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Posted by jeanePosted by AgentP911
Seezy,
What's the latest—
Come on, feed my need for gossip and interesting stuff!!
i second this.click to expand
I chose to run as far as possible. I was even late enough to make the decision. And to give it a good spice, i chose to do it when he least expected it. I took enough bs from him, tried more than i should. The second hes taken my good intentions for granted.. goodbye..
Posted by Orpiment
I know I know, I didnt mean dating other men, this weekend sort of proved that to me. I just meant assume its over and if he wants to pick things back up its up to him. I just cant handle grey areas. My parents really sent me off the deep end this morning, waking up and finding out they contacted like 2 of my exes, my roommates and my friends in addition to the Taurus because they couldn't reach me (this has never happened before).
Honestly the only rash thing I feel like i've done is meet up with the virgo. None of the messages I've sent him have necessarily been rash, most have been replies to his own messages, thoughts and concerns. I do regret the message I sent him thursday morning, about feeling uncomfortable, but thats about it. I tend to sound much more panicked on here that I appear to him, as I internalize most of my worries. When we met up Wednesday, he was the one being a nervous wreck, while I was calm, cool and collected. To the point where he mentioned it several times in surprise.
your thinking is rash. the greatest lesson i have learned from dealing with a taurus is patience patience patience. it was hard in the beginning but i think i have a pretty good handle on it now. trust the process. trust him. trust yourself. don't think anything. it is far too soon. it's been a week. deal with things as they happen otherwise you are going to psych yourself out over nothing.
Posted by seezythescorpion
I chose to run as far as possible. I was even late enough to make the decision. And to give it a good spice, i chose to do it when he least expected it. I took enough bs from him, tried more than i should. The second hes taken my good intentions for granted.. goodbye..
sorry seezy. you certainly tried. i'm sorry it didn't work out in your favour but glad you found out now rather than further down the track.
Posted by AgentP911Posted by Orpiment
Yeah I know I'm dumb. I'm not going to message him at all any more. I just prefer someone to tell me straight up and be done with it. The messages I've gotten have told me absolutely nothing. I'm done trying at this point. I'll put my focus onto other things and friends (classes begin resume tomorrow) Normally this would've been easy to ignore, but spring break, a sprained ankle and the shitty weather has kept me indoors, left to my own thoughts.
Maybe he can't be straight up if he doesn't know how he feels yet and therefore can't answer your questions or be straight with you.
Just because it suits you to know doesn't mean he's ready to fulfil your need.click to expand
Thats true. I guess what I mostly want is to just hear from him that he needs a few days.
Basically it went from
Monday: the I love you prank
Tuesday: Taurus=I need a day or two, but you will see me before next friday
Tuesday night: Taurus=I'm an idiot, lets hang out tomorrow.
Wenesday night:Taurus= You've explained and debunked everything, I feel much better.
Thursday: I sent message about insecurities. To which he responded later that he was too messed up to talk.
Friday: Taurus=This is what I was afraid of, that I already dug myself into a hole. Everything is confusing.
Friday night: Send him text explaining that I was being silly and that my insecurities shouldnt get into he way of things.
Satuday night: Wish him a nice weekend.
Sunday: Parents disastah! Apologize for parents. Ask to talk sometime whenever he's free, not today, just any day.
Thats about all I've done. I havent pressure him to answer anything. Would I like to meet up with him to hear what he's thinking about, but I'm not trying to get an answer as much as trying to understand things. I feel like he's freaking out now because he's worried about "the hole he's dug". I've had several male friends read the messages I've sent them and they've literally all replied "damn, thats very reassuring, calm and collected" making sure it wasn't needy, pressuring or anything.
Posted by jeane
your thinking is rash. the greatest lesson i have learned from dealing with a taurus is patience patience patience. it was hard in the beginning but i think i have a pretty good handle on it now. trust the process. trust him. trust yourself. don't think anything. it is far too soon. it's been a week. deal with things as they happen otherwise you are going to psych yourself out over nothing.
Yeah I know you're probably right. I'll try to be patient. Maybe make myself some banana pancakes. I installed a program to keep me from using facebook on my browser. Wish I had something to keep me from accessing my phone. How can Scorpio's not think the absolute worse?
fyi: Sun: Scorpio, Moon: Capricorn, Merc: Scorpio, Venus: Scorpio, Mars: Gemini
I was destined to be a nervous intense mess, wasn't I?
i agree with Jeane here.
