@AgentP911
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The "essence " of the situation I've lived with two Taurus isn't like any other I have lived with a man. I can recognize this well. We think we can control everything but we can't. It is unbearable.
Posted by thinktoomuch
Okay women🙂 AgentP, I felt like your post was a little accusatory and I couldn't really understand why. Bad communication. Hope my second post cleared things up.M143 thanks. Is the advice you've given me based on me NOT wanting to get with him? I am not interested in him like that. If he had swepped me off my feet meaning made a real move a while ago, I would have gone for him. .... But the spark is gone, and now I have gotten to know him and don't think, that we are compatible on some important issues. Still he is a really good guy and fun to hang out with🙂 But hey, at least I learned again about myself, that I need the passion to take us over pretty quickly, other wise I get bored and lose interest. I know ladies are supposed to hold back sexually, but that doesn't work well for me. All that kissing and sexing is part of the connection🙂 from a scorpio woman perspective😉
Not accusatory at all. It just wasn't clear what/why you were asking.
LOL, these young scorpz...."I think it was just something I ate that was making me feel obsessed with him. I burped and I no longer felt anything for him right after that. Phew!"
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
LOL, these young scorpz...."I think it was just something I ate that was making me feel obsessed with him. I burped and I no longer felt anything for him right after that. Phew!"
Just a bad case of gas and wind... Move along... Nothing to see here...
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
LOL, these young scorpz...."I think it was just something I ate that was making me feel obsessed with him. I burped and I no longer felt anything for him right after that. Phew!"Lol!!! I think we live in paradox and self denial TLS! It's more like we hate to accept we like someone..!
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Oh I know...lol. I've seen it. I would advise for any Taurus/Scorps under 30 really, to stay away from this connection. Just my opinion after talking to so many. That is, unless you are really looking for something serious and permanent at that age (often not the case with 1 or both parties so young though).
But yeah, I saw that resistance in her. Fear of the loss of control. Being a Taurus though, and valuing long-term commitment/loyalty like I do, I have my own criteria and tests. I look for any sign of being fickle, emotions wavering, doubting, etc. That was always another reason for my hesitance. She was in her 20's and *very* beautiful, and I felt deep down she probably had more life to live - more stuff she needed to get out of her system. The connection between these two signs arouses desires to possess, and unless you're looking to get married really young, it can just wind up causing a lot of heartache.
I was just riding off of TLS joke and taking the piss.
God you lot are soooo sensitive today!!
Non conformist = lazy bastard!
Is he one of those artsy types who expects life to fall into his lap... Failing that, his mother will wipe his arse behind him so he doesn't really have to deal with those nasty things like responsibilities!!!
I'm just joking.
Posted by Teena
You remember when you said A scorpio can get rid of any addiction in just a day n something along these lines?That's so true..I know i can...but i dunno what I'm waiting for!
Yeah, I hear this a lot actually. The other gets away with a lot more bc of the chemistry, and your usual ability to detach, move on, etc. is hindered a lot. I have Venus in Gemini; its REALLY easy for me to get bored with someone and cease to have feelings for them if I'm not really mentally engaged/stimulated by them. Further, I don't even get a *real* attraction to someone unless they are interesting to me on that mental level. But with her, I didn't even need to have a convo - just being in her presence was the emotional high of my life, honest. And looking into her eyes was the most exciting thing I have ever experienced. That sounds like total romanticized BS, and maybe even a little pathetic, but it is absolutely true. Its just something that resonates at a soul-level with the person.
I might find a thousand incompatibilities with her, things she's into that I think are completely corny or lame (and I did see some of those), might not like her attitude (she seemed a little bitchy/entitled tbh), etc., but for some reason, its like I could see through all of that as just a bunch of layers, built up through her own unique experience, pain, etc. - like a costume that her soul was wearing. What I felt attracted to, was what was underneath all that.
