What Taurus male thinks of Scorpio females (Page 8)

Posted by Impulsv
Then leave the Gemini! U got the confirmation. Go be happy n let the gem free he deserves better.
If u stay u think Taurus a man that supposedly loves u would be ok with that. If he is the. He's just feeding u butter to keep sexing.

First of all he's not just saying butter to keep sexing. The sex may be the accelerate but this guy could sex or not sex whoever he wants. I see it in his smile, the way he looks at me and tells me how amazing I am and that he's happier than he's ever been. I wrote him the sweetest letter. He was so appreciative he'd never gotten a letter before. He said that was the most thoughtful gesture anyone had ever done for him and that smile... was all over his face NO that young man is SMITTEN. Now as for my Gem... not so simple. he will surely have a mental breakdown, snap, suicide or murder if I leave him. I am his WORLD. He's very very clear about that and that could = disaster. The bull and I truly have no future he's young. He's got his whole life ahead of him not to be with someone he likely won't trust because I cheated with him... add kids, a crazy ex, eye rolling, judgemental family members blah blah blah. So I will continue to enjoy the best of both worlds... for now. Yes I'm a cookiemonster, it's wrong, not fair to GEM, disgusting, all of the above. Right now everybody's happy.

This whole scenario...so many variables and ways to come at it. Sometimes sex is just sex, we can have it with someone else and it doesn't mean we don't love our partner. Now if the partner doesn't know and finds out...bad situation, if they know and are ok with it then who's to judge someone else's decision, if they never find out then the saying' what they don't know can't hurt them' can apply. Are we meant to be monogamous for the rest of our lives with only one person just because society says that's what we should do? I think it's a personal choice. Sometimes the desire to sleep with someone else is just that, sometimes it's an eye opener that we are seriously lacking something from our partner, sometimes it can lead to actually deepening the relationship and sometimes it rips it right apart.
Scorpgyrl you say right now everyone is happy...hopefully it stays that way...idk...I'm glad I'm not in your shoes

I am Capricorn rising
Scorpio Sun
Sag Moon
Venus in Scorpio
Mercury in Scorpio

If that helps...

I think the most disturbing thing is that she seems like she lacks a conscience. She seems completely controlled by her emotions and her loins, and I don't really know a man, let alone a Taurus man, who could actually be "in love" with that - infatuated though, sure....But if he can, if he could read this thread and not think of her family or her husband and how he's hurting, and still respect her, seeing how easily she floats right over that, maybe they are made for each other. I think she doubts it herself though and that's peeking through in he posts even. He's infatuated, but not in love with who she actually is.

Posted by Iwill
Scorpio... once again is triumphant. I didn't lose my effect it just took some time and patience. That is all.

Ugh....the power trip of an unevolved Scorp. Probably one of the *least* sexy things I've ever witnessed. It is the sign of extremes I guess.....

Posted by SCORPIOGYRL
I am Capricorn rising
Scorpio Sun
Sag Moon
Venus in Scorpio
Mercury in Scorpio

If that helps...

I'm blaming this one on the Sag Moon....

"In romance,...They have a need for complete emotional freedom from a partner that can keep up with their active pace. Life's banquet can be savored together for as long as it stays a vital match, for they??ll shake free of anything that has lost its luster.

"The Moon in Sagittarius has a mission, and can't be held back by outdated relationships or ideas. Jupiter rules their Moon's sign, and that means their eyes are on the future.

"The Shadow Side: Restless, detached, tactless, careless, superficial."

http://astrology.about.com/od/moonsigns/p/SagittariusMoon.htm<BR>

More Moon in Sag slagginess:

"People born with Moon in Sagittarius are always having emotional adventures. At their hearts they are wild and free and they hate feeling pinned down. They have an instinctive need to explore. When the going gets tough, their heart goes a wandering."

"Moon in Sagittarius natives can be the types to start a lot of drama and then leave. They want to experience huge explosive emotions. They want emotional trips that will change their lives. And when its over. They want another one.

"They can be a little out of touch with reality.

