Busy charges in first and demolishes the place, then she asks questions later...("What's going on in here? Where am I?")
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by nerdyvirgpDon't give ultimatums or ask definitive questions about the relationship. Just give him a wePosted by TaurusLovesScorpioYeah but on Taurus time we all know that can be a lifetime ...Posted by nerdyvirgpHe is just in retreat mode, healing from what he perceives as your abuse. He won't give you the peace of putting your fears to rest, but you won't give him the peace of having a little space, time to heal and think things over a bit before he makes a drastic decision....Posted by busyeyes88Unintentionally. But the sun of Taurus is emotionally abusive. Not talking to someone periods of time just because your is ego is hurt. Not saying that is done on purpose either just your naturePosted by nerdyvirgpI have seen scorpio moon in action over a span of 11 years... I'd be running too!!!!Posted by Infinite8Exactly when I look into his eyes I can see his feelings for me and true intentions . But then we have a fight and your just ready to give up. It's just bizarre to me and sounds like he's scared. And when I put "man" in quotes I said man because at this moment he is not acting like my man he is distant from me. I was not challenging his manhoodPosted by busyeyes88This is true! I would be less inclined to ask such questions if I can clearly see it in behavior. To me, actions speak louder than words. The eyes as well... If I see live in the eyes, I am calm and I know what's up.
The man is with her physically showing her..... Taurus will show feeling before they open up emotionally. I have never ever forced another human being to open up to me... I have let them be themselves and felt them out "intuitively". If they tell me personal things or secrets etc it's their choice I have not asked this of them!!! But people are different we do all run at the same time.. If a person has no patience and always looking for "validation" or "relationship updates" then walk away.... Taurus is not for you.
But, if he is avoiding me and I haven't seen him in weeks because he is upset? I want to know what's up... Because there is nothing else to go by!
That moon can be very abusive BIG TIME!!click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88We all have our opinions but I would think that when you're ready to be married or get into a serious relationship you would expect 50/50 . Would you like someone to drain all of you?Posted by nerdyvirgpJeez! You can't always get 50/50!!! No wonder He needed a break!!Posted by jeaneI'm willing to give him the world as long as it's 50/50
i think is she is ready, willing and means it, maybe opening the lines of communication may work with the provisio that the aim is seeking to understand rather than seeking to be understood. hopefully he will be receptive to her.click to expand
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Don't give ultimatums or ask definitive questions about the relationship. Just give him a week or two to think things over, letting him know that you miss him and want to resolve things eventually, when he's ready to talk, even if its just to be friends. I mean - you know him right? You really think he is going to let you just suffer forever? Let him calm down enough to realize that he misses you. How insecure are you with regards to how he feels about you in this relationship? Was the drama really frequent? If a person walks out on me, I kinda just already know where I stand with that person based on the interaction we've had. I reason that if they can walk that easy, we aren't meant to be, as they don't really appreciate or perceive what I bring to the relationship. Not sure if this makes sense to you, but this strikes me as an irony in your relationship; you seem to be the more critical one, expressing the most discontent with the state of things verbally when you are together (?), but when he withdraws you are not so sure of your own value.
When a Taurus puts time into a relationship, they do not take that lightly or throw it away easily. I'm really curious about the history between you two, and how he perceives it. Has he expressed to you that its too much drama overall? If that's been a consistent theme with him, then yes, I'd be worried.
Don't give ultimatums or ask definitive questions about the relationship. Just give him a week or two to think things over, letting him know that you miss him and want to resolve things eventually, when he's ready to talk, even if its just to be friends. I mean - you know him right? You really think he is going to let you just suffer forever? Let him calm down enough to realize that he misses you. How insecure are you with regards to how he feels about you in this relationship? Was the drama really frequent? If a person walks out on me, I kinda just already know where I stand with that person based on the interaction we've had. I reason that if they can walk that easy, we aren't meant to be, as they don't really appreciate or perceive what I bring to the relationship. Not sure if this makes sense to you, but this strikes me as an irony in your relationship; you seem to be the more critical one, expressing the most discontent with the state of things verbally when you are together (?), but when he withdraws you are not so sure of your own value.
