Unevolved Taurus (Page 3)

I dont think I have walked out before, but I have asked my partner to leave a couple times.

Right you lot, I've been left out of this thread so you may make it up to me by telling me all about a fella with a Taurus Sun and Merc, who has a Sag Moon, with Venus and Mars in Aries, and a possible Cancer rising. Half French, half Brazilian. Am I gonna be proper fucked or just a bit fucked...— And more importantly, will it be worth it—

Ps: loving this thread, loving all the feedback. You're all wankers!

Pps: imagine my relief that this Taurus dude does NOT have Gem Venus!!! Love you really TLS!!

Well he contacted me and said he couldnt stop thinking about me and that he is begging to see me.

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Well he contacted me and said he couldnt stop thinking about me and that he is begging to see me.

Yea!!! ðŸ¾

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Well he contacted me and said he couldnt stop thinking about me and that he is begging to see me.

great news. 🙂

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Right you lot, I've been left out of this thread so you may make it up to me by telling me all about a fella with a Taurus Sun and Merc, who has a Sag Moon, with Venus and Mars in Aries, and a possible Cancer rising. Half French, half Brazilian. Am I gonna be proper fucked or just a bit fucked...— And more importantly, will it be worth it—

Ps: loving this thread, loving all the feedback. You're all wankers!

Pps: imagine my relief that this Taurus dude does NOT have Gem Venus!!! Love you really TLS!!

From what I have heard/read, ViS vs. ViA can be some very intense sexual chemistry.

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Well he contacted me and said he couldnt stop thinking about me and that he is begging to see me.

LOL...see that? He just needed some time.

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Posted by nerdyvirgp
Well he contacted me and said he couldnt stop thinking about me and that he is begging to see me.

LOL...see that? He just needed some time.

Dont make it too easy for him OP!!! Lol lol

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busy! have you forgotten what started all of this?

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Well he contacted me and said he couldnt stop thinking about me and that he is begging to see me.

LOL...see that? He just needed some time.

Dont make it too easy for him OP!!! Lol lol

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Lol How does one deny the Taurean charm?

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Posted by AgentP911
Right you lot, I've been left out of this thread so you may make it up to me by telling me all about a fella with a Taurus Sun and Merc, who has a Sag Moon, with Venus and Mars in Aries, and a possible Cancer rising. Half French, half Brazilian. Am I gonna be proper fucked or just a bit fucked...— And more importantly, will it be worth it—

Ps: loving this thread, loving all the feedback. You're all wankers!

Pps: imagine my relief that this Taurus dude does NOT have Gem Venus!!! Love you really TLS!!

Half French and half Brazilian... Cool!!!

Depends on what kind of fuck you are referring to? Ie fuck as in sex or fucked as in "mind games"?!! Lol

A VIA will be just as bad as a VIG. A VIP is much better! 😄

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Ha! You're too biased!!

By fuck I don't necessarily mean it in the literal sense. More of an 'am I doomed??' sense!! I've heard about ViA but perhaps the straightforwardness might actually be nice.

I can't be dealing with mind games or guessing games or wimpy blokes with no balls. I'm meeting him tomorrow. Let's hope he turns up. If he doesn't then I'm gonna go take a dump on his doorstep... I know where he lives... Ž

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Posted by AgentP911
Right you lot, I've been left out of this thread so you may make it up to me by telling me all about a fella with a Taurus Sun and Merc, who has a Sag Moon, with Venus and Mars in Aries, and a possible Cancer rising. Half French, half Brazilian. Am I gonna be proper fucked or just a bit fucked...— And more importantly, will it be worth it—

Ps: loving this thread, loving all the feedback. You're all wankers!

Pps: imagine my relief that this Taurus dude does NOT have Gem Venus!!! Love you really TLS!!

From what I have heard/read, ViS vs. ViA can be some very intense sexual chemistry.

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Lovely! I might book meself in for some of that later on down the line then if it gets that far!!

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Posted by nerdyvirgp
Well he contacted me and said he couldnt stop thinking about me and that he is begging to see me.

LOL...see that? He just needed some time.

Dont make it too easy for him OP!!! Lol lol

busy! have you forgotten what started all of this?

Ok her scorp moon!!! Lol lol

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and her virgo standards!

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Posted by AgentP911
Right you lot, I've been left out of this thread so you may make it up to me by telling me all about a fella with a Taurus Sun and Merc, who has a Sag Moon, with Venus and Mars in Aries, and a possible Cancer Half French, half Brazilian. Am I gonna be proper fucked or just a bit fucked...— And more importantly, will it be worth it—

Ps: loving this thread, loving all the feedback. You're all wankers!

