to want to, but then becomes frigid again in a span of 10 hours. So yeah, I really don't know what we are or if I'm really doing anything wrong.

I really just want to fix things, but at the same time I don't want to be a fool. I'm a total Scorpio with huge trust issues (Scorpio sun, Mercury, and Venus). I'm trying to not obsess and keep myself a bit emotionally distant at this moment to A)not freak him out, B) not panic anymore than I already have. I really mean it when I'm not intending anything to happen with this guy, I just really need a break from things emotionally, as I've been the one trying to fix everything the past 5 days.... (this all happened on Monday, met up with him Wednesday).

Its understandable, as you explain it, why you are talking to the Virgo, but I think you should look for something else to focus on. Anything can happen. What if the Taurus or one of his friends are out and spot you with the Virgo. There's not much coming back from that.

Honestly both of you sound too intense. He sounds typical in applying a ton of pressure until you will probably eventually feel you can't breathe, you sound typical in panicking and and thinking the worst of everything. Try to relax as much as possible. Let it fold or unfold naturally.

Relax and Repeat after me OP...

It's been 3 weeks.
It's been 3 weeks.
It's been 3 weeks.

Now say..

It's been 21 days.
It's been 21 days.
It's been 21 days.

Now take a deep breathe or a Xanax which ever works.

Posted by lnana04
Try to relax as much as possible. Let it fold or unfold naturally.

Taurus and I had a date planned for next friday. Should I wait a few days and contact him on monday asking about it or asking if he'd like to meet up for drink a on Wednesday? I have to plan things out in advance as my schedule is pretty insane (graduate student/research assistant/artist), who literally has stuff every night. I keep a written planner on me at all times. He's very much aware of my planning situation, so it wouldn't be far off.

Posted by tiziani


Anyone who is so detail oriented in their life and juggling three different work roles usually ends up wanting to be thrown around from wall to wall in the bedroom.


And a guy who's already coming up with excuses like "I'm useless" isn't up to that task.

Also I agree with those who said it might be time to relax. Can't control or fix every little detail. 3 weeks in, miscommunication and misconceptions happen. It's part of the ride.

Two of those roles actually end in about a month and a half, so it's not so bad.

Posted by scorchedearth
every taurus here has told you to give him some breathing space. why in the fuck do you think it would be a good idea to push him into hanging out. JFC.

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Sorry, I am giving him his space now, I just asked if I should contact him in a few days, after he's had some time to think about things. I know me telling him I'd be unable to trust him probably super freaked him out, so I assume me touching base with him in a few days will just let him know that I'm not upset about things is still giving him space right?

Gemini Venus doesn't like this kind of behavior. The more you chase the more we run. The grip is too intense and you need to back off. I can't stand people getting super attached too quickly because then it starts to suffocate me especially if I'm not entirely sure of them yet. Im Gemini sun and overly emotional people at the beginning sends me packing.

Posted by Xin
Gemini Venus doesn't like this kind of behavior. The more you chase the more we run. The grip is too intense and you need to back off. I can't stand people getting super attached too quickly because then it starts to suffocate me especially if I'm not entirely sure of them yet. Im Gemini sun and overly emotional people at the beginning sends me packing.

See thats the confusing thing, he was the one initiating a lot of the intensity (well, both of us were). He would tell me he wants to see me as much as he can, spend every night sleeping next to me, that he's crazy about me... texting me these things out of nowhere. It made me attached to him. So what does one do expect but for me to either, a) return the intensity or b) freak out and run for the hills?

Posted by Scorsagian21


I know what you mean...My Taurus/friend, honestly I don't know what we are had me crazy like this too! Ive researched our pluto sextile venus synastry and now I can see why im crazy over him and why we cant stay away from each other. Somehow put your focus on something else, re-train your thoughts so as not to be too intense. I literally had to pray, lol...

Posted by IllaLupus
Some people have the "I can do it but as soon as you do it, I'm out". He was going at you to see where his interest lies.. Gems will really get into you initially at first to see if there is enough interest to persue..
Forget the Taurus, his gem placements will conflict with your scorp placements in the end anyway.. Seen It all too many times. Besides you've already got someone else you've been talking to so the thought "this won't work" crossed your mind enough to talk to the virgo.
Save him and you the trouble of developing something that will probably burn to ash in the end.