When a Taurus puts time into a relationship, they do not take that lightly or throw it away easily. I'm really curious about the history between you two, and how he perceives it. Has he expressed to you that its too much drama overall? If that's been a consistent theme with him, then yes, I'd be worried.
Posted by busyeyes88My Aries Merc high-fives your Aries Merc...lol
Yes this is me as an Aries mercury! Hands up!
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpiomy virgo merc is hiding behind the curtains...Posted by busyeyes88My Aries Merc high-fives your Aries Merc...lol
Yes this is me as an Aries mercury! Hands up!
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Posted by Infinite8i've heard it. not "i need a break from you" but more "i need a break because life is getting on top of me". they can get overwhelmed. they try to be all things to all people and when it turns to shit, as it eventually does because no one can be all things to all people all the time, they retreat to regroup and work a way out of the mire.
I've never been told "I need a break" from a lover... NEVER. So, I guess I can't relate and I would want to know what that specifically means. Because I usually don't take breaks either! I'm either IN or I'm OUT. It's rare for me to be a break and go back in. Very rare...
Posted by Infinite8lol!Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioLol... You two teamming up, such a memorable moment. Let's frame it and remember it always... 😛Posted by busyeyes88My Aries Merc high-fives your Aries Merc...lol
Yes this is me as an Aries mercury! Hands up!
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Posted by busyeyes88Virgo perfectionistPosted by nerdyvirgp1) they are not marriedPosted by busyeyes88We all have our opinions but I would think that when you're ready to be married or get into a serious relationship you would expect 50/50 . Would you like someone to drain all of you?Posted by nerdyvirgpJeez! You can't always get 50/50!!! No wonder He needed a break!!Posted by jeaneI'm willing to give him the world as long as it's 50/50
i think is she is ready, willing and means it, maybe opening the lines of communication may work with the provisio that the aim is seeking to understand rather than seeking to be understood. hopefully he will be receptive to her.
2) 50/50 in an ideal world yes! But we don't live in an ideal world so give and take is necessary IMHOclick to expand
Posted by Infinite8Exactly in or out ! How it's suppose to be not one foot in the door and one foot outPosted by busyeyes88I've never been told "I need a break" from a lover... NEVER. So, I guess I can't relate and I would want to know what that specifically means. Because I usually don't take breaks either! I'm either IN or I'm OUT. It's rare for me to be a break and go back in. Very rare...Posted by Infinite8Look, if a person who finds it hard to open up tells the s.o they want a break, it's pointless asking them how long for? How long is a piece of string?! How are they going to know?!!!Posted by NevermoreIf someone tells me they want a break, I will respect that and even ask "sure, how long do you need?" Because I want to make sure I RESPECT IT.
This gave me flashback of how my Ex sag just manipulate me through desperation contact while in the middle of the exams!
After that heavy argument.. I suddenly went silent mode and told him to better focus on his exams and taking it a break between us until we are finished with exams.
He was panicked and constantly disturbing me mailing of how's going or demanding to answered me.. until finally he went silent that he "understood" me.. (he's to selfish to understand me)
But at the same time while focusing on exams.. I finally began to open my eyes about this relationship (especially his behavioral). No matter if we are stress to each other, I already can see how toxic relationship it was.
Sadly.. I though that it was all the stress from the exams (yet gave him the last warning about this, otherwise it'll end the relationship).. yet even after graduations he doesn't changed that much until at the end he showed me the unexpected that it made me moved out and break up with him.
If the person leaves without no warning and gives me the silent treatment I have two choices:
1. I ask "what's up? What's going on? Where do you stand"
2. I assume he no longer cares and just bail. But that leaves so much unsaid... So many wrongs that could have been corrected an in a way keeps you away from learning.
But, I get you... I don't like being pushed either.
You get on with your life and if someone else comes along then go with them or wait it out but Its your choice!!
