When a bull

Decides to give up but the other person is still their weakness. Also the bull realizes that the person didnt deserve him at all. What would happen?

What should the other person do to fix this relationship?

@ands: ROFL xD old but gold 😛

@tiziani:thanks for the tip 😄

The thing is, if we have invested time and effort into this, then you remain our weakness for ever... This only changes if the reason for parting ways was way off. ie infidelity and even then there is always the chance of getting that person back.

Also, we can't think ourselves better than anyone else. So saying that he realized you don't deserve him is not a reality. It might come from other people telling him that (I know) but it isn't his conviction. As a matter of fact, we feel that it is actually the other way round... That things didn't work out because we don't deserve you...

So, here is my take on how to get back into it. Firstly, if there is no hard felt feelings, unnecessary cuts and bruises then you need to get back to your roots. Get back to how you met, the feeling, the sensation, the friendly coy behaviors, the silly fun things. The subtle hints and gestures, the little games and laughter.

The reason is, this is what draw us to you in the first place. We love it, and in that, that is where we see what we want. The beauty, the attraction the perfect reality. This is what melts us (or me at least hehehe). Recently I have had this same experience, actually, even better, but nevertheless at heart that is who we are. 🙂

Hope that helps. 😄 😉

@OmagaIII: No infidelity on my part but remember when i PMed you about this? Im still having issues. I wish i didnt know

In the same situation as you aftershine.... except mine is thousands of miles away from me now...went to work today to see his desk empty (he was right next to me). He left me a heartbroken letter which I red so many time...I just don't know what to do anymore...