Faria94
@Faria94
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Taurus Relationship Help!
don't chase a man who threatens you and abuses the women in your family. it's just common sense isn't it?
I know I shouldn't but in the past I had threatened him to go to his house..bt I didn't threatened him as he did!He threatened me saying he would stop the marriage ceremony of my sister!Later on he did tell me that he said these,threatened me so that I wouldn't go to his house.Even he said me to patch up,but only once when we met,in a casual way.I knw it might sound stupid but though..I can't get over him.
@Faria,
I don't think you're in an abusive relationship. Toxic yes, abusive, no. You made certain misleading statements that alluded to the possibility of abuse, but i don't believe it was intentional. I assume this was credited due to your lack of/limited understanding of the English language. No offense. Just trying to gain some clarity.
Question.
Was the abortion your choice, his choice, or your parent's choice?
From what I gather, it appears as if this Taurus man wants 'out.'...and you keep reeling him back in.
This is where the 'toxicity' in your relationship is taking place. The arguments, the threats, the getting back at each other. It's all too consuming, too dramatic. Something tells me that the both of you are relatively young which explains the 'overbearing' parents.
He tried to be a great boyfriend...that wasn't enough.
He tried to convert his religion to appease your parents...that wasn't enough.
He may not be able to have children after the operation...that may not be enough.
Let him sort out his own issues.
Leave him alone.
Your parents are clearly controlling you, and you're attempting to control him, and the situation.
No astrological advice to win him over will work. Your dilemma is cultural, accompanied with religious disputes, and overbearing parents.
I don't think you're in an abusive relationship. Toxic yes, abusive, no. You made certain misleading statements that alluded to the possibility of abuse, but i don't believe it was intentional. I assume this was credited due to your lack of/limited understanding of the English language. No offense. Just trying to gain some clarity.
Question.
Was the abortion your choice, his choice, or your parent's choice?
From what I gather, it appears as if this Taurus man wants 'out.'...and you keep reeling him back in.
This is where the 'toxicity' in your relationship is taking place. The arguments, the threats, the getting back at each other. It's all too consuming, too dramatic. Something tells me that the both of you are relatively young which explains the 'overbearing' parents.
He tried to be a great boyfriend...that wasn't enough.
He tried to convert his religion to appease your parents...that wasn't enough.
He may not be able to have children after the operation...that may not be enough.
Let him sort out his own issues.
Leave him alone.
Your parents are clearly controlling you, and you're attempting to control him, and the situation.
No astrological advice to win him over will work. Your dilemma is cultural, accompanied with religious disputes, and overbearing parents.
ok..so be very specific..abt the abortion thng,when I went to his house to look for him,he called his frnds nd his frnds told me that they would gnna spread the news of my pregnancy nd then both of our families gnna hav meetings nd all!I ws all shuttered to hear tht.So I decided to attempt suicide before my family got to know abt this.And then I took abortion pills nd couldn't consume so I fainted.My mum took me to the hospital nd had abortion.
Yes I won't deny but he tried to be my boyfriend but I did changed myself for him as well.He came to my mum abt us bt he didn't want to,rather he had to bcz of an incident.I warned him nd requested him to leave me at the begining of our relation bt he said he couldn't live without me.His frnds made me understand to give him a chance.He bitched abt me to all his frnds nd coloured me infront of them.He passed comment on social media mocked me,nd my emotions!When he got to knw abt my pregnancy he told me tht he didn't inform anyone bt he lied to me.And I can't stand lies nd liars.He kept blackmailing me with his problems but the actual reality ws different.
Yes nd about his operation issue,he told me different times nd dates abt his operation,which pissed me off even more!
Yes I won't deny but he tried to be my boyfriend but I did changed myself for him as well.He came to my mum abt us bt he didn't want to,rather he had to bcz of an incident.I warned him nd requested him to leave me at the begining of our relation bt he said he couldn't live without me.His frnds made me understand to give him a chance.He bitched abt me to all his frnds nd coloured me infront of them.He passed comment on social media mocked me,nd my emotions!When he got to knw abt my pregnancy he told me tht he didn't inform anyone bt he lied to me.And I can't stand lies nd liars.He kept blackmailing me with his problems but the actual reality ws different.
Yes nd about his operation issue,he told me different times nd dates abt his operation,which pissed me off even more!
Posted by Faria94
ok..so be very specific..abt the abortion thng,when I went to his house to look for him,he called his frnds nd his frnds told me that they would gnna spread the news of my pregnancy nd then both of our families gnna hav meetings nd all!I ws all shuttered to hear tht.So I decided to attempt suicide before my family got to know abt this.And then I took abortion pills nd couldn't consume so I fainted.My mum took me to the hospital nd had abortion.
As I stated previously,
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Your parents are clearly controlling you, and you're attempting to control him, and the situation.
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As long as you're under you parents roof, finish school, until you're emanicpated from them.
Until then, avoid dating anyone.
Mentally and emotionally, you're not there yet.
Leave the Taurus man alone.
He has his own issues.
To be very honest..I can't..I can't get over him.I dnt even thinkinv to date anyone!No way!But I'm saying honestly..I never did try to control him!I'm not even trying to control him now!I just want things as before it was.Because I still love him.I jst want to know why did he do all these if he has ever loved me!
Posted by Faria94You're holding on....and he wants OUT!