Any man who says to me "I want a break" telling me his reasons and I can't reason with him or compromise at the time then "... I am gone! No questions asked. But I am a Leo moon woman!click to expand
Posted by nerdyvirgpwhile you are being inflexible so is he. i guess you have to work out what is more important to you; is he and this relationship important enough for you to yield on this occasion?Posted by busyeyes88Virgo perfectionistPosted by nerdyvirgp1) they are not marriedPosted by busyeyes88We all have our opinions but I would think that when you're ready to be married or get into a serious relationship you would expect 50/50 . Would you like someone to drain all of you?Posted by nerdyvirgpJeez! You can't always get 50/50!!! No wonder He needed a break!!Posted by jeaneI'm willing to give him the world as long as it's 50/50
i think is she is ready, willing and means it, maybe opening the lines of communication may work with the provisio that the aim is seeking to understand rather than seeking to be understood. hopefully he will be receptive to her.
2) 50/50 in an ideal world yes! But we don't live in an ideal world so give and take is necessary IMHOclick to expand
Posted by Infinite8snap. 😄Posted by nerdyvirgpYou're upset right now. I get it. Just make some time for yourself to reflect on what you want without his influence. If you truly love him and find it worth it, reevaluate your behavior and try to soften up. If he is not worth it for you, pass and on with the next. If you find it worth it... And you decide to soften up and stay with him, I have a feeling he will appreciate it in his own way and little by little open up to you. Is it worth it for you to find out? That is up to you...Posted by Infinite8And who really wants to deal with the unknown right? Let me ignore you for how long I feel like and forget that you have feelings. I'm giving him his space but he won't give me closure. F'd up Taurus mindsets. If he didn't respond because he wants to leave the door open for is then that is what should've been said. Mind f'ersPosted by NevermoreIf someone tells me they want a break, I will respect that and even ask "sure, how long do you need?" Because I want to make sure I RESPECT IT.
This gave me flashback of how my Ex sag just manipulate me through desperation contact while in the middle of the exams!
After that heavy argument.. I suddenly went silent mode and told him to better focus on his exams and taking it a break between us until we are finished with exams.
He was panicked and constantly disturbing me mailing of how's going or demanding to answered me.. until finally he went silent that he "understood" me.. (he's to selfish to understand me)
But at the same time while focusing on exams.. I finally began to open my eyes about this relationship (especially his behavioral). No matter if we are stress to each other, I already can see how toxic relationship it was.
Sadly.. I though that it was all the stress from the exams (yet gave him the last warning about this, otherwise it'll end the relationship).. yet even after graduations he doesn't changed that much until at the end he showed me the unexpected that it made me moved out and break up with him.
If the person leaves without no warning and gives me the silent treatment I have two choices:
1. I ask "what's up? What's going on? Where do you stand"
2. I assume he no longer cares and just bail. But that leaves so much unsaid... So many wrongs that could have been corrected an in a way keeps you away from learning.
But, I get you... I don't like being pushed either.click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88How do I not have respect for him just because I say things a certain way. youve made up your mind Scorpio moons hurt us blah blah. I don't mean to belittle your feelings that's just all I'm getting from you. Scorps are the Bad guys . I respect him enough to give him the space he asked for . RETURNINGPosted by nerdyvirgpI can see from your language that you have no respect for him... Leave him alone... He's right!!! He's living his life on his "break" you do what is best for you!! Yr choice as he has had enough of your battering and has pulled out!Posted by Infinite8And who really wants to deal with the unknown right? Let me ignore you for how long I feel like and forget that you have feelings. I'm giving him his space but he won't give me closure. F'd up Taurus mindsets. If he didn't respond because he wants to leave the door open for is then that is what should've been said. Mind f'ersPosted by NevermoreIf someone tells me they want a break, I will respect that and even ask "sure, how long do you need?" Because I want to make sure I RESPECT IT.
This gave me flashback of how my Ex sag just manipulate me through desperation contact while in the middle of the exams!
After that heavy argument.. I suddenly went silent mode and told him to better focus on his exams and taking it a break between us until we are finished with exams.