"Like all moon in fire signs, they can be very self centered. In the case of Moon in Sagittarius, their self centeredness is most obvious in their feelings of moral superiority. They often behave as if they are more enlightened or have been —chosen?? in some way. Moon in Sagittarius natives often get a lot of lucky breaks. Often their heads are so in the clouds or focused on their next conquest that they step right out into the traffic. They don't notice that all the cars are swerving and crashing around them. They just congratulate themselves on being able to walk directly into traffic and not get hit. "Yeah, Carpe Diem!", they think. Often they don't even realize how much of their —luck?? has been at the expense of others."

http://astrophilosophy.tumblr.com/post/51054029715/moon-in-sagittarius

I blame her Scorp Venus. I had her down as that placement after reading her first post. Then turns out I was right. It explains the 'obsessive' tone which was detectable in her first post. I have the same placement so I understand it well.

Add that to TLS Sag Moon theory and you're onto a winner!

Hmmm...I have scorpio venus too so I get the obsessiveness but that doesn't mean I act on it. In fact, I've learned NOT to act on it, wait it out, sit back, have some patience, look at the situation with some clarity and not through the Scorp venus lens. What about you AgentP? I mean we know it can spell trouble right?
I agree with TLS too on the total lack of consciousness...I was actually wondering if she was for real and this is all a bunch of bull because it sounds so callous.
Sorry Scorpiogyrl...to each their own and obviously none of us know how your mind works, affairs and flings happen everyday...just...meh, idk...guess you're a big girl

For me, I have realised about chilling out more on the obsessive side. I still do it but I just try and recognise it more and be more aware of it.

When I read her first post I felt it was more of an ego thing. I'm not judging her 'connection' or anything with this fella. Just that the main motive was ego stroking and a power trip. Subsequent posts revealed that this was true.

It's up to her what she does about it all. Her choice. I just think there's much to consider given the circumstances but the main thing to assess is what you want, why you want it, and is the motive sound.

If she's happy with it all then ok. It's her life. I'm not convinced her motive is sound (ego trip) so it's probably all going to fuck up somewhere.

The Taurus guy is young with nothing to lose. He may say all the right words and he may put his dick in all the right places. I'd just say see it for what it is and remove the rose tinted glasses.

She said he stood her up the other day (on another Taurus thread). Who needs all that shit, eh??

Posted by Lovable
I was actually wondering if she was for real and this is all a bunch of bull because it sounds so callous.

SAME! This is all either totally fake, or she is an extremely unattractive person inwardly. I think its very obviously true after reading her posts. I think she also knows it and knows he'll catch onto it. So she's talking about him jetting soon, him not wanting to be with someone that started their relationship with this kind of cheating, etc.

Only a fool falls in love with a heartless woman....For a Taurus man to fall in love, he needs a woman he can respect - someone, not only who he has good chemistry with, but who has real strength of *character*. He may be under her spell temporarily but, were this to actually go anywhere long-term (which is real love to a Taurus), no amount of infatuated love notes she writes him are going to keep him from asking those probing questions that reveal how cold her heart can turn towards those she professes to love - how fickle and disloyal she can be when she sets her eyes on a new conquest. When he gets a whiff of that, like we've all been privy to in this thread, he'll probably be fairly repulsed.

^^^ yup.

I'd agree. The guy is only young, 21 years old or whatever. Regardless of astrology, that is incredibly young. Infatuation rather than love is likely.

I'd agree with the Taurus male wanting something more substantial when it concerns love. My bull has said the same although he's much older than 21!

I'm not particularly in favour of the OP but I can understand the ego trip, game playing, one upmanship, and obsessive feeling, which is what this 'connection' is all about.

Hello ugh so glad I found this thread! Honestly I just want to vent 😉 I've been working around this awesome taurus guy. As time went by we started actually talking... from talking on fb to him giving me his number! I was sooo excited! I absolutely adore the way he carries himself. The need for dominance he doesn't try to hide impresses me. I fall right into place enjoying the fact that it pleases him. When my coworker is around I make sure to give my taurus crush all of my attention. I can tell he really likes that and it sends me to another world! All of this is great including the fact that we're both loyal. On the down side we're so into each other but both taken by others. 😢 Neither of us have children and we're not married. But it's hard to jump into this amazing inferno we've created. Wish I could ask for help but I don't think there's any aha anywhere. So for now I'll burn slowly and love it.