Posted by thinktoomuch
Okay women🙂 AgentP, I felt like your post was a little accusatory and I couldn't really understand why. Bad communication. Hope my second post cleared things up.M143 thanks. Is the advice you've given me based on me NOT wanting to get with him? I am not interested in him like that. If he had swepped me off my feet meaning made a real move a while ago, I would have gone for him. .... But the spark is gone, and now I have gotten to know him and don't think, that we are compatible on some important issues. Still he is a really good guy and fun to hang out with🙂 But hey, at least I learned again about myself, that I need the passion to take us over pretty quickly, other wise I get bored and lose interest. I know ladies are supposed to hold back sexually, but that doesn't work well for me. All that kissing and sexing is part of the connection🙂 from a scorpio woman perspective😉
thinktoomuch,
I thought you were asking how a taurus act when they are interested. like I said they give you attention.They are slow mover too.But it seems like you are just confused now. Is there any problem why you lose interest to that bull? or you just fell out of love. Scorpio women specially myself don't like to have sex with a man that I don't love. this is because I respect myself. I can have fun and swing any men and women but I don't know I just can't defile myself nor I can't just say well I'm having fun.
so if you are sexing and kissing that bull - meaning you have love for him. It's just that boredom kills you.
Tell him you are bored. Maybe he can do something. or wait.. are you official lovers? if not, then break free.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
LOL, these young scorpz...."I think it was just something I ate that was making me feel obsessed with him. I burped and I no longer felt anything for him right after that. Phew!"Just a bad case of gas and wind... Move along... Nothing to see here...
I am not sure, if you are talking about me😄 But in my case, I need some sort of passion from the get go, and not a slow dance. That's just me😉 Plus like I said, we disagree on some important issues like what we want in our life. I am not a too young scorp, I'm at the marrying age but haven't met mr. right. This taurus expressed a certain arrogance towards a lifelong friend of mine and he has known her too... He was making fun of her for living a regular life with a boyfriend with whom she has moved to the suburbs in a house with a dog... I want that too sort of, but he sees himself being a more non-conformist. I don't care for that sort of arrogance towards other people - we should all be able to be here and live our life without being condemned for it🙂
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There are people over 50 who are like children . She is 25 , 26 ... you are afraid , don't blame her age , don't use his daughter. We all fear, is normal, and for some a relationship at the base of the pyramid is the most comfortable.
thinktoomuch, just be direct and honest, affirm how you feel about the friendship if he comes on to you. Its really that simple. Lets keep this thread on topic - obsessive/psychotic Taurus/Scorp crushes that are mutual.
Posted by QuietRiot
Hello, I came across this topic on google while searching taurus-scorpio compatibility, and couldn't stop reading. It's my first time here, and I wanted my first post to be a sincere thank you.
Here to help. 😈
It's been a while... I'll update I guess. TLS I revealed that I liked him first, but only because he kept asking. It got to where we would text/talk everyday and night. He definitely wanted sex. I did too but that's not all I wanted. And I for damn sure wasn't going to just be fwb. Anyways his girlfriend started texting me. Ha that was great. My boyfriend caught us hanging out in his work truck. The ending however is we talked like usual one day and the next he told me he quit and he's moving. I was confused but asked few questions. The last thing he said to me was "we can't be friends."
Sooooo plot twist! He got in touch with me and told me he fd up and he's sorry. He told me he wanted and should've kissed me when we were in his truck! He still wants to talk and I told him I'm leaving my bf and getting my own place! He said he's patient and nothing will be easy but he can't stop talking to me even though he tried. Ugh I'm so happy! The only way he can stop is if I didn't want to talk to him. He doesn't feel the same way with his girlfriend as he does with me and I feel the same. I just can't believe he opened up so much and felt the exact same as me. I was mad at first but after he spilled the beans about everything I couldn't possibly be angry. I've officially fallen and I love it!
Is he still with his gf?