He was panicked and constantly disturbing me mailing of how's going or demanding to answered me.. until finally he went silent that he "understood" me.. (he's to selfish to understand me)
But at the same time while focusing on exams.. I finally began to open my eyes about this relationship (especially his behavioral). No matter if we are stress to each other, I already can see how toxic relationship it was.
Sadly.. I though that it was all the stress from the exams (yet gave him the last warning about this, otherwise it'll end the relationship).. yet even after graduations he doesn't changed that much until at the end he showed me the unexpected that it made me moved out and break up with him.
If the person leaves without no warning and gives me the silent treatment I have two choices:
1. I ask "what's up? What's going on? Where do you stand"
2. I assume he no longer cares and just bail. But that leaves so much unsaid... So many wrongs that could have been corrected an in a way keeps you away from learning.
But, I get you... I don't like being pushed either.click to expand
Posted by nerdyvirgpHow you say things is very important to most men - especially old-fashioned Taurus men. It makes all the difference to me.
How do I not have respect for him just because I say things a certain way. youve made up your mind Scorpio moons hurt us blah blah. I don't mean to belittle your feelings that's just all I'm getting from you. Scorps are the Bad guys . I respect him enough to give him the space he asked for . RETURNING
I think busy has probably put you on the defensive so you're not going to confess your own failings much in this thread, but the history of it all....that's what matters...like I keep saying, how many blow-ups? how frequent? How much drama? Has he expressed these things? Even then, it doesn't mean its over, but you can't nag him back into the line of fire. Assuming he's being malicious or vindictive may just be your own projection. Most bulls are just not like that, unless we are actually in a rage (pretty rare).
Posted by busyeyes88Honestly, same here. And if you can't realize that how you say things is so important, something is off. He probably grounds her and she knows this. But if he flew off the handle and was offensive verbally like she probably is, the relationship would be completely explosive and unstable - obvious to both parties. So while his patience and grounding is actually the root that gives stability and life to everything they have and that she really does love, he gets no credit for it. Its just exploited weakness or passivity, allowing her to feel free to take the liberties she does with him. But then when its gone....then she realizes. Its a period for him to regain his strength, and it should be a period of reflection for the Virgo. Not reflection on how cruel he is being, but where you have gone wrong, and where you have pushed him with your own actions. Take responsibility for you during this time....
Sincerely, I thought it was just me but I sense disrespect even the way she writes about him.
Posted by Infinite8my lilith is in taurus.....—Posted by NevermoreOh wow!! Three of you guys... All my Libra energy is feeling the opposition!!Posted by Infinite8Nope, it's triple team up! Because I have Aries Mercury too!!Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioLol... You two teamming up, such a memorable moment. Let's frame it and remember it always... 😛Posted by busyeyes88My Aries Merc high-fives your Aries Merc...lol
Yes this is me as an Aries mercury! Hands up!
Time to call out my Leo moon, Mars and Saturn to the rescue!!! 😛click to expand
i'll just stand over here then... 😢 😄
Posted by ImpulsvI think anyone with Aries Merc can relate to lashing out, outbursts of anger, speaking hastily, etc. I am constantly apologizing though; that's the only way I can get along with anyone. I MUST apologize when I cool down, and that person must understand that I don't want to be that way, its like a knee-jerk reaction. The hard part with Scorp tongue-lashings is that they cut deeper psychologically; they will strike at the really vulnerable spots - the areas where the person already has doubts and insecurities about themselves.
Such bull shit
Like Taurus always speak perfectly. Look at busy who comes in strong without thinking then asks later yet judge the other for one error.
Posted by Nevermoreyeah, it sound very harsh to my ear and maybe she is just upset but it's not helping her get what she wants.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioSame here too!! Also @jeane find that too!!Posted by busyeyes88Honestly, same here. And if you can't realize that how you say things is so important, something is off. He probably grounds her and she knows this. But if he flew off the handle and was offensive verbally like she probably is, the relationship would be completely explosive and unstable - obvious to both parties. So while his patience and grounding is actually the root that gives stability and life to everything they have and that she really does love, he gets no credit for it. Its just exploited weakness or passivity, allowing her to feel free to take the liberties she does with him. But then when its gone....then she realizes. Its a period for him to regain his strength, and it should be a period of reflection for the Virgo. Not reflection on how cruel he is being, but where you have gone wrong, and where you have pushed him with your own actions. Take responsibility for you during this time....