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
Hello ugh so glad I found this thread! Honestly I just want to vent 😉 I've been working around this awesome taurus guy. As time went by we started actually talking... from talking on fb to him giving me his number! I was sooo excited! I absolutely adore the way he carries himself. The need for dominance he doesn't try to hide impresses me. I fall right into place enjoying the fact that it pleases him. When my coworker is around I make sure to give my taurus crush all of my attention. I can tell he really likes that and it sends me to another world! All of this is great including the fact that we're both loyal. On the down side we're so into each other but both taken by others. 😢 Neither of us have children and we're not married. But it's hard to jump into this amazing inferno we've created. Wish I could ask for help but I don't think there's any aha anywhere. So for now I'll burn slowly and love it.

The conclusion didn't happen yet. wait until it burns you.

Ikr. I thought about growing a pair and telling him how I feel but I didn't want to be disrespectful. Knowing we're both in a relationship it wouldn't only be wrong on my part for betraying my bf, but also putting him in a situation he hasn't asked for. I tried avoiding him but he started pursuing me again wich makes feel like I should tell him straight up. I must admit I'm lost and I don't want to make the wrong move. He's a great guy and if something romantic couldn't happen, I couldn't possibly be ok with never talking to him again.

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
Ikr. I thought about growing a pair and telling him how I feel but I didn't want to be disrespectful. Knowing we're both in a relationship it wouldn't only be wrong on my part for betraying my bf, but also putting him in a situation he hasn't asked for. I tried avoiding him but he started pursuing me again wich makes feel like I should tell him straight up. I must admit I'm lost and I don't want to make the wrong move. He's a great guy and if something romantic couldn't happen, I couldn't possibly be ok with never talking to him again.

so if he is a great guy - for me i define this as rich. smart. kind. loving. honest.

is this exist? then go get it. if not, then no. don't be. why would you burn yourself to something

that is not great.

Or I must say you are just infatuated.

Ahh infatuation yes maybe, can't put a finger on it yet though. I haven't felt like this about someone so fast ever. It's shocking and confusing because I've never experienced an attraction so intense. By "great guy" I mean persona, attractive, honest, funny, and he has manners! Wealth doesn't impress me. I'm attracted to him what could his money possibly do for me? It can't satisfy any of my needs.

The only thing atm that isn't great is the fact we're both in separate relationships. Well, and I'm suddenly too afraid to tell him how I feel. The potential consequences freak me out.

Manners, yes, but he doesn't have good manners if he's pursuing an interest with you whilst having a girlfriend.

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
Ahh infatuation yes maybe, can't put a finger on it yet though. I haven't felt like this about someone so fast ever. It's shocking and confusing because I've never experienced an attraction so intense. By "great guy" I mean persona, attractive, honest, funny, and he has manners! Wealth doesn't impress me. I'm attracted to him what could his money possibly do for me? It can't satisfy any of my needs.

Because taurus likes money...they want to provide.

Posted by AgentP911
Manners, yes, but he doesn't have good manners if he's pursuing an interest with you whilst having a girlfriend.

Great point. Neither one of us has crossed the line. I'm doing the same thing. So maybe I should just keep it to myself and not make things more difficult. I don't know much about about his relationship or why he'd feel pursuing me while in one is ok. Or if he even feels like it's ok lol. I have so many questions I can't ask. This sucks.

Sorry lol Internet messing up didn't know if any of those went through. Oops

The wanting to provide is a plus but not what attracts me to him 🙂

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
The wanting to provide is a plus but not what attracts me to him 🙂

you are less evolve scorpio, I think. How old are you?

Don't be too vulnerable.

22

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
22

that's why.. Keep your toes on the ground. That feelings you have with that taurus guy at work will change.

It's just really really great for the moment.. but it won't last longer.

That's so sad 😢 so I should just wait it out and not say anything? Because I'm 22?

That's not quite what M means, in my opinion. She's not picking on your age in a bad way. Just that it is a major factor in the 'bigger picture' of life etc.

You both have partners. You both enjoy having a little flirt etc at work. Maybe it's an ego thing, maybe you can see how far you can both go with the flirting etc but think first, what are you hoping to achieve from it all?

