Virgo Man likes Taurus Woman.

I'm new on here so please don't snap at me!

I'm a Virgo man, who is lucky to be friends with a Taurus woman (we'll call her 'A', just in case she finds this). We've known each other for a little less than a year now, and we're great friends. We see other pretty much every weekend, with our friends, and we get on really well. I'm able to make her laugh and I generally enjoy chatting to her.

However, recently, I've started to really really like her. However, it's been up and down. I've been trying to guess, trying to analyze the situation before I make any moves (like a virgo does). I've been trying to figure out whether she likes me back. There's been the odd occasion where I think "No, no way. Stay friends.", but then other occasions where she's really quite 'close'.

I was hoping some of you fellow Tauruses could perhaps tell me whether she likes me or not, based on these factors;

1) I sometimes catch her looking at me.

2) She looks right into my eyes when we're talking. However she doesn't do this ALL the time.

3) I always text her first, she never texts me first (and I doubt she texts anyone else first, either)

4) We hug a lot.

5) We have a lot in common (for instance, she likes to study astrology too and is a proud Taurus)

6) We were at a party the other day, and were both a little drowsy (not drunk, just drowsy), and we were both talking to each other on the swing when she put her arm around me. Following suit but not really knowing what I was doing, I put mine round her, and then she rested her head on me. Bear in mind that she was probably out of her mind a little, though.


And there's a few others, but I think you could probably build a conclusion out of that. She's so so beautiful and I would really do anything just to show her how much I care.

Thankyou in advance x

bump.

Taurus is ruled by Venus meaning they attract not chase. Is she single & available? If so, then ask her out on a solo date.

LOL I won't snap at you Ed. I do think the lady likes you, and please be assertive and let her know you're digging her. I can't speak for all Taurus women, but I like a man to go first. Please and thank you.

Nope, not Ed. The Virgo you're thinking of is with a Cap now.

Thank you so much for all your contributions.

I'm just a bit steady about asking her (obviously because I'm still not finished analyzing the situation and weighing up good and bads, which us virgos do all too often), but because she sparks interest in other guys and (I know it's awful), but I often get jealous about this.

The guys she likes aren't Virgo OR Capricorn (the two signs which are 'made for Taurus', but I still get worried ...

I'm also worried about breaking up with her. We're such good friends and I would really hate for us to fall apart if we ever broke up. Could any of you tell me what the track record is like for Taurus-Virgo relationhips?

Depends on the Taurus and Virgo, but I'd say quite good. There's chemistry and similarities. 🙂

When you say it depends, do you mean if we get on well with each other? Well, we do as friends and that's one of the reasons why I wanted to take it further than that.

Is it common for Tauruses not to make the first move when wanting to talk to someone, as well? As in, when we're not with each other we text QUITE a bit, not all the time, but every other day. However I'm always the one to start texting HER. Could you perhaps fill me in on why this might be?

Thanks again for everything 🙂 x

No matter how loud our mouths are, we still like the man to lead. That way there is surety that the interest is there. If you're thinking of us/wanting us/needing us/ whatever the situation is, you know right where we are. Make sure of it in fact. Here's my email, phone number, IM handle ( you get the drift ). Plenty visible, and definitely accessible.
Over the moon when you reach out, bummed when you do not, but that's the mindset.
I said it depends on the Virgo and the Taurus because there are other things in play than just sun sign and so on. Your moons, Mars, yada yada. And do forgive me, I'm not terribly good at it. There are others here that are however. 🙂
I can definitely count on Virgo as a friend, as a listener, and more. I was married to a Virgo man for 13 years. Everyone here knows that, but you're new so I'll bore you with that little nugget.
That she's talking, and regularly is good, more than good. But truly, take her out for a walk, just the two of you. And be courageous and tell her you'd like things to go a step beyond. She may be waiting, may have been for quite some time. 🙂

Oh don't worry I've been trawling through the Taurus and Virgo forums and seen that story already - but it's always nice to have a warm welcome into the community 🙂 I take it that from your name you're a Taurus? Without asking too much into your private life, would you be able to tell me how that went? How did it start? Were you friends at first etc etc? Thanks it'll just help with getting to know the basics of a relationship with my Taurus.

