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Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
It was time for bed the other night and my bf was making moves on me and it literally made me sick to my stomach. It felt like I was in bed with a complete stranger...It's amazing and horrible at the same time.



Yeah, this is a bad one. Went through all this and tested every aspect of it. The closer you get to the bull, the more sick you'll feel around your current SO. Its not just infatuation/crush, etc. I'm telling you it is a real force in and of itself. Its like discovering a new law of physics. I am so far removed from the Scorpio, so far past thinking anything could work bc of our current circumstances. I have used every ounce of strength to set my mind/heart/will completely on the Sag. Once in a while, I have a weak day and my mind wanders back. This happened last Wednesday. The Scorp would pop into my head and all I could think about was that I loved her. My thoughts felt like I was having a dialogue with her emotionally. In the middle of the day, she came by on my side of the building and walked right by my desk. She bent down right in front of my row to throw something out at someone's cubicle - in my mind intentionally making commotion with her body so I'd look that way and see her, all dressed up (lol). She's got no reason to be there, and she knows it, I know it. She's only done this twice since we moved to separate departments. I have, for months, been getting more passionate and devoted with my Sag. After that one encounter? I am back where you are at. I am sickened when my Sag approaches me for hugs, kisses, all of it. This happens every time.

If you decide you want to stay with your SO, your heart can go back to them; it'll take a while to get them out of that mental/emotional space. But the physical presence of the bull? Forget it...If you don't get away from him physically, it will respark every time and set you back to square one, even when you think it couldn't' possibly happen. And part of you will always desire that.

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Posted by JasonVP5983
@tauruslovesscorpio at times i could swear you were talking about the same scorpio woman. lol my bull mind really appreciated the depth of detail since more often than not i need a map drawn out. thanks again for this link, bro. and i guess the only thing i could say is if getting involved with her is a mistake it will be the best mistake i have ever made. 🙂



Just be really careful...I don't want to be a downer, but the pain is like no other. Your "will to live" tank will be on empty for a while if things don't work. And I'm not sure you ever get them out of your head.
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Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
So I'm in a pickle. It's getting serious really fast! Our gf/bf now knows about us talking.



So what sign is your bf? And his gf? How did things get so serious? Who initiated/revealed? And how did that happen? Before you decide if you want to push the connection closer with the bull, you need to really find out if he plans on ever splitting from his gf. If a bull has set his mind to being loyal to someone, you'd be amazed....Even if every ounce of feeling is drained from that relationship, they can still be completely steadfast. I definitely would not get sexual with him out of respect for all parties, including your self. Though it may seem like that would make him more your's, it could make him ever being with you (if that's what you really want) even less likely. You really need to find out to what extend he's feeling what you're feeling and discuss the possibility of both of you calling it quits with your current SO's, and giving it a shot.
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my boss is a Taurus I saw a friend the first time I met him he made me laugh so hard that I had tears coming out of my eyes . besides him and my first boyfriend I never met anyone or man that could over power me with words and thier mere existence. he is the most kindest man I know . ya he is a no nonsense type of guy but he is a caring soul. I know its a hard thing to do but maybe you try and talk to that scorpio woman. you might end learning a lot about each other .maybe even change each others lifes for the best. my first boyfriend! was a darling and very protective of me. I just wish he had trusted me with his secrets but now that I am older I know he was doing for my own protection. you could be best friends for all I know. being with someone does not mean you should be in a relationship with them. just be honest from the start. even if it doesn't go anywhere you might learn a lot of life transforming things about each other. another thing dont stop each other from progress. I have been with other Taurus men hoping to relive my lost Taurus love but it all failed dismally. so this connection to me from what I have read is worth exploring even it just as friends. dont be affraid of experiencing pain out of grate pain comes grate joy . if humans feared and avoided pain then we would all still be virgins. my advice is dive in. live in the moment. ..
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I wonder, do other Tauruses share this definition of loyalty?

Because from either side (SO or new person) I can't see it as anything but the deepest kind of emotional betrayal.

Maybe my perspective is too restrictive or too encompassing, I'm not sure which. But your story illicits
strong reactions, which are both fascinating and horrifying at the same time. Makes my stomach churn but I keep reading 😆
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its just like you are in a puzzle and you cant even pick which fitting piece you would like to be.

Taurus and scorpio.. feels like no other. No one else in this world exists. You cant run to eachother and you can't run away from eachother. If you manage to do that physically, in your head you just CAN'T. Then these strange stuff happens when something out of nowhere pops up and reminds you of them.

gives you heaven and hell all at the same time..
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Posted by UntamedLeo
I wonder, do other Tauruses share this definition of loyalty?

Because from either side (SO or new person) I can't see it as anything but the deepest kind of emotional betrayal.