Pps: imagine my relief that this Taurus dude does NOT have Gem Venus!!! Love you really TLS!!

Well... I like his French side, but be careful with that Brazilian side... Brazilian men are notorious cheaters!!! Generalizing of course, but I have a handful of Brazilian friends and all say the same thing (also that the women snatch married men). It must be the heat and those thong bikinis... 😛

But give us the scoop!

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Ha ha! I thought the French bit would get a box ticked. He was born and raised in Lyon and he's been here in the UK for years. I'm not sure how strong the Brazilian influence is on him but I don't think it's a huge amount. Certainly more French but with that nice dark skin I seem to like! Will find out more tomorrow. If there is a God, please don't let him be a total fucktard!!!

He's 38. He'll be 39 on May 6th. If he pitches up, doesn't act like a moron, and buys me a drink then he's already way ahead of the rest... Which is pretty sad when you think about it...

Here's the latest round of 'man bullshit...'

So the Leo Sun/Scorp moon/cancer Venus from October just couldn't get himself together. He finally asked me out, via text, after a few weeks of texting. I said yes, and asked when would he like to meet, tues or fri, and he disappeared... Silence... For a week, until the following Sat night, at almost midnight, when he'd had some beers and decided to rekindle the date via text. I ignored him. Now my bloke mates think I'm too harsh on guys (I'm not) and shouldn't write him off over that. Seriously? Who finally asks a girl out and then in the space of five minutes just doesn't bother to follow through— Then fucks off on a silent holiday for a week before sending a drunken text with shit about him probably punching above his weight. Unless this dude is running a small country I don't know about then he ain't that busy! Worse still, his ears must have been burning this weekend as I was telling my Aunt about this cretin and then I got another text from him with some bullshit about how me not replying was my way of politely declining him... Fella, it's been over one month. That boat sailed long ago... And you missed it! I think he was doing some of that Scorp Moon self defeatist shit. Yuk.

Pfffft the shit I have to put up with!!

Dear Santa,

Please send me a man with balls who isn't frightened to ask me out. I'll send the rest of my requirements later. Say hi to Mrs Santa and the elves!

Cheers

AgentP

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He's 38. He'll be 39 on May 6th. If he pitches up, doesn't act like a moron, and buys me a drink then he's already way ahead of the rest... Which is pretty sad when you think about it...

Here's the latest round of 'man bullshit...'

So the Leo Sun/Scorp moon/cancer Venus from October just couldn't get himself together. He finally asked me out, via text, after a few weeks of texting. I said yes, and asked when would he like to meet, tues or fri, and he disappeared... Silence... For a week, until the following Sat night, at almost midnight, when he'd had some beers and decided to rekindle the date via text. I ignored him. Now my bloke mates think I'm too harsh on guys (I'm not) and shouldn't write him off over that. Seriously? Who finally asks a girl out and then in the space of five minutes just doesn't bother to follow through— Then fucks off on a silent holiday for a week before sending a drunken text with shit about him probably punching above his weight. Unless this dude is running a small country I don't know about then he ain't that busy! Worse still, his ears must have been burning this weekend as I was telling my Aunt about this cretin and then I got another text from him with some bullshit about how me not replying was my way of politely declining him... Fella, it's been over one month. That boat sailed long ago... And you missed it! I think he was doing some of that Scorp Moon self defeatist shit. Yuk.

Pfffft the shit I have to put up with!!

Dear Santa,

Please send me a man with balls who isn't frightened to ask me out. I'll send the rest of my requirements later. Say hi to Mrs Santa and the elves!

Cheers

AgentP

That def not the Scorpio moon. It's that flaky Venus in cancer aka his approach/views on relationships

^^^ was never a fan of Cancerian men. Emotionally manipulative cunts... They're not even particularly good at it...

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Posted by AgentP911
He's 38. He'll be 39 on May 6th. If he pitches up, doesn't act like a moron, and buys me a drink then he's already way ahead of the rest... Which is pretty sad when you think about it...

Here's the latest round of 'man bullshit...'

So the Leo Sun/Scorp moon/cancer Venus from October just couldn't get himself together. He finally asked me out, via text, after a few weeks of texting. I said yes, and asked when would he like to meet, tues or fri, and he disappeared... Silence... For a week, until the following Sat night, at almost midnight, when he'd had some beers and decided to rekindle the date via text. I ignored him. Now my bloke mates think I'm too harsh on guys (I'm not) and shouldn't write him off over that. Seriously? Who finally asks a girl out and then in the space of five minutes just doesn't bother to follow through— Then fucks off on a silent holiday for a week before sending a drunken text with shit about him probably punching above his weight. Unless this dude is running a small country I don't know about then he ain't that busy! Worse still, his ears must have been burning this weekend as I was telling my Aunt about this cretin and then I got another text from him with some bullshit about how me not replying was my way of politely declining him... Fella, it's been over one month. That boat sailed long ago... And you missed it! I think he was doing some of that Scorp Moon self defeatist shit. Yuk.