I jst want to know why did he do all these if he has ever loved me!
He may love you, he just doesn't want to be with you.
Here is an astrological description for you...Bulls are practical.
Your parents are controlling you, and you're attempting to control him and the situation.
He doesn't care to be a part of the equation.
There is your explanation.
Why would he even want an 'Out'?what was my fault?Am I the only one who is faulty?
He didn't even tell me that he wants a break-up.He just stopped contacting!nd that's it!He did that before as well!Moreover he told me he still loves me bt his actions are not like that.So I'm being in a really confusing situation!
Yes I believe in practicality but what is his practical sense?He used to tell me that if he even stopped contacting,he would come back!If he wanted an out,he could hav told me rather cheat me nd insulting me!
How am I trying to control him even?!?Honestly I'm not trying..I jst want him to be as before he was to be.That's it!But I didn't tell him to be like that or didn't force him.
He didn't even tell me that he wants a break-up.He just stopped contacting!nd that's it!He did that before as well!Moreover he told me he still loves me bt his actions are not like that.So I'm being in a really confusing situation!
Yes I believe in practicality but what is his practical sense?He used to tell me that if he even stopped contacting,he would come back!If he wanted an out,he could hav told me rather cheat me nd insulting me!
How am I trying to control him even?!?Honestly I'm not trying..I jst want him to be as before he was to be.That's it!But I didn't tell him to be like that or didn't force him.
Posted by Faria94the more you type the more i don't understand what you are holding on to and why.
Why would he even want an 'Out'?what was my fault?Am I the only one who is faulty?
He didn't even tell me that he wants a break-up.He just stopped contacting!nd that's it!He did that before as well!Moreover he told me he still loves me bt his actions are not like that.So I'm being in a really confusing situation!
Yes I believe in practicality but what is his practical sense?He used to tell me that if he even stopped contacting,he would come back!If he wanted an out,he could hav told me rather cheat me nd insulting me!
How am I trying to control him even?!?Honestly I'm not trying..I jst want him to be as before he was to be.That's it!But I didn't tell him to be like that or didn't force him.
Well..as it was my first relationship which is why I can't get over him,his promises,his memories nd a ton of doubts about his real feelings abt me!These are the things that I'm holding on!
And I'm holding on these because I still love him.He was my best friend and my first love.
And I'm holding on these because I still love him.He was my best friend and my first love.
Posted by Faria94you'll learn that in life, sometimes things just don't work out. it's not that you can't get over him. you are just choosing not to. you'll stop when you are ready.
Well..as it was my first relationship which is why I can't get over him,his promises,his memories nd a ton of doubts about his real feelings abt me!These are the things that I'm holding on!
And I'm holding on these because I still love him.He was my best friend and my first love.
I got to know on February 25..nd I informed him immediately.I told him calmly that listen I'm having a problem nd we should hav to solve this out together.Can u meet?He informed all his frnds nd that made me mad!As he didn't even think about my reputation!We studied in the same University nd my father had expired,so it ws a matter of shame if anyone got to knw abt my pregnancy.
I called him several times!I repeat several times to meet me bt he kept making excuses!Even he made emotional excuses on March saying he was having dressing of his operation bt his operation was done on January!He even told me that he had typhoid bt it was a lie.He finally met me on 19th march. nd his frnds made videos of our conversation.He told me to show him medical reports.I did all my tests nd ultrasono by myself,all alone.I showed him all the reports.
Yes he told me to hav pills bt it ws quite late as I was pregnant more than 3mnths.He wanted me to hav an abortion bt I ws scared of having such operation.After that he kept delaying nd I couldn't decide what to do as my baby was growing nd his limitations of telling lies were also growing.He didn't even call me once to talk even!I got really pissed off nd my health wasn't sound!I couldn't hold my anger on 6th of April when he said he would go outside of town whereas he was at home.He was making excuses out of no reasons,he was lying nd that's wht I couldn't tolerate.
I called him several times!I repeat several times to meet me bt he kept making excuses!Even he made emotional excuses on March saying he was having dressing of his operation bt his operation was done on January!He even told me that he had typhoid bt it was a lie.He finally met me on 19th march. nd his frnds made videos of our conversation.He told me to show him medical reports.I did all my tests nd ultrasono by myself,all alone.I showed him all the reports.
Yes he told me to hav pills bt it ws quite late as I was pregnant more than 3mnths.He wanted me to hav an abortion bt I ws scared of having such operation.After that he kept delaying nd I couldn't decide what to do as my baby was growing nd his limitations of telling lies were also growing.He didn't even call me once to talk even!I got really pissed off nd my health wasn't sound!I couldn't hold my anger on 6th of April when he said he would go outside of town whereas he was at home.He was making excuses out of no reasons,he was lying nd that's wht I couldn't tolerate.
Yes maybe I'll stop..but I can't makeup my losses.It's not like I dnt want to choose to get over him rather his memories are not letting me doing so. I knw I will get over him,life must go on but the things I've lost,will remain lost.I can't regain them nd that's wharmt making me more upset.
I was not only one who should be punished.He didn't get coloured infront of his family or frnds!I was coloured!I was proven wrong infront of everyone.And alk these things are not letting me to get over him.
Sorry for long typings!
I was not only one who should be punished.He didn't get coloured infront of his family or frnds!I was coloured!I was proven wrong infront of everyone.And alk these things are not letting me to get over him.