Posted by HoneygirlScorpio
Sooooo plot twist! He got in touch with me and told me he fd up and he's sorry. He told me he wanted and should've kissed me when we were in his truck! He still wants to talk and I told him I'm leaving my bf and getting my own place! He said he's patient and nothing will be easy but he can't stop talking to me even though he tried. Ugh I'm so happy! The only way he can stop is if I didn't want to talk to him. He doesn't feel the same way with his girlfriend as he does with me and I feel the same. I just can't believe he opened up so much and felt the exact same as me. I was mad at first but after he spilled the beans about everything I couldn't possibly be angry. I've officially fallen and I love it!
Congrats, and you did the right thing. Hopefully he follows suit.
Soooooo....what's the 411 TLS?
P.S. love ur story it's a really good book took me 2wks (sarcasm) 🙂
Nooooooooo don't fucking encourage him ”
Posted by AgentP911
Nooooooooo don't fucking encourage him ”😛 Tu taquines!!!
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WÇ' shì móguÇ ðŸ‘¹
Posted by AgentP911
Nooooooooo don't fucking encourage him ”😛 Tu taquines!!!
W�' shì móguÇ ðŸ‘¹
😆 .... Me encanta!! Contéstame en chino de nuevo... Me muero de risa!!
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Wo bist du gegangen?
Viel arschlöcher hier.
Es ist scheiße. ¢
Posted by AgentP911
Nooooooooo don't fucking encourage him ”😛 Tu taquines!!!
W�' shì móguÇ ðŸ‘¹
😆 .... Me encanta!! Contéstame en chino de nuevo... Me muero de risa!!
Wo bist du gegangen?
Viel arschlöcher hier.
Es ist scheiße. ¢
😢 ma pauvre... Je te laisser toute seule! Je suis allé à la France et Espagne avec mon mari. Tu me manques 😄
You know... I'm trying to learn German right now! But it is SOOOOO hard for me. I'm going super slow!! Hahahahahaha...
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Meh... I am unloved ¡
German isn't too bad but Chinese is a damn site easier to learn and talk. It's very literal.
My German is crap and I should have done better as I'm part German. It's all those der, die, and das that did my head in. After three years of learning it as school I still can't string a verbal sentence together as confidently as I should. After two days of Chinese I can put sentences together although I need to work on the accent and tones more but hey, they don't expect a white, western chick to speak Chinese do anything is good and it gives them a great laugh!!
So you are telling us not to give up on mr. Slower-than-a-turtle? Once hot and once cold? Us scorpios are very impatient.. Need to feel admired and wanted or else we lose our confidence and seek for it somewhere else..why this cold and hot thing though? Do you like to be hunted or do the hunting?
I am a Libra, and I honestly I feel attracted a lot by either Scorpio, Taurus or Virgo women both in personality and physically. For me they are the best and for some reason, I seem to attract a lot Scorpio, Taurus and Virgo women. I guess because of my Scorpio ascendant and my dominant sign in my natal chart is Scorpio.
With fire or air sign women, very rarely I feel attracted to them.
Cheers
Posted by Tapatio89
I am a Libra, and I honestly I feel attracted a lot by either Scorpio, Taurus or Virgo women both in personality and physically. For me they are the best and for some reason, I seem to attract a lot Scorpio, Taurus and Virgo women. I guess because of my Scorpio ascendant and my dominant sign in my natal chart is Scorpio.With fire or air sign women, very rarely I feel attracted to them.
Cheers
Scorp rising probably helps but where's your Venus? Is it Scorp?
AgentP911, My Venus is also in Scorpio and falls in my 1st house
Why are Taurus men so shy ? I'm a Scorpio woman and I've observed it so much. He's also bipolar. One day he wouldn't refrain himself from staring at me and the other day, he won't even bother looking at me. It's an on and off thing. Even if he sneaks a glance at me, he does it subtly, not really giving away the fact that he's interested in me. But, I've caught him too many times to know what he's up to.