Pfffft the shit I have to put up with!!

Dear Santa,

Please send me a man with balls who isn't frightened to ask me out. I'll send the rest of my requirements later. Say hi to Mrs Santa and the elves!

Cheers

AgentP

Wow... Sounds like Leo was playing games a bit. Well, good luck with the Bull and anticipate slowness there too. 😕 BUT who knows... He does have a ViA after all!! I think the Bulls that charged at me (for marriage after a month and 2 others for commitment/relationship) might have had this placement bc they were FAST!
I also dated two Pisces with that Venus...
I can say ViA is passionate, loves romance, loves to chase for a LONG TIME, loves my ViL...lol, is a bit impatient, wants action, is ALL or Nothing.
That might work wonderfully with your ViS!!!

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Omg... Loving his ViA! No fucking about there!

What you wanna know?

I think the moral of the story here is to be careful what you wish for. With a slight advantage of reading up on astrological placements, it's entirely true regarding Venus and Mars in Aries. Throw in the Sag moon and that's a shit load of fire!

I wonder if it's a bit too much?

That intensity is relentless and so were his attempts to get in my knickers. He didn't succeed. I think he felt the world had ended, or that it wasn't a successful date, simply because we didn't fuck. Now I was always entirely clear about my intentions and what I was looking for so there was no misleading but a few times I thought 'would you just give it a fucking rest! I'm not going to yours. You're not coming to mine. That's it. So fucking deal with it. I don't want to discuss it anymore. I've already stated my terms. They won't change. I just want to have a nice time. If that's not enough for you then go and find an easier subject to stick your dick into.'

To be fair, the date went well. I think it was just towards the end where it was a bit too much. He wasn't quite boarding on desperation but I think it annoyed me that he had disregarded my 'stance' in favour of his own and he was gonna pedal his own agenda regardless simply because he felt it more important. Perhaps he thought he could 'ram' me into submission! The trouble is, it's too common these days to fuck on the first date (or quite soon) and although there's nothing wrong with that, I've done it myself. However, it's always clear in my head and I make it clear to the guy what the date is all about. Perhaps they think I'll be wishy washy or be so enamoured by their charms that my knickers will just fall down or something. Kinda insulting in a way but I'm just thinking aloud here.

On the positive side, he's initiated contact every day (except one day where I initiated first) and he's always responded. I've not been left hanging or guessing. He asked me out. That's very rare. He actually pitched up, on time (after fannying about with either driving or the train, I think he was hedging his bets on having a drink and coming back to mine) and we hit it off really well from the start. Lots in common, enthusiastic, we talked crap all night, he's smartly dressed, a nice looking fella, intelligent, didn't make an issue about buying some drinks/rounds, has good views and we were able to be quite open and chilled, not reserved when discussing stuff. He has a decent job, is local (no planes required) and so far seems ok although very early days. Oh and he doesn't have kids!!!

He messaged me about 15 mins after I got out the cab. He asked if I was in bed! He messaged me again this morning and asked if I slept well and later he messaged again to ask if I was still at work and then asked what I was doing tonight. He's very insistent on me going round to his, he did that sun and mon night. I'd not yet met the bloke yet he's inviting me round. That shit ain't happening!!

He's just mes

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Perhaps they think I'll be wishy washy or be so enamoured by their charms that my knickers will just fall down or something. Kinda insulting in a way but I'm just thinking aloud here.

that's not ram, that is bull. if it is not sex it will be anything other topic. don't worry, just keep putting your foot down and making your line very clear and you'll be fine 🙂

I think today/this evening was just a bit too much. It's only been the last two days where he's messaged me during the day. Which is fine as it's not constant but when it focuses on fucking, like asking what I'm doing tonight and that he's obviously not going to be getting it, it is exhausting. Like I'm being hit constantly. Admittedly, I might be being a tad overly sensitive here. I'm tired. I've got so much shit on right now and I'm flying out early Sat morning, a big party on Friday, so only Thurs to get shit done. Don't add to my plate man! I literally feel like putting my hands out in front of me to get him to back off and let me breathe... And he's not even here!!

