waterbearer_fem
@waterbearer_fem
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Why are you moody af?
hahaha this makes me laugh,
I wish I could just say this point blank to my boyfriend when he seems moody AF
(straight faces, moody eye brows, silent, short worded, no word to speak, but conversation to offer)
seriously when I ask, "are you ok?" its always the same, yeah im just chillin.
but what I can understand about my and most Taurus, they can consume a lot of negative or stressful energy about things and they need to turn off sometime which requires them to need some type of mental space. and if you are in their space at this time, just let them be, the tend to snap out of it with time. you just have to be willing to ignore it and not let it effect you. ive never experienced any disrespect when he gets this way, just feel personal about it like its directed to me, which I may or may not be, ill never know, nor will I care once he snaps out of it.
I wish I could just say this point blank to my boyfriend when he seems moody AF
(straight faces, moody eye brows, silent, short worded, no word to speak, but conversation to offer)
seriously when I ask, "are you ok?" its always the same, yeah im just chillin.
but what I can understand about my and most Taurus, they can consume a lot of negative or stressful energy about things and they need to turn off sometime which requires them to need some type of mental space. and if you are in their space at this time, just let them be, the tend to snap out of it with time. you just have to be willing to ignore it and not let it effect you. ive never experienced any disrespect when he gets this way, just feel personal about it like its directed to me, which I may or may not be, ill never know, nor will I care once he snaps out of it.
don't take it personally, it's what happens when they internalise too much stuff. you've got two options; leave them be or....
distract them.
distract them.
Thank you both, yeah, I get that.
I know him quite well by now and I usually stay calm and let him have his way when he acts like a spoilt diva, I'm no drama queen. I wish he could just be a little bit more relaxed at times. And it's annoying that little things can be so overwhelming. I'll never get used to that. 🙄
I know him quite well by now and I usually stay calm and let him have his way when he acts like a spoilt diva, I'm no drama queen. I wish he could just be a little bit more relaxed at times. And it's annoying that little things can be so overwhelming. I'll never get used to that. 🙄
Posted by waterbearer_femjust don't take yourself seriously in that moment. i normally pull a face or do something stupid, call him by his pet name, anything to make him laugh and then he snaps out of it.
Thank you both, yeah, I get that.
I know him quite well by now and I usually stay calm and let him have his way when he acts like a spoilt diva, I'm no drama queen. I wish he could just be a little bit more relaxed at times. And it's annoying that little things can be so overwhelming. I'll never get used to that. 🙄
Posted by jeane
don't take it personally, it's what happens when they internalise too much stuff. you've got two options; leave them be or....
distract them.
Best idea of course, but his mood makes it a bit difficult for me to go straight into distraction. 😉
Posted by jeanePosted by waterbearer_fem
Thank you both, yeah, I get that.
I know him quite well by now and I usually stay calm and let him have his way when he acts like a spoilt diva, I'm no drama queen. I wish he could just be a little bit more relaxed at times. And it's annoying that little things can be so overwhelming. I'll never get used to that. 🙄
just don't take yourself seriously in that moment. i normally pull a face or do something stupid, call him by his pet name, anything to make him laugh and then he snaps out of it. click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
Thanks, I'm trying. I'm already better at taking me out of his mood swings immediately and don't make a fuss about it... Just acting normal. But can't hide completely that it's still irritating me.
Posted by waterbearer_femPosted by jeane
don't take it personally, it's what happens when they internalise too much stuff. you've got two options; leave them be or....
distract them.
Best idea of course, but his mood makes it a bit difficult for me to go straight into distraction. 😉 click to expandclick to expand
hey, doesn't have to be dirty!
food, jokes, flash a boob...all tried and tested...
Idk. We just do.
And then we feel bad about feeling bad. So then we feel worse.
Buy him some ice cream. He'll be good.
And then we feel bad about feeling bad. So then we feel worse.
Buy him some ice cream. He'll be good.
Posted by jeanelolPosted by waterbearer_femhey, doesn't have to be dirty!Posted by jeane
don't take it personally, it's what happens when they internalise too much stuff. you've got two options; leave them be or....
distract them.