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I'm hoping that his one gem placement wont hurt things. I'm far too stubborn to walk away from this just yet. He's literally everything I've looked for in a partner, but he's had awful relationship issues in the past from dating gemini's and aquariuses. The night when he had a serious talk, he seemed more scared of disappointing me and the relationship possibly failing over everything else. I told him I like him a lot, and he said the same thing, my logic to that was, if we both like each other, then whats the worse that can happen? If we are both open and honest with each other, then things will be fine. I'll give him his space, but at the same time, I am going to probably contact him in a few days. We are crazy about each other. As soon as we went to the bar together, after our discussion, he was holding my hand, wrapping his arm around me and telling me he didn't plan on ending things. I'm sure he doesn't want to end things now, but I'm going to ask to slow things down, I cant commit until he's sure of me.

Posted by Scorsagian21

Wow...Sounds just like my guy. Got screwed in past relationships, says he's no good for me. Telling me he knows he's gonna mess things up with me. I don't why I don't walk away,

I'm really head over heels for him, but yeah, he's mostly dated Air signs and hate htheir unemotional flightiness. He says he loves my intensity but it also scares him. You know, I'm cool with giving him a few days, even a week. I'll probably contact him by Wednesday. I can only be myself, I've told him from the beginning I'm an intense person and he is so attracted to my passionate nature. A big part of me keeps thinking he's just terrified of me hurting him, when in fact he's the one that has me wrapped around his finger.

Fuck... I'm Scorp sun and Venus... I wonder if this is how I come across on the intensity scale??!!

Posted by AgentP911
Fuck... I'm Scorp sun and Venus... I wonder if this is how I come across on the intensity scale??!!

Haha maybe. I think I'm totally different in person than within my own thoughts though. Most people see me as super confident and just passionate. I was a fool and let this Taurus guy into my insecurities/emotions way too early.

I'm also a Scorpio Mercury/ Aquarius Mars and Scorpio Pluto.

I'm an intense mess!

Posted by Orpiment
After we talk, he says he realized I've debunked everything he's worried about, so we go

Hahahaha...I'm still reading, but just getting to this part here, I had to take notice. That's exactly how you have to deal with bulls like this. Just let them rattle off their list and logically address it all, put their mind at ease. They are just "over-analyzed fears" exactly as you described it.

Posted by scorchedearth
if you've "fallen" for this taurus what the genuine fuck are you doing talking to a virgo guy behind his back?

Yeah, this is really puzzling for me too.

He's mentioned straight up that he's never had a "one that's got away". I'm certain I'd be that for him, hell, he'd be that for me. I've had many relationships, but totally lacked physical connection, to the point that I thought I had a low libido as I was getting older. I'm good at reading people, extremely good, to the point where I know he's crazy about me and being completely silly. It's only when my insecurities and doubt comes up when I start freaking out and text him about my insecurities.

Posted by Orpiment
I really just want to fix things, but at the same time I don't want to be a fool. I'm a total Scorpio with huge trust issues (Scorpio sun, Mercury, and Venus). I'm trying to not obsess and keep myself a bit emotionally distant at this moment to A)not freak him out, B) not panic anymore than I already have. I really mean it when I'm not intending anything to happen with this guy, I just really need a break from things emotionally, as I've been the one trying to fix everything the past 5 days.... (this all happened on Monday, met up with him Wednesday).

You both actually seem to have pretty strong feelings for each other. When I start rattling off my list of fears to a girl, and let her address them, I am very seriously considering that person for something real and long-term.

But if I would be extremely hurt if I was getting to that point, and you are going out drinking with other dudes (especially ones you apparently have *some* feelings for). Seriously, you need to drop that Virgo fast IMO.

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Posted by scorchedearth
if you've "fallen" for this taurus what the genuine fuck are you doing talking to a virgo guy behind his back?

Yeah, this is really puzzling for me too.