Sorry for long typings!
Posted by Faria94
ok..so be very specific..abt the abortion thng,when I went to his house to look for him,he called his frnds nd his frnds told me that they would gnna spread the news of my pregnancy nd then both of our families gnna hav meetings nd all!I ws all shuttered to hear tht.So I decided to attempt suicide before my family got to know abt this.And then I took abortion pills nd couldn't consume so I fainted.My mum took me to the hospital nd had abortion.
Posted by Faria94Did you take the abortion pills because he asked you to...or did you take them after his friends threatened to tell your family out of shame?
Yes he told me to hav pills bt it ws quite late as I was pregnant more than 3mnths.He wanted me to hav an abortion bt I ws scared of having such operation.
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You attempted suicide and then took the abortion pills...is this correct?
No not really..he told me to hav pills or hav an abortion.But I refused to do tht bcz to be honest I was really afraid of these things!I dnt knw what would be it's side-effects.So I didn't want tht.Later on I tried to convince him to hav the baby bt he said he didn't knw nd told me that he would talk to me abt this bt not at tht moment.I kept waiting for him,his calls bt he didn't rather he sent me msgs on whtsapp saying he would be busy on this this days nd all tht!He kept delaying.
And when his frnds threatened me saying they were gnna spread to my family I was all shocked!One of his frnd had even called my mum!On 6th of April at night I had to decide by myself,what I hav to do!So I had the pills bt the bleeding was so severe that I became unconscious nd fainted.My mum took me to the hospital at night nd I had my abortion.
And when his frnds threatened me saying they were gnna spread to my family I was all shocked!One of his frnd had even called my mum!On 6th of April at night I had to decide by myself,what I hav to do!So I had the pills bt the bleeding was so severe that I became unconscious nd fainted.My mum took me to the hospital at night nd I had my abortion.
You're holding him accountable for a decision that your parents made.
They control your thought process, and your decision making, perhaps this is what's making you crazy.
Not this Taurus man that you're infatuated with.
Question?
Did you see this Taurus man and your unborn baby as an escape from your own dominating parents?
Or did the fear of your parents finding out about your unborn child take precedence over the love you had for this unborn child and your Taurus?
I can't stress this enough...
Your parents are controlling you, and you're attempting to control him and the situation.
When you become emanicpated from your parents, then you can begin to make independent decisions about your love life.
Whether or not you really wanted this baby is questionable.
Your parents are pulling all the strings here.
This Taurus man is gone. You will hurt. But in time, you will be OK.
As to his actions, I have already explained this to you repeatedly.
Stop trying to reel him in.
They control your thought process, and your decision making, perhaps this is what's making you crazy.
Not this Taurus man that you're infatuated with.
Question?
Did you see this Taurus man and your unborn baby as an escape from your own dominating parents?
Or did the fear of your parents finding out about your unborn child take precedence over the love you had for this unborn child and your Taurus?
I can't stress this enough...
Your parents are controlling you, and you're attempting to control him and the situation.
When you become emanicpated from your parents, then you can begin to make independent decisions about your love life.
Whether or not you really wanted this baby is questionable.
Your parents are pulling all the strings here.
This Taurus man is gone. You will hurt. But in time, you will be OK.
As to his actions, I have already explained this to you repeatedly.
Stop trying to reel him in.
@Nevermore
I agree I should have more patience while responding bt maybe at some point I lost my control over my emotion.
I'll try to maintain nd try to be calm as possible.Thank you.
I agree I should have more patience while responding bt maybe at some point I lost my control over my emotion.
I'll try to maintain nd try to be calm as possible.Thank you.
If I had not that abortion then I might die!
And I'm holding him accountable bcz he didn't give me any decision on time.He had jst delayed it.I wanted the baby bt society would not let me to hav that as I'm an unmarried woman who has not completed her studies.Even he was not clear abt his decision abt the baby.I was all alone.How could I even take any decision alone but when I was pushed,threated,I took the decision.
If he didn't leave me then these situations would not occur,which is why I'm blaming him for all these.Am I doing the wrong thing?
And I'm holding him accountable bcz he didn't give me any decision on time.He had jst delayed it.I wanted the baby bt society would not let me to hav that as I'm an unmarried woman who has not completed her studies.Even he was not clear abt his decision abt the baby.I was all alone.How could I even take any decision alone but when I was pushed,threated,I took the decision.
If he didn't leave me then these situations would not occur,which is why I'm blaming him for all these.Am I doing the wrong thing?
Posted by Faria94The only person required to make that decision was you.
If I had not that abortion then I might die!
And I'm holding him accountable bcz he didn't give me any decision on time.He had jst delayed it.I wanted the baby bt society would not let me to hav that as I'm an unmarried woman who has not completed her studies.Even he was not clear abt his decision abt the baby.I was all alone.How could I even take any decision alone but when I was pushed,threated,I took the decision.
If he didn't leave me then these situations would not occur,which is why I'm blaming him for all these.Am I doing the wrong thing?
Something tells me that you didn't want this baby.
If you truly wanted this baby, the Taurus nor your parents would have influenced your decision.
The fear of your parents finding out consumed you, the risk of shame overwhelmed you...this contributed to the termination of the pregnancy.
There are many women who choose to have their childrn regardless if the father is present or not.
Welcome to the world of single mothers who choose their children before their men.