Best idea of course, but his mood makes it a bit difficult for me to go straight into distraction. 😉 click to expand
food, jokes, flash a boob...all tried and tested...click to expand
Posted by waterbearer_femTell me more bout this neighbor that appeared - I sense that may have been the wrench in the gears - but I might be wrong. I don't like it but it's who/how I am - if someone calls or bothers me too much without a pre-arrangement; I am not always able to handle that well. I don't mean a SO; I'm talking outside person like a neighbor or a telemarketer or my insurance agent calling me at 9pm on a Friday night to go over my policy. I told him to call back some other time and he never did. He seemed appalled that he couldn't talk to me and said oh this isn't a good time and I said no it isn't. And don't get me started on telemarketers. LOL
Just spent a great afternoon with my bull at his place - he bought me a bottle of Champagne bc I've helped him with something work related, he cooked, sunny day, dolce vita. We planned to make a short trip at the weekend. Everything's fine! A neighbor lending him a hand with some crafting at his property appeared - boom, the party was crashed. Sudden switch of mood out of apparently nothing.. Too noisy, too stressful was the only explanation. He offered me to bring me back home, what he did. Wtf.
Why are you so damn moody? What throws you for a loop? It's a pattern and it's kinda annoying and frustrating... I just don't get it. I'm just trying to not take it too personal.
Posted by TaurusFlower22you are so right lol we don't like it then we feel bad and if we say something it comes out wrong and then we really look awful lol - it's a conundrum lol
Idk. We just do.
And then we feel bad about feeling bad. So then we feel worse.
Buy him some ice cream. He'll be good.
I've gotten better at this the older I've gotten - or maybe it's just that IDGAF anymore
Posted by tctaaSame here!Posted by TaurusFlower22
Idk. We just do.
And then we feel bad about feeling bad. So then we feel worse.
Buy him some ice cream. He'll be good.
you are so right lol we don't like it then we feel bad and if we say something it comes out wrong and then we really look awful lol - it's a conundrum lol
I've gotten better at this the older I've gotten - or maybe it's just that IDGAF anymore click to expandclick to expand
Posted by waterbearer_femI can’t deal with that. Wasting my time I’d leave.
Thank you both, yeah, I get that.
I know him quite well by now and I usually stay calm and let him have his way when he acts like a spoilt diva, I'm no drama queen. I wish he could just be a little bit more relaxed at times. And it's annoying that little things can be so overwhelming. I'll never get used to that. 🙄
Posted by TaurusFlower22Ugh this is so true.Posted by tctaaPosted by TaurusFlower22
Idk. We just do.
And then we feel bad about feeling bad. So then we feel worse.
Buy him some ice cream. He'll be good.
you are so right lol we don't like it then we feel bad and if we say something it comes out wrong and then we really look awful lol - it's a conundrum lol
I've gotten better at this the older I've gotten - or maybe it's just that IDGAF anymore click to expand
Same here!
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I'm so hard on myself for even getting mad/upset to begin with.
Then I feel really bad and end up in a pissed off at myself spiral.
(BTW this is me currently)
Posted by Boots1313I'm feeling this way too right now. When it happens I just wanna be by myself. Don't want my moodiness to rub off on anyone or offend anyone.Posted by TaurusFlower22Posted by tctaaPosted by TaurusFlower22
Idk. We just do.
And then we feel bad about feeling bad. So then we feel worse.
Buy him some ice cream. He'll be good.
you are so right lol we don't like it then we feel bad and if we say something it comes out wrong and then we really look awful lol - it's a conundrum lol
I've gotten better at this the older I've gotten - or maybe it's just that IDGAF anymore click to expand
Same here!
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Ugh this is so true.
I'm so hard on myself for even getting mad/upset to begin with.
Then I feel really bad and end up in a pissed off at myself spiral.
(BTW this is me currently) click to expandclick to expand
Posted by TaurusFlower22Posted by Boots1313Posted by TaurusFlower22Posted by tctaaPosted by TaurusFlower22
Idk. We just do.
And then we feel bad about feeling bad. So then we feel worse.
Buy him some ice cream. He'll be good.
you are so right lol we don't like it then we feel bad and if we say something it comes out wrong and then we really look awful lol - it's a conundrum lol
I've gotten better at this the older I've gotten - or maybe it's just that IDGAF anymore click to expand
Same here!
click to expand
Ugh this is so true.