Maybe my perspective is too restrictive or too encompassing, I'm not sure which. But your story illicits
strong reactions, which are both fascinating and horrifying at the same time. Makes my stomach churn but I keep reading 😆



Well, I don't know what part you're referring to specifically, but if you mean a bull who stays despite the loss of all feeling, I think it is a type of loyalty, but a pretty miserable one - not a positive type of loyalty. Bulls I know are sometimes this way though. Its a combination of a lot of Taurean qualities - hating change, being too lazy and wanting to stay in the comfort zone, and also being loyal - that can keep a bull in a bad situation. I've got a bull friend married to a Leo woman actually, who has cheated on him 3 x's and he still has taken her back. Utterly insane IMO. He really feels like its too late in life to find someone, so even though he really feels nothing for her now, he stays with her.

My situation is different though. I didn't make a decision to betray anyone. The feelings happened. I see betrayal as a decision to pursue a feeling - not simply having a feeling, trying to understand it, and mostly even fight it. Really my emotions betrayed me and everything I thought I had and felt. For me, I had to really weigh how important I thought emotions even were, even when they were the greatest thing I had ever felt. Did they justify the damage I would cause to take a risk? And I have found, that they can wane, though maybe never fully, and old passion can be rekindled. It just takes a lot of distance from a connection like this, and sometimes a lot of work. If Honey is going to pursue this, like it seems she is, I do think she should just split from her SO.
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Posted by seezythescorpion

Taurus and scorpio.. feels like no other. No one else in this world exists. You cant run to eachother and you can't run away from eachother. If you manage to do that physically, in your head you just CAN'T. Then these strange stuff happens when something out of nowhere pops up and reminds you of them.

gives you heaven and hell all at the same time..



Yes.
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@TLS

Yes, I'm referring to the idea of a Bull who stays in a partnership when the heart or mind is with someone else. Staying in spite of difficulties is an aspect of loyalty, but when all other aspects of loyalty are absent (emotional connection, emotional honesty & openness, physical desire & expression etc.), is it still loyalty?

I understand a connection that pulls the rug from under your feet, and is so deep you find yourself questioning everything you thought you knew. It's not within our control and I'm not saying it can or should be. But I have trouble relating to the Bull, so I'm trying instead to see the larger picture. I agree that having feelings and trying to understand them isn't a betrayal in and of itself. But were those feelings shared with the SO, or the Scorp, or was it kept quiet?

Feelings aren't a choice certainly, but what we do with them is. And whichever choice is made, to speak or be silent, to stay or to go, it's made repeatedly. And it affects others' choices.

How would the SO feel knowing that at the height of passion/obsession you were shrinking from her touch, even her presence? Knowing would offer her choices, keeping her in the dark takes them away. Which is fair? Which best serves the Bull?

How would the Scorp feel, either not fully knowing your feelings, or knowing and wondering why nothing came of them beyond testing and intrigues, or realizing that regardless of the depth and strength of that connection it wasn't worth more? Would it affect the nature of her feelings, of the connection, and her choice to stay in them or create distance?

I'm not trying to lay blame or colour the situation or anyone in it as good or bad. Life is sticky and complex and full of challenges. We can't help how we feel about them, but there are always choices to be made; some active, some passive, some serve the Bull and some don't. And some can be seen as a deep betrayal (of partnership and/or feelings) if perspectives beyond the Bull's are considered.
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Untamed - I can't speak for other bulls, and I have stayed in relationships that I wished I hadn't in retrospect. But for my part, in this one, I had many reasons for sticking it out, and I would still make the same decision. With my daughter involved, with how new of an experience this was, and not knowing anything about it, with the history I had with my Sagetc. ...I probably explained that reasoning 20 x's over in this thread or somewhere else on this board, but I really felt like it was a decision I had to make. I never shared my feelings with the Scorp. And I did wind up eventually telling my Sag (very recently actually) in a very general way, that a connection with another person had occurred, that I did not pursue it, but that it did numb my feelings towards her almost completely. Her friend went through something similar in her marriage and that gave me a chance to talk about it with her. My Sag is very open-minded and it saddened her for a night, but she wasn't even upset that I didn't tell her while I was going through it, and she's glad I stuck it out with her. I'm not sure in this instance, even though I desperately wanted to consider the Scorp's feelings, and give her an explanation of my behavior, that I really actually owed her that, or that giving her one wouldn't be an act of disloyalty towards the Sag. Plus, the nature of it was so crazy that if I even made the slightest move in her direction, everything would go wrong and it was like it wasn't meant to be. Very common with this pairing as well.