If you want to blame anyone for the stress that you were under, blame your parents.
Who turns an individual away who is willing to convert religions to date someone's daughter?
But hands that same daughter to abort a child out of fear and shame?
Your family seems like a piece of work, they're making you crazy. They're too involved.
They have more control over you...than you do.
The Taurus man gave you an answer. He told you that he didn't want the baby.
What you decided to do about the pregnancy should have been your decision to make. No one elses.
Single mother was not an option for me anyways bcz my family is very important for me.And no he didn't give me any exact clear answer about the baby.He told me he wanted to talk about bt later on he delayed our conversation.
Nor me or my family asked him to convert his religion.I told him earlier to leave as I knw our society would not let us be together with having different religion!I told him not to leave his family.He told me nd my mum that he would gnna manage his family,so my mum asked us to be frnds only nd to wait till his family got agreed abt us.I was ok with the decision to wait for him to come but he refused.
Well..I dnt hav any other option of having the baby.I'm regreted bt if I had taken the decision to hav the baby all alone,I couldn't survive.I would be abandoned by the society.My family is important for me..bt he was equally important as they were.Ehich is why I informed him first to hav a decision.
Nor me or my family asked him to convert his religion.I told him earlier to leave as I knw our society would not let us be together with having different religion!I told him not to leave his family.He told me nd my mum that he would gnna manage his family,so my mum asked us to be frnds only nd to wait till his family got agreed abt us.I was ok with the decision to wait for him to come but he refused.
Well..I dnt hav any other option of having the baby.I'm regreted bt if I had taken the decision to hav the baby all alone,I couldn't survive.I would be abandoned by the society.My family is important for me..bt he was equally important as they were.Ehich is why I informed him first to hav a decision.
Your society's, and family's opinion matters a lot more to you than this Taurus, and clearly your unborn child.
I can see why he wanted 'out.'
Forget about the Taurus, and date someone within your religion, and all will be well with your family and society.
He was smart enough to let go.
Maybe you should do the same.
Good Luck!
I can see why he wanted 'out.'
Forget about the Taurus, and date someone within your religion, and all will be well with your family and society.
He was smart enough to let go.
Maybe you should do the same.
Good Luck!
Him involving his friends on such a personal level I don't know, it disgusts me honestly. Make recordings and reading all your text messages,you went viral huh?? I wouldn't like that. I'm sorry for abortion too, there was a little baby
@TaurusBull1977
I had given importance to him more than anything,more than anyone,over my famliy.my friends nd society! If it was not then I would not even be in the relationship with him. We had known nd decided that we had to fight against all the odds of our family nd society. I was beaten up from my sister for having in a relationship withh him!
Will u still say that I didn't give him importance nd security?
My family hadn't involved untill he informed my family about the pregnancy issue!yes but now they're interfering as my taurus man had left me,all alone.I actually can't understand what makes him to want an 'Out' all of a sudden whereas we were so determined to each other to make our relationship work!what does distract him frm his acute determination!
Will he ever feel guilty?
Will he ever come back to thos relationship?
I had given importance to him more than anything,more than anyone,over my famliy.my friends nd society! If it was not then I would not even be in the relationship with him. We had known nd decided that we had to fight against all the odds of our family nd society. I was beaten up from my sister for having in a relationship withh him!
Will u still say that I didn't give him importance nd security?
My family hadn't involved untill he informed my family about the pregnancy issue!yes but now they're interfering as my taurus man had left me,all alone.I actually can't understand what makes him to want an 'Out' all of a sudden whereas we were so determined to each other to make our relationship work!what does distract him frm his acute determination!
Will he ever feel guilty?
Will he ever come back to thos relationship?
@piseanloves
Exactly! This was where I went mad at him more!Even when we were in a relationship he used to involve his frnds in our fights which made me more angry at him,nd I ccouldn't bt yelled at him. And when I got angry at him,he told his frnds that I always behaved like this!which is very much insulting for me.
I felt regretted for the abortion actually but I didn't hav any other option. Even when I went for tests nd talked to a doctor,she suggested me to hav an abortion as the baby wss not mature nd I might hav life risk! But though I didn't at the moment.
Exactly! This was where I went mad at him more!Even when we were in a relationship he used to involve his frnds in our fights which made me more angry at him,nd I ccouldn't bt yelled at him. And when I got angry at him,he told his frnds that I always behaved like this!which is very much insulting for me.
I felt regretted for the abortion actually but I didn't hav any other option. Even when I went for tests nd talked to a doctor,she suggested me to hav an abortion as the baby wss not mature nd I might hav life risk! But though I didn't at the moment.
@Mandy27
No not really..I had fought for him to accept him to my family. As my father had expired so my mum became very cautious about our life. She told him to wait nd if he could manage his family then it wouldn't be a problem.
But my family is now against him as he has threatened my family nd has left me for no reason!
No not really..I had fought for him to accept him to my family. As my father had expired so my mum became very cautious about our life. She told him to wait nd if he could manage his family then it wouldn't be a problem.
But my family is now against him as he has threatened my family nd has left me for no reason!
@DwellingOnMove
Yes exactly! As a Sagittarius I'm less patient on this topic. But honesty O wouldn't behave like this if he would not do all these things to me!I can't digest the fact after knowinv all my feelings for him how he could do this to me!He knew what consequences I have to go through frm my family but though he involved my family!not his family!
