Taurus man and his possessiveness

Every time I try to leave my Taurus boyfriend he literally doesn't accept it, he is so stubborn like he just won't leave me alone he'll give me space for a little while but when I want to just call it quits he just won't go and he will be back in a few hours grovelling at my feet.

I do everything to try and get rid of him along with my pregnancy hormones and my moon sign in Scorpio making my tongue very sharp I say really horrible things that hurt him and he still doesn't leave!

I love him but I feel like we need to live seperately and have a break from each other! Without going in to it deeply certain things I want him to change which is affecting our family life and relationship but he doesn't listen to me so instead of just putting up with it i decide to break up with him, and he just won't have it lol.

My ex fwb taurus is like that. He is really persistent when I leave him alone. It's been a month and a half and he is still texting and calling asking if we can "talk". His new thing is texting "smh" twice a day trying to get me to respond.

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Their is obviously ur part in play. The taking back.

I takes two to tango.

Yes, because it's my house that I pay the rent for so I don't think I should leave.

Posted by miimii
My ex fwb taurus is like that. He is really persistent when I leave him alone. It's been a month and a half and he is still texting and calling asking if we can "talk". His new thing is texting "smh" twice a day trying to get me to respond.

Omg haha that's so funny!
What inspired this post is Because I saw a video of Chris brown and he was being so persistent with karreuche she was clearly trying to get away from him and he just jumped in to her car and would not leave her alone. Definitely a Taurus thing, stubborn, possessive and persistent!

Wish it was easy for me to leave, but the fact he lives with me and just won't move out is even more complicated and hard to get rid lol

HA! Sounds like my ex. He was very persistent even though I ignored all his texts. He got back with one of his exes (who he cheated on me with), but he still would text me and try to manipulate me, and say she meant nothing to him, Blah blah blah bullshit. He likes to tell his brother that he still hangs out with me, and tries to make it seem like I'm the one chasing after him when I haven't texted him in a month since we broke up. Fucking weirdos.

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Every time I try to leave my Taurus boyfriend he literally doesn't accept it, he is so stubborn like he just won't leave me alone he'll give me space for a little while but when I want to just call it quits he just won't go and he will be back in a few hours grovelling at my feet.

I do everything to try and get rid of him along with my pregnancy hormones and my moon sign in Scorpio making my tongue very sharp I say really horrible things that hurt him and he still doesn't leave!

I love him but I feel like we need to live seperately and have a break from each other! Without going in to it deeply certain things I want him to change which is affecting our family life and relationship but he doesn't listen to me so instead of just putting up with it i decide to break up with him, and he just won't have it lol.

That's being overly protective of you,something people mistake with "possessiveness". We see it as protectiveness but if it's too much try to reason with him.

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I loved the explanation! 🙂

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. I am under the impression that he is this way because you are carrying his child. He would be very protective of the baby... Try to make it work if you still love him. Talk..

Very true, i suppose I get bored easily and just want everything my way and I don't see it like that. We have been together for 5 years and got two kids now, but I feel only recently problems have started maybe it's just this pregnancy making me hormonal lol

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Every time I try to leave my Taurus boyfriend he literally doesn't accept it, he is so stubborn like he just won't leave me alone he'll give me space for a little while but when I want to just call it quits he just won't go and he will be back in a few hours grovelling at my feet.

I do everything to try and get rid of him along with my pregnancy hormones and my moon sign in Scorpio making my tongue very sharp I say really horrible things that hurt him and he still doesn't leave!

I love him but I feel like we need to live seperately and have a break from each other! Without going in to it deeply certain things I want him to change which is affecting our family life and relationship but he doesn't listen to me so instead of just putting up with it i decide to break up with him, and he just won't have it lol.

Why is the reason you are cutting him off? If you don't mind sharing.
I know it takes a quite a bit for us to get to that point. But when it does, it seems like we want to end it in an instant. Are you really fed up at this point?

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Ugh Scorpio moon making it very hard to open up right now, wish I could say but it's stuff that I'm very embarrassed of him about, let's just say criminal things

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@88aka. I don't think he has cheated but I talk on behalf of the unborn baby!! To keep relations smooth for the sake of the unborn child. Get it!!!!!!!