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I explain it a little bit later, it's mostly because I'm completely confused as to what he and I are anymore, and I'm trying anything I can to get my mind off him, even meeting new people. It's literally been completely platonic. All my friends are out on spring break and I have nothing to get my mind off things. The guys a graduate student like me and we've just been venting about our stresses and music shows around our city (we live in a small/packed city pretty much full of students and scholastic, its pretty easy from that to guess what city).

Posted by Orpiment
I'm good at reading people, extremely good...

That much I can tell already. I just saw your pms. I will respond there. There's always so much info left out in the Scorp's public version...lol.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

You both actually seem to have pretty strong feelings for each other. When I start rattling off my list of fears to a girl, and let her address them, I am very seriously considering that person for something real and long-term.

But if I would be extremely hurt if I was getting to that point, and you are going out drinking with other dudes (especially ones you apparently have *some* feelings for). Seriously, you need to drop that Virgo fast IMO.

No real feelings for the guy at all, I'm surrounded by males (we are all artists types, so I'm usually out drinking with male friends one on one often). So far, Taurus has seemed ok with it as he's seen me interact with people and its completely platonic, no flirting, no nothing. I've naturally made friends with males and end up having a ton of brother types.

I guess part of me is assuming things are already over, as it's in his court to make a move, and I'd feel like a fool if I wait around for his text, when I can hang out with others and have a good time with no expectation of a date or romance.

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Posted by Orpiment
I'm good at reading people, extremely good...

That much I can tell already. I just saw your pms. I will respond there. There's always so much info left out in the Scorp's public version...lol.

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Yeah, although I'm an artist, I specifically work with science and the way we think based off our memories and connections to people. Basically why we make the decisions we do. Studying that coupled with being a Scorpio makes me really perceptive, at the same time, makes me also think the worst. Whats so frustrating is this guy clearly likes me and is psyching himself out. I want to reassure him but not smother, The Virgo thing is me trying to keep a distance from Taurus. I have a feeling he's not going to come back based off me telling him I'm worried I'm not going to comfortable being myself around him. Anyways, sorry for constantly replying and spamming this post. I keep thinking about things. It's hard trying to be confident and supportive all the time when you've got your own insecurities, I've got so much stress in my life.

I'm still meeting this guy tonight, see if he's cool. I've been trying to find more people to hang out with, as I'm tired of just the visual artists, been looking for more musician friends.

Its seems with gemini venuses they are better at initiating. Im a scorpio venus and my friend is a gemini venus. When we text he's fine as long as he's in control. He says i interrogate too much, so when i start to take over the convo he disappears. In other words, dont call him. Let him come to you. Then youd know he's okay to continue to pursue and move forward. Again, let the Virgo go, for now atleast. If you are dealing with a guy who is insecure about things why add another guy in the mix. Just because you have no intentions of things moving forward does not mean the Virgo feelings will not develop.

how many days has it been? you need to give this taurus a chance. hold your nerve and if you say this is the guy for you then mean it. if it was true then no other man is even, (could even!) be a consideration.

jumping to the virgo as a way to get the taurus off your mind reeks of desperation and weakness.

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Posted by Orpiment
I'm good at reading people, extremely good...

That much I can tell already. I just saw your pms. I will respond there. There's always so much info left out in the Scorp's public version...lol.

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I'll fuck off to the back of the list then! It's only been four months...

I just have to say that Taurus men are EXTREMELY scared of being hurt by a Scorpio woman because your sting and poision will hurt us like no other pain we will ever experience in our lives.We sense this about you really quick then start to fear you because we don't feel like we could live our lives worry free with you especially when we fear you maybe giving someone else your time and attentionthat's the fastest way of making us let you go even if we know we don't want to we will force it. So please don't be doing shady shit if you really want him you got to prove it to us that you really want us.

Well he messaged me back, not really saying much aside from sorry for making this complicated. Not talking about his feelings, aside for apologizing for hurting me. I replied back reassuring, trying to stay calm. I'll tell this guy tonight about things when I meet him. I'm not going to cancel so close to the meetup time.

