understanding taurus men

what are some things to say to a taurus man or do for a taurus to make him say "wow shes the one"?? im dating him for 2 months now...i know that he likes me bc he has been chasing me for 9 months...i realized that i have a lot of feelings for him now...he told me that he saw a future with me and that im the one that he wants to marry...lately he hasnt been that affectionate (like he used to) and hes not calling me as much as he used to...he used to call me more than once a day...now i hear from him like 2 or 3 times a week...and of course i call him too...i heard that taurus men are very cautious when they enter a relationship and are very slow...how can i make him open up?? im a libra by the way...

wow, Taurus's really ARE slow! I saw your post..it looked interesting...but you posted it awhile ago and you're STILL waiting for a Taurus to reply. This is good to know about the Taurus personality in general. I've been interested in a male Taurus for over 9 months he flirts like crazy from day one and yet he still hasn't asked me out.

I took the advise from others that you have to be patient with a Taurus. I've grown bored waiting and met someone new. Not sure how long it will take Taurus to figure out I've moved on now that I stopped flirting with hm and stuck him in the "friends only" category but......really.....are Taurus's truly THIS slow at everything they do—? lol

The men certainly are. The women are cautious, but it has nothing on the placid gait of the bull male.

That we most certainly are. 😄

nope. even as a typical, grazing bull... if he wants something bad enough he will charge full speed ahead! i've always experienced the opposite problem (ok, i don't see it as a problem!) where they usually move almost too fast.

all i know is that i'm consistently always me. plus taurean men tend to find me very attractive for some reason and they are a lusty lot!

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I would think after nine months,whether male or female....there is either no real interest,or a woman at home.we do flirt tho,we are flirters.dirty,filthy,hot and juicy flirters. 😉

You are so right - after my Taurus crush told me he was seeing someone else and I told him to have a nice life, he's been flirting more, and filthy is right. 😉 Also bossy. There is definitely some interest, but I won't share a man lol... He also won't tell me how serious it is with her - such a player!

Great Advise from everyone. Thanks. I tend to agree with all of you. If he was interested he should have charged ahead and made it known and not hung back and just did the flirting thing for so long. Which is why I moved on. I felt at some point if he hadn't gotten a response from me he'd come chasing but he hasn't so far. However, I kept wondering if he wasn't just taking his time being "cautious and guarded" because I had heard that is a Taurean trait just as you said purpledot.

I still like him as a friend. Which is where he'll stay as far as my interests are with him now. UNLESS..........he comes charging after me eventually. LOL

Hi Bella! Yes I'm still lurking, patiently waiting out my irresistible Taurus man while I do my own thing... Casually dating around is fine, and if that was the case he would have made time for a few dates with me, but he said he was focusing on her. So I'm just throwing out friendly little tidbits about how much I like to cook, posting photos of myself on Facebook looking hot and having a great time. 🙂 I mentioned that I had a few guys interested but not officially seeing anyone - this is what triggered the filthy flirting. I told him his girlfriend wouldn't approve. 😉 In the meantime I'm trying to understand him a bit better while getting to know other people too. Too bad there aren't many Taurus men on these boards.

yeah I don't think there's any Taurus men on here.. at least that's what I've been told..

lol TaurGuy I didn't say not any, I said not many 😉 I guess Taurus is the strong silent type...

Even though this post is Well over 2 years old, I would like to mention that Taurus men are some of the most loyal down to earth guys you will find, however, a armor is only as strong as its flaws..

Taurus men will flirt non stop with women, romance them, and everything, but he WILL not make it "official" unless he is forced into the decision. Yep, like a grazing bull. Also, if a taurus man tells you, you're the only person in his eyes, hes is most likely telling a fib. Though he might be throwing all his cards on the table, he has a few more tables running at the same time. Taurean people in general are highly clever, manipulating, and very influential. They will also not give up until defeat is sharing the same breath as them, and even then they won't give up.


