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@busyeyes, how do u know when its space they need or uninterest? Ive decided to do reverse MIA. I dont need this. Im not going to wait around till who knows when. Instead he can wonder where I am!
Um, I think reverse MIA will drive him further away.No matter how much we're interested,if our crush doesn't show interest,we can spend ages crushing from afar!Start up a little conversation and then smile at him when you ppl see at each other next? I think it'll make him more comfortable and if he's interested,he'll start initiating convos soon,if not,then he's too slow, too shy or not interested.
I heard tauruses are pretty persistent. At what point do tauruses give up? When they find another crush?
Posted by aqualady0118
I heard tauruses are pretty persistent. At what point do tauruses give up? When they find another crush?
Giving up on a crush you mean?I think giving up on a crush would mean not expecting something to happen in the future,but we'll still be infatuated,we'll keep crushing 😛 Or yeah,if eventually I get to know you're not as much of a 'prince charming' lol,as I thought you to be,if you turn out to be X instead of Y,then yeah,I'll stop crushing right away.
@OP-Infatuation happens all the time for Taurus and could always have a few people interested in them at one time. So many options really just like any other sign.
I don't love easy but very open with my emotions and can only wish that friend you took to get to know is the right one for you. Nowadays I cherish friendship more. It's hard to open up though..
If I let you go so fast. It's unfavorable and infatuation. And not meant to be.
If I keep hanging around opening up, showing through my actions that you have your shit together and we connect some way other than sex. Because sex is easy. I will show you I do care and not selfish for that person.
Busyeyes, no we still.havent talked. Still MIA. Will he still pursue if he is unsure of my interest in him?
Forget that. Im moving on.
I met a Tau. man and fell really hard. He fell for me instantly and hard too. We were both Tau sun - my venus in Pic., his in Aries. We made eye contact and he came over to me and started talking and our relationship took off from there.
Maybe your Taurus man doesn't have any fire in his chart or not enough of it. But you DO have fire in your chart. Don't believe when people say Taurean men don't chase. I know from experience they do. Since you've got some Aries in you, you could just take a chance and say hi to him or make small talk about anything. That's what I'd do before giving up completely. You'd just be being friendly. He doesn't have to know you're crushing on him.
Posted by aqualady0118
Forget that. Im moving on.
Sounds like you've made your decision. Don't be surprised though when he notices that you have indeed moved on, he'll be charging at you like the bull that he is 😉
@season
really? It was that simple? Or was it after several eye contacts. Like u said, this guy has taurus moon too i bet or something else slow. Lol!
Every timre I initiated some type of contact in the past, there was no response! One time I asked a random question about something out of the blue..he just said "no" so I felt dumb and walked away. Another time, same thing but just stared into my eyes for 5sec..then said nothing. Awkward!! This is why I no longer want to be the first to talk to him. I feel like an idiot!
The whole reason why Im so attracted to this guy is because he looks so manly and strong but his actions are not. BYE!
Posted by aqualady0118
The whole reason why Im so attracted to this guy is because he looks so manly and strong but his actions are not. BYE!
maybe your actions are not enough womanly for him
no subtle seducing eye-contact.... too shy.... a "random" question?
you are too boring for him, and him is too boring for him..... both of you are just waiting for the other to do something..... yawn
Posted by aqualady0118
@season
really? It was that simple? Or was it after several eye contacts. Like u said, this guy has taurus moon too i bet or something else slow. Lol!
Bulls with Venus in Aries seem to be quite assertive.
Posted by aqualady0118
The whole reason why Im so attracted to this guy is because he looks so manly and strong but his actions are not. BYE!maybe your actions are not enough womanly for him
no subtle seducing eye-contact.... too shy.... a "random" question?
you are too boring for him, and him is too boring for him..... both of you are just waiting for the other to do something..... yawn
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I ment he is too boring for you....
once I saw my crush (taurus I found out later) I told him in passing: you have a very interesting voice, are you a singer? he said something and after 2 minutes, I interrupted the conversation and said, ohhh I see you are with friends I didnt want to interrupt.. and went away..... after 10 minutes he came to me and we were chatting the whole evening and its the same every time we met since
but it was my scorpio rising I suppose🙂 🙂 my aqua is a total lame in this situations..... thank god for a bit of scorpio in my otherwise treetrunked chart .)
Posted by aqualady0118
@season
really? It was that simple? Or was it after several eye contacts. Like u said, this guy has taurus moon too i bet or something else slow. Lol!Bulls with Venus in Aries seem to be quite assertive.