I'm so hard on myself for even getting mad/upset to begin with.
Then I feel really bad and end up in a pissed off at myself spiral.
(BTW this is me currently) click to expand
I'm feeling this way too right now. When it happens I just wanna be by myself. Don't want my moodiness to rub off on anyone or offend anyone. click to expandclick to expand
Lol maybe it's a Taurus thing today, my boyfriend is moody also. We're all a buncha moody mofos
Because we're a fixed sign. Stubborn, hard to move. Set in our ways. Blunt and we don't play games.
If we don't like a situation we have no poker face.
I sit there and stew with a resting bitxh face the whole time.
If we don't like a situation we have no poker face.
I sit there and stew with a resting bitxh face the whole time.
You know, I was wondering why a lot of ppl in my office (including my boss) were in a funk today. They're Taureans! Like 85% of my workplace lol
Is the neighbor female with a tight ass?
Posted by LadyNeptuneWouldn't that make him happy and not moody?
Is the neighbor female with a tight ass?
That would make OP moody
🤷♂️ I blame my cancer venus and mars.
Posted by TellMeImPrettyhe just stared at her like she wasn't there ? you mean looked through her lol - that bull stare and they will do that since he hasn't found his voice yet - not me now, I would pitch a bitch with that stare - why do you say that he is stubborn ? your friend is rude and obnoxious and I would have called her a taxi and told her to go somewhere else to act immature
They are so possessive and territorial that when people encroach on their space or possessions?? And if they don’t even like that person!? Yikes... bad mix for a bull. Had a similar situation over the weekend with my Taurus. I threw him a big birthday party with like 30 people at my place, and as per usual my Gemini friend was being a bit of an oblivious wreck. She broke her vape and stole my bull’s for the *entire* night. Drained the battery twice. Stole my Leo friend’s Taurus bf’s shoes to go outside with (he was fuming). And then decided to go up to my bedroom and sleep in my bed while the Taurus and I slept on separate couches downstairs.
The man was not happy. I mean rightfully so, but she apologized to him the next morning and he just stared at her like she wasn’t even there. Stubborn.
Posted by TellMeImPrettyyeah but she got the message the next morning - I would have straightened that shyte out that night - I'd be daymed if some little twit slept in my bed - she would be carted off into another room lolPosted by tctaaPosted by TellMeImPretty
They are so possessive and territorial that when people encroach on their space or possessions?? And if they don’t even like that person!? Yikes... bad mix for a bull. Had a similar situation over the weekend with my Taurus. I threw him a big birthday party with like 30 people at my place, and as per usual my Gemini friend was being a bit of an oblivious wreck. She broke her vape and stole my bull’s for the *entire* night. Drained the battery twice. Stole my Leo friend’s Taurus bf’s shoes to go outside with (he was fuming). And then decided to go up to my bedroom and sleep in my bed while the Taurus and I slept on separate couches downstairs.
The man was not happy. I mean rightfully so, but she apologized to him the next morning and he just stared at her like she wasn’t even there. Stubborn.
he just stared at her like she wasn't there ? you mean looked through her lol - that bull stare and they will do that since he hasn't found his voice yet - not me now, I would pitch a cookiemonster with that stare - why do you say that he is stubborn ? your friend is rude and obnoxious and I would have called her a taxi and told her to go somewhere else to act immature click to expand
Lol... he was trying to keep the peace. But I mean, she got the message.click to expand
Posted by TellMeImPrettylol yeah that would have been huge lolPosted by tctaaPosted by TellMeImPrettyPosted by tctaaPosted by TellMeImPretty
They are so possessive and territorial that when people encroach on their space or possessions?? And if they don’t even like that person!? Yikes... bad mix for a bull. Had a similar situation over the weekend with my Taurus. I threw him a big birthday party with like 30 people at my place, and as per usual my Gemini friend was being a bit of an oblivious wreck. She broke her vape and stole my bull’s for the *entire* night. Drained the battery twice. Stole my Leo friend’s Taurus bf’s shoes to go outside with (he was fuming). And then decided to go up to my bedroom and sleep in my bed while the Taurus and I slept on separate couches downstairs.
