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Taurus females and needing 'space'
Taurus female here. So, you should respect the space wanting. If you don't, it can come off as being clingy. But be consistent and don't just leave her alone. Even if she didn't come down for whatever reason, she would have appreciated the effort. I would've probably done the same ? Or I would have come down and not known how to react because I was still trying to figure out whether to trust you or not. She is starting random conversations because she is testing the waters. She is interested but scared of getting in too deep with you. Earn that trust with her and show her she can trust you.
Hope that helps!
Hope that helps!
Why doesn't she like your friends?
If a Taurus doesn't feel comfortable or see that you aren't willing to bend, you will lose her trust. You seem as stubborn as her though. ?
What is your sign?
If a Taurus doesn't feel comfortable or see that you aren't willing to bend, you will lose her trust. You seem as stubborn as her though. ?
What is your sign?
@Jane84 - i'm a Gem.
No, infact, the very friends she's talking about i'm moving away from slowly for personal reasons. But like I said, she's being very stubborn - any time I try and explain this to her, she argues back about the fact yet says that she is only trying to get her point across haha
No, infact, the very friends she's talking about i'm moving away from slowly for personal reasons. But like I said, she's being very stubborn - any time I try and explain this to her, she argues back about the fact yet says that she is only trying to get her point across haha
Posted by mcaeserI see well, in my opinion, Taurus are the most stubborn of the zodiac so I can see that happening.
@Jane84 - i'm a Gem.
No, infact, the very friends she's talking about i'm moving away from slowly for personal reasons. But like I said, she's being very stubborn - any time I try and explain this to her, she argues back about the fact yet says that she is only trying to get her point across haha
But again, anything that makes her feel uncomfortable will continue to do so until she sees the action taking place. Explaining will only take you so far, actions will mean more.
Let her come around to you. Reply if she initiates but don't push too much yourself. I know it seems selfish and one sided but she needs time to consider and take care of whatever it is and when she is ready to talk, hopefully she can directly tell you where she sees it going from there. Taurus generally think pretty long term so the choice of people around us we take pretty seriously. Patience, friend! Good luck!
Posted by AbbyNormalYeah I agree.. Just be patient.. Im a taurus girl and somehow I could imagine my gemini friend writing your post lol ... We butt heads alot ... He liked me, but my story is different cause we both agreed to stay only friends (my choice) and it took me a couple of months to decide actually. If she needs space, give it to her, dont blame her for taking space or poke too much cause she will get fed up and you also dont want her to see u as being clingy .. My gem friend would keep asking me whats wrong if im quiet for a few days, and it annoys me like hell cause nothing is wrong, only his what may seem like insecure questions that make me fed up.
Let her come around to you. Reply if she initiates but don't push too much yourself. I know it seems selfish and one sided but she needs time to consider and take care of whatever it is and when she is ready to talk, hopefully she can directly tell you where she sees it going from there. Taurus generally think pretty long term so the choice of people around us we take pretty seriously. Patience, friend! Good luck!
So yeh take ur time, and let her do the same, life will be much easier..
Im curious to know ur mercury signs?
Posted by AbbyNormalI agree. And try asking her about HER. Nothing frustrates me and makes me want to dismiss a guy more than someone who doesn't really listen and speaks only from his point of view disregarding mine. This makes me back off, using the "I need to think about things", or "let's continue this conversation another time". When a bullette wants space, give her space. Otherwise you'll just end up being stressed. She's doing some thinking and analyzing right now. Relationships are important to Taurus. They need to see if you measure up and can fit into their lives long term. I hope this helps a little.
Let her come around to you. Reply if she initiates but don't push too much yourself. I know it seems selfish and one sided but she needs time to consider and take care of whatever it is and when she is ready to talk, hopefully she can directly tell you where she sees it going from there. Taurus generally think pretty long term so the choice of people around us we take pretty seriously. Patience, friend! Good luck!
If you're a gemini it could be hard. Im a taurus lady and me and gemini's aren't the best combo. I know a lot of gemini's and we clash all the time.
I've dated a gemini a long while ago but eventually it didn't work out. We were too different.
Taureans can be real stubborn and if we say we need space, we really do.
Don't push her just check up on her and maybe adk her directly what she wants. We appericiate honesty and being honest ourselfs too.
I've dated a gemini a long while ago but eventually it didn't work out. We were too different.
Taureans can be real stubborn and if we say we need space, we really do.
Don't push her just check up on her and maybe adk her directly what she wants. We appericiate honesty and being honest ourselfs too.
thanks for your msgs guys, so we had the 'talk'.
I would have rather had it in person, but one thing led to another and we had it online - she mentioned she didn't want it in person anyway cause she hates confrontation.
Long story short, she said she didn't want to get attached right now cause she gets attached easily and with everything happening in her life she didn't want that. She said she wanted to concentrate on her work and studies right now, which is fair enough and i'd never get in the way of that.