The down side is that too much focus on fucking turns me off. I'm thinking to myself 'if we were to go out again, am I going to have to deal with his agenda again? Can't we just have a bite to eat or do some normal shit and not have the evening revolve around whether you're going to be putting your dick into me?'

He's messaged me again about half an hour ago. I think I'll read it in the morning.

So... Be careful what I wish for...

Easily conquered. Easily discarded.

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Perhaps they think I'll be wishy washy or be so enamoured by their charms that my knickers will just fall down or something. Kinda insulting in a way but I'm just thinking aloud here.

that's not ram, that is bull. if it is not sex it will be anything other topic. don't worry, just keep putting your foot down and making your line very clear and you'll be fine 🙂

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I dunno what it is but maybe you're right. Is this the thing I keep reading about where bulls charge at you?

The dude don't even know me. Sure we clicked over the net and also in real life for one night but surely this isn't enough to bull his way in, is it? Frankly, he just wants to get in me pants. Frankly, he probably wants to get in anyone's pants!! Frankly, I don't think he finds it hard to get into girls pants!! Not because he's a player or a charmer as such but because it's so easily available and he's looking for this connection based off physical/sexual attraction and you gotta fuck a lot to get that instant chemistry as you're rarely lucky to find it with anyone and everyone.

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Perhaps they think I'll be wishy washy or be so enamoured by their charms that my knickers will just fall down or something. Kinda insulting in a way but I'm just thinking aloud here.

that's not ram, that is bull. if it is not sex it will be anything other topic. don't worry, just keep putting your foot down and making your line very clear and you'll be fine 🙂

I dunno what it is but maybe you're right. Is this the thing I keep reading about where bulls charge at you?

The dude don't even know me. Sure we clicked over the net and also in real life for one night but surely this isn't enough to bull his way in, is it? Frankly, he just wants to get in me pants. Frankly, he probably wants to get in anyone's pants!! Frankly, I don't think he finds it hard to get into girls pants!! Not because he's a player or a charmer as such but because it's so easily available and he's looking for this connection based off physical/sexual attraction and you gotta fuck a lot to get that instant chemistry as you're rarely lucky to find it with anyone and everyone.

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oh they will try it on. very charming the lot of them. the medium you first met on doesn't help either. i would explain your position, basically what you have said here in an earlier post about wanting to breathe a bit, and if he is a decent and sensitive enough guy, he'll get the message.

yes, that's the charge. i think in this case your getting double the dose because of the via.

and mia! triple strength!

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Perhaps they think I'll be wishy washy or be so enamoured by their charms that my knickers will just fall down or something. Kinda insulting in a way but I'm just thinking aloud here.

that's not ram, that is bull. if it is not sex it will be anything other topic. don't worry, just keep putting your foot down and making your line very clear and you'll be fine 🙂

I dunno what it is but maybe you're right. Is this the thing I keep reading about where bulls charge at you?

The dude don't even know me. Sure we clicked over the net and also in real life for one night but surely this isn't enough to bull his way in, is it? Frankly, he just wants to get in me pants. Frankly, he probably wants to get in anyone's pants!! Frankly, I don't think he finds it hard to get into girls pants!! Not because he's a player or a charmer as such but because it's so easily available and he's looking for this connection based off physical/sexual attraction and you gotta fuck a lot to get that instant chemistry as you're rarely lucky to find it with anyone and everyone.

oh they will try it on. very charming the lot of them. the medium you first met on doesn't help either. i would explain your position, basically what you have said here in an earlier post about wanting to breathe a bit, and if he is a decent and sensitive enough guy, he'll get the message.

yes, that's the charge. i think in this case your getting double the dose because of the via.

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Good advice. I'm not a fan of Internet dating. I've only recently gone back on it. Not because of the quality or calibre of the men but because I have little patience for it and zero attention span. I've met just as many pricks in real life and encountered enough arseholes via the net to know there really isn't much diffetence. If you're a cunt, you're a cunt. End of.

I think you're right about the breathing bit. Sometimes I need to just reflect to see if there's an issue and then what the issue is. If it continues then I'll need to address it because if I don't I'll either blow up at him or just disappear. Neither of which are fair. Maybe my Pisces moon is sensitive today! I think he's reasonably decent but you never know.

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and mia! triple strength!

Oh God... I'm so fucked!

Well technicalky I am but not literally... That's the way I'd like to keep it!

Let's play a game with him and see how long he'll wait it out... True intentions will be revealed!!

Thankfully, I'm away for two weeks over Xmas so I'll get my breathing space by bring thousands of miles away... I bet H e'll still charge via text!! On the other hand, it's a shame because it would have been nice to meet again before I went away.