Taurean men may seem like the player types, but they really aren't. They are men who are in it for the long run, and they want someone who can run WITH them. They are also irresistible.


Becareful, don't fall under the charms or influence of a Taurus. Its one hell of a ride.

"Taurus men will flirt non stop with women, romance them, and everything, but he WILL not make it "official" unless he is forced into the decision. Yep, like a grazing bull. Also, if a taurus man tells you, you're the only person in his eyes, hes is most likely telling a fib. Though he might be throwing all his cards on the table, he has a few more tables running at the same time."

You say this ^^^



"Taurean men may seem like the player types, but they really aren't. They are men who are in it for the long run, and they want someone who can run WITH them."

Then you say ^^^


Sounds confused to me..lol

^^^We shall see. 😛

Posted by Striking
"Taurus men will flirt non stop with women, romance them, and everything, but he WILL not make it "official" unless he is forced into the decision. Yep, like a grazing bull. Also, if a taurus man tells you, you're the only person in his eyes, hes is most likely telling a fib. Though he might be throwing all his cards on the table, he has a few more tables running at the same time."

You say this ^^^



"Taurean men may seem like the player types, but they really aren't. They are men who are in it for the long run, and they want someone who can run WITH them."

Then you say ^^^


Sounds confused to me..lol

Girl I was going to say the same thing when I read this earlier lol!

Inana04: It speaks volumes and you heard it right out of a Taurus man's mouth..That has always been the impression that I have gotten of Taurus men..lol Ijs!!

Posted by Striking
Inana04: It speaks volumes and you heard it right out of a Taurus man's mouth..That has always been the impression that I have gotten of Taurus men..lol Ijs!!

"It speaks volumes and you heard it right out of a Taurus man's mouth"

Oh snap, I missed that part. I didn't know Sosabased was a Taurus. smh lol

Posted by TaurGuy
yeah I don't think there's any Taurus men on here.. at least that's what I've been told..

Nope none here....

HELLO every one, im new to this page, and well im a taurus and well i had to admit that i joined bcus i never felt that i ever needed to be in this kind of forums but there, im here... lol

now regarding taurus guys, if you want my opinion, i never ever had to go agains what i think its right, depends on the level of emotional relation we have with the person, and again, you would never (at least thats what i feel) get a taurus guy to go after you if there is no emotional connection, i can be happy, laughing and joking with a girl just for fun even flirting, but if i dont feel emotion connection i would never go and chase that girl bcus in my eyes its just a friend, but if u need my opinion if i can help answering with my own thoughts i would be more than happy... 🙂

Posted by aurora
I know 2 Taur males in long-term relationships. Both of them are unhappy, I mean they are falling apart, but I know for a fact that they will never leave them. One is a cheater, I mean big one, because she is a workaholic (if that can be an excuse), and the other one is going to be for sure (tried to have something with me). So they are loyal in some way lol.

That's a huge problem for them. They will stay unhappy but cheat, rather than letting both parties move on....makes no sense to me. People are not possessions. They don't wanna let go of someone they think they own.

Back to the original question though, what can one do to get a taurus male to commit or know for sure she's the one?

I've been talking to my taurus male for about four months now and we talk almost every day and consistently see each other. I've threatened to break it off before because he loves to talk to other girls via fb and texts especially and I've causally peered over and seen it happening right when I'm there, so I told him I wasn't going to deal with that and he promised me that he can give them all up and "already has".

As of last week he asked me to go on vacation with him and his family (my first time meeting them) a week from now. And then last night he shows up
where I work and sits at the bar for an hour and tells me to let him know when I'm off and we ended up meeting up after.

Later I see though while he's texting that he had asked his ex to randomly come over the other night and asked a different ex to go out with him before he came to where I worked but they both said no.

What is the deal? If he has such strong feelings for his exes then why did he break up with them both. Help! What can I do to make something come from all of this? I'm so lost and I have his family vaca coming up in a week that I'm supposed to go to...