Sincerely, I thought it was just me but I sense disrespect even the way she writes about him.click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88aw hell you know i cant NOT say Aries merc checking in! lol team interrupting cow here aka taurus sun gemini moon 😄Posted by NevermoreGo! Team Aries Mercury!! Lol we are in the house tonight!!!!! LolPosted by Infinite8Nope, it's triple team up! Because I have Aries Mercury too!!Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioLol... You two teamming up, such a memorable moment. Let's frame it and remember it always... 😛Posted by busyeyes88My Aries Merc high-fives your Aries Merc...lol
Yes this is me as an Aries mercury! Hands up!
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Posted by busyeyes88I think you do have to have a lot of compassion with Scorp Moon folks though. Seems like one of the absolute hardest placements to deal with.
My leo bestie who I am.now taking a break from myself it's been 5 weeks now!! And an ex gem.of many moon back also had a scorp moon, vindictive, manipulative, intense, secretive, conniving and very selfish
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Posted by jeaneThis is so true for me...Posted by Infinite8i've heard it. not "i need a break from you" but more "i need a break because life is getting on top of me". they can get overwhelmed. they try to be all things to all people and when it turns to shit, as it eventually does because no one can be all things to all people all the time, they retreat to regroup and work a way out of the mire.
I've never been told "I need a break" from a lover... NEVER. So, I guess I can't relate and I would want to know what that specifically means. Because I usually don't take breaks either! I'm either IN or I'm OUT. It's rare for me to be a break and go back in. Very rare...click to expand
Posted by Infinite8Once you get past all of the wild beasts, busy has a gentle Venus in Pisces waiting to be loved...lolPosted by ImpulsvBusy is a handful and contradicts a lot ... So, I see your point. If I were in a relationship with her, I can see myself going crazy, fast.
Such bull shit
Like Taurus always speak perfectly. Look at busy who comes in strong without thinking then asks later yet judge the other for one error.
You guys are unrealistic there are going to be ups n down n things will be said n communicated not always perfectly
If u can't forgive it ur better off not being in a relationship.
But... There are bulls that are much more on the softer approach and that works better for me as far a being able to communicate and seeing eye to eye.
If approached softly, I tend to soften up as well. I am usually understanding but I have my stubnorn, aggressive moments and if met with the same energy - I'm gone faster than a speeding bullet with NO REGRETS.
Maybe that is why I also do well with Pisces and "some" Cancers because the have the patience with me and soften the blow. I REALLY appreciate that and it doesn't go unnoticed.click to expand
Posted by Infinite8it sounds like a giant "fuck you" to me as well. almost like "so are we done then?".Posted by Vanish😕 interesting! To me it just sounds like "what do you want right now so that I can respect your wishes" and also "so that we don't suffer for too long".
Like, if you want him back, you should say something along the lines of "I miss you" and not "bitch, fuck you" which is what "should I move on from you?" is saying. It comes off like you don't care about him.
Crazy how people interpret things in different ways. Learn something new every day...click to expand
Bulls are the easiest to win over if you're a virgo. Just be nice to him and do really romantic things. Be consistent about it, and he'll come around.
^^^^ yes this is true
^^^^ yes this is true
Posted by VanishI don't talk to him like that . He's emotional I won't yell and curse at him even if I say hey ____ what you did hurt my feelings I don't like blah blah he would still retreat that's just how he is. As for the way I speak yeah my words are harsh trust me I know it's my best weapon. I try to control it to make it sound better but even my sweet words sound very idk assertive in a way... I def try
Like, if you want him back, you should say something along the lines of "I miss you" and not "bitch, fuck you" which is what "should I move on from you?" is saying. It comes off like you don't care about him.