You're already contemplating something more from him. Perhaps just enjoy the harmless flirt and banter. The chances are that the people you're with now at 22 are not going to be your life long partners.

The point is that 'at your age' you're free to enjoy life and learn all about this crap and if it all goes tits up then you'll heal and move on safe in the knowledge that a broken heart will heal, there's no messy divorce or financial implications, no kids are involved, it's exactly how it should be at 22.

Fast forward ten or twenty years, you're married, joint house, couple of kids... You start flirting with a guy at work... Whole different story...

Thank you so much! I could give you a hug right now. 🙂

It would be nice to see what a taurus man thinks about this.

Lol cheers for the hug!

I'm sure TLS will be along at some point to comment. Not sure if there are any other Taurus males who post that much on here.

Posted by M143

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
The wanting to provide is a plus but not what attracts me to him 🙂

you are less evolve scorpio, I think. How old are you?

Don't be too vulnerable.

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LOL, she is a less evolved Scorpio because she is not a gold digger?

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
It would be nice to see what a taurus man thinks about this.

Will respond in a bit....

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
It would be nice to see what a taurus man thinks about this.

Will respond in a bit....

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And as if by magic, and with a little fairy bull dust... 'Poof' and then he appears...

Then disappears like a typical Taurean fella... Only joking!! _??_

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio

Posted by AgentP911
Manners, yes, but he doesn't have good manners if he's pursuing an interest with you whilst having a girlfriend.

Great point. Neither one of us has crossed the line. I'm doing the same thing. So maybe I should just keep it to myself and not make things more difficult. I don't know much about about his relationship or why he'd feel pursuing me while in one is ok. Or if he even feels like it's ok lol. I have so many questions I can't ask. This sucks.

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I'm sure he doesn't feel its "ok", but if he's feeling the chemistry like you are, and like soooo many other people who get caught in the magnetism that can occur along this axis, its just almost impossible to resist. It really is something different and it overrides everything else. Even when I was HIDING from this person, refusing to even look in her direction, I could be around my SO and still feel like they don't even exist, be bothered when they come in for affection, etc. That's when it gets really horrible.

I'm a bull and I tend to try to stick it out with someone against all odds, even this Taurus/Scorp thing that almost killed me, but most of the Scorps around here would probably tell you that if you are feeling something for someone else like this, when you are in a relationship, it means something is majorly wrong in that relationship.

I do hear you on not wanting to lose the connection you *do* have as friends, so not revealing for that reason though.

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
That's so sad 😢 so I should just wait it out and not say anything? Because I'm 22?

Its tough, because maybe you say something and then, even though he feels strongly like you do, he gets enough satisfaction in your confession and chooses to stay with the other girl out of guilt or obligation. I'm feeling evil. If you really want the guy, I think your best bet would be to drive him so crazy that he makes the move towards you - confesses to you. As a Scorp you probably know how to do that instinctively - its in there somewhere. But if you're really going to play that seduction, or make any attempt at bringing all this to light, it shouldn't be while you're with someone. You should end that first. And if he did move towards you openly like that, you should instruct him to end what he'll already know by that point is a relationship that his heart is not really in.

There's a lot to be said for being loyal, but when you are as young as you both are, and you are not married w/kids as has been said, there is also a lot to be said for following your heart in some instances.

I guess I'm a grey lizard... Oh my!

Posted by AgentP911
That's not quite what M means, in my opinion. She's not picking on your age in a bad way. Just that it is a major factor in the 'bigger picture' of life etc.

You both have partners. You both enjoy having a little flirt etc at work. Maybe it's an ego thing, maybe you can see how far you can both go with the flirting etc but think first, what are you hoping to achieve from it all?

You're already contemplating something more from him. Perhaps just enjoy the harmless flirt and banter. The chances are that the people you're with now at 22 are not going to be your life long partners.

The point is that 'at your age' you're free to enjoy life and learn all about this crap and if it all goes tits up then you'll heal and move on safe in the knowledge that a broken heart will heal, there's no messy divorce or financial implications, no kids are involved, it's exactly how it should be at 22.

Fast forward ten or twenty years, you're married, joint house, couple of kids... You start flirting with a guy at work... Whole different story...

