Taurus man, he left me too...

Posted by Junejuly
Okay so, i have this taurus guy friend and we are really close friends, we tell each other everything, like literally everything without hesitations lol sometimes I feel like he's my gay friend that every girl wants. One night, we got so drunk and he started kissing me, I mean i know that we were so drunk that that happened but I didn't put any deep meaning to it and was cool about it then the next day, he texted me a long message and told me if i was looking for something more from him like a relationship then it's not gonna happen snd bla bla and i was like what? who said anything about relationships right. We were just having fun. Then weeks went by and we still talk to each other every freakin night then I started to feel something for him but i knew that he doesn't want any relationship and all but i told him anyway that i like him but that's it. He accepted it and remained friends because i didn't want to ruin our friendship. Then another weeks went by again then he said he needed to tell me something and he said that he's been talking to his ex gf and he realized that he was still in love with her but wouldn't get back with her because he doesn't want any dramas in his life, but wants me to understand that if he starts talking to other girls I shouldn't be mad but support him and vise versa, then the next day he admitted that he was about to fall in love with me like a long time ago but he said he wasn't ready to feel that way so he decided to control his feelings towards me. When I heard that i was happy and sad at the same time. So literally the next day, I went out with my friends and some guys. When he learned that i was in a club with some guys he got upset with me and said he felt so stupid for admitting how he felt for me and that I'm so fast at moving on. I'm just so confused with him!!! Like he sees me as an important friend but gets an attitude like that. He even told me that i gave him a permanent damage to my actions... Help?

Posted by Molly12345
I've been dating a Taurus guy for a couple of months. He is a busy business owner and very driven to build his business right now. The communication between dates has always been pretty sparse, mostly confirming or making plans. But when we are together its great! We have very open and straightforward conversations. We have had so many deep conversations and our dates last for hours because we never seem to run out of conversation. On various occasions he has told me he really likes me, I'm worth taking the time to break down my walls, I make him smile, he's happy when he's with me, he's not dating anyone else etc... In the beginning, I asked him about the lack of using his phone and he ignores it during the day while he's at work and then tries to catch up on hundreds of notifications, so sometimes he misses them. He doesn't seem to think going a few days without correspondence is uncommon. I want to be clear that I trust him and I believe what he has said because of his straightforward nature and he has done nothing to make me feel otherwise.

He came over for dinner last week and things escalated. He tried to initiate sex for the first time and I stopped it. Because of the intermittent correspondence and my past experiences- I wasn't there. He assured me it was ok and the night continued. Before he left I told him I didn't stop it because I didn't want to (I DO!) but there was basically too much going through my mind. He said its ok- You're worth waiting for. He hesitated leaving but eventually did and everything was fine.

So the next day I sent a text and he responded. Since then I have sent a couple messages with no response. It has now been just over a week. Is he fading away or consumed with life? Do I reach out and apologize for maybe hurting his feelings if he is feeling rejected? I definitely want to give it a chance because he is worth it, which is more than I can say for most of the guys I've dated in years.

Posted by LDM90
I was pretty cold with this bull at first. Not mean, just extremely distant. We went out and he pursued but I was very distant again I was very distant at first to the point where I'm sure I came off as uninterested, but he kept pursuing. He's asked almost every week for the past month to see me and I've wanted to but I went home for my mother's birthday one week,another I was sick, and another I was away on a trip with my girlfriends to Mexico.

Now I don't expect for him to be all over him because what self-respecting person would in his shoes, but he just ins't aggressive anymore. I want to get closer to him but now I just can't decide if he's lost interest or not.

I just got back from Mexico with a few of my girlfriends a few days go and while there he asked me when I would be coming home. I told him tomorrow. The next day I posted on Snapchat that it 'felt good to be home". Not too long after that I saw that he looked at it then contacted me asking if I behaved myself. I said I might have *smirk face*. Then he said good girl and that was it.


What the heck? Isn’t that weird? Lol. He didn’t turn it sexual or anything so I have no clue what his message is about…

My girlfriends believe that he has no clue what I want so right now he's backing off. I'm not sure if I agree with this though. So if bulls are unsure of how the other person feels or wants how do bulls act?

Thanks!

Posted by ontransit
If you quote me...ill smack you!

One...two...