The man was not happy. I mean rightfully so, but she apologized to him the next morning and he just stared at her like she wasn’t even there. Stubborn.
he just stared at her like she wasn't there ? you mean looked through her lol - that bull stare and they will do that since he hasn't found his voice yet - not me now, I would pitch a cookiemonster with that stare - why do you say that he is stubborn ? your friend is rude and obnoxious and I would have called her a taxi and told her to go somewhere else to act immature click to expand
Lol... he was trying to keep the peace. But I mean, she got the message.
yeah but she got the message the next morning - I would have straightened that shyte out that night - I'd be daymed if some little twit slept in my bed - she would be carted off into another room lol click to expand
It was honestly the dumbest situation of my life. I had to stop him from causing a big thing at like 4 am lol.click to expand
Posted by TellMeImPrettylol that's good - he's growing into himselfPosted by tctaaPosted by TellMeImPrettyPosted by tctaaPosted by TellMeImPrettyPosted by tctaaPosted by TellMeImPretty
They are so possessive and territorial that when people encroach on their space or possessions?? And if they don’t even like that person!? Yikes... bad mix for a bull. Had a similar situation over the weekend with my Taurus. I threw him a big birthday party with like 30 people at my place, and as per usual my Gemini friend was being a bit of an oblivious wreck. She broke her vape and stole my bull’s for the *entire* night. Drained the battery twice. Stole my Leo friend’s Taurus bf’s shoes to go outside with (he was fuming). And then decided to go up to my bedroom and sleep in my bed while the Taurus and I slept on separate couches downstairs.
The man was not happy. I mean rightfully so, but she apologized to him the next morning and he just stared at her like she wasn’t even there. Stubborn.
he just stared at her like she wasn't there ? you mean looked through her lol - that bull stare and they will do that since he hasn't found his voice yet - not me now, I would pitch a cookiemonster with that stare - why do you say that he is stubborn ? your friend is rude and obnoxious and I would have called her a taxi and told her to go somewhere else to act immature click to expand
Lol... he was trying to keep the peace. But I mean, she got the message.
yeah but she got the message the next morning - I would have straightened that shyte out that night - I'd be daymed if some little twit slept in my bed - she would be carted off into another room lol click to expand
It was honestly the dumbest situation of my life. I had to stop him from causing a big thing at like 4 am lol.
lol yeah that would have been huge lol click to expand
I’m extremely passive, and he’s extremly not passive ... so we have to work together sometimes haha. It’s called balanceclick to expand
Posted by Boots1313Posted by TaurusFlower22Posted by Boots1313Posted by TaurusFlower22Posted by tctaaPosted by TaurusFlower22
Idk. We just do.
And then we feel bad about feeling bad. So then we feel worse.
Buy him some ice cream. He'll be good.
you are so right lol we don't like it then we feel bad and if we say something it comes out wrong and then we really look awful lol - it's a conundrum lol
I've gotten better at this the older I've gotten - or maybe it's just that IDGAF anymore click to expand
Same here!
click to expand
Ugh this is so true.
I'm so hard on myself for even getting mad/upset to begin with.
Then I feel really bad and end up in a pissed off at myself spiral.
(BTW this is me currently) click to expand
I'm feeling this way too right now. When it happens I just wanna be by myself. Don't want my moodiness to rub off on anyone or offend anyone. click to expand
Lol maybe it's a Taurus thing today, my boyfriend is moody also. We're all a buncha moody mofos click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
Thanks guys, you made me laugh so hard! It's very calming to know you're all a bunch of moody mofos! 😂
I can definitely sense that he feels worse when he sees he's making me mad bc of putting up a fuss. Hard to be angry at you when you're mad at yourself!
Posted by Boots1313
Because we're a fixed sign. Stubborn, hard to move. Set in our ways. Blunt and we don't play games.
If we don't like a situation we have no poker face.
I sit there and stew with a resting bitxh face the whole time.
I'm also a fixed sign and he doesn't lack Air placements either... Nonetheless he can be so caught in a situation there's no way out. I can be pissed but shake it off in an instant if I want to.
Posted by LadyNeptuneNo, that would have explained everything.
Is the neighbor female with a tight ass?