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VERY assertive
Posted by aqualady0118
Busyeyes, no we still.havent talked. Still MIA. Will he still pursue if he is unsure of my interest in him?How can a person pursue something when they do not know if the person they are pursuing is interested in them?!! Men have a hard job always having to pursue as it is seen as their 'role' which I agree with but help them along by showing some form of interest too and they will pursue !!
If you want him, you have to do more work!! He is not a fire or air sign so he will be reluctant to pursue you if you do not encourage any interest!!
Taurus is reactionary not actionary!!!
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hmmm. arent you always preaching that women need to stop chasing men?
"men are hunters,men are hunters"
Posted by aqualady0118
Busyeyes, no we still.havent talked. Still MIA. Will he still pursue if he is unsure of my interest in him?How can a person pursue something when they do not know if the person they are pursuing is interested in them?!! Men have a hard job always having to pursue as it is seen as their 'role' which I agree with but help them along by showing some form of interest too and they will pursue !!
If you want him, you have to do more work!! He is not a fire or air sign so he will be reluctant to pursue you if you do not encourage any interest!!
Taurus is reactionary not actionary!!!
hmmm. arent you always preaching that women need to stop chasing men?
"men are hunters,men are hunters"
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just read what I wrote..... the woman has to do some subtle seducing and the man will react and hunt afterwards (but as I said, it must have been my scorpio rising..... or my mars in aries) 🙂
Posted by aqualady0118
The whole reason why Im so attracted to this guy is because he looks so manly and strong but his actions are not. BYE!
He's shy and your energy in particular makes him uneasy for whatever reason. I would say he's probably attracted if he's staring. You clearly don't have the patience for someone like this though, and you are shy yourself around him. You said yourself you have pretended he's not there, in your own nervousness, so you are actually giving off mixed signals yourself. Bulls are Venus-ruled and, particularly the shy ones, will mainly attract others to them (e.g., all he's done is given you a look really and you were crushing pretty hard), usually finding no shortage of women who will initiate. But you two just are probably not a good fit (Aquas and Bulls are not exactly considered to be all that compatible). You're already resorting to judging him, in your own frustration. He may be attracted to you, and already made the decision himself from observation, that you two are not compatible (I do that a lot), so he won't approach.
Posted by aqualady0118
@season
really? It was that simple? Or was it after several eye contacts. Like u said, this guy has taurus moon too i bet or something else slow. Lol!Bulls with Venus in Aries seem to be quite assertive.
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That, is a fucking understatement!!!!!!
Posted by aqualady0118
Every timre I initiated some type of contact in the past, there was no response! One time I asked a random question about something out of the blue..he just said "no" so I felt dumb and walked away. Another time, same thing but just stared into my eyes for 5sec..then said nothing. Awkward!! This is why I no longer want to be the first to talk to him. I feel like an idiot!
Read the writing on the wall, he's just not into you.
Posted by aqualady0118
@season
really? It was that simple? Or was it after several eye contacts. Like u said, this guy has taurus moon too i bet or something else slow. Lol!Bulls with Venus in Aries seem to be quite assertive.
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Yes, they really are. I think bulls with Mer. or the Moon, or Mars or Jup in Aries are assertive too. Perhaps this is why so many Taureans are successful in the entertainment industry? My Taurus guy was a musician.
Posted by aqualady0118
Forget that. Im moving on.Sounds like you've made your decision. Don't be surprised though when he notices that you have indeed moved on, he'll be charging at you like the bull that he is 😉
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I thought if tauruses think Im uninterested they wont make a move? Why will he charge at me...
Posted by aqualady0118
How can i make him comfortable? I just want him to talk to me. I feel like a fool always smiling at him. He has been missing from the scene to dwell on this? Omg. Well will he try to talk to me again?? Dear God.
Just offer him some good scrumptious food. Taurus love to eat (:
Posted by aqualady0118
Forget that. Im moving on.Sounds like you've made your decision. Don't be surprised though when he notices that you have indeed moved on, he'll be charging at you like the bull that he is 😉
I thought if tauruses think Im uninterested they wont make a move? Why will he charge at me...
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The stereotypical Taurus man is slooooowwww.... So, he might not show reaction towards you now. But right when you have moved on, somehow or another, something will click in their minds and they'll start moving their arses. By then of course the object of their desire has moved on (or run, as some have done), and they'lll be left wondering what the hell happened?? But it's alright, don't worry too much for them. They'll be back at grazing when they realise you're too far away for them to "chase" 😉
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