WHAT IS THIS TAURUS DISAPEARING THING—

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ellynac
@ellynac
9 Years

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DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We get very close, do everything together for weeks and then he without word, freaking leaves for a few days to a week, then shows up again like nothing is wrong. When he returns he asks if im mad or anything? I say "no i was a little worried you were ok or not"....he says..."yeah just had to go home for a while and take care of stuff".....so he is hot and cold and i am confused...wtf?
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Honeybunniie
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11 Years

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#1... U need to straight up n tell him what u want. U guys aren't exclusive so he can do whatever..
#2 sometimes we need alone time to recharge n figure problems or emotions we bn holding inside n figure it out.

#3 also look at ur behavior or words... Sometimes water signs are a bit strong n all that passion sometimes drain us so we need a breather at times to strengthen back up so we can continue to be solid against everything to come along...

My bf is a cancer and sometimes he says things that rubs me the wrong way. He isn't doing it on purpose or mean any harm but sometimes I have to be alone so I can process it n deal with any negative feelings.
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Parkourler
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9 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

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Speculating makes you crazy.
I think the best way to deal with that is calling him out for that. That can have many reasons, maybe he needs to distance to do his assessing thing,
or he is scared or he is part of some cia experiment or he has a second secret life as a hitman or he knows that you have feelings but he doesnt whatever. Just tell him that he can have his space and you dont pressure him but he should at least vanish with some sort of explanation.
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FirstDecanTaurianWoman0428
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Posted by Parkourler
Speculating makes you crazy.
I think the best way to deal with that is calling him out for that. That can have many reasons, maybe he needs to distance to do his assessing thing,
or he is scared or he is part of some cia experiment or he has a second secret life as a hitman or he knows that you have feelings but he doesnt whatever. Just tell him that he can have his space and you dont pressure him but he should at least vanish with some sort of explanation.
Are you a Taurus?
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ellynac
@ellynac
9 Years

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I truly would like a explanation. It doesnt have to be heavy or made up or whatever...just that he needs to go for a while or whatever. I know if I did that to him he would FREAK
He did mention he was getting scared of this whole thing acting like his job isnt good enough to take care o us and crap...but I make enough for both of us he doesnt even need to work..he also said his feelings are too strong then he leaves ok thank you very much wtf
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FirstDecanTaurianWoman0428
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Posted by ellynac
I truly would like a explanation. It doesnt have to be heavy or made up or whatever...just that he needs to go for a while or whatever. I know if I did that to him he would FREAK
He did mention he was getting scared of this whole thing acting like his job isnt good enough to take care o us and crap...but I make enough for both of us he doesnt even need to work..he also said his feelings are too strong then he leaves ok thank you very much wtf
Okay what was the conversation like? And I'm telling you if he is having a hard time in life with work or family. He won't make a move like jump into a relationship. So just be friends from a far and see where it goes later. Right now he may be focused on something else.
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FirstDecanTaurianWoman0428
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Posted by ellynac
I truly would like a explanation. It doesnt have to be heavy or made up or whatever...just that he needs to go for a while or whatever. I know if I did that to him he would FREAK
He did mention he was getting scared of this whole thing acting like his job isnt good enough to take care o us and crap...but I make enough for both of us he doesnt even need to work..he also said his feelings are too strong then he leaves ok thank you very much wtf
Okay I'll take you I'm ready haha. Jk. No but seriously he's going through something and you have to be there to support him as best but stay strong.
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Islandgal24
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9 Years

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People come here for advice and she's full of sarcasm. Example one::: I asked for advice on a name for a business in the beauty industry. Her comment was Venusian Beauty. I then saw someone start a Venusian Beauty thread In the Taurus column. So what are her intentions, when as I said people come for advice?


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Posted by Islandgal24
Why do you even respond to people that are seeking advice? (Rhetorical) you're a very strange chic and should keep your strange comments to yourself. ðŸ‘ðŸ½

Posted by Shashkay
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Leave her alone.
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FirstDecanTaurianWoman0428
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Posted by Islandgal24
Just saying. People come here for advice and she's full of sarcasm. Example one::: I asked for advice on a name for a business in the beauty industry. Her comment was Venusian Beauty. I then saw someone start a Venusian Beauty thread In the Taurus column. So what are her intentions, when as I said people come for advice?


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Posted by Islandgal24
Why do you even respond to people that are seeking advice? (Rhetorical) you're a very strange chic and should keep your strange comments to yourself. ðŸ‘ðŸ½

Posted by Shashkay
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Leave her alone.

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Haha I seen it. I know.
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SofiaV87
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Posted by ellynac
DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We get very close, do everything together for weeks and then he without word, freaking leaves for a few days to a week, then shows up again like nothing is wrong. When he returns he asks if im mad or anything? I say "no i was a little worried you were ok or not"....he says..."yeah just had to go home for a while and take care of stuff".....so he is hot and cold and i am confused...wtf?
Sounds like he likes to spend time with u & the sex is good but from what I'm reading here he's either a commitment phobe or just doesn't want to be committed to u
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SofiaV87
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Posted by ellynac
DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We get very close, do everything together for weeks and then he without word, freaking leaves for a few days to a week, then shows up again like nothing is wrong. When he returns he asks if im mad or anything? I say "no i was a little worried you were ok or not"....he says..."yeah just had to go home for a while and take care of stuff".....so he is hot and cold and i am confused...wtf?
Sounds like he likes to spend time with u & the sex is good but from what I'm reading here he's either a commitment phobe or just doesn't want to be committed to u
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