And of course the insults of his frnds!It's jst cannot be forgotten!
Can't be patient at this point..Trying hard to be but sometimes I'm loosing it though.
Yes exactly! As a Sagittarius I'm less patient on this topic. But honesty O wouldn't behave like this if he would not do all these things to me!I can't digest the fact after knowinv all my feelings for him how he could do this to me!He knew what consequences I have to go through frm my family but though he involved my family!not his family!
And of course the insults of his frnds!It's jst cannot be forgotten!
Can't be patient at this point..Trying hard to be but sometimes I'm loosing it though.
Posted by Faria94Yeah you know that you gotta forget him right..
@piseanloves
Exactly! This was where I went mad at him more!Even when we were in a relationship he used to involve his frnds in our fights which made me more angry at him,nd I ccouldn't bt yelled at him. And when I got angry at him,he told his frnds that I always behaved like this!which is very much insulting for me.
I felt regretted for the abortion actually but I didn't hav any other option. Even when I went for tests nd talked to a doctor,she suggested me to hav an abortion as the baby wss not mature nd I might hav life risk! But though I didn't at the moment.
when bad things happen, the understanding is yet another stuff.
look, how Brad Pitt was not allowed to sit with his 6 children for the Thanksgiving and other opportunitites. how can that woman blablabla... fact is this had to hppen. it is the script. basta.
and what a fairy-tale their love was.
now FBI was checking if he abused his adoptied son.
don't try to understand it. the explanations come with another post. from above. that is script. quasi.
look, how Brad Pitt was not allowed to sit with his 6 children for the Thanksgiving and other opportunitites. how can that woman blablabla... fact is this had to hppen. it is the script. basta.
and what a fairy-tale their love was.
now FBI was checking if he abused his adoptied son.
don't try to understand it. the explanations come with another post. from above. that is script. quasi.
@ColdFire17
No I did abuse him but he started first. He threatened me my elder sister's wedding nd my younger sister who us too young! I didn't threat him like that. I insulted him verbally as he had done so.
And about the pregnancy issue,he always came up with his frnds between us even we got misunderstood bcz one of his frnds. So I couldn't tolerate them to be a part of my personal problems.
Yes he is a man so he can let everyone know about the issue but he can't allow his frnds to do videos nd recordings of our conversations nd meetings!He can't threatened me to post vulgar nd nude pictures of mine. Is a man allowed to do so? Is a man allowed to give threats to inform my family?
No I did abuse him but he started first. He threatened me my elder sister's wedding nd my younger sister who us too young! I didn't threat him like that. I insulted him verbally as he had done so.
And about the pregnancy issue,he always came up with his frnds between us even we got misunderstood bcz one of his frnds. So I couldn't tolerate them to be a part of my personal problems.
Yes he is a man so he can let everyone know about the issue but he can't allow his frnds to do videos nd recordings of our conversations nd meetings!He can't threatened me to post vulgar nd nude pictures of mine. Is a man allowed to do so? Is a man allowed to give threats to inform my family?
@DwellingOnMove
Well he had always assured me that no matter what he would not leave me as he had loved me so much. To be very honest nd frank I didn't have love for him in d begining,nd I had told him abt tht. Even I had refused to be in a relationship after he had talked with my mum nd my mum suggested us to be only frnds. But he nd his frnds made me understand to give him a chance if this relationship really worked out or not. I got agreed to see his love towards me. As I had mentioned he tried to handle me in any ways nd I appreciated that. He used to pamper me a lot. Whenver I did any mistake I apologised to him nd requested him not to hold on grudges. But he did that. He made things ok but inside he kept his anger nd grudges towards me. Whenever he got angry he taunted me everytime of my past mistakes!
My parents never disapprovedd him btmmu mum's problem was basically about his religion nd his family's reaction if he converted his religion. We had a talk regarding this issue for several tyms nd all he explained to me that he needed time so that he could hav believe in God! As he didn't believe in his own religion. He told me that he would manage his family nd I had to manage my family nd only then we would get married. He always told me to have a mental preparation to fight against all the odds nd I did tht too. When my elder sister doubted over me about having a relationship with him, she had beaten me up nd he knew abt tht. I was preparing myself as my love for him was gradually increasing.
We got intimate really deep twice. And we were all alert not to have such incidents of pregnancy but by accident it all happened.
Well he had always assured me that no matter what he would not leave me as he had loved me so much. To be very honest nd frank I didn't have love for him in d begining,nd I had told him abt tht. Even I had refused to be in a relationship after he had talked with my mum nd my mum suggested us to be only frnds. But he nd his frnds made me understand to give him a chance if this relationship really worked out or not. I got agreed to see his love towards me. As I had mentioned he tried to handle me in any ways nd I appreciated that. He used to pamper me a lot. Whenver I did any mistake I apologised to him nd requested him not to hold on grudges. But he did that. He made things ok but inside he kept his anger nd grudges towards me. Whenever he got angry he taunted me everytime of my past mistakes!
My parents never disapprovedd him btmmu mum's problem was basically about his religion nd his family's reaction if he converted his religion. We had a talk regarding this issue for several tyms nd all he explained to me that he needed time so that he could hav believe in God! As he didn't believe in his own religion. He told me that he would manage his family nd I had to manage my family nd only then we would get married. He always told me to have a mental preparation to fight against all the odds nd I did tht too. When my elder sister doubted over me about having a relationship with him, she had beaten me up nd he knew abt tht. I was preparing myself as my love for him was gradually increasing.
