WHAT IS THIS TAURUS DISAPEARING THING—

DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We get very close, do everything together for weeks and then he without word, freaking leaves for a few days to a week, then shows up again like nothing is wrong. When he returns he asks if im mad or anything? I say "no i was a little worried you were ok or not"....he says..."yeah just had to go home for a while and take care of stuff".....so he is hot and cold and i am confused...wtf?

Karma? what the?

could be booty call....i know for fact there isnt anyone else...just why does he freak out and then leave and then stay for weeks? wouldnt a booty call get a peice and leave?

#1... U need to straight up n tell him what u want. U guys aren't exclusive so he can do whatever..
#2 sometimes we need alone time to recharge n figure problems or emotions we bn holding inside n figure it out.

#3 also look at ur behavior or words... Sometimes water signs are a bit strong n all that passion sometimes drain us so we need a breather at times to strengthen back up so we can continue to be solid against everything to come along...

My bf is a cancer and sometimes he says things that rubs me the wrong way. He isn't doing it on purpose or mean any harm but sometimes I have to be alone so I can process it n deal with any negative feelings.

Speculating makes you crazy.
I think the best way to deal with that is calling him out for that. That can have many reasons, maybe he needs to distance to do his assessing thing,
or he is scared or he is part of some cia experiment or he has a second secret life as a hitman or he knows that you have feelings but he doesnt whatever. Just tell him that he can have his space and you dont pressure him but he should at least vanish with some sort of explanation.

To you he is hot and cold, to him he is just acting normal. There is not a problem here until you make it one.

Why do you even respond to people that are seeking advice? (Rhetorical) you're a very strange chic and should keep your strange comments to yourself. ðŸ‘ðŸ½

Posted by Shashkay
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yes he truly acts as if this is normal

Why are you yelling calm the hell down.

Posted by Islandgal24
Why do you even respond to people that are seeking advice? (Rhetorical) you're a very strange chic and should keep your strange comments to yourself. ðŸ‘ðŸ½

Posted by Shashkay
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Leave her alone.

hahaha wth? LOL

Posted by Parkourler
Speculating makes you crazy.
I think the best way to deal with that is calling him out for that. That can have many reasons, maybe he needs to distance to do his assessing thing,
or he is scared or he is part of some cia experiment or he has a second secret life as a hitman or he knows that you have feelings but he doesnt whatever. Just tell him that he can have his space and you dont pressure him but he should at least vanish with some sort of explanation.

Are you a Taurus?

yes

Posted by ellynac
could be booty call....i know for fact there isnt anyone else...just why does he freak out and then leave and then stay for weeks? wouldnt a booty call get a peice and leave?

Ahh no if it has been expressed that Taurus are not ready for anything serious we can have fun for along time without strings attached.

So what is it you really want from him?

I truly would like a explanation. It doesnt have to be heavy or made up or whatever...just that he needs to go for a while or whatever. I know if I did that to him he would FREAK
He did mention he was getting scared of this whole thing acting like his job isnt good enough to take care o us and crap...but I make enough for both of us he doesnt even need to work..he also said his feelings are too strong then he leaves ok thank you very much wtf

I want to know where I stand with him. He acts like im everything and we are inseparable and then he pulls this crap

Posted by ellynac
I truly would like a explanation. It doesnt have to be heavy or made up or whatever...just that he needs to go for a while or whatever. I know if I did that to him he would FREAK
He did mention he was getting scared of this whole thing acting like his job isnt good enough to take care o us and crap...but I make enough for both of us he doesnt even need to work..he also said his feelings are too strong then he leaves ok thank you very much wtf

Okay what was the conversation like? And I'm telling you if he is having a hard time in life with work or family. He won't make a move like jump into a relationship. So just be friends from a far and see where it goes later. Right now he may be focused on something else.

are taurus guys game players? mess with your head? Cuz I dont do that crap

ok sounds good thank you 🙂

Posted by ellynac
I truly would like a explanation. It doesnt have to be heavy or made up or whatever...just that he needs to go for a while or whatever. I know if I did that to him he would FREAK
He did mention he was getting scared of this whole thing acting like his job isnt good enough to take care o us and crap...but I make enough for both of us he doesnt even need to work..he also said his feelings are too strong then he leaves ok thank you very much wtf

Okay I'll take you I'm ready haha. Jk. No but seriously he's going through something and you have to be there to support him as best but stay strong.

ok well so can us scorps, just need clarity...this helps

And no don't play mind games like that. Just if something comes up where someone is making more than a taurus maybe he thinks you're too good and will leave him.

he says its finances hmmm well, I hope he doesnt have a cow when i start having fun too

What does your chart look like? And his?

oh wow ok...makes sense. I do make alot and he actually complains about it

i dont know what the chart is

Did he at all say no I'm not ready for a relationship?