I have to say, scorpios are extremely scared of being hurt too. We try really hard to hide it, but we wear our hearts on our sleeve. When I was younger I had a sting, but I'm almost 30 and my needles definitely soften. When people hurt me now, I just end up taking it out on me rather than lashing out.

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Posted by Orpiment
I'm good at reading people, extremely good...

That much I can tell already. I just saw your pms. I will respond there. There's always so much info left out in the Scorp's public version...lol.

I'll fuck off to the back of the list then! It's only been four months...

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LOL! This is like 2 weeks Taurus time. I will respond to you FIRST.

Posted by LentoBull91
I just have to say that Taurus men are EXTREMELY scared of being hurt by a Scorpio woman because your sting and poision will hurt us like no other pain we will ever experience in our lives.We sense this about you really quick then start to fear you because we don't feel like we could live our lives worry free with you

This is all 100% true for me, and this was like just an instantaneous knowing the first time I ever even saw the Scorp that I was obsessed with. It is SO EASY to run from this because its terrifying.

I know I'm coming off as weak, and I probably am. It doesnt help we spent about an hour or two discussing all his fears about me. Basically things he thought were my problem and what was wrong with me, making us incompatible, I had to keep reassuring him that it was all a misunderstanding, but it made me feel extremely low about myself. I pretty much assumed things were over. This message he replied with today certainly doesnt help with this.

I know I'm talking to virgo guy was to keep me from getting even more hurt. I deleted my account this morning. Tonight I just need to relax and be calm. I just want this guy to tell/reassure me that he does in fact want to be with me...

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Posted by Orpiment
I'm good at reading people, extremely good...

That much I can tell already. I just saw your pms. I will respond there. There's always so much info left out in the Scorp's public version...lol.

I'll fuck off to the back of the list then! It's only been four months...

LOL! This is like 2 weeks Taurus time. I will respond to you FIRST.

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Yeah, to everyone else it's one third of an entire year...

No need to try and make me feel special... Your fairy dust charm will not work on me...

Posted by Orpiment
I know I'm coming off as weak, and I probably am. It doesnt help we spent about an hour or two discussing all his fears about me. Basically things he thought were my problem and what was wrong with me, making us incompatible, I had to keep reassuring him that it was all a misunderstanding, but it made me feel extremely low about myself. I pretty much assumed things were over. This message he replied with today certainly doesnt help with this.

I know I'm talking to virgo guy was to keep me from getting even more hurt. I deleted my account this morning. Tonight I just need to relax and be calm. I just want this guy to tell/reassure me that he does in fact want to be with me...

taurus or not. this guy or another one, you have to know your worth and you have to be strong in yourself. you are all you have. to a certain extent is life is a take it or leave it kind of deal. you can compromise, you can be understanding, you can be flexible but you cannot change who you are at your core. once you embrace that fact you won't need to desperately cling to another guy so quickly.

you like this one? you want him? then don't give up so quickly. give him a chance. give yourself one too. stay the course and be prepared to fight for what you want.

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Posted by Orpiment
I'm good at reading people, extremely good...

That much I can tell already. I just saw your pms. I will respond there. There's always so much info left out in the Scorp's public version...lol.

I'll fuck off to the back of the list then! It's only been four months...

LOL! This is like 2 weeks Taurus time. I will respond to you FIRST.

Yeah, to everyone else it's one third of an entire year...

No need to try and make me feel special... Your fairy dust charm will not work on me...

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Don't be mad. I'll explain.

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Posted by Orpiment
I'm good at reading people, extremely good...

That much I can tell already. I just saw your pms. I will respond there. There's always so much info left out in the Scorp's public version...lol.

I'll fuck off to the back of the list then! It's only been four months...

LOL! This is like 2 weeks Taurus time. I will respond to you FIRST.

Yeah, to everyone else it's one third of an entire year...

No need to try and make me feel special... Your fairy dust charm will not work on me...

Don't be mad. I'll explain.

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Oh I'm all ears...

Although probably less relevant now.

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Posted by Orpiment
I'm good at reading people, extremely good...