We got intimate really deep twice. And we were all alert not to have such incidents of pregnancy but by accident it all happened.
@JohnTheBaptist100
Well apart from our relationship toxic, yes we both are responsible but a taurus man is very determined by nature right? Then how he can loose his determination so quickly!
I knw we do not share the same traits nd it's almost impossible for us to be in a relationship but love is above all! And I had loved him truly which is why cannot get over him easily. And if it was about like out of sight out of mind situation, maybe I can. But We studied in d same University so we're gnna meet nd see. And it'll hurt me more when I'll see him laughing nd moved on!
Well apart from our relationship toxic, yes we both are responsible but a taurus man is very determined by nature right? Then how he can loose his determination so quickly!
I knw we do not share the same traits nd it's almost impossible for us to be in a relationship but love is above all! And I had loved him truly which is why cannot get over him easily. And if it was about like out of sight out of mind situation, maybe I can. But We studied in d same University so we're gnna meet nd see. And it'll hurt me more when I'll see him laughing nd moved on!
thank you for sharing.
let's see what time brings. you know I never watch daily soaps on tv. but recently there is one that absorbs me. I see there how the truth has hidden parts. people get mad at each other while part of the truth is still hidden. or has to be kept hidden.
in this Taurus life there can be things you don't know about.
maybe he thought he could stand by you when he told that. but now he is doubting. he is young and naive. maybe he has problems with father figure. maybe he has Venus in Aries and fell out of love with you. maybe he feels sorry that/guilty and hides himself. maybe he liked you as long as he has not seen your angry face. maybe he is just unstable and not sure how strong he is. You don't know his chart. You don't know about his insecurities.
can you remember what happened to Chris Brown? 12 years ago he had no idea of all what he had to learn about his own chaeacter.
let's see what time brings. you know I never watch daily soaps on tv. but recently there is one that absorbs me. I see there how the truth has hidden parts. people get mad at each other while part of the truth is still hidden. or has to be kept hidden.
in this Taurus life there can be things you don't know about.
maybe he thought he could stand by you when he told that. but now he is doubting. he is young and naive. maybe he has problems with father figure. maybe he has Venus in Aries and fell out of love with you. maybe he feels sorry that/guilty and hides himself. maybe he liked you as long as he has not seen your angry face. maybe he is just unstable and not sure how strong he is. You don't know his chart. You don't know about his insecurities.
can you remember what happened to Chris Brown? 12 years ago he had no idea of all what he had to learn about his own chaeacter.
Posted by Faria94I can see why you love him.
@ColdFire17
No I did abuse him but he started first. He threatened me my elder sister's wedding nd my younger sister who us too young! I didn't threat him like that. I insulted him verbally as he had done so.
And about the pregnancy issue,he always came up with his frnds between us even we got misunderstood bcz one of his frnds. So I couldn't tolerate them to be a part of my personal problems.
Yes he is a man so he can let everyone know about the issue but he can't allow his frnds to do videos nd recordings of our conversations nd meetings!He can't threatened me to post vulgar nd nude pictures of mine. Is a man allowed to do so? Is a man allowed to give threats to inform my family?
@DwellOnMove
No not really..he is all known to my angry face! Even if I had seen him stubborn as hell and aggressive when we were frnds. And I had accepted him as he is. I coped up with his stubbornness nd arrogancy. I had changed myself for him,to be with him but he didn't appreciate it rather he complained about my anger. But as a human being I can be angry right?
If someone is so doubting nd confsed abt his own choice nd desires then how anyone can be trusted? Is it at ease to remove that person with whom u were so in love with?If he was confuse then why did he go on a date with me on November? We had a fight on 8th december nd he stopped contcting on 12th december. He didn't even wish me on my bday,16th december. Even he didn't tell me clearly tht he didn't want to be with me!
Won't he come back to this relationship?
Will he get over this relationship so easily?
No not really..he is all known to my angry face! Even if I had seen him stubborn as hell and aggressive when we were frnds. And I had accepted him as he is. I coped up with his stubbornness nd arrogancy. I had changed myself for him,to be with him but he didn't appreciate it rather he complained about my anger. But as a human being I can be angry right?
If someone is so doubting nd confsed abt his own choice nd desires then how anyone can be trusted? Is it at ease to remove that person with whom u were so in love with?If he was confuse then why did he go on a date with me on November? We had a fight on 8th december nd he stopped contcting on 12th december. He didn't even wish me on my bday,16th december. Even he didn't tell me clearly tht he didn't want to be with me!
Won't he come back to this relationship?
Will he get over this relationship so easily?
Posted by Faria94
@JohnTheBaptist100
... taurus ... determination ... not share the same traits nd it's almost impossible for us to be in a relationship ....
Sagittarius and Taurus can very well live in a convenient partnership (the power of Quniqunx). My landlady is a Taurus woman who was married to a Sagittarius man until he died a few years ago. Also in this statistics Sag women were the next choice after Cancer for Taurus men. Point is people neither marry nor divorce based on the Sun sign compatibility alone.
Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer. have Sag woman in their top 2-4. Why?