Posted by loonylibra
Hi me again about that one taurus guy I was freaking out about. Taurus sun, sag moon, aries merc, areis veus, taurus mars. Okay as you know before we had only been talking for a couple weeks but I was the only one intiating contact so I stopped texting him for two weeks but I broke and I texted him yesterday. We talked for a little bit but there was hours between every response and we had only been talking about one topic so right when I change the topic he just straight up ignored me. This of course confused me so I looked up articles and some said "keep pursuing its a test to see if you'll be there for him through thick and thin and to see how tough you are" and then another said "give them sapce let them chase you yadayadayada". So what is the truth?? Let me know if this is a waste of time or if I should keep going oh and if you guys could not attack me like last time that would be GREAT. Thank you

Posted by Darling
Taurus guy finally found the courage to approach me and give me his number n now he seems like a friggin airhead...
What are the odds, is he shy or a jerk??
The day I got it I had a late night n decided to tx him the next evening and ....nothing...
He just asked who I was n never txd after I told him..I left it at that and decided to try again this evening I told him I didn't see him around my job today n asked him if he was off today just to strike up conversation... He just replied some dumb ass emoji symbol for fire n put back next to it ...
I asked wtf it mean n he didn't reply...

Right now I'm pissed..after all this he seems like a fukin idiot

Wtf is he mad I didn't tx him the same day I got his number or what— I'm ready to tell him he's weird and avoid him forever...

Posted by Season
I was dumped by two Taurus guys and both did come back and then I was the one who left them. There was no going back after that so maybe I'm better at the breakup thing? I'm a Taurus too so that may be the game changer.

Serial Taurus dater.

Posted by TheCancerGirl
I just need advice on how i should handle this not talking to him for 70 days would in my mind seriously would be impossible. Do you guys think he is saying he wants to end all communication or that he just wants to slow down? I need some help from the mind of a Taurus right now because I don't know what to think.

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Posted by cammm
Sorry it has taken so long to update. I told him and while he was also freaked out he didn't shut me out. We decided to have an abortion because neither of us are financially ready and we aren't even together (what's done is done so I'm not interested in everyone's stance on this issue). for the couple weeks up until reaching that decision he was by my side the whole time call/texted every day asking about me, I was over at his place almost every night, and we were constantly together. He went with me to the appointment and paid for everything and even the next day said he would leave work if I needed him.

It's been a little less than a week now though and he kinda seems to have distanced himself. He still calls or texts just about every day but I feel like he never wants to see me in person. It kinda sucks because with everything this is when I want to be with him most.

In general our relationship is still the same...Confusing. I don't really know whether to keep trying with him or what. I already have ups and downs from everything that has happened and I don't know if I can take the uncertainty of our relationship anymore because it's hard to feel like he's having his cake and eating it too even though I don't have solid proof of that it just feels that way.

I'm mad at myself for letting this situation happen and sometimes I wish we would've never met because the taurus ups and downs just feels so crappy. This is my first time having a "relationship" with a taurus male and they just seem so careless and selfish when it comes to others and as a pisces I just don't understand.

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I can't stand going to bull fights... But damn, I'm in HEAVEN every time I see those horns digging deep into human flesh. Just makes my day, really...

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Posted by chattyleo
I'm a 32 year old Leo woman and he's a 23 year old Taurus man. We had met years ago and recently reconnected 2 months ago. We started out as friends but it developed into something more. I am currently going through a divorce, so nothing beyond messages and texts. He would always run hot and cold and disappear frequently, but he has his own life and I have mine. He was pushing for dating and we had even talked about what we wanted in the future. He disappeared again for a week and I tried reaching out to him with no response. I ended up sending him a message letting him know that while I really like him, I refused to do all the work. He read the message but didn't respond. A few days later, I tried to message him and apologize for how I handled it, only to find out that he blocked me from messaging him. He's been having problems with his phone, so texting isn't an option. A few days later I saw that he was online while I was and clicked his profile to see if he was still a friend of mine. He was, but shortly after I noticed my profile was gone. I feel like he had my profile deactivated, so I deleted my account and the email account that we used to talk to each other.
My question is, why on earth would he react that way? To go from wanting to date me so hard and talking about our future to blocking me? I have zero experience with Taurus men so any input is greatly appreciated

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I can't stand going to bull fights... But damn, I'm in HEAVEN every time I see those horns digging deep into human flesh. Just makes my day, really...

