How do men...

This topic was created in the The Man Cave forum by Sola on Monday, November 5, 2018 and has 10 replies.

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@Sola
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Go about returning to a woman that broke up with them if they realised they'd made a mistake? I don't want to limit this to signs, I'm talking generally. How would you show you wanted her back, or would you think about it but do nothing about it?

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@Sola
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I wasn't considering it, but I know the pain of wanting someone back so I would be prepared to hear him out. Anyway, is it his ego that wants me back or a chance to really be with me, I can't tell. It's not about the D, I can get that anywhere at anytime.

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@Sola
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So no guy here has never genuinely tried to get the woman to be with him for a second time? For altruistic reasons only. Ok, that's all I needed to know, thanks.

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@nikkistar
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This thread annoys me because you broke up with him and now you're asking if he really wants you back or not.

If you weren't trying to play scarcity games with the dude, you wouldn't even ask this question.

Meh.

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@Sola
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You're looking for signs. There was no drama, no games. I said it's better stop seeing each other and he said "ok, it's your decision" and it was as simple as that.

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@Sola
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Posted by nanobot

You seemed so sure in your "I want out!" thread a few days ago. You said that there was nothing worth pursuing beyond attraction, said he served his purpose for you, you deleted his number, ciao, and all that.

Is this one of those things where libras can't function being alone or something?

Also, I am still confused because y'all weren't actually together.

Yeah nanobot, I was so relieved to be out! In my gut and my heart i know it was the right decision. And he wasn't bothered, at all. I explained that I was looking for something more serious and he said he didn't think we were casual..just spontaneous.

I can be alone, I haven't had a serious relationship for the last 7 years..that's not the issue either. I'm just asking whether any of the guys here had tried to return to a woman and how/why they did.