I'm an old Taurus male. I'm friends with a young (18) Scorpio female. She's Magic and I trust her judgement completely, NEVER asking questions. I wish I had met her in a different time, when we were BOTH young. I've shared my feelings with her about relationship fears. I'm sooo afraid of the heartbreak of a failed relationship, that I simply avoid women. Magic is the only women I allow to get close.
Posted by jensen514
I'm an old Taurus male. I'm friends with a young (18) Scorpio female. She's Magic and I trust her judgement completely, NEVER asking questions. I wish I had met her in a different time, when we were BOTH young. I've shared my feelings with her about relationship fears. I'm sooo afraid of the heartbreak of a failed relationship, that I simply avoid women. Magic is the only women I allow to get close.
You're gross.
Posted by jensen514
I'm an old Taurus male. I'm friends with a young (18) Scorpio female. She's Magic and I trust her judgement completely, NEVER asking questions. I wish I had met her in a different time, when we were BOTH young. I've shared my feelings with her about relationship fears. I'm sooo afraid of the heartbreak of a failed relationship, that I simply avoid women. Magic is the only women I allow to get close.Come on!! She is still a teen! Be masculine and man enough to find a woman your own age!
Being "afraid" is another area where taurus men along with the other feminine signs begin to show their feminity!!! That's for a "big girl's blouse"!!!
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I bet you he's like 58 and met her when she was 10.
I'm betting 40's.
i'll throw my hat in to the ring with a guess of mid fifties.
Hey read your article. Impressive. And I don't say this often.would like to have a conversation with you.
Why are you digging this out, @TLS are you back or under a different name?
What's age got to do with it? Alot...
Posted by TaurusLox
Scorpio woman will take you on a Journey you'll never forget 😉..
I always notice
TLS was really good giv8ng advice Idk him well. But enough to notice he probably living life with the Scorpio in love. .
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
TLS was really good giv8ng advice Idk him well. But enough to notice he probably living life with the Scorpio in love. .Lol why does everyone always root for him ending up with the Scorpio?
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Because we are all romantics on these boards and are always rooting for love to conquer all......... 😛 I think I should probably quit drinking so much this early!! 😄
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
TLS was really good giv8ng advice Idk him well. But enough to notice he probably living life with the Scorpio in love. .Lol why does everyone always root for him ending up with the Scorpio?
Because we are all romantics on these boards and are always rooting for love to conquer all......... 😛 I think I should probably quit drinking so much this early!! 😄
The thing is he was happy with his Sag woman but everyone kept telling him to go back to his Scorpio ex
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Probably should have read all of it......... ha! I'm with you on this, stay where you're happy but if your questioning your decisions about the ex, then are you truly happy where you are at - maybe everyone is really doing the sag the favor, she deserves someone that doesn't doubt being with her?!
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
TLS was really good giv8ng advice Idk him well. But enough to notice he probably living life with the Scorpio in love. .Lol why does everyone always root for him ending up with the Scorpio?
Because we are all romantics on these boards and are always rooting for love to conquer all......... 😛 I think I should probably quit drinking so much this early!! 😄
The thing is he was happy with his Sag woman but everyone kept telling him to go back to his Scorpio ex
Probably should have read all of it......... ha! I'm with you on this, stay where you're happy but if your questioning your decisions about the ex, then are you truly happy where you are at - maybe everyone is really doing the sag the favor, she deserves someone that doesn't doubt being with her?!
Yeah that was the line of thinking around his posts here, too. But I can honestly say from TLS' posts I never got the impression he was anything less than at peace with where he was and enjoying life with his Sag. He was a very calm and thoughtful character. It would be good to see him come back.
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agreed. i think he is better off with the sag. she is stable. the scorp was excitement for a time there. he seems devoted to the sag and the life he has made with her. good for him. he deserves every happiness. (as do you tiz 😉)
@Tiziani- when i first started here. That's what it seemed like and it was all sorts of questions pertaining to those two signs taurus and Scorpio only. He had Taurus and VIG and his lady had something else I forgot. But he was still knowledgeable and made it work
Lol
I would have done exactly the same thing and not get my ass off the couch.