She also said that she wanted to stay close, and remain friends, and that she doesn't know what'll happen in the future but she doesn't want me to wait if something else comes along. From a gem point of view, I sort of took that on face value, as it probably won't happen. Might be wrong but time changes lots of things, and being close but friends isn't a concept I like haha
Will see what happens, if anyone has any finals thoughts much appreciated 🙂 Obviously after the way we've moved onto the normal routine of talking everyday and chatting, she even starts most of the chats daily which is interesting....
I would have rather had it in person, but one thing led to another and we had it online - she mentioned she didn't want it in person anyway cause she hates confrontation.
Long story short, she said she didn't want to get attached right now cause she gets attached easily and with everything happening in her life she didn't want that. She said she wanted to concentrate on her work and studies right now, which is fair enough and i'd never get in the way of that.
She also said that she wanted to stay close, and remain friends, and that she doesn't know what'll happen in the future but she doesn't want me to wait if something else comes along. From a gem point of view, I sort of took that on face value, as it probably won't happen. Might be wrong but time changes lots of things, and being close but friends isn't a concept I like haha
Will see what happens, if anyone has any finals thoughts much appreciated 🙂 Obviously after the way we've moved onto the normal routine of talking everyday and chatting, she even starts most of the chats daily which is interesting....
Posted by TxOgalMy mercury is in Taurus apparantly, go figure....Posted by AbbyNormalYeah I agree.. Just be patient.. Im a taurus girl and somehow I could imagine my gemini friend writing your post lol ... We butt heads alot ... He liked me, but my story is different cause we both agreed to stay only friends (my choice) and it took me a couple of months to decide actually. If she needs space, give it to her, dont blame her for taking space or poke too much cause she will get fed up and you also dont want her to see u as being clingy .. My gem friend would keep asking me whats wrong if im quiet for a few days, and it annoys me like hell cause nothing is wrong, only his what may seem like insecure questions that make me fed up.
Let her come around to you. Reply if she initiates but don't push too much yourself. I know it seems selfish and one sided but she needs time to consider and take care of whatever it is and when she is ready to talk, hopefully she can directly tell you where she sees it going from there. Taurus generally think pretty long term so the choice of people around us we take pretty seriously. Patience, friend! Good luck!
So yeh take ur time, and let her do the same, life will be much easier..
Im curious to know ur mercury signs?
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Posted by mcaesergood, then leave it at that - it doesn't mean it won't happen, it just won't happen in your time - she needs to take her time and isn't sure plus has some obligations to fulfill - in talking daily and chatting it will be more comfortable and you will get to know each other better - all is never done but the trials and tribulations will make or break you both ...
thanks for your msgs guys, so we had the 'talk'.
I would have rather had it in person, but one thing led to another and we had it online - she mentioned she didn't want it in person anyway cause she hates confrontation.
Long story short, she said she didn't want to get attached right now cause she gets attached easily and with everything happening in her life she didn't want that. She said she wanted to concentrate on her work and studies right now, which is fair enough and i'd never get in the way of that.
She also said that she wanted to stay close, and remain friends, and that she doesn't know what'll happen in the future but she doesn't want me to wait if something else comes along. From a gem point of view, I sort of took that on face value, as it probably won't happen. Might be wrong but time changes lots of things, and being close but friends isn't a concept I like haha
Will see what happens, if anyone has any finals thoughts much appreciated 🙂 Obviously after the way we've moved onto the normal routine of talking everyday and chatting, she even starts most of the chats daily which is interesting....
@redoctober Defs get where you're coming from. Hopefully she's the girl who hasn't given job LOL but the gem in me does sort of think that's the case. She is a very friendly/social person in general so there may be some truth to what you've said.
@tishtosh she's intiating contact about 95% of the time, and obvs as a gem I love communication. It's very easy aswell because we share alot of interests. I guess the thing that got me was her friend said that she needed me in her life. Didn't really know what to make of that but yeah taking time to focus on myself and work. If she talks I respond, if not it's okay.
@tishtosh she's intiating contact about 95% of the time, and obvs as a gem I love communication. It's very easy aswell because we share alot of interests. I guess the thing that got me was her friend said that she needed me in her life. Didn't really know what to make of that but yeah taking time to focus on myself and work. If she talks I respond, if not it's okay.
Space may help the heart and mind grow fonder but if there's any red flags while being friends first then the space and detach of the air moon and other air placements they take awhile pros and cons.
So another update.
Things got totally fkd. I think. She wanted me to defend her to my friend after he acted like a fuckboy and she found it disrespectful. She wanted an apology, but my friend really didn't care about it at all (like...at all). I spoke to him and told him she felt bad about it and wanted him to apologise, but he didn't want too. I wasn't going to force him cause that's exactly what she didn't want. Anyway, she said I didn't do enough and didn't make it a big deal - which is wrong. I went about it the best way I know how to get what she wanted aka the apology.