Are they cruel to the bulls?

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I can't stand going to bull fights... But damn, I'm in HEAVEN every time I see those horns digging deep into human flesh. Just makes my day, really...

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Posted by sunkisses26


you just can't keep a man huh?

Posted by kairi2723
Please, lend me your wisdom!

I'll try to keep this short. Cancer/leo cusp here
- met a year ago through mutual friend.
- he's dropped best friends b/c they got gfs & became too busy or had kids. he left them before they'd leave him.
- claimed he'd never loved a girl before. 2 long-term relationships.
- we have almost everything in common, excellent chemistry physically, emotionally, mentally..
- went on 2 dates last year in the same week, one was 6 hours, the other 4. i had to end both b/c of college & curfew >.> Both were spontaneous. 1st time, I asked him out, 2nd time he did. no sex, his choice, he wanted to wait
- got distant after 2nd date, coaxed it out of him & found out that he was in financial ruin b/c of his ex.
- got distant again after his second attempt at a job left him without work b/c the machines broke down.
- weeks later, learned he was traveling the states doing odd jobs.
- told him i would've waited for him & he said he was never coming back to our town again, that he was moving to CO, 1700 miles away.
- he said i could visit, i said i wouldn't. we kept talking, and i got over my pain. we grew closer.
- 2 months into "relationship," before he'd moved to CO, I said i should go with him, read the maps for him. i was kidding, but he told me i should.
- he wasn't moving till the 30th & said he'd visit me on the 4th of July. said if i'd really wanted to come, he'd get me. i didn't believe him b/c he'd gone back on his word b4.
- we sexted in June & he said he'd never felt this way b4 & then he disappeared. blocked me days l8er

Posted by kairi2723
- found him on a dating site & sent him holiday msgs over 7 months time. it finally showed that he'd read em after i sent one that said "i loved you and..."
- we resumed talking for 2 months. we were bffs again. he took pics of his fridge to show me how empty it was xD i told him I'd come cook for him & he said i was always welcome.
- i bought a roundtrip ticket after more discussion. he was so excited, we both were.
- as the date drew closer, i got scared. told him there were 3 possible outcomes. never explained 'em to him b/c that same day, I told him about a health condition i was insecure about, & he took it like a champ. we talked about other things, but by the end of the day, he was gone.
- he didn't delete me or block me. he knew if he did we'd be over. i made that clear in the beginning.
- i spent 4 weeks trying to figure out what i'd done wrong. i thought he was mad at me or jealous over a checkers game, long story. & no, he wasn't.
- after 4 weeks of texting dead air, off and on, i called it quits. as soon as I did, i realized why he was silent & wrote him 2 days later.
- in response, he blocked me on everything. i think i scared him w/ those 3 possible outcomes, 1 of them WASN'T me not liking him but i never told him that! i'm in love w/ him, but he didn't know.
- i tried to explain. i confessed my love. I'm trying to respect his decision, but is he really gone? 😢

Posted by ScorpioNluv
Hi guys! I am back! I posted something about mr Taurus on this board a few months back. I was confused then and got a lot of very helpful and informative point of views from ya'll! Anyway, fast forward to the present, mr Taurus and I are still talking- very minimal text messages- and most of the time, i have to initiate the convo- nothing too intense but he would always reply- sometimes not right away but i get it- he is extremely busy- he is running his own IT business. Since my last post, we've seen each other twice, the last one was as recent as a few days ago. The first date, i initiated but this recent one, he did- which was kind of surprising coz i've never expected that he would actually ask to see me³ So we went out to dinner and just talked for a few hours- and everytime we will get together, we'll just pick up where we left off- it did not matter how long ago it was- which is weird but it always feel so natural. So during our dinner convo he brought up the topic of "threesome" and how do i feel about it. I asked him why are we talking about that particular topic and he said "coz you've mentioned before that one of your friend got drunk and kept talking about having threesome with her dude"..and this was all true but i told him that story back in december ± I did not think that he will even remember it coz at that time, he did not seem like he was paying attention to what i was saying.lol so i told him that i will never ever share my man to no one (duh i am a scorp)..neither would i be interested in participating. He said "why not, what if your man asks you too- don't you want to make him happy"? I said "i am all for making my man happy but not to that extent". I told him if my man will ask me that, it will be a deal breaker for me- i don't care how much i like/love him". Then he's like "i hear you.." So i asked him back, would you do entertain the idea of a threesome? He said, "i've never done it ever so i don't know"°° that kinda threw me off the loop. Made me really sad inside coz i was hoping he would flat out say "no". The night ended amazing as always. We fooled around and kissed and all but no sex yet. But i am now left a bit confused again- was he testing me about the "threesome" topic? We went out monday and i have not heard from him since then- just like the last time we had a deep convo and an amazing night, he disappears the next day or two or three- last time i panicked but this time i feel different. i feel like i know him a lot better this time. And also he mentioned that he's sold his house and is in the process of moving to a new house. Tho i am still somewhat confused. Any input is greatly appreciated!