Posted by Vanishyup.
showing a bull that you are willing to give up that easily on your relationship is going to put him way off.
Posted by Vanishyes for me also...lol
Bulls are the easiest to win over if you're a virgo. Just be nice to him and do really romantic things. Be consistent about it, and he'll come around. You can even go silent for a few weeks and come back and do the really romantic thing and they'll fall for it...*cough*
Thanks for all the feedback I'll leave him be for another week and then just check in and tell him I miss him and try not to overwhelm him with my emotions. Just keep it simple and to the point and see how he responds
@OP-
Why is there 15 pages about this situation?
Have you really listened to what ever people in here are saying?
What have you learned about this for yourself? What changes can you do or aren't willing to?
Why is there 15 pages about this situation?
Have you really listened to what ever people in here are saying?
What have you learned about this for yourself? What changes can you do or aren't willing to?
If we didn't do our tests. My life would be effectively lessen and simple. But it's mentally exhausting truly to try getting to know each other better.. We need strong people to know what it takes to be with a bull. . But I still need to do this for me and no one else....
Posted by jeaneSometimes we want you to chase after usPosted by TaurusLovesScorpiooops, guilty 😐
Walking out is too much drama. If a woman does that to me that is a big indicator that it can't work. I take it as symbolic....click to expand
Taurus really excels when it comes to doing absolutely nothing. So if you are going to run off, its almost like a challenge. And we love a game that we can win by expending exactly zero energy....lol.
Posted by ImpulsvTests are only necessary when there is distrust - when there are still questions to be answered. Eventually, if two people can't share a mutual understanding of one another's nature, if they can't grow to trust one another, it is probably best for both to move on.....We dont even know if this bull is testing bc a Scorp Moon/Scorp Asc. is not going to divulge her guilt in all this (if she can even see/acknowledge it for herself, being a Virgo and all...lol), or if, as busy has surmised, the guy is just straight fed up and needing a breather from the drama....
If the person u test n push away like in ops instance returns after six months did they past ur test or do u retest.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioMaybe both lolPosted by ImpulsvTests are only necessary when there is distrust - when there are still questions to be answered. Eventually, if two people can't share a mutual understanding of one another's nature, if they can't grow to trust one another, it is probably best for both to move on.....We dont even know if this bull is testing bc a Scorp Moon/Scorp Asc. is not going to divulge her guilt in all this (if she can even see/acknowledge it for herself, being a Virgo and all...lol), or if, as busy has surmised, the guy is just straight fed up and needing a breather from the drama....
If the person u test n push away like in ops instance returns after six months did they past ur test or do u retest.click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Definitely took the majority of it in. I posted this to see what the Taurians had to say and that's what I received. So instead of having just my view I can see more clearly where he is coming from since he wouldn't Really go into details. I love details
@OP-
Why is there 15 pages about this situation?
Have you really listened to what ever people in here are saying?
What have you learned about this for yourself? What changes can you do or aren't willing to?
Posted by nerdyvirgpmost likely even...Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioMaybe both lolPosted by ImpulsvTests are only necessary when there is distrust - when there are still questions to be answered. Eventually, if two people can't share a mutual understanding of one another's nature, if they can't grow to trust one another, it is probably best for both to move on.....We dont even know if this bull is testing bc a Scorp Moon/Scorp Asc. is not going to divulge her guilt in all this (if she can even see/acknowledge it for herself, being a Virgo and all...lol), or if, as busy has surmised, the guy is just straight fed up and needing a breather from the drama....
If the person u test n push away like in ops instance returns after six months did they past ur test or do u retest.click to expand
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioI feel like if I try to contact then I did not give him his space and then also if I do not contact he'll feel like well maybe she doesn't care anyways.Posted by nerdyvirgpmost likely even...Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioMaybe both lolPosted by ImpulsvTests are only necessary when there is distrust - when there are still questions to be answered. Eventually, if two people can't share a mutual understanding of one another's nature, if they can't grow to trust one another, it is probably best for both to move on.....We dont even know if this bull is testing bc a Scorp Moon/Scorp Asc. is not going to divulge her guilt in all this (if she can even see/acknowledge it for herself, being a Virgo and all...lol), or if, as busy has surmised, the guy is just straight fed up and needing a breather from the drama....
