Update on Taurus situation

If you read my last post, you'll understand what the rest of this is about.

I felt off about us again and did some soul searching. I had a heart to heart with someone close and they put things into perspective for me. So I told him I thought we should cool it a bit for a while. He wanted to know what I meant, and I gave him the whole spiel of me believing I felt stronger than he did based on some missing pieces of our communication that had come to light via my heart to heart. He said alright, then wanted to know what missing pieces I was referring to. So I broke it down for him, and explained it all. I told him that it bothered me that he never called and our communication was all text-based. I told him that I felt that any time our conversations steered toward "emotional", it was all my doing with him kind of playing "follow the leader", and just giving me "I feel the same" responses, never saying much of anything on his own. I also mentioned I was bothered by the fact that he hadn't mentioned our date for this weekend, that I had to be the one to even initiate and ask about the date, and even today when I thought we might need to cancel due to me being ill, he used the words "hang out" and "sometime soon". His lack of being specific even though we had plans was extremely confusing. All in all, I felt like I was being played and treated casually.


He responded with a long text about how he has ADD and finds it hard to focus on things that aren't right in front of him, and that if I feel he's being casual about us, about anything, that that's just how he is. He even said "I haven't been anything but casual about anything since 2010 that wasn't the military". (2010 is referring to his ex, his first love, only love).

So I took that as him saying "You're no different than anyone else."

Maybe I interpreted that wrong. I appreciate the fact that he wrote me back, shows he cares to some degree, but I am not okay with being viewed as casual, especially given how much we've opened up with one another about our feelings for each other. You don't say "I love you", "We'd have cute kids", call me baby, your girl, etc, and then give me a spiel about being casual because "it's just how you are".

Is this normal Taurus behavior? Am I just being played? Maybe the Gemini Venus is truly coming to light here... Can he really mean all he has said and then still categorize me in the same way he has categorized every female in his life that wasn't his ex?

Re

You over analyze everything. Typical female brain.
He's telling you that's "how he is", not "how he thinks of you"
Take his words straight, not twist it.

Posted by rockport424
You over analyze everything. Typical female brain.
He's telling you that's "how he is", not "how he thinks of you"
Take his words straight, not twist it.

Exactly.

You are just doing the Scorpio "freak out" thing. You need to distract your self.