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@housecleaning

What even are you? Like are you a human with a regular job and a normal life or are you just a troll (teenaged boy) living on the Internet (or living in parents' basement)?

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@housecleaning

What even are you? Like are you a human with a regular job and a normal life or are you just a troll (teenaged boy) living on the Internet (or living in parents' basement)?

He's the owner of this site. 🙂

Is he really?!

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Posted by LovelyAqua
K so this will sound really juvenile, but I need some advice from Taurus men, I never talked to one before with romantic interest.

I recently messaged one I found cute telling him so. He responded by complimenting my humor...then talking to me about politics? He'd like my posts and comments kinda reg after that, even a picture. I flirted with him pretty openly. But I did it in a humorous fashion so I think maybe that scared him off or he found it off putting? Cause now he basically ignores. Me I don't know if I'm putting too much thought into it or what. I also haven't messaged him since the first time so maybe he thinks I'm just being super flirtatious, but that's it.

I realize typing this it sounds really dumb since it has just been petty likes and a message, I have a bit of a crush on him though. I hope I didn't turn him off.

*Aquarius sun Cap moon girl

Posted by SentimentalCrabby
Damn it. I wasn't in here.

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Damn it. I wasn't in here.

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i thought you sideways crawled away from him

HAHAA pretty much! But I thought it'll be the same for Taurus men problems too

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Posted by LovelyAqua
K so this will sound really juvenile, but I need some advice from Taurus men, I never talked to one before with romantic interest.

I recently messaged one I found cute telling him so. He responded by complimenting my humor...then talking to me about politics? He'd like my posts and comments kinda reg after that, even a picture. I flirted with him pretty openly. But I did it in a humorous fashion so I think maybe that scared him off or he found it off putting? Cause now he basically ignores. Me I don't know if I'm putting too much thought into it or what. I also haven't messaged him since the first time so maybe he thinks I'm just being super flirtatious, but that's it.

I realize typing this it sounds really dumb since it has just been petty likes and a message, I have a bit of a crush on him though. I hope I didn't turn him off.

*Aquarius sun Cap moon girl

Posted by Bubbles2528
Taurus bf broke up with me . We have been together 8 years with two kids. We had a few fights about his female coworker/friend. Almost two weeks about he caught me reading their messages and says I betrayed his trust. He broke it off but we still live together. How do I get him back? He just ingoring me past week and a half. When I read the msg saw he was going to her house to fix her tv but wasn't going to tell me and when I read the msg I questioned him if he was at work and he knew I read it and was pissed and still mad . I was upset he couldn't just have told me. We planned on getting a house in the next 3 months but now I'm leaving for an apt. When I try to address him if he going to move to another apt or house. He said of course I want a house for my kids but now you want to talk after u were going through my stuff and walked away not another word. Help!!!!

Posted by sunshine0077
I offended my taurus guy and now he does not speak to me. What should/can I do? What kind actions from me would be most desirable? What kind of attitude makes him come back again?
I have left him some time to be alone, then I apologized (although, I did not explain my feelings in detail - men do not like it?), then I just said "hi" and told some lines about I am doing. But again... no reply. I do know he had feelings for me, although, I do not know whether there are any feelings left, because I offended him.
To be honest, I would really like to get him back, only as friend will also do. 🙂 He is such a wonderful person.
Should I be clingy? Should I be emotional? Should I be calm? What should I do in order to get him back? Only positive feedback is appreciated. 🙂
And how long tauruses usually want to take time off? What would make him smile again? 🙂

Posted by Phuckhimariesgirl87
We met two months ago, he was real into me then he started ignoring me. Then we were back "on" he then gave me the cold shoulder again and I accused him of trying to take advantage of me. We continued to be "on" then out of no where ignoring me. Then back responding to me, making promises and flaking then ignoring me again. -!: he has blocked and unblocked me from his phone. Why not keep me blocked if he is still going to ignore me?