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Good advice. I'm not a fan of Internet dating. I've only recently gone back on it. Not because of the quality or calibre of the men but because I have little patience for it and zero attention span. I've met just as many pricks in real life and encountered enough arseholes via the net to know there really isn't much diffetence. If you're a cunt, you're a cunt. End of.

I think you're right about the breathing bit. Sometimes I need to just reflect to see if there's an issue and then what the issue is. If it continues then I'll need to address it because if I don't I'll either blow up at him or just disappear. Neither of which are fair. Maybe my Pisces moon is sensitive today! I think he's reasonably decent but you never know.

i think like tinder, internet dating can have the presumption of just a way to hook up. i don't doubt that you are also an attractive and interesting person so there is no doubt that he wouldn't mind a piece. i have never done it. i don't really like the interview process of it or the lack of romance when you have an already predetermined agenda ie operation find-a-mate.

tell him you want to get to know him, that you're not looking for a hook up straight away and set a challenge of what else has he got to impress you besides a throbbing member. i think it is worth giving him the benefit of the doubt! imo sometimes the bulls have to be given boundaries very early on otherwise they will just keep pushing until they trample over yours.

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and mia! triple strength!

Oh God... I'm so fucked!

Well technicalky I am but not literally... That's the way I'd like to keep it!

Let's play a game with him and see how long he'll wait it out... True intentions will be revealed!!

Thankfully, I'm away for two weeks over Xmas so I'll get my breathing space by bring thousands of miles away... I bet H e'll still charge via text!! On the other hand, it's a shame because it would have been nice to meet again before I went away.

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lots of time. there is no need to rush.

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and mia! triple strength!

Oh God... I'm so fucked!

Well technicalky I am but not literally... That's the way I'd like to keep it!

Let's play a game with him and see how long he'll wait it out... True intentions will be revealed!!

Thankfully, I'm away for two weeks over Xmas so I'll get my breathing space by bring thousands of miles away... I bet H e'll still charge via text!! On the other hand, it's a shame because it would have been nice to meet again before I went away.

lots of time. there is no need to rush.

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Yeah... A Scorp telling a bull 'what's the rush??' Now that's an interesting concept!!

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Good advice. I'm not a fan of Internet dating. I've only recently gone back on it. Not because of the quality or calibre of the men but because I have little patience for it and zero attention span. I've met just as many pricks in real life and encountered enough arseholes via the net to know there really isn't much diffetence. If you're a cunt, you're a cunt. End of.

I think you're right about the breathing bit. Sometimes I need to just reflect to see if there's an issue and then what the issue is. If it continues then I'll need to address it because if I don't I'll either blow up at him or just disappear. Neither of which are fair. Maybe my Pisces moon is sensitive today! I think he's reasonably decent but you never know.

i think like tinder, internet dating can have the presumption of just a way to hook up. i don't doubt that you are also an attractive and interesting person so there is no doubt that he wouldn't mind a piece. i have never done it. i don't really like the interview process of it or the lack of romance when you have an already predetermined agenda ie operation find-a-mate.

tell him you want to get to know him, that you're not looking for a hook up straight away and set a challenge of what else has he got to impress you besides a throbbing member. i think it is worth giving him the benefit of the doubt! imo sometimes the bulls have to be given boundaries very early on otherwise they will just keep pushing until they trample over yours.

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Yeah it's not great but it is what it is.

I've told him all that. Many times. I'm giving him the benefit of doubt as I like him and don't think he's that bad a person.

I love that though, asking him what else he had got to impress me with besides a throbbing member!! This is a good and fair point. I hope he rises to the challenge... Pardon the innuendo!!

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and mia! triple strength!

Oh God... I'm so fucked!

Well technicalky I am but not literally... That's the way I'd like to keep it!

Let's play a game with him and see how long he'll wait it out... True intentions will be revealed!!

Thankfully, I'm away for two weeks over Xmas so I'll get my breathing space by bring thousands of miles away... I bet H e'll still charge via text!! On the other hand, it's a shame because it would have been nice to meet again before I went away.

lots of time. there is no need to rush.

Yeah... A Scorp telling a bull 'what's the rush??' Now that's an interesting concept!!

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ha! as a libra i've had to do it a few times. ain't no one can drag their feet like a libra can....hahah!

Thankfully, he's eased the fuck off today and I don't feel the pressure! He's off to an Xmas party tonight so he's not tried him luck and asked me to come over like usual thank God! He's looking rather handsome in his suit though ☺ï¸☺ï¸☺ï¸

Sorry OP, didn't mean to hijack your thread!