Posted by tctaaPosted by waterbearer_fem
Just spent a great afternoon with my bull at his place - he bought me a bottle of Champagne bc I've helped him with something work related, he cooked, sunny day, dolce vita. We planned to make a short trip at the weekend. Everything's fine! A neighbor lending him a hand with some crafting at his property appeared - boom, the party was crashed. Sudden switch of mood out of apparently nothing.. Too noisy, too stressful was the only explanation. He offered me to bring me back home, what he did. Wtf.
Why are you so damn moody? What throws you for a loop? It's a pattern and it's kinda annoying and frustrating... I just don't get it. I'm just trying to not take it too personal.
Tell me more bout this neighbor that appeared - I sense that may have been the wrench in the gears - but I might be wrong. I don't like it but it's who/how I am - if someone calls or bothers me too much without a pre-arrangement; I am not always able to handle that well. I don't mean a SO; I'm talking outside person like a neighbor or a telemarketer or my insurance agent calling me at 9pm on a Friday night to go over my policy. I told him to call back some other time and he never did. He seemed appalled that he couldn't talk to me and said oh this isn't a good time and I said no it isn't. And don't get me started on telemarketers. LOL
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The guy's just some kind of a gardener, tends the trees, trims the lawn etc., no red rag usually. But yeah, probably a mix of bad timing and unannounced distraction. You can definitely rain on the bull's parade just by crossing his way if he didn't choose to cross yours.
hahahaha...this just cracked me up
rule number one (and i cannot stress this enough)...when it comes to taurus men:
DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL
if you were great 5 sec before his mood completely turns....let him be...go do your own thing
let the man just bounce back in peace...
and whateverrrr you do....dont make it about you....reallllyyy
love mr.bull...we mutually agreed, without saying it, we go by day and see how it goes...cause we have a complicated situation
but we even been through a long period without being able to contact
and we are still going strong. he is my besttttttttttt budddyyyyyyy......love him to pieces. he is such a support
he is amazing.....fascinating
and sometimes he drops of the face of the earth.not for long
we are not perfect
sometimes i stress........but then i think back of everything he ever said to me
what we've been through in such a short period of time
and if he wouldnt give a damn
he would have left by now
taurus is really not so complicated
actually they are practical and amazing people
earth......grounded
no chitchatters
dont like dramaaaa at all
loves intensly
is very passionate
if you want passion ladies then you also need to be able to deal with everrrrything passionate
so when he is distracted by things that need to be solved....if he needs to "empty his bucket" cause its been a bit much
let him be.......dont hold it against him cause to be honest, thats not fair...everybody has their own way of dealing with things
he has a right to space. so do we at times
when it comes to ladies that: not been loyal, see him as an option, lied to him....tried to make him jealous...yeahhh uhhhhh taurus doesnt care for childish games.....and i agree on that
play fair and honest, you get fair and honest
simple
rule number one (and i cannot stress this enough)...when it comes to taurus men:
DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL
if you were great 5 sec before his mood completely turns....let him be...go do your own thing
let the man just bounce back in peace...
and whateverrrr you do....dont make it about you....reallllyyy
love mr.bull...we mutually agreed, without saying it, we go by day and see how it goes...cause we have a complicated situation
but we even been through a long period without being able to contact
and we are still going strong. he is my besttttttttttt budddyyyyyyy......love him to pieces. he is such a support
he is amazing.....fascinating
and sometimes he drops of the face of the earth.not for long
we are not perfect
sometimes i stress........but then i think back of everything he ever said to me
what we've been through in such a short period of time
and if he wouldnt give a damn
he would have left by now
taurus is really not so complicated
actually they are practical and amazing people
earth......grounded
no chitchatters
dont like dramaaaa at all
loves intensly
is very passionate
if you want passion ladies then you also need to be able to deal with everrrrything passionate
so when he is distracted by things that need to be solved....if he needs to "empty his bucket" cause its been a bit much
let him be.......dont hold it against him cause to be honest, thats not fair...everybody has their own way of dealing with things
he has a right to space. so do we at times
when it comes to ladies that: not been loyal, see him as an option, lied to him....tried to make him jealous...yeahhh uhhhhh taurus doesnt care for childish games.....and i agree on that
play fair and honest, you get fair and honest
simple
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