Taurus + Cancer: convenience/co-habiting aspect: inconjunction
Aries: supporting aspect: trine
Gemini: challenging but exciting aspect: Opposition.
What about Venus, Mercury and Mars? When Sun is in one of these signs, those planets are most likely in one of the four signs too. This gives a mixed compatibility between the ego quartet and the Sag woman? I had a Taurus bf and he had Cancer and Aries placements.
Posted by Shinzo
Aries man
Aries Female 1062
Virgo Female 1026
Taurus Female 1021
Sagittarius Female 1011 (4th)
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Taurus man
Cancer Female 1054
Sagittarius Female 1032 (2nd)
...
Gemini man
Taurus Female 1074
Gemini Female 1052
Scorpio Female 1049
Sagittarius Female 1024(4th)
...
Cancer man
Cancer Female 1056
Taurus Female 1038
Sagittarius Female 1037 (3rd)
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btw when the time comes that you feel you are done with this thread, you can click on "hide this topic" so that your story with its detailed information is not visible anymore.
before that you could hide each single post of yours.
or you delete your profile.
I just say it for protecting your private life from idiots on Internet.
before that you could hide each single post of yours.
or you delete your profile.
I just say it for protecting your private life from idiots on Internet.
I agree on all ur logics nd all the zodiac calculations. Yes nd of course u are npt supposed to knw abt future or abt his decision bt by asking this question I want to have a hope.
And from the pregnancy issue, well we got intimate first on August 14,nd we didn't have sex to be very frank. But when we were getting intimate,accidently his thing went into my thing. Though we were in our full cautious not to have any trouble bt it happened. Next we got intimate on October. In between we had several fights bt we did patch up. And at last on 30th November,on our first anniversary we got all our misunderstanding cleared out nd patch up again. In the meantime frm November he had his health issue as one of his testis got swelled up with blood nd water nd it's needed to hav a opertion for cure. He declared to me that he wouldn't be with me if his operation wouldn't go well or successful as he might loose his capability of producing a child.
I cried over him,requested him nd assured him that I didn't want anything bt him. I told him even that I wouldn't tell anyone of my family abt his problem. If we wouldn't have any children I would say it's my problem. But he said nothing. He jst remained quiet nd told me that to have the operation first.
And from the pregnancy issue, well we got intimate first on August 14,nd we didn't have sex to be very frank. But when we were getting intimate,accidently his thing went into my thing. Though we were in our full cautious not to have any trouble bt it happened. Next we got intimate on October. In between we had several fights bt we did patch up. And at last on 30th November,on our first anniversary we got all our misunderstanding cleared out nd patch up again. In the meantime frm November he had his health issue as one of his testis got swelled up with blood nd water nd it's needed to hav a opertion for cure. He declared to me that he wouldn't be with me if his operation wouldn't go well or successful as he might loose his capability of producing a child.
I cried over him,requested him nd assured him that I didn't want anything bt him. I told him even that I wouldn't tell anyone of my family abt his problem. If we wouldn't have any children I would say it's my problem. But he said nothing. He jst remained quiet nd told me that to have the operation first.
@JohnTheBaptist
Yes now u can say that this relation is disrespectful by reading my posts but if I dnt share these details I dnt think u would understand the both parties. So I had to clarify things by saying nd stating the statements. But that doesn't mean I didn't love him or respect him. He has lost his respect frm me when he first abused my family. But though I had contacted with him as I had loved him. So main thing is not toxic relationship or disrespectful relationship,I had trusted nd loved him.that's most important.
And about the drama thing..no I dnt like drama or even dnt create a drama infront of him. He used to do tht nd he did emotional blackmail by saying his operation issue,his familial problems,his case issue nd all.
Yes now u can say that this relation is disrespectful by reading my posts but if I dnt share these details I dnt think u would understand the both parties. So I had to clarify things by saying nd stating the statements. But that doesn't mean I didn't love him or respect him. He has lost his respect frm me when he first abused my family. But though I had contacted with him as I had loved him. So main thing is not toxic relationship or disrespectful relationship,I had trusted nd loved him.that's most important.
And about the drama thing..no I dnt like drama or even dnt create a drama infront of him. He used to do tht nd he did emotional blackmail by saying his operation issue,his familial problems,his case issue nd all.
regarding hope:
"Things are possible because they have not happened yet." you see?
"Things are possible because they have not happened yet." you see?
girls know these two (quasi) facts:
- as long as you look at the door waiting that he enters the room, nothing happens
- as soon as you have forgotten him and moved on, he walks in.
boys know it too.
ok, this scenario does not cover all the cases. but yes. often enough to be known as a phenomena.
- as long as you look at the door waiting that he enters the room, nothing happens
- as soon as you have forgotten him and moved on, he walks in.
boys know it too.
ok, this scenario does not cover all the cases. but yes. often enough to be known as a phenomena.
@Faria,
What I'm getting from you is a an Oscar brilliant performance at you playing the role of victim.
This was a toxic relationship that you also contributed to.
Your story keeps changing.
Even when it's being disputed, you revert back to the role of victim again.
You're clearly seeking an astrological perspective...
Here it is...
Taurus has staying power only for a relationship that we choose to invest in....once already invested.
During the preliminary/initial stages if we see drama, or chaotic scenarios that may disturb our love for peace and stability...we're outta there!
We gravitate towards safety nets.
Love is one thing, practicality is another.