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Sorry OP, didn't mean to hijack your thread!

Lol I don't mind girl. The first Taurus guy I had acted just like that. He was not trashy with initiating anything but he definitely let me know he wanted something (touching rubbing etc) and I just basically gave him the ok.

With the Taurus I'm with on our first date he asked permission to kiss me. Everything was initiated by me but I still allowed him to lead or think he was leading lol. I guess what I'm trying to say is I think Taurus men when they're serious do not act that way. From my experience and with my friends also.

Guys in general usually give signs that they want to indulge in your garden but we sometimes ignore it ?.:.

I think his sign was far too obvious that even a deaf, blind and dumb person couldn't miss it! No offence intended. It was just a bit much at some points. I was monitoring his touchy feely 'tactile' behaviour! I think it was about an hour in when the first light touch of my elbow came in, then a slight leg touch, then the sly bastard moved from seats to the sofa (in the bar) while I went to the toilet! No fucking escape from his grand plan and OTT body language! Read all that shit like a book. I'm not tactile at all so I tend to notice when people touch me. It's a bit unnatural for me to do but on the other hand I am physically affectionate... If there's a difference between the two!

I think he definitely wanted to indulge in my garden! Let's see what he's really looking for!!

@OP- So what are you going to do? If there is a lesson what is it about this situation?

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@OP- So what are you going to do? If there is a lesson what is it about this situation?

Yeah OP! What's the latest?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- So what are you going to do? If there is a lesson what is it about this situation?

Work on controlling my emotions and learning how to express them properly

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@OP- So what are you going to do? If there is a lesson what is it about this situation?

Yeah OP! What's the latest?

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Well haven't seen him yet. But we talked on the phone and I asked him why would you tell me you're ready and then now tell me you're not and he said because he didn't want me to leave him. So I get pissed because I hate lies. Then I'm like look you don't have to make me your gf but you need to keep your promise and let me meet your family (they've asked to meet me already) so he said that sounds like a great compromise but I'll have to be ready eventually so he said let me think about it

Also he said something similar to what busy said about me wanting to be all or nothing ... He said it's not so simple. He wants to be with me but is scared of the consequences

I can't believe I just read all that, lol.

I have a Scorp moon too (initially I thought it was Libra), and my Merc is in Aries...so that explains alot, esp in my past!

Yea, you seem a lil intense OP. Just chill, go with the flow a lil more, I def know how it feels for the need of "control". That will push most people away, every time.

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@OP- So what are you going to do? If there is a lesson what is it about this situation?

Yeah OP! What's the latest?

Well haven't seen him yet. But we talked on the phone and I asked him why would you tell me you're ready and then now tell me you're not and he said because he didn't want me to leave him. So I get pissed because I hate lies. Then I'm like look you don't have to make me your gf but you need to keep your promise and let me meet your family (they've asked to meet me already) so he said that sounds like a great compromise but I'll have to be ready eventually so he said let me think about it

Also he said something similar to what busy said about me wanting to be all or nothing ... He said it's not so simple. He wants to be with me but is scared of the consequences

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he lies because he doesn't know how you will react. try to reassure him in word and deed that you are committed to him (if you are and mean it) and the need to lie will stop.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- So what are you going to do? If there is a lesson what is it about this situation?

Yeah OP! What's the latest?

Well haven't seen him yet. But we talked on the phone and I asked him why would you tell me you're ready and then now tell me you're not and he said because he didn't want me to leave him. So I get pissed because I hate lies. Then I'm like look you don't have to make me your gf but you need to keep your promise and let me meet your family (they've asked to meet me already) so he said that sounds like a great compromise but I'll have to be ready eventually so he said let me think about it

Also he said something similar to what busy said about me wanting to be all or nothing ... He said it's not so simple. He wants to be with me but is scared of the consequences

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Well I'm not Taurus but the Taurus on here all seem to be agreeing with each other so not everyone can be wrong. Perhaps it's just not a match between you?

I had it out with the Taurus I had a date with. Had he asked the right questions and bothered to ask me out rather than asking me round to his place (for sex) every day since Sunday then maybe we might have got on and he'd have got some later on, if it went that way. I told him his actions tell me he's just after sex (which is ok but doesn't match for me) so if his underlying motive is to solely get me into bed then he'd be wasting his time. I said if he actually likes me and wants to see me then fine. He understood. Blamed it on being a man and trying. Yeah whatever! I said I have a few hours spare now if he wanted to meet for a drink? I thought he'd either not respond or meet me, either way it tells me something. We met up. It was ok. He only tried to get his hand in my pants twice... He text me after. I'm away for two weeks now but dropped him a text earlier. I don't think this one is a match. Never mind... Next!