No disrespect to pisces but pisces will CONSTANTLY time and time and time again eat shitty crumbs any sign dishes out to it... Big difference... THANKS!!!

I agree with you actually. He's very faithful, but he's very stubborn I'm trying to help him change his life around and he just makes it hard. He doesn't ever want to listen to me when I talk but he expects me to be there. So frustrating.

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@OP. I am under the impression that he is this way because you are carrying his child. He would be very protective of the baby... Try to make it work if you still love him. Talk..

Very true, i suppose I get bored easily and just want everything my way and I don't see it like that. We have been together for 5 years and got two kids now, but I feel only recently problems have started maybe it's just this pregnancy making me hormonal lol

awww, then yes work it out sweetie. He may understand what you are going through. Men are smart and they are very understanding at times.

I used to get really sick when I was pregnant and could not stand the smell of him. specially if he had smoked even if he wasn't around me. He tolerated my attitude and annoyance. Our separation came after 7 years, for other reasons. Lets say for very good reasons I had to walk away. 🙂

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OMG yasss you get it! The smoking is annoying too, and like I'm heavily pregnant I'm 34 weeks pregnant now and I'm getting so much pains and just can't do anything I ask him to do one thing for me and help out with the baby shopping etc and he's just never available he's always busy but then his selfish ass expects me to do things for him. I'm actually quite young I'm 22 and he's 21 so I know we have a lot of growing up to do especially him but ugghhh :/ just so much to type right now but I can't be bothered lol

He's a good guy, but very selfish and stubborn and he doesn't quite "get it".

We been together since he was 17 and I was 18 and we settled down quite fast, stupidly paying for it now I've grown up so much from what I was looking for when I was younger lol and now I'm stuck with him. I don't think we will be together forever but I'll always love him

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Every time I try to leave my Taurus boyfriend he literally doesn't accept it, he is so stubborn like he just won't leave me alone he'll give me space for a little while but when I want to just call it quits he just won't go and he will be back in a few hours grovelling at my feet.

I do everything to try and get rid of him along with my pregnancy hormones and my moon sign in Scorpio making my tongue very sharp I say really horrible things that hurt him and he still doesn't leave!

I love him but I feel like we need to live seperately and have a break from each other! Without going in to it deeply certain things I want him to change which is affecting our family life and relationship but he doesn't listen to me so instead of just putting up with it i decide to break up with him, and he just won't have it lol.

Why is the reason you are cutting him off? If you don't mind sharing.
I know it takes a quite a bit for us to get to that point. But when it does, it seems like we want to end it in an instant. Are you really fed up at this point?

Ugh Scorpio moon making it very hard to open up right now, wish I could say but it's stuff that I'm very embarrassed of him about, let's just say criminal things

I knew you would say that. No worries, and you know what, what would have been my same answer. I only share to a certain point, otherwise I feel really exposed and vulnerable.

Good luck with everything and I wish you and your family the best. What sun sign are your babies?

I have two leo girls with taurus moons. love them to death.

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Thanks for understanding lol, I actually do feel exposed and vulnerable if i say. I don't mind that you know though seeing as you have experience with it lol but others I don't want to be judged because it's not something I'm proud of

My 3 year old is a Capricorn with a sag moon which is going to be fun when she gets older lol, we already fight now so imagine when she grows looool and this one will be a cancer if he comes on time I'm looking forward to seeing what he

Posted by 88aka
Yes I get it. I was the same age when I was going through that and so was he. he was 20 - I was 21 years old to be exact. lol


Big question do you also have OCD in keeping everything in order? Does it bother you if things are moved from the place you want them to be at all times?

Currently yes I have big very OCD in keeping things in order whilst pregnant, like today he had his cousins round watching football and I found that my bobby pins in my draw were for some reason moved which made me go crazy..

If I wasn't pregnant I would feel the same way but wouldn't react as bad, he does annoy me he is usually so tidy but recently I find him disgusting and smelly and just ew

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lol, that is very cute. My two leos team up against me. hahhaa

If I am handling something with one and the other one comes in to defend her sister. I may get annoyed at the moment but then I find that they look out for each other and I am very proud of them for that.


you will have it better, I think either your lil cap or cancer will get on your side.