Posted by Capri__unicorn
Afternoon buddies. Not really seeking advice just chatting it up. I tried to fight my Taurus last night. We haven't spoken to each other in over 3-4 months. I ran into him at a picnic. Every thing I ever wanted to say came flooding out in a barrage of emotions. we actually walked by each other several times without speaking and as we left I attacked. And do you know what he did? He was nice and understanding about it!!!! ahhh it pissed me off more. Here I am trying to knock your fuckin head off for destroying me and you respond with a calm "can we just talk about it tomorrow?" He let me verbally assault him with everything I had and he just let it roll off of him. I was trying my hardest to be the raging bitch that I know secretly dwells within my Capricorn spirit. He just wasn't having it...and suddenly I felt weird about him. Like something is wrong. In the past he'd ignore my bitch fits completely. He'd be incredibly self-righteous as if what I was saying didn't make any sense but he was just...different.Humble, understanding, submissive...mature. He gave a time and place for meeting. He didn't dismiss my feelings, he just asked for a better time to discuss them. Now I don't know what to feel. (I actually do seeing as tho this is what I've always wanted from him) but I'm kind of pissed I won't be at the same emotional level that I was in last night. I needed that for dramatic effect, but now our talk will be rational. Taurus and their logic and reasoning wins again. This little fiesty goat was put in her place in the best way possible and i don't know how I feel about it

Posted by dolluxe
Damn this thread died together with your alter ego

Posted by soundsunscene
A whole back I wrote about a Taurus i had an amazing one night thing with whilst on holidays I had encountered many years back .. well I've managed to the best of my ability as a cancer to accept what it is as hard as it is but you have to do it. We exchange sweet messages still they seem to be tapering off a bit but he's also focused on what's ahead which is not me in the immediate plan and I get it. He came with gusto about his feelings 2 weeks ago then it sort of died off from there i think being busy and focused with his immediate plans.

I just have seen today he has in fact as he said to me left his family and wife of 20 years been together 30 and pretty much moved countries ...the wife posted not even a cryptic thing on Instagram about the died love inside lord give me strength etc so I can see it is in fact done as he told me numerous times it was.

Now I'm fairly certain he's got something on the boil in the other country with someone there (though can't be sure) but one or two things lead me to think that and he already has re set up his routine there. His work is better there and he's a lot happier so I'm happy for him in that respect plus the weather so much better ! we do have tentative plans to spend time together in a few months (I live pretty far away in another country so I have applied the Taurus practicality to the situation). I told him to come here for a bit the other week just to put it out there light heartedly but serious - he said he would in a heartbeat come and be with me then I think just sort of realised how unrealistic it is - it's not his plan he has been creating all year and well I live just to far away. Anyone would do the same.

So i guess I'm just wondering would he be going at a new situation with reckless abandon if another woman is involved or would it still be an intense situation leaving the wife and family (kids are grown). I guess I'm just trying to work out my expectations if we spend time together and keep communicating and I guess just curious in general I have to be honest

Would a Taurus run into another situation as an interim or be pretty confident that's the next step and plan it all out meticulously and only move to something new if they are sure that's it

I almost hate a new situation going on rather than a state marriage so want to adjust again accordingly in my mind .. should I even ask if it could be done in the right way I mean it would be weird but a lot easier !

Posted by bkbella86
Bad with this Taurus guy. I don’t want to bore anyone with the details but pleaseeeee I’m begging for some help. I will give more details if there’s any help out there

Posted by Soul
Imagine bumping your own thread from 7 years ago.

Dxpnet is that dying relationship you simply can't fix. Accept it.

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Why areyou using P-Angel's avi?

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Posted by Soul
Imagine bumping your own thread from 7 years ago.

Dxpnet is that dying relationship you simply can't fix. Accept it.

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