That much I can tell already. I just saw your pms. I will respond there. There's always so much info left out in the Scorp's public version...lol.

I'll fuck off to the back of the list then! It's only been four months...

LOL! This is like 2 weeks Taurus time. I will respond to you FIRST.

Yeah, to everyone else it's one third of an entire year...

No need to try and make me feel special... Your fairy dust charm will not work on me...

Don't be mad. I'll explain.

Oh I'm all ears...

Although probably less relevant now.

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I guess this means I can expect to never hear from TLS right?

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Posted by Orpiment
I'm good at reading people, extremely good...

That much I can tell already. I just saw your pms. I will respond there. There's always so much info left out in the Scorp's public version...lol.

I'll fuck off to the back of the list then! It's only been four months...

LOL! This is like 2 weeks Taurus time. I will respond to you FIRST.

Yeah, to everyone else it's one third of an entire year...

No need to try and make me feel special... Your fairy dust charm will not work on me...

Don't be mad. I'll explain.

Oh I'm all ears...

Although probably less relevant now.

I guess this means I can expect to never hear from TLS right?

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There's a queue...

Plus I thought you were chilling out on the Taurus and having a friendly night with the Virgo.

Posted by tiziani
I think it's risky business telling a Scorpio woman to "not give up so quickly"

i can't help it. she's insulting my scorp venus. she's letting the side down with her fickleness. 😉

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Posted by tiziani
I think it's risky business telling a Scorpio woman to "not give up so quickly"

i can't help it. she's insulting my scorp venus. she's letting the side down with her fickleness. 😉

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Yeah but sometimes we really need to learn when to just give up!!

Posted by AgentP911

Yeah but sometimes we really need to learn when to just give up!!

NEVER SURRENDER!!!!! 😄

I'm not really giving up on him. I just feel like he's the one giving up on things too easily. Its been about 24 hours since his last message, which pretty much said nothing in terms of what he wants, so honestly not much has been said by him since Wednesday when we were in person. I know at this point he probably thinks he's ruined things between us, which makes him even more scared to continue. I just know that more than anything, I really want to see him again. He's going over to his mom's house tonight for dinner, hopefully she will ask about me and he will start thinking about things again and start really missing me. The last message I sent him was really trying to be supportive and encouraging, explaining why I freaked out.

The meet up with Virgo guy yesterday, was ok. Really smart, interesting guy, probably the smartest guy I've ever been on a date with, could barely keep up mentally. Just kept thinking about the Taurus all night. We were out too late and too far from his bike, so Virgo ended up spending the night (clothes on, no physical stuff). We went out for brunch then parted ways. Didn't really set up any second date or anything. No real chemistry, I kept thinking about how much easier everything flowed with Taurus....

Ugh, I swear, my luck just keeps getting worse and worse in terms of things happening by outside parties.
Last night I sent him a text: Hey, I know things are a little unclear right now, but I hope you are having a nice time with your family and had a nice celebration for your mom. Sorry about things.

No reply, which I didnt expect to get. But anyways I fell asleep. Apparently my mom tried contacting me last night and freaked out when she couldn't get in contact with me. (I accidentally fell asleep in my studio). Anyways I get this text at 5:30 in the morning:
Taurus: Hey your parents just sent me a long fb message saying they are extremely worried because you never called them last night. Please call them asap and let them know you are ok.
Me: I'm sorry about that.
T: Its ok, hope you are ok and everything is fine.
M: I'm fine. I just seem to have an insurmountable amount of bad luck lately. (explained what happened)
T: It's ok, I assumed as much. Just glad you are fine.
I thought about things for a while. He had not responded to my FB messages (he gets texts often late and out of order , so he asked me to start sending him FB messages instad as he gets them instantly), instead messaging me on text. Part of me wonders if its because he has begun responding to my lengthy FB message and can't delete it/just hasn't finished it. I know he's super busy right now too...

Anyways, like the stubborn person I am, I send him a text later:
Dumb Butt me: Thanks, I know I should be giving you space to think about things, and you've been super busy, but this morning shook me up a little. Is there a chance you'd be free sometime to talk about things? I understand you're busy or if things are too stressful at the moment.