She has given alot of good advice to me when needed too. My situation has been a lot different.
Patience with Taurus is definitely the key. Ive done that for too long, always calm not pushy and understanding. Been a friend, been there till recently. If they are not willing to take it theres only so much u can do.
Please dont make assumptions And relax your thoughts. let him have his space And think about things. A week or 2 is nothing for a Taurus while it seems to feel like a year or 2 to yourself. Back off and be patient.
She has given alot of good advice to me when needed too. My situation has been a lot different.
Patience with Taurus is definitely the key. Ive done that for too long, always calm not pushy and understanding. Been a friend, been there till recently. If they are not willing to take it theres only so much u can do.
Please dont make assumptions And relax your thoughts. let him have his space And think about things. A week or 2 is nothing for a Taurus while it seems to feel like a year or 2 to yourself. Back off and be patient.
And to let u know. Im a scorp sun, aries moon, scorp venus, scorp merc, scorp pluto and gem mars myself. i totally can understand your freak outs But believe me it wont help you with anything. You really need to be patient.
Posted by jeanePosted by seezythescorpion
I chose to run as far as possible. I was even late enough to make the decision. And to give it a good spice, i chose to do it when he least expected it. I took enough bs from him, tried more than i should. The second hes taken my good intentions for granted.. goodbye..
sorry seezy. you certainly tried. i'm sorry it didn't work out in your favour but glad you found out now rather than further down the track.click to expand
Thanks Jeane. Ill rise from the ashes. I really did try and it didnt seem to be appreciated, it boosted his ego more than anything, took my kindness for granted. I had to do what i did for my own good. Im sure he was shocked when he realised it. It would only be worse if i took longer. It already has been bad enough.
Posted by seezythescorpion
And to let u know. Im a scorp sun, aries moon, scorp venus, scorp merc, scorp pluto and gem mars myself. i totally can understand your freak outs But believe me it wont help you with anything. You really need to be patient.
Haha I'm a scorpio pluto too! Damn, we are almost the same person. My freakout would be so much less had the stars not align for all this. I've never been so embarrassed as having my parents contact someone I'm seeing.
I'm going to be patient. I really appreciate all of ya'll taking your time and making effort to write to me. I"ll probably continue posting on this thread, but only to keep my sanity. Wish I could just take a break and take a hot bath, but this new apartment I moved into is shower only... Baths are my forms of meditation.
For now, I'm going to pretend as if he doesn't exist. Get him out of my mind until he decides to contact me. Hopefully he will eventually come around, as I accidentally left my favorite pair of earrings at his place wednesday night...
Posted by OrpimentPosted by seezythescorpionFor now, I'm going to pretend as if he doesn't exist. Get him out of my mind until he decides to contact me. Hopefully he will eventually come around, as I accidentally left my favorite pair of earrings at his place wednesday night...
And to let u know. Im a scorp sun, aries moon, scorp venus, scorp merc, scorp pluto and gem mars myself. i totally can understand your freak outs But believe me it wont help you with anything. You really need to be patient.
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U got that right almost very alike to the point where 1- i doubt you will be able to get him out of ur mind so quickly and 2- u sure those earings were left at his place accidentally?? Just curious. Hahaha
Posted by seezythescorpionPosted by OrpimentPosted by seezythescorpionFor now, I'm going to pretend as if he doesn't exist. Get him out of my mind until he decides to contact me. Hopefully he will eventually come around, as I accidentally left my favorite pair of earrings at his place wednesday night...
And to let u know. Im a scorp sun, aries moon, scorp venus, scorp merc, scorp pluto and gem mars myself. i totally can understand your freak outs But believe me it wont help you with anything. You really need to be patient.
U got that right almost very alike to the point where 1- i doubt you will be able to get him out of ur mind so quickly and 2- u sure those earings were left at his place accidentally?? Just curious. Hahahaclick to expand
Sadly I did as he accidentally knocked one out of my ear when we got to his bedroom and I forgot to look for it in the morning. I've almost lost those earrings from the last guy too. I just need to keep my ears nude!