Anyway no idea where it's going now, she told me she knew I've done a lot for her and she's more pissed at the situation and my "friends" then me. But feelings are it may be done...any final thoughts??
Things got totally fkd. I think. She wanted me to defend her to my friend after he acted like a fuckboy and she found it disrespectful. She wanted an apology, but my friend really didn't care about it at all (like...at all). I spoke to him and told him she felt bad about it and wanted him to apologise, but he didn't want too. I wasn't going to force him cause that's exactly what she didn't want. Anyway, she said I didn't do enough and didn't make it a big deal - which is wrong. I went about it the best way I know how to get what she wanted aka the apology.
Anyway no idea where it's going now, she told me she knew I've done a lot for her and she's more pissed at the situation and my "friends" then me. But feelings are it may be done...any final thoughts??
Who talks like that. Hmm Fuckbois @ands is that you.
I got your back the first day you met me and never tell you. Because I start from bottom to the top like tiers or levels.
.So it's all up to each other to show it their way. I'm fixed mars so it will always be exactly the same. It's only different when too many indifference with my air moon sets in. You got a friend for life but fuck it up then bye Felicia.
.So it's all up to each other to show it their way. I'm fixed mars so it will always be exactly the same. It's only different when too many indifference with my air moon sets in. You got a friend for life but fuck it up then bye Felicia.
@tishtosh you are 100% spot on. She wanted me to make a big deal out of it because that would have shown I cared, and when I didn't she said I did that so me and him would still be friends. I said it nicely because she wasn't getting an apology either way so why cause another situation out of the first one. You're so spot on its crazy! I guess what I should ask is from this point how can I get it normal again and then get her ok. She realised everything I had done for her, she just said she's tired of the situation and my friends now.
@firstdecan not sure where you were going with your message hahaha
@firstdecan not sure where you were going with your message hahaha
Yeah Tish know what's up.
Yeah, I've decided to just let it be for the time being and give her space. Not really sure if that may help but just seems like more and more shit happens and for what is a relatively small incident it's probably best to not give it attention.
I guess one last question would be in that case when Taurus thinks a bigger deal would have better for them, do they get over it after hey calm down or what?
I guess one last question would be in that case when Taurus thinks a bigger deal would have better for them, do they get over it after hey calm down or what?
No, no, just mean. You mentioned that making a big deal was what you wanted in your own scenario. And it's also pretty much the same in my scenario.
What I mean is, did you get over that or have other Taurus women gotten over that initial anger over your mate not making a big deal, or did it turn into a deal breaker lol
The friends thing is done, they are definitely leaving my life.
What I mean is, did you get over that or have other Taurus women gotten over that initial anger over your mate not making a big deal, or did it turn into a deal breaker lol
The friends thing is done, they are definitely leaving my life.
Posted by mcaeserSo what did you do for her to solve this problem, did you guys move on?
No, no, just mean. You mentioned that making a big deal was what you wanted in your own scenario. And it's also pretty much the same in my scenario.
What I mean is, did you get over that or have other Taurus women gotten over that initial anger over your mate not making a big deal, or did it turn into a deal breaker lol
The friends thing is done, they are definitely leaving my life.
Posted by mcaeserHaha thats my mercury sign too! Cheers 😄Posted by TxOgalMy mercury is in Taurus apparantly, go figure....Posted by AbbyNormalYeah I agree.. Just be patient.. Im a taurus girl and somehow I could imagine my gemini friend writing your post lol ... We butt heads alot ... He liked me, but my story is different cause we both agreed to stay only friends (my choice) and it took me a couple of months to decide actually. If she needs space, give it to her, dont blame her for taking space or poke too much cause she will get fed up and you also dont want her to see u as being clingy .. My gem friend would keep asking me whats wrong if im quiet for a few days, and it annoys me like hell cause nothing is wrong, only his what may seem like insecure questions that make me fed up.
Let her come around to you. Reply if she initiates but don't push too much yourself. I know it seems selfish and one sided but she needs time to consider and take care of whatever it is and when she is ready to talk, hopefully she can directly tell you where she sees it going from there. Taurus generally think pretty long term so the choice of people around us we take pretty seriously. Patience, friend! Good luck!
So yeh take ur time, and let her do the same, life will be much easier..
Im curious to know ur mercury signs?
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Yeah it's a hard one to pinpoint @tiziani....we actually saw eachother out on the weekend and she didn't leave my side. Even invited me back to her friends house to chill, but she kept saying you can go if I was tired, yet when I left was angry.
Never met such a indecisive woman, or i'm just missing signals lol either way thanks all for the help!!
Never met such a indecisive woman, or i'm just missing signals lol either way thanks all for the help!!
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