Agent. exactly. less evolve scorpio are more prone to daydreaming and infatuated in temporary happiness.
The evolved scorpio has a power to control her emotion. Discipline her action. She knows this is her downfall and need to be rescued after all the broken hearted scorpio is not easy to move on... grieving what was lost.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by M143

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
The wanting to provide is a plus but not what attracts me to him 🙂

you are less evolve scorpio, I think. How old are you?

Don't be too vulnerable.

LOL, she is a less evolved Scorpio because she is not a gold digger?

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Is that how you DEFINE SCORPIO? well, let see if your wisdom fits that scorpio lady you are talking at work.

Let me whisper this - Scorpio are not the typical housewife you've ever meet in your life.

They don't lie down in the bed and wait their husband to come home and spread their legs..

Scorpio works harder and build herself and not dependent.

Evolved scorpio weighing all the pros and cons before allowing somebody else to be a part of their world.

you are aware that Scorpio attracted to power, possession and luxurious life - that's why we work harder to get

what we want.

and If life didn't offer me the best. I won't settle for less. No bargain. and no, not even for sale.

Posted by deathnirvana
How scorp women look like... In my head

Lol...if I could add a picture id ruin that image

Thanks TLS 🙂
I'll update every once in a while. I'm not exactly sure what I want to do next right now. I plan to make sure he is worth fighting for first. And just to be clear this whole less evolved stuff is starting to make me a little angry. I'm no longer interested in what other scorpio women have to say so do us both a favor and save it! Lol you claim something about heartache and assume I have yet to experience this because of my age. You thought very wrong. Now that we're clear know that I won't be responding to any other negative inputs from any scorpio who believe they know me thanks.

Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
Thanks TLS 🙂
I'll update every once in a while. I'm not exactly sure what I want to do next right now. I plan to make sure he is worth fighting for first. And just to be clear this whole less evolved stuff is starting to make me a little angry. I'm no longer interested in what other scorpio women have to say so do us both a favor and save it! Lol you claim something about heartache and assume I have yet to experience this because of my age. You thought very wrong. Now that we're clear know that I won't be responding to any other negative inputs from any scorpio who believe they know me thanks.

Go with it. You are very positive. Taurus will never give up to that someone special because of
you. You are the one *assuming*. Since you don't ask to that taurus guy. Don't fool me around or shame on you
at the end of the day. Then come back here and tell me all your infatuation. yeah don't listen to us..
We don't force you. You are defensive about your age.. lmao.

He's fishing for answers and I'm trying to blow it off. I think he can tell though. He just keeps asking. He also tells me about other guys he works with and what they say. Like how hot I am and blah blah. I really don't want to know these things.

lmao. stay positive. I don't bother to answer you assumptions.

Goodluck...

He told me how he feels. Wasn't expecting that to happen but I'm pleased with what he said. What a great day 😉

I told him how I feel also btw.

I randomly found this forum last year when looking up signs and recently decided to join the website. The story in the first couple of posts were really cute!
I still haven't gotten around to reading the whole thing but I was just wondering if things ever worked out for that guy. I know it's wierd but I couldn't help but wonder all this time. I was really rooting for them!

I randomly found this forum last year when looking up signs and recently decided to join the website. The story in the first couple of posts were really cute!
I still haven't gotten around to reading the whole thing but I was just wondering if things ever worked out for that guy. I know it's wierd but I couldn't help but wonder all this time. I was really rooting for them!

Happy Valentines day!

So I'm in a pickle. It's getting serious really fast! Our gf/bf now knows about us talking. They don't know how intense it is though. He asked me a serious question, I told him the truth. I can't be around my bf without thinking of him. It was time for bed the other night and my bf was making moves on me and it literally made me sick to my stomach. It felt like I was in bed with a complete stranger. I got up and told my bf I felt sick and that I was going to soak in the tub. As soon as I left the room I felt instant relief. My heart was beating so fast I couldn't control it the thought of my taurus makes me loose control. I'm a master at controlling anger or sadness, but I can't control happiness. For example at the most random times I think of him and I start blushing and smiling I just can't hide it. It's amazing and horrible at the same time.