I think a good woman should have decency, respect, and standards for herself. When that happens then I can acknowledge her as a good woman. Better yet honesty and faithfulness makes an even better one. Same thing with a good man for some women. If I have to work to support the household so be it. In fact it'd come more natural for me.
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A good woman should make your dick hard, not your life.