@ OP- If this was any other guy you liked, how do you display your emotions then, simply not because he is a Taurus though.

How do you control your emotions—? I think because of your moon and mine are different I would be a little hesitant and pull back. Because right now he is still getting to know you and you're pressuring him. That would make any bull back off is pressure. But later will talk about after careful consideration.

Let's say I want red lobster, because your cooking is horrible, I express this because well you want straight forward honesty..How would you fix this without getting upset—

So you expect him after only a few weeks or months to meet his family. You just gave him an Ultimatum. You let me see your family or else. That's controlling. He has to think about that. His family is important too. And his parents can be just as picky when bringing the ONE home to meet parents.

@AgentP911- I agree next.

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Posted by busyeyes88
Call it quits OP. Taurus is now avoiding you!!!!

Not only he's avoiding her, he's VERY unsure about her. Especially unsure & scared how she'll react because I can see why with those intense expression.
So basically, he'll filled her out to make her satisfaction, but keeping her distant for not getting further traumatized. He doesn't feel safe to be with her it seems, but at the same time.. he feels trapped & lost from her.

Right now he's a coward to not amputated her because he wasn't sure of her reactions.

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maybe he is just waiting it out. i've been in a similar situation. we maintained contact throughout though. it mainly had to do with his emotions and past (although i had contributed as well).

sometimes all it needs is a bit of time for everyone just to calm the fuck down and get back into a routine of smoother waters.

my main problem with this and i'm trying really hard not to be judgmental is that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you op. so after a year what do you have? casual dating?

if he doesn't want to be in a relationship at all, then what is he doing wasting your time, waiting for the moment when everything falls into place? sometimes you have to jump. relationships involve being vulnerable and putting yourself on the line. if he is not ready to do that then i think you should move on.

if he is not ready to be in a relationship with you, then again, he is wasting your time. after a year you should have a pretty good grasp on each other. there is no point in meeting hi family is he is still unsure if you are the woman he wants to commit to.

for me, it would be time to put your money where your mouth is. i have struggled in a similar way with my relationship. i gave him time as we tried to each get on the same page, but there came a point where i had to make it clear what was most important to me and then held my ground when i walked away from everything.

Posted by busyeyes88
@AP.
I advise you, if you see potential with this taurus, please keep and hold out for your "relationship contract"! Meet this taurus in the new year as "platonic friends" only and hang out. He likes you already. Taurus men with sag moons are very sexual but if they like you they will respect you, hang out with you and treat you as a gf and after a matter of time of getting to know one another and building emotional foundations as friends, he will begin to see the potential of a relationship. Patience is needed. Mine treated me like a gf, no sex but our emotional bond is so close. I know him and the insides of his life more than anyone else. Our emotional ties are so strong.

Behind your taurus man's jokes is a very very sensitive soul. Insecurity is hidden behind his jokes.

I don't have any issue keeping my legs closed at all. There's no other option available to him. However, I feel he wants an easy lay and perhaps isn't interested in waiting or going about it in a more palatable way. Usually, he's been super responsive and always initiated. So far he's read but no replied. It wouldn't surprise me if he's not responsive because there's zero possibility of putting his dick in me considering I'm not in the country! Unsure about potential, lots of ticks, some things to think about. I wouldn't have minded being able to go out platonically without the huge pressure of having him constantly aiming to put his dick in me or his hands in my pants or in my bra. I told him as such and that it drives me away. Anyway, fuck knows. Up to him what he wants to do. If he wants to bother in the new year then no problem. Other than that I'm not contacting him.

I said I haven't seen him but that's my
Choice he's asking to see me

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Posted by AgentP911

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- So what are you going to do? If there is a lesson what is it about this situation?

Yeah OP! What's the latest?

Well haven't seen him yet. But we talked on the phone and I asked him why would you tell me you're ready and then now tell me you're not and he said because he didn't want me to leave him. So I get pissed because I hate lies. Then I'm like look you don't have to make me your gf but you need to keep your promise and let me meet your family (they've asked to meet me already) so he said that sounds like a great compromise but I'll have to be ready eventually so he said let me think about it

Also he said something similar to what busy said about me wanting to be all or nothing ... He said it's not so simple. He wants to be with me but is scared of the consequences

he lies because he doesn't know how you will react. try to reassure him in word and deed that you are committed to him (if you are and mean it) and the need to lie will stop.