And to be fully honest, I don't even really worry about it much anymore. I put SO much of my time and energy into trying to figure this mess out, so much of my heart into deliberating what is right and what is wrong, what my boundaries should be, etc. - I am just exhausted. As hard as I looked, I received very few answers. Life is crazy, and I took a lot of damage from this experience. My heart was torn to shreds. If the Universe feels I didn't navigate this twisted labyrinth of tortures well enough, then it can go ahead recycle my soul for another go-around.
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TLS - With 41 pages here and however much time spent in this I don't blame you for being exhausted and am sadly unsurprised that the universe offered you few answers. I've had my own struggle with a situation that can make or break you, which is what drew me to this thread.

I tend to relentlessly pull and pull until mysteries unravel and I'm sorry if I touched any nerves with my blunt curiosity. Your openness and willingness helped me see this through your eyes in a way I couldn't have otherwise. I've no doubt you did the best you could, and I hope that if your heart isn't fully healed yet, that it soon will be 🙂
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Posted by UntamedLeo
TLS - With 41 pages here and however much time spent in this I don't blame you for being exhausted and am sadly unsurprised that the universe offered you few answers. I've had my own struggle with a situation that can make or break you, which is what drew me to this thread.

I tend to relentlessly pull and pull until mysteries unravel and I'm sorry if I touched any nerves with my blunt curiosity. Your openness and willingness helped me see this through your eyes in a way I couldn't have otherwise. I've no doubt you did the best you could, and I hope that if your heart isn't fully healed yet, that it soon will be 🙂



Thx, and no you didn't touch a nerve. I'm emotionally exhausted from the experience of it all; the writing here has been cathartic...And I am beginning to heal. Still a tad bitter though 🙂
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Posted by Infinite8
OMG... Sorry to interrupt but I just wanted to say that I really like you untamedLeo. You seem so evolved, understanding and reflective without attacking or coming to quick conclusions. I also like your curiosity and need to question everything... Hehehe 🙂 anyway... You have admirable qualities that I think needed to be mentioned.

TLS: you are awesome, remember that! Don't be to hard on yourself. Hugs my friend 🙂



And you deserve mentioned for pointing out something like this... I was lurking, noticed the qualities you did, but didn't even think of commenting... Made me feel good to see you pointing out the good part of another human being.

WTG infinite 🙂

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Posted by Infinite8
OMG... Sorry to interrupt but I just wanted to say that I really like you untamedLeo. You seem so evolved, understanding and reflective without attacking or coming to quick conclusions. I also like your curiosity and need to question everything... Hehehe 🙂 anyway... You have admirable qualities that I think needed to be mentioned.





Yes, I agree and have said that before. She's really cool, mature, level-headed/objective. Also very insightful - definitely understands the Taurus nature from other posts I've read from her.

Look at us Leo Moons always giving credit where it is due...(had to work in some self-praise too...lolol).
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Yes, I agree and have said that before. She's really cool, mature, level-headed/objective. Also very insightful - definitely understands the Taurus nature from other posts I've read from her.

Look at us Leo Moons always giving credit where it is due...(had to work in some self-praise too...lolol).



LOL... You said that to her too?!? OMG, we are too similar sometimes, it's hilarious. 😆

I just can't do the self-praising. I feel to uncomfortable with it - no joke! But, it's cute when you do it. So, I'll just allow you to "captain" that department... Hehehe 🙂
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Ha! I am just mainly being hokey when I do it. Plus I was complimenting your Leo Moon really. I can't help it if mine gets a boost at the same time...lol.
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OMG... Sorry to interrupt but I just wanted to say that I really like you untamedLeo. You seem so evolved, understanding and reflective without attacking or coming to quick conclusions. I also like your curiosity and need to question everything... Hehehe 🙂 anyway... You have admirable qualities that I think needed to be mentioned.

TLS: you are awesome, remember that! Don't be to hard on yourself. Hugs my friend 🙂



And you deserve mentioned for pointing out something like this... I was lurking, noticed the qualities you did, but didn't even think of commenting... Made me feel good to see you pointing out the good part of another human being.

WTG infinite 🙂

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Hugs back at you
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Posted by TeaMint
TLS , I have a question for you .

If she made —??a move towards you, firm , clear, direct. What would you do?

You'll never forget this girl ... You know , no?



Probably cave. I wouldn't get physical, but I'd establish communication, which is just as bad (for me anyway). Have to be honest. I can only resist so much. I don't think I could resist that. Thankfully I don't think its likely. She's hurt enough already that I didn't hop on the web she weaved. She is not going to risk that kind of exposure, especially as a Venus in Scorp.
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Here Venus Scorpio too, I think you can rest assured, she will not (at least sober ). Venus in Scorpio is more stubborn and fixed than Taurus and proving ourselves in pain, we are "masochistic", through this pain we transformed and strengthened internally. Expert to transmute the most terrible pain in energy, renewed blood running for the veins, but takes time...Or so I hope.