If the person u test n push away like in ops instance returns after six months did they past ur test or do u retest.click to expand
Well you really have to fuck up with Taurus, some people arent intuitive and can't sense things like I can. I just ask certain questions to see what emotions or mentally stable you can handle or if I am simply seeing what we have in common, is there chemistry, is it only physical attraction.. I ask stability questions...that's not testing but I am analysing and picking up things quickly..
Even if let's say you have a connection and split, we mutually argee we do our own thing because it's just friendship at this time.
In the future I already know if I like you enough to be more than friends if it comes around again. Because if you have dated too much, then you are used to comfortably because you know this person already. It's your choice. You can think should we give it a shot. The only thing not acceptable is cheating or heavy drug users.
Testing and screening happens on online dating sites that I've been on though. It's difficult in the irl too. Usually irl you're face to face asking simple questions like are you single or married, kids ,and take it from there. You can gauge people's face expression or vibes. Online is different options too.
Even if let's say you have a connection and split, we mutually argee we do our own thing because it's just friendship at this time.
In the future I already know if I like you enough to be more than friends if it comes around again. Because if you have dated too much, then you are used to comfortably because you know this person already. It's your choice. You can think should we give it a shot. The only thing not acceptable is cheating or heavy drug users.
Testing and screening happens on online dating sites that I've been on though. It's difficult in the irl too. Usually irl you're face to face asking simple questions like are you single or married, kids ,and take it from there. You can gauge people's face expression or vibes. Online is different options too.
What's his moon sign?
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioBeautiful example of why most taurus and virgo relationship never make it.
what are his placements? Virgo criticism is hard to deal with, and so is Scorp criticism. I know I do a lot of retarded things that dont make sense to most people in my daily life, but I am so stubborn I really just hate it if someone has anything to say about it. Perhaps he is closed off because he feels judged or overly scrutinized - hemmed in or trapped by your opinions of him....then if you lose your temper and actually get disrespectful in these nitpicking sessions, that is when we start to feel it cant work....I am not sure you should be expecting too much evolution from a Taurus. I think we are just here to kinda smell the flowers and enjoy the fruits of our labor, experience beauty through our senses, etc. With all that Scorpio, your life might be more about massive karmic explosions going off all the time, exposing issues that need work, shedding older versions of yourself, being reborn stronger....or something deep and crazy along those lines....lol. It may be projection on your part to be expecting too much change out of him. Like you said, you love him. Let him enjoy his life, and try to build on his strengths. Maybe try more acceptance. Walking out is too much drama. If a woman does that to me that is a big indicator that it can't work. I take it as symbolic....
Posted by wickedthey may love you from afar but it doesn't mean they will be with you. for some it is very much, well we tried and it didn't work and now that time has passed. there is no going back.
And I disagree with busyeyes... no offense. But this is my take.
Taurus, even if they dont stay in touch, are very much capable of loving you from far. A taurus who has given you his heart will take a long time to move on.
Just because they dont stay in touch with you doesnt mean they have stopped loving you. They are the type who can love you silently till eternity but wont pursue you because they are bullheaded (?) Lol
Posted by busyeyes88sorry you're having it rough busy. like you said it has only been two weeks which is not unusual for you. perhaps the distance and your no nookie policy has taken its toll or maybe it is the taurus-taurus strength where it's harder for either of you to capitulate. he means a lot to you and it seems that he has been there for you in your time of need, maybe when he does get back in touch you can try to move things along. he's been waiting a long time for you!Posted by wickedIndian LDR which is only 1.5 hours away!! We have been "attracted" plastonic friends for almost a year now. I have left threads with regards to him. He has an 11 year relationship that came to an end last year Sept and not ready for a relationship but I don't want to be an fwb, or a rebound etc so we have been getting to know each other. I moved out of his area in April and he has always been dear to me; I feel His presence ; finish each others sentences he has told me secrets no one else knows just the two of us. I was hesitant to get physically closer but it seems that now I am getting physically closer he has pulled away! I don't have the answers!