Also, how should I ask her for a day alone? What with work and everything we only see each other at weekends really. I could always see her for a few brief minutes after work, but living in a city it's quite difficult to find time alone with each other. How would you, a Taurus, like to hear me asking you out? What words and in what enviroment? I've heard that a Bull's favourite day is a Friday. Is this a good day to choose? x

It started as a mild flirtation at work. We didn't speak much but he was watching me, intently. This went on and we started to chat on occasion before the bell sounded to begin. One evening as the shift wound down he was walking downstairs with paperwork ( huge surprise there, no? LOL ) and he walked right into my area, was talking to another woman and he just looked at me and smiled slowly. My eyes locked with his and that same smug smile lit up my face. Possessive and hot on both sides. I remember the woman he was talking too laughing and saying "Whoa, I need to get out of the middle of this one." He asked me out properly in the parking lot. I know, the romance level there fair makes you want to buy a Hallmark card, no? 😉 It all happened so quickly after that. A few dates into it we both realized all our time was spent with the other. Made the rapid decision to move in together, tried that out for a brief time and in under a year I had a new name and a baby boy under my heart. The following year a little girl. And I can honestly tell you that even though things fell through in the end, I hang onto the good. So definitely keep those lines of communication open, that was the downfall with he and I among other things. But that one stands out with crystal clarity.
As a Taurus woman I'd like something like my hand being taken, folded up in the mans hand and a direct look in the eyes and that one simple thing. "I enjoy your company. I think you are funny, intelligent, sexy and kind. I'd like to take you out on ( insert date )". Any environment is fine really, but the idea is to rock the foundation a bit, get that brain to make that flip from 'friend' to 'mine'. You see, with my Virgo experience he did it in the best way possible. In a way he slowly introduced me to himself and then he just went for it. And so did I. 🙂

Oh my god that's really sweet :') See that's how love SHOULD be. Course, it never is! Always has to be something complicating things, but it sounds like you two got really lucky with each other 🙂

I like the sound of that way of asking her. Nothing too dramatic, and all from the heart. Right up my street 🙂 The difference is with her and I is that we already kind of know each other quite well. I know her dog, know her mum, I know the experience that she went through with her dad (because I went through something similar), etc.

Thanks again is there anything you want to maybe add to help me out even more than you have done already? 🙂 x

Thanks, I think so. 🙂
Very simple things. 🙂 Be honest, be yourself utterly. Keep bringing that Virgo wit, charm and sarcasm to the fore, I really do enjoy that. Mental acuity is one of my faves. You already know the girl well by the sound of it, time to up the ante and make her *your girl*.
Yayyyy! I do so enjoy it when Virgo and Taurus match up. I hope to see you here often with good news. 🙂x

Just to add, she loves my sarcasm. She hasn't admitted to it, but everytime I do that sarcy voice and then make a sarcastic comment she laughs out loud. She's actually quite easy to make laugh, especially with witty comments. She loves wit the most because she's incredibly intelligent herself and so she loves it when someone spills an intelligent joke.

I hope it works, I really do. I'll be torn apart for quite a few days if it doesn't work or she says no :/

Hehehehee, I told you something you already know. I still do laugh with the Virgo, he's a hilarious man. 🙂

Thankyou for all your replies and advice but I just can't shake the feeling that she doesn't like ME as much as I like HER. Do Tauruses usually put this image across or does it not really have anything to do with the zodiac? x

Yeh!

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Posted by venusianbull
the downfall

see this is what i expect.i haven't had much experience with virgo men, but i just get hte feeling like it'd start out so perfect be perfect (even with a little fighting here and there) and then it would end just as quickly as it started for no apperant reason, most likely by virgo.
like i said i havne't had much experience with this relationship, or virogs in general and am not basing it on any kind of observations, just for some reason this is how i picture this relationship and the reason it makes me a little hesitent to get involved with one.

for those that broke up
were there specific reasons, what were they.

for those still together.
do you picture yourselves breaking up?

seems like the Virgos I get involved with just move to Virginia, and Im not even joking.

virgo chemistry is instant, fast, and all encompassing. next you know, you are literally living the romantic fantasy, spending every single moment together, very close, then moving in together. make sure that both of you want the same thing out of the relationship, and that your shared vision and initial intensity can sustain itself. it's a close walk to the edge of co-dependency and the fall is long and hard. two virgos brought out the best and the worst.