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Posted by TeaMint
Here Venus Scorpio too, I think you can rest assured, she will not (at least sober ). Venus in Scorpio is more stubborn and fixed than Taurus and proving ourselves in pain, we are "masochistic", through this pain we transformed and strengthened internally. Expert to transmute the most terrible pain in energy, renewed blood running for the veins, but takes time...Or so I hope.






LOL, I'm a bit of a masochist myself. Believe me, I understand and can relate to all of the above. I think I've got a lot of Scorpish qualities. I'm not holding out any hope to be transformed or anything though. I just sort of assume to live is to suffer, and am glad it ends eventually. lol. I would never expect her to do more than she's done; she's really gone way more out on a limb than I have, or I ever would have. I mean, if she knew how cool I would be, then maybe....lol. But all I've shown her is that I'm retarded really....
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Posted by AgentP911
Lol I'm not THAT thick... I got it!

I have read the thread. Love it!

But why act that way? Just curious.



lol, I dont' know...it was just involuntary....Like being a puppet. I couldn't control it. Sometimes the energy is so strong between two people that you have limited options.

Ever meet someone you just can't be yourself around bc of the way they are? Happens to me pretty regularly, but never like this, and never with someone I was so attracted to. Look at all the other Taurus/Scorp situations that get posted here. No one knows what the hell is going on. That's why they wind up here.
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Posted by AgentP911
Lol I'm not THAT thick... I got it!

I have read the thread. Love it!

But why act that way? Just curious.



lol, I dont' know...it was just involuntary....Like being a puppet. I couldn't control it. Sometimes the energy is so strong between two people that you have limited options.

Ever meet someone you just can't be yourself around bc of the way they are? Happens to me pretty regularly, but never like this, and never with someone I was so attracted to. Look at all the other Taurus/Scorp situations that get posted here. No one knows what the hell is going on. That's why they wind up here.
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Yup. Know the feeling. Experienced it but only once before. Still waiting for your view on it 😢

#scorp patience running out... Meanie stare at TLS... Stinger poised...
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Posted by AgentP911
Lol I'm not THAT thick... I got it!

I have read the thread. Love it!

But why act that way? Just curious.



Look at all the other Taurus/Scorp situations that get posted here. No one knows what the hell is going on. That's why they wind up here.
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Hahahaha! Taurus/Scorp-"Noone knows what the hell is going on." This made me laugh. The best way to sum it all up..
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Posted by thinktoomuch
Sorry but this topic is too long for me to read right now, but can anyone answer, how a taurus man would act, if he is interested?

This is a guy I know to be super awkvard, but also really funny (to me at least😄).

I did think about getting with him, but now I don't anymore, because I am missing that spark plus in some ways he can be a little arrogant, and that turns me off completely.

F.y.i. I am a scorpio woman😉

We have been hanging out in these past couple of months but go way back. We mostly get really drunk together😄 And talk and dance. Last night he offered me to crash at his place, on a matres on the floor, but I declined. I said, it would send a wrong signal. I am almost 30 and I find myself to be too old to crash at random places anymore. It just don't feel right.

I don't want him to be interested, I should mention. But I am trying to look out for myself right now and not get myself into some kind of weird situation...

Thanks u-s🙂



So you don't like him in that way and don't want him to be interested in you but you want to know how he'd act if he were interested in you yet you can't be arsed to read either this post or many of the other posts relating to this subject... Jeez...
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Posted by thinktoomuch
Why are u so negative? Weird.

i know right?!I don't understand why she replies at all and frets so much!Also just hope she's having goodday(s)
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Yeah I lost LOADS of sleep by fretting over your dilemmas...

If you actually spend some of your time reading the forum, especially older posts, you'll glean the much coverted information you're looking for.

Teena, I asked if you had a question amidst all your writing as some come here with questions and others come here to vent. Being more structured and making it easier for the readers to help you is always a plus, wouldn't you agree?

Thinktoomuch, clearly not in your case... If you mistook that as negativity then you'd be off the mark. Your post wasn't as clear as it could be and my telepathy skills were having a day off. I summed up what my interpretation was.

If you think I'm negative then wait until you encounter some of the real arseholes on here. In comparison, I'm your Fairy Godmother!

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thinktoomuch, some scorpio are quite brutal and mostly those evolved ones.

un evolved scorp - more vulnerable and very sensitive - this is why I don't like talking un evolved scorp.

Real Scorpio will fight and stand their ground and they don't express hurts they swallowed it. lol.


now let's go back to your question - how a taurus would act if he is interested in a woman - he is very slow.

you will get a lot of attention from him but make sure you are not acting differently - giving yourself right

away and all those crazy moments (drinking). I doubt he is just having fun with you. break that pattern.

When you meet a bull. Don't flirt. Ignore him... it's easy to figure if you started that way than allowing

him to access your world easily and dive in into his madness.