Hmmmm
Maybe if u were to tell him how u feel about him... little bit atleast. Its an ldr right? Does he express himself well to you?
I left a message two weeks ago and that's it... It is not unusual for us to go two weeks without contact we are both extremely independent people. I was due to spend Xmas with him for a week so will see...
I am the sort of woman that will deal with an issue at the time ie one message on the day... I do not blow up phones, leave countless emails, messages on social media extra, nada!!!
He knows where I am!click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88well...i'm not one to say (but i am really)...i did warn you! 😆Posted by jeaneLol lol lol thanks Libraus! I'll certainly try!! It's definitely hard work!! Harder than aqua, gem or sag!!! Taurus are complicated!! Lol Two bulls locking horns!!!Posted by busyeyes88sorry you're having it rough busy. like you said it has only been two weeks which is not unusual for you. perhaps the distance and your no nookie policy has taken its toll or maybe it is the taurus-taurus strength where it's harder for either of you to capitulate. he means a lot to you and it seems that he has been there for you in your time of need, maybe when he does get back in touch you can try to move things along. he's been waiting a long time for you!Posted by wickedIndian LDR which is only 1.5 hours away!! We have been "attracted" plastonic friends for almost a year now. I have left threads with regards to him. He has an 11 year relationship that came to an end last year Sept and not ready for a relationship but I don't want to be an fwb, or a rebound etc so we have been getting to know each other. I moved out of his area in April and he has always been dear to me; I feel His presence ; finish each others sentences he has told me secrets no one else knows just the two of us. I was hesitant to get physically closer but it seems that now I am getting physically closer he has pulled away! I don't have the answers!
Hmmmm
Maybe if u were to tell him how u feel about him... little bit atleast. Its an ldr right? Does he express himself well to you?
I left a message two weeks ago and that's it... It is not unusual for us to go two weeks without contact we are both extremely independent people. I was due to spend Xmas with him for a week so will see...
I am the sort of woman that will deal with an issue at the time ie one message on the day... I do not blow up phones, leave countless emails, messages on social media extra, nada!!!
He knows where I am!click to expand
go on, give in, he sounds like he is worth it!
Posted by busyeyes88and yes, you guys can be hard work but, sigh, so worth it. me and the bull get better by the day. 😄
Lol lol lol thanks Libraus! I'll certainly try!! It's definitely hard work!! Harder than aqua, gem or sag!!! Taurus are complicated!! Lol Two bulls locking horns!!!
Posted by busyeyes88stahp...
Awww bless you both!! We'll be getting hats on DXP soon. The first DXP marriage!! Lol lol
Posted by jeaneFalse. Sometimes staying is too much drama. I walk out all the time.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpiooops, guilty 😐
Walking out is too much drama. If a woman does that to me that is a big indicator that it can't work. I take it as symbolic....click to expand
Posted by mysteriousTaurusDayummm lol I walked out because I felt disrespected.Posted by jeaneFalse. Sometimes staying is too much drama. I walk out all the time.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpiooops, guilty 😐
Walking out is too much drama. If a woman does that to me that is a big indicator that it can't work. I take it as symbolic....click to expand
Posted by mysteriousTaurusIsn't that part of your drama though?Posted by jeaneFalse. Sometimes staying is too much drama. I walk out all the time.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpiooops, guilty 😐
Walking out is too much drama. If a woman does that to me that is a big indicator that it can't work. I take it as symbolic....click to expand
Posted by nerdyvirgphow did he disrespect you though?Posted by mysteriousTaurusDayummm lol I walked out because I felt disrespected.Posted by jeaneFalse. Sometimes staying is too much drama. I walk out all the time.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpiooops, guilty 😐
Walking out is too much drama. If a woman does that to me that is a big indicator that it can't work. I take it as symbolic....click to expand
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