Omg that's actually so cute! I think my little cancer will be on my side, my daughter is a Capricorn with a Sagittarius moon and she absolutely admires her dad. To tell you the truth he's actually a Taurus/Aries cusp with a Leo moon so he's more of a fire sign than anything even looking at his chart he's just literally got fire placements in most of his planets and so has my daughter so I think that's why she's a mini him.

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Yes I get it. I was the same age when I was going through that and so was he. he was 20 - I was 21 years old to be exact. lol


Big question do you also have OCD in keeping everything in order? Does it bother you if things are moved from the place you want them to be at all times?

Currently yes I have big very OCD in keeping things in order whilst pregnant, like today he had his cousins round watching football and I found that my bobby pins in my draw were for some reason moved which made me go crazy..

If I wasn't pregnant I would feel the same way but wouldn't react as bad, he does annoy me he is usually so tidy but recently I find him disgusting and smelly and just ew

lol, that is your venus in aries. and your whole combo in your chart. Tell me about it .
I think they know they are supposed to be clean at all times around us. Maybe he is just not keeping up with it so well. lol

I wish I could tell you how to handle the situation, but I just do not even know how I would handle it myself. Maybe someone with out the OCD, can help .. lulz

I try as hard as I can to not have it, just to not get frustrated, but then it comes back and I get back on track with it and everyone is up and cleaning and organizing.. lulz poor my kids.

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Wow it's so crazy finding people who just understand me lol!
Omg I have my three year old helping with chores. Is this bad??! LOL!

And I'm having a boy, so he will definitely be a mummy's boy 😉

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. Is that your last child?! It's a lot of pressure on relationships to have babies so young.. It's a bit like 'childen having children'!

I wouldn't say it's my last child I would like to have a family one day, and they say kids having kids but I don't think my age is exactly very young personally considering there are literally kids out there having kids (15 year olds etc)

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Yes I get it. I was the same age when I was going through that and so was he. he was 20 - I was 21 years old to be exact. lol


Big question do you also have OCD in keeping everything in order? Does it bother you if things are moved from the place you want them to be at all times?

Currently yes I have big very OCD in keeping things in order whilst pregnant, like today he had his cousins round watching football and I found that my bobby pins in my draw were for some reason moved which made me go crazy..

If I wasn't pregnant I would feel the same way but wouldn't react as bad, he does annoy me he is usually so tidy but recently I find him disgusting and smelly and just ew

lol, that is your venus in aries. and your whole combo in your chart. Tell me about it .
I think they know they are supposed to be clean at all times around us. Maybe he is just not keeping up with it so well. lol

I wish I could tell you how to handle the situation, but I just do not even know how I would handle it myself. Maybe someone with out the OCD, can help .. lulz

I try as hard as I can to not have it, just to not get frustrated, but then it comes back and I get back on track with it and everyone is up and cleaning and organizing.. lulz poor my kids.

Wow it's so crazy finding people who just understand me lol!
Omg I have my three year old helping with chores. Is this bad??! LOL!

How cute, no it is never bad to teach the babies from early age to help with chores. That is a good mom. 🙂
You do not know how much good it does to them, and you will benefit as well when they grow up and know how to get their own things done. Leaves very little room for kids to get bored and have negative -depressing thoughts. It does a child good.

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Exactly! And that way when she gets older she won't be as lazy to help around the house too 🙂

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@OP. Is that your last child?! It's a lot of pressure on relationships to have babies so young.. It's a bit like 'childen having children'!

I wouldn't say it's my last child I would like to have a family one day, and they say kids having kids but I don't think my age is exactly very young personally considering there are literally kids out there having kids (15 year olds etc)

Yes that is very true. And I think you are more mature for your age as well. I can tell. 🙂

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Yeah, I've done quite well for myself as well became a nursing student but decided that was too easy and going to try law now lol. I don't think it's ever too late to build your life thank you for the compliment 🙂

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@OP. How many children do you have?

I have one child and another on the way so about to have two 🙂