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He lied before I got intense. I started to get intense when he said this and that's what I expected if you get what I mean? Like I'm a woman of my word and I know others aren't but it's what I expect. Expectations are killer

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Posted by Nevermore

Posted by busyeyes88
Call it quits OP. Taurus is now avoiding you!!!!

Not only he's avoiding her, he's VERY unsure about her. Especially unsure & scared how she'll react because I can see why with those intense expression.
So basically, he'll filled her out to make her satisfaction, but keeping her distant for not getting further traumatized. He doesn't feel safe to be with her it seems, but at the same time.. he feels trapped & lost from her.

Right now he's a coward to not amputated her because he wasn't sure of her reactions.

maybe he is just waiting it out. i've been in a similar situation. we maintained contact throughout though. it mainly had to do with his emotions and past (although i had contributed as well).

sometimes all it needs is a bit of time for everyone just to calm the fuck down and get back into a routine of smoother waters.

my main problem with this and i'm trying really hard not to be judgmental is that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you op. so after a year what do you have? casual dating?

if he doesn't want to be in a relationship at all, then what is he doing wasting your time, waiting for the moment when everything falls into place? sometimes you have to jump. relationships involve being vulnerable and putting yourself on the line. if he is not ready to do that then i think you should move on.

if he is not ready to be in a relationship with you, then again, he is wasting your time. after a year you should have a pretty good grasp on each other. there is no point in meeting hi family is he is still unsure if you are the woman he wants to commit to.

for me, it would be time to put your money where your mouth is. i have struggled in a similar way with my relationship. i gave him time as we tried to each get on the same page, but there came a point where i had to make it clear what was most important to me and then held my ground when i walked away from everything.

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Thank you. I wish I could express myself the way you do because this is how I mean for it to come out. He's wasting my time and lied. Although I am very aggressive the good thing about me is is that I have integrity and I have never lied and kept my word on everything. so I'm distancing myself from him!!! The cutt was deep for me. I will see him when I know I can control myself (and not pms ing)

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by busyeyes88
@AP.
I advise you, if you see potential with this taurus, please keep and hold out for your "relationship contract"! Meet this taurus in the new year as "platonic friends" only and hang out. He likes you already. Taurus men with sag moons are very sexual but if they like you they will respect you, hang out with you and treat you as a gf and after a matter of time of getting to know one another and building emotional foundations as friends, he will begin to see the potential of a relationship. Patience is needed. Mine treated me like a gf, no sex but our emotional bond is so close. I know him and the insides of his life more than anyone else. Our emotional ties are so strong.

Behind your taurus man's jokes is a very very sensitive soul. Insecurity is hidden behind his jokes.

I don't have any issue keeping my legs closed at all. There's no other option available to him. However, I feel he wants an easy lay and perhaps isn't interested in waiting or going about it in a more palatable way. Usually, he's been super responsive and always initiated. So far he's read but no replied. It wouldn't surprise me if he's not responsive because there's zero possibility of putting his dick in me considering I'm not in the country! Unsure about potential, lots of ticks, some things to think about. I wouldn't have minded being able to go out platonically without the huge pressure of having him constantly aiming to put his dick in me or his hands in my pants or in my bra. I told him as such and that it drives me away. Anyway, fuck knows. Up to him what he wants to do. If he wants to bother in the new year then no problem. Other than that I'm not contacting him.

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Whether you want to open your legs or not shouldn't matter! Your not the problem here ugh smh

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@ OP- If this was any other guy you liked, how do you display your emotions then, simply not because he is a Taurus though.

How do you control your emotions—? I think because of your moon and mine are different I would be a little hesitant and pull back. Because right now he is still getting to know you and you're pressuring him. That would make any bull back off is pressure. But later will talk about after careful consideration.

Let's say I want red lobster, because your cooking is horrible, I express this because well you want straight forward honesty..How would you fix this without getting upset—

So you expect him after only a few weeks or months to meet his family. You just gave him an Ultimatum. You let me see your family or else. That's controlling. He has to think about that. His family is important too. And his parents can be just as picky when bringing the ONE home to meet parents.

If this was any other guy they would not hear from me again. because the more I care the more angry, hurt, confused, and unbalanced I will be. Any other guy it's really a your loss kind of thing. Only one person here as acknowledge the fact that he lied to be about wanting one to keep me and that was wrong. That is manipulative that involves the other person creating an idea in their head. And I would say lets just go out to eat because that has nothing to do with someone making me feel like my emotions are being toyed with (he may feel like his is as well) . And if I didn't give him that ultimatum I would literally get nothing but casual dates and dick. No compromise just his way so I feel the need for it. Meet in the middle or not at all.