Im october 27 he is april 23
I think he is still in retrograde thats what ive heard or whatever

Yeah absolute truth

That's cool he's a first decan Taurus like me.

Maybe just be friends for now the both of you should think about what yall want. And maybe with for this retrograde to pass over. It is taking atoll on me and others.

he said that the first time we were together...weird as soon as we were done he jumped up and said we arent in a realtionship...and i was like ummmm yeah i know what the hell?

whoa i need to undertsnd that type of taurus...oh yes and then months later he was talking about our future and crap

So he spends long periods of time with you, weeks even, and then is gone for a few days to a week. I don't really see an issue, maybe he needs that time to focus on work more or something.

could be...but his communication sucks

Yea that sucks but maybe he needs that time to himself. Some people are just like that. What does he do?

carpenter...does cabinets etc... Im a ER nurse

wonder why he bottles up so much?

Perhaps he needs that time to cool down from all the feels. Doesn't want things to urn out too quickly. Do you try contacting him through these times and he just doesn't respond?

Well sometimes he did that, but most of the time I dont contact him...most of the time he just shows up

People come here for advice and she's full of sarcasm. Example one::: I asked for advice on a name for a business in the beauty industry. Her comment was Venusian Beauty. I then saw someone start a Venusian Beauty thread In the Taurus column. So what are her intentions, when as I said people come for advice?

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Posted by Islandgal24
Why do you even respond to people that are seeking advice? (Rhetorical) you're a very strange chic and should keep your strange comments to yourself. ðŸ‘ðŸ½

Posted by Shashkay
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Leave her alone.

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Well at least he shows up. LOL.

Posted by Islandgal24
Just saying. People come here for advice and she's full of sarcasm. Example one::: I asked for advice on a name for a business in the beauty industry. Her comment was Venusian Beauty. I then saw someone start a Venusian Beauty thread In the Taurus column. So what are her intentions, when as I said people come for advice?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by Islandgal24
Why do you even respond to people that are seeking advice? (Rhetorical) you're a very strange chic and should keep your strange comments to yourself. ðŸ‘ðŸ½

Posted by Shashkay
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Leave her alone.

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Haha I seen it. I know.

Posted by ellynac
Well sometimes he did that, but most of the time I dont contact him...most of the time he just shows up

If he has mercury in taurus and you have opposite of that it shows in this retrograde we going through.

I mean it shows alot. Even without the retrograde. Haha

Posted by ellynac
DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We get very close, do everything together for weeks and then he without word, freaking leaves for a few days to a week, then shows up again like nothing is wrong. When he returns he asks if im mad or anything? I say "no i was a little worried you were ok or not"....he says..."yeah just had to go home for a while and take care of stuff".....so he is hot and cold and i am confused...wtf?

Sounds like he likes to spend time with u & the sex is good but from what I'm reading here he's either a commitment phobe or just doesn't want to be committed to u

Posted by Islandgal24
Why do you even respond to people that are seeking advice? (Rhetorical) you're a very strange chic and should keep your strange comments to yourself. ðŸ‘ðŸ½

Posted by Shashkay
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HEY! Leave her alone! 👊ðŸ½

Posted by ellynac
DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We get very close, do everything together for weeks and then he without word, freaking leaves for a few days to a week, then shows up again like nothing is wrong. When he returns he asks if im mad or anything? I say "no i was a little worried you were ok or not"....he says..."yeah just had to go home for a while and take care of stuff".....so he is hot and cold and i am confused...wtf?

Sounds like he likes to spend time with u & the sex is good but from what I'm reading here he's either a commitment phobe or just doesn't want to be committed to u

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