That's so awesome. I love that pic.
Posted by whatthecrab
I'm glad the topic starter was mature enough to NOT seek out his hearts desire, or follow his whims at every twist and turn. He values loyalty and commitment. He understands that it was just an attraction, sexual chemistry at most. It happens. At least he didn't put himself in a position to act on it, which is fucking admirable btw.
We really should be high fiving him for not giving in to temptation... because in the long run, commitment in a stable and healthy relationship is more rewarding than chasing infatuations.
We're on the same page, and I think he made the right decision for himself.
I don't believe that everlasting desire with a person is realistic or possible. Generally, it's a novelty that inevitably levels off (though not completely). Being so, I'd take loyalty and stability over passion, excitement and that uncertainty of not knowing what's next to come, any day.
I mean, I understand that there are those who find the dramatic path more fulfilling, but let's not assume that the more placid of us (OP, for instance) are any less fulfilled or happy.
I like TLS and probably would have lost respect for him, had he ditched the Sag, to be honest. That kind of self-restraint and discipline is so rare these days.
Posted by EnochtheWise If someone you were with, felt this way for another, would you set them free?
Set him free of what? He'd always been free.
Loyalty is a choice, not a requirement. Infidelity wouldn't exist, otherwise.
lmao i didn't even get to the part where he had a sag gf. i thought that came much after this saga.
Posted by firebunny
lmao i didn't even get to the part where he had a sag gf. i thought that came much after this saga.
. He revealed after his fantasy being judged. lol. I love Tls .
What's up about taurus this month. My ex kept viewing my profile. I don't know other than. Nothing. Simply wondering.
Posted by firebunny
I would have done exactly the same thing and not get my ass off the couch.So it looks like he was not serious with the Sag, and she was just kinda an option or they were on and off, maybe she was even in the harem, when this started. And as it dragged on, he felt the pressure to commit more and more to the Sag, ultimately choosing her. Sounds a lot like it was obligation. He wanted to be a man of principle and stick to his word, and see himself as faithful on paper rather than follow his heart.
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or we're just lazy and risk averse

daniel day lewis as tauruslovesscorpio
Posted by whatthecrab
I'm glad the topic starter was mature enough to NOT seek out his hearts desire, or follow his whims at every twist and turn. He values loyalty and commitment. He understands that it was just an attraction, sexual chemistry at most. It happens. At least he didn't put himself in a position to act on it, which is fucking admirable btw.
We really should be high fiving him for not giving in to temptation... because in the long run, commitment in a stable and healthy relationship is more rewarding than chasing infatuations.We're on the same page, and I think he made the right decision for himself.
I don't believe that everlasting desire with a person is realistic or possible. Generally, it's a novelty that inevitably levels off (though not completely). Being so, I'd take loyalty and stability over passion, excitement and that uncertainty of not knowing what's next to come, any day.
I mean, I understand that there are those who find the dramatic path more fulfilling, but let's not assume that the more placid of us (OP, for instance) are any less fulfilled or happy.
I like TLS and probably would have lost respect for him, had he ditched the Sag, to be honest. That kind of self-restraint and discipline is so rare these days.
To me it looks like people in this thread use TLS' crush as a cathartic way to relive theirs, vicariously.. through his experience.
BRAVO!
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i've never had a crush like this. TLS is inspirational for even more pragmatic bulls like me. i know what can hook me but it isn't taurus related at all. it's mars related for me but i won't speak of it here coz my mars is in scorpio.
@Instantkarma
i do not believe he was. even when i knew him here i remember he just had a sag gf. he might be married now as impulsv mentioned.
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There you go. It sounded and looked more like a vent hence why I asked if there was a question pending somewhere. Glad you felt better. Sometimes we don't have the luxury of talking to someone in person to get things off our chests or to sound things out. I swear this forum is like free therapy... Yeah, my sarcasm works wonders... I don't look good in a tutu though but I wouldn't mind some fairy dust!!