I fucked up pretty badly, didn't I? I know he's worried about a lot of things (especially tat things are damaged beyond repair on my side after me having to defend myself). I just want to meet up with him to explain that although it did suck to have to defend myself as a person, I won't hold things against him.

It's frustrating because I know for a fact he's just worried about getting hurt with me. He keeps bringing up my intensity, and I know he loves it, but I think he's worried about my negative emotions wen he really has no reason to.

And by shook up I mean about my mom. I woke up to find 5 missed voicemails, and spent 10 minutes with her crying on the phone. I did not see what they wrote to him, but that also freaked me out big time. I hope he will be understanding. I swear, when it rains, it pours.

Jesus Christ. You are seriously fucked up. I thought I was bad at not knowing when to leave things alone but I think you win hands down in that score!

All this in three weeks?

Wow.

My parents certainly didn't help the situation, seriously I had no control over that. Don't know how I could've handled that any other way. At this point, I'm just going to assume it's over and not focus on it, but once I've dropped someone mentally, there's no real turning back for me. All this happened in the course of a week, though we have been seeing each other about a month. Best spring break ever...

To me, sending him that last text doesn't seem like such a big deal. My parents doing what they did (considering i'm almost 30, but live about 1500 miles away)is what really freaks me out.

Posted by AgentP911
Jesus Christ. You are seriously fucked up. I thought I was bad at not knowing when to leave things alone but I think you win hands down in that score!

All this in three weeks?

Wow.

Ha! Agent im even worse than you on not knowing when to leave butter alone (i did magically today!) and she even left me behind on this one.

OP- The more you try the more he'll run. if you run and expect to be chased he wont chase. When u truly let it all go and leave it alone, thats when he will appear again for more confusion so good luck.

Care too little and you'll loose them. Care too much and you'll get hurt.

So..if you love someone let them go, if you hate someone let them go. Basically just let everyone go.

Yeah I know I'm dumb. I'm not going to message him at all any more. I just prefer someone to tell me straight up and be done with it. The messages I've gotten have told me absolutely nothing. I'm done trying at this point. I'll put my focus onto other things and friends (classes begin resume tomorrow) Normally this would've been easy to ignore, but spring break, a sprained ankle and the shitty weather has kept me indoors, left to my own thoughts.

Seezy,

What's the latest—

Come on, feed my need for gossip and interesting stuff!!

Posted by Orpiment
My parents certainly didn't help the situation, seriously I had no control over that. Don't know how I could've handled that any other way. At this point, I'm just going to assume it's over and not focus on it, but once I've dropped someone mentally, there's no real turning back for me. All this happened in the course of a week, though we have been seeing each other about a month. Best spring break ever...

To me, sending him that last text doesn't seem like such a big deal. My parents doing what they did (considering i'm almost 30, but live about 1500 miles away)is what really freaks me out.

why would you assume this? it's been a week! give him a chance to catch his breath. stop making rash (and they are rash) decisions. take a deep breath, leave him the fuck alone and see what happens. let the dust settle before you start jacking everything in and dating other men. i know i can jump off the deep end too at times but ffs, calm your tits.

Posted by AgentP911
Seezy,

What's the latest—

Come on, feed my need for gossip and interesting stuff!!

i second this.

Posted by Orpiment
Yeah I know I'm dumb. I'm not going to message him at all any more. I just prefer someone to tell me straight up and be done with it. The messages I've gotten have told me absolutely nothing. I'm done trying at this point. I'll put my focus onto other things and friends (classes begin resume tomorrow) Normally this would've been easy to ignore, but spring break, a sprained ankle and the shitty weather has kept me indoors, left to my own thoughts.

Maybe he can't be straight up if he doesn't know how he feels yet and therefore can't answer your questions or be straight with you.

Just because it suits you to know doesn't mean he's ready to fulfil your need.

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Maybe he can't be straight up if he doesn't know how he feels yet and therefore can't answer your questions or be straight with you.

Just because it suits you to know doesn't mean he's ready to fulfil your need.

agreed. absolutely right.