And I do have a life, but yeah circumstances prevented me from actually doing much. Literally everyone I know is gone for spring break, sprained ankle has kept me from being outside long, my art and knitting is a little too tedious at the moment... I'm usually out 5-6 nights a week/ art galleries/ museums/ jazz bars/ etc. I cant read as it's all too distracting. Maybe I'll go to another jazz bar tonight, but I never go alone as every time I do I've gotten into shady situations, so I'd have to see who is in the area.
I know, I know, I already said I wont contact him any more and I mean it.Asking to talk about things when he has some time is really meant to be my final action, I really couldn't stand to do anything else. I have too much to focus on now as it is, with school and work back in action tomorrow. The only reason I'm on my computer now is to work on my thesis writing. I've already installed a program to keep me off social media for the next few hours while I get this done.
Posted by seezythescorpionPosted by Orpiment
For now, I'm going to pretend as if he doesn't exist. Get him out of my mind until he decides to contact me. Hopefully he will eventually come around, as I accidentally left my favorite pair of earrings at his place wednesday night...
U got that right almost very alike to the point where 1- i doubt you will be able to get him out of ur mind so quickly and 2- u sure those earings were left at his place accidentally?? Just curious. Hahahaclick to expand
trying to get him off your mind will almost be an impossible ask. obsessing is inevitable.
unfortunately it sounds like it's just a sitting on hands situation and accepting the torture that is riding it out.
Posted by jeanePosted by seezythescorpionPosted by Orpiment
For now, I'm going to pretend as if he doesn't exist. Get him out of my mind until he decides to contact me. Hopefully he will eventually come around, as I accidentally left my favorite pair of earrings at his place wednesday night...
U got that right almost very alike to the point where 1- i doubt you will be able to get him out of ur mind so quickly and 2- u sure those earings were left at his place accidentally?? Just curious. Hahaha
trying to get him off your mind will almost be an impossible ask. obsessing is inevitable.
unfortunately it sounds like it's just a sitting on hands situation and accepting the torture that is riding it out.click to expand
Yeah I know, talking about it to you guys is helping a lot. It's been a stressful day, you can imagine how nice it is to get messages from two of my exes this morning...
Posted by HotbeefyPosted by OrpimentPosted by seezythescorpion
And to let u know. Im a scorp sun, aries moon, scorp venus, scorp merc, scorp pluto and gem mars myself. i totally can understand your freak outs But believe me it wont help you with anything. You really need to be patient.
Haha I'm a scorpio pluto too! Damn, we are almost the same person. My freakout would be so much less had the stars not align for all this. I've never been so embarrassed as having my parents contact someone I'm seeing.
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People born on 1984-1995 has Pluto in Scorpio...click to expand
Yeah but she and I also have the same Sun, Mars, Mercury and Venus 😛
You guys are going to be so mad, but my roommates and friends, when telling them the situation and showing them messages, told me to at least send him one more last night, telling him my parents did not only contact him, but others, so that he didn't feel singled out by them. Anyways, havent messaged since, will leave him alone completely now. Literally the only reason I sent that was people insisted it was important and he may get the wrong idea (that my parents immediately contacted only him). I expect many people on here to yell at me or give up on this thread from it. Please don't 😢 I swear I'm not contacting him again.
Anyways, what I'm really posting to ask is if taurus are known to just disappear completely? Or will he actually give me an answer when he comes to it? Will I actually get dumped properly or left hanging? (I know that's not something you can actually answer, I just mean are taurus known to do this?
Also, I'm not sure I included it, but hes a:
Sun:Taurus, Moon:Virgo, Mercury:Taurus, Venus:Gemini, Mars:Capricorn
Anyways, what I'm really posting to ask is if taurus are known to just disappear completely? Or will he actually give me an answer when he comes to it? Will I actually get dumped properly or left hanging? (I know that's not something you can actually answer, I just mean are taurus known to do this?
Also, I'm not sure I included it, but hes a:
Sun:Taurus, Moon:Virgo, Mercury:Taurus, Venus:Gemini, Mars:Capricorn
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Honestly the only rash thing I feel like i've done is meet up with the virgo. None of the messages I've sent him have necessarily been rash, most have been replies to his own messages, thoughts and concerns. I do regret the message I sent him thursday morning, about feeling uncomfortable, but thats about it. I tend to sound much more panicked on here that I appear to him, as I internalize most of my worries. When we met up Wednesday, he was the one being a nervous wreck, while I was calm, cool and collected. To the point where he mentioned it several times in surprise.