Why do most of you (taurus men) lead women on? This is probably my third thread here. I am so grateful for all that have responded and shed light which led me to this post. Most if not all were sure he was courting me. We never slept together, never hugged. If I ever needed anything and had called he would be there in a heartbeat. He claim he respects me. It all started with him letting me know his feelings, however, when reciprocated on top of sharing the previous relationship I got out of...I believe is why he suggested I needed time to heal and we can thread to being friends for now. In this friendship, nothing happened!! all innocense BUT my biggest problem in all of this he was tooooooo reserved. It made me suspicious, i'd always open up because, for some odd reason I trusted him. VERY LONGGGG STORY SHORT! Find out his still in contact with his ex!! He mentioned they were over, however, part of why he wanted us to be friends was because he was working through his "issues" how are you working through getting over someone but host them whenever they are in town? So after snooping because, after 7 months I was about fed up of the waiting. I no longer wanted to waste any more time. This taught me a lot!! most will see this and say oh his still courting me why> because, he is making himself available anytime i need him there (which i rarely request! since, im really busy) After connecting all of this? I LOST ALL RESPECT. I feel played! why do you men do this? I'd have respected him a lot more if he was honest. You are not over her and still working through that whether or not you get back together at least I will no longer feel like my time was wasted because I would respect it but never stick around. Why do you string people along? Forgive me if it seems like I am generalizing here.