We can't hold on to one without having the other.
He knew the two of you were toxic which is why he made a graceful exit.
But you keep reeling him back in...to the point that he has to threaten you with taped conversations to keep you away.
Even in the midst of no longer being linked to you, here you are...seeking external advice to reel him back in.
He may have already re-considered everything, the toxic relationship,the meddling parents, society, different religions...
And decided...
He doesn't think you're worth fighting for.
LET HIM GO. IT'S OVER!
What I'm getting from you is a an Oscar brilliant performance at you playing the role of victim.
This was a toxic relationship that you also contributed to.
Your story keeps changing.
Even when it's being disputed, you revert back to the role of victim again.
You're clearly seeking an astrological perspective...
Here it is...
Taurus has staying power only for a relationship that we choose to invest in....once already invested.
During the preliminary/initial stages if we see drama, or chaotic scenarios that may disturb our love for peace and stability...we're outta there!
We gravitate towards safety nets.
Love is one thing, practicality is another.
We can't hold on to one without having the other.
He knew the two of you were toxic which is why he made a graceful exit.
But you keep reeling him back in...to the point that he has to threaten you with taped conversations to keep you away.
Even in the midst of no longer being linked to you, here you are...seeking external advice to reel him back in.
He may have already re-considered everything, the toxic relationship,the meddling parents, society, different religions...
And decided...
He doesn't think you're worth fighting for.
LET HIM GO. IT'S OVER!
@JohnTheBaptist
I'm not denying that I won't move on..Maybe I will but it's hard for me. In my sense as far as I hav beliefs that to build up a relation,both parties need to hav love nd trust nd I hav given both to him. He had lost his respect frm me when he abused my family nd it was quite normal. But though as I had loved him,I still did contact with him to knw his health condition.
Yes Taurus has realised that now but when I had alarmed him warned him saying that he can't leave me later on,he didn't pay attention towards me. I knw myself that if I grow my love for him,I can't get over that..nd that's exactly what is happening now.
I'm not denying that I won't move on..Maybe I will but it's hard for me. In my sense as far as I hav beliefs that to build up a relation,both parties need to hav love nd trust nd I hav given both to him. He had lost his respect frm me when he abused my family nd it was quite normal. But though as I had loved him,I still did contact with him to knw his health condition.
Yes Taurus has realised that now but when I had alarmed him warned him saying that he can't leave me later on,he didn't pay attention towards me. I knw myself that if I grow my love for him,I can't get over that..nd that's exactly what is happening now.
toxic? heh? young people without stamina and ambitions? nop.
he was worrying about his manhood. healthy body healthy mind. he needs time to feel better about himself.
you are missing the old times. they are gone. for now. deal with it.
he was worrying about his manhood. healthy body healthy mind. he needs time to feel better about himself.
you are missing the old times. they are gone. for now. deal with it.
Posted by Faria94
... He had lost his respect frm me when he abused my family nd it was quite normal. But though as I had loved him,I still did contact with him to knw his health condition.
... warned him saying that he can't leave me later on,he didn't pay attention towards me....
well, should he forgive you for your stalking ways, you can forgive him for the complication he brought between you and your family.
in love, war and game everything is allowed. they say.
@TaurusBull1977
Well I never tried to reel him in nd he never made a graceful exit. He threatened me on December when we were having a fight nd he said it out of nowhere! It was not even relevant! He threatened me nd again told me to stay nd again started to insult me threatened me! So he never told me to have a breakup!
And I'm not nd haven't changed my story. I'm saying things as the topic or questions arises.
And from the external advice..well.. I've jst shared my story for help nd that's not a sin I guess. It doesn't mean I want him to reel him or control him. I expected suggestions so I can solve myself problems nd to know if I'm going or had gone in a wrong way. If I had gone then how can I rectify it!that's it!
Well I never tried to reel him in nd he never made a graceful exit. He threatened me on December when we were having a fight nd he said it out of nowhere! It was not even relevant! He threatened me nd again told me to stay nd again started to insult me threatened me! So he never told me to have a breakup!
And I'm not nd haven't changed my story. I'm saying things as the topic or questions arises.
And from the external advice..well.. I've jst shared my story for help nd that's not a sin I guess. It doesn't mean I want him to reel him or control him. I expected suggestions so I can solve myself problems nd to know if I'm going or had gone in a wrong way. If I had gone then how can I rectify it!that's it!
@DwellingOnMove
I agree with u the fact of clearing sky. But forgiving him..well..it'll be really tough for me. I have lost my respect nd status infront of my family. I'm all coloured infront of his frnds. If he was soo concerned or depressed about his manhood how can he bitch about me with his frnds! How he would threat me like this!
The damages nd wounds he has given me,I knw time will heal everything but in between I've lost all my self-esteem md confidence over me. Even I can't trust any other man now! It's a life time lesson nd a Great Gift frm him I would say!
I agree with u the fact of clearing sky. But forgiving him..well..it'll be really tough for me. I have lost my respect nd status infront of my family. I'm all coloured infront of his frnds. If he was soo concerned or depressed about his manhood how can he bitch about me with his frnds! How he would threat me like this!
The damages nd wounds he has given me,I knw time will heal everything but in between I've lost all my self-esteem md confidence over me. Even I can't trust any other man now! It's a life time lesson nd a Great Gift frm him I would say!
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