@Aquastic
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Dear Men:Is being too loud during sex a turn on or a turn-off
Is Being Loud During Sex a Turn-On or Turn-Off for Men?
Being loud during sex can be seen as a sign of enjoyment and arousal. However, it may also be a turn-off for some partners if it’s excessively loud or disruptive. Communication with your partner about comfort levels is important to find a balance that enhances intimacy and mutual satisfaction.
Posted by Damous
I mean, are you overdoing it? Lol. Idk. Do we have to be quiet? If not, I don’t care but I’ve never dealt with someone who was banshee screaming lol
I honestly don't do it on purpose it just happens.
Posted by -JESUS-
Get a ball gag.
Jesus where can I get that?
Posted by Aquastic
Help à sister out.I have been warned that I was too loud.But my problem is I can't help it but scream during penetration .Am I enjoying too much or ?
Well you're the only one who can answer that lol. As for the screaming, bring it !
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Posted by Damous
I mean, are you overdoing it? Lol. Idk. Do we have to be quiet? If not, I don’t care but I’ve never dealt with someone who was banshee screaming lol
I honestly don't do it on purpose it just happens.
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I’ve heard it’s a turn on but imagine when you have children...they’ll will have to tranquilizers...lmao
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by Aquastic
Help à sister out.I have been warned that I was too loud.But my problem is I can't help it but scream during penetration .Am I enjoying too much or ?
Well you're the only one who can answer that lol. As for the screaming, bring it !
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I think I do , my sensitivity is on it's own lol . But I've been accused of faking it in the past, the person even dumped me for.
I dont mind but it's even better when she trying to contain it lol
Posted by Librasetting777
I dont mind but it's even better when she trying to contain it lol
I do try, that's if my partner ( at the time)doesn't try to block the noise by simply putting his giant hands on my noisy mouth.
But this other day I saw on his status after we broke uphe posted " it's not about how you scream,but how you arrive" .lol I felt like this was sure red to me, but just ignored it.
Posted by RooSagicorn
Omg! I scream, get over it 😜
Some guys put their hand over my mouth 😂😂😂
Lol I thought I was the odd one out .
Posted by -JESUS-
Posted by Aquastic
Posted by -JESUS-
Get a ball gag.
Jesus where can I get that?
Adamandeve.com
Tell them I sent you, might save you a rib.
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lol...
Posted by Aquastic
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by Aquastic
Help à sister out.I have been warned that I was too loud.But my problem is I can't help it but scream during penetration .Am I enjoying too much or ?
Well you're the only one who can answer that lol. As for the screaming, bring it !
I think I do , my sensitivity is on it's own lol . But I've been accused of faking it in the past, the person even dumped me for.
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Weird person lol.
So were you faking it?
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by Aquastic
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by Aquastic
Help à sister out.I have been warned that I was too loud.But my problem is I can't help it but scream during penetration .Am I enjoying too much or ?
Well you're the only one who can answer that lol. As for the screaming, bring it !
I think I do , my sensitivity is on it's own lol . But I've been accused of faking it in the past, the person even dumped me for.
Weird person lol.
So were you faking it?
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No I was not, I never fake . I think the person was just too insecure or he was comparing me to his previous sex partner.Cause he wud accuse me of other things as well .
Posted by -JESUS-
Really depends on your voice.
If you sound like Mr. T, I pitty da fool who has to deal with it.
Or if you're a damn opera singer breaking windows, that's a safety hazard.
😁😂😂😂😂 Lol my voice is sexy as F
Posted by TheRabbit
They can't make much noise if you're choking them.
If you enjoy fucking women with purple face...then sure...
Posted by -JESUS-
Really depends on your voice.
If you sound like Mr. T, I pitty da fool who has to deal with it.
Or if you're a damn opera singer breaking windows, that's a safety hazard.
Move the bed far from the window and charge her for broken glass!
Jesus! Lmao
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by -JESUS-
Really depends on your voice.
If you sound like Mr. T, I pitty da fool who has to deal with it.
Or if you're a damn opera singer breaking windows, that's a safety hazard.
Move the bed far from the window and charge her for broken glass!
Jesus! Lmao
I kinda like it.. looks like an exorcism.. really makes me feel like I'm doing the lord's work.
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What’s wrong with Daddy? He can’t do it anymore? For how long? Since he ping that pigeon so you would be born? Lmao
It can be. Everything in moderation. If we're in the woods somewhere or a cabin and no one else is around though, be as loud as you want!
Posted by earlorg16
It can be. Everything in moderation. If we're in the woods somewhere or a cabin and no one else is around though, be as loud as you want!
Makes sense
Posted by Aquastic
Posted by earlorg16
It can be. Everything in moderation. If we're in the woods somewhere or a cabin and no one else is around though, be as loud as you want!
Makes sense
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Just I get lost in action,even forget where am at
Posted by Ladyleo18
Depends on the guy. My cancer likes the loudness and verbal stuff. I was with a scorp that used to put his hand over my mouth and say the neighbours will hear. And another scorp that loved that the neighbours could hear. You just be you, and find someone who accepts that. You dont have to fit in a certain box
True, no compromise
Posted by Ladyleo18
Posted by Aquastic
Posted by Ladyleo18
Depends on the guy. My cancer likes the loudness and verbal stuff. I was with a scorp that used to put his hand over my mouth and say the neighbours will hear. And another scorp that loved that the neighbours could hear. You just be you, and find someone who accepts that. You dont have to fit in a certain box
True, no compromise
Compromise with things that are important but you don't have to water yourself down. Someone will love you for all your crazy bits. And if they don't, they're not the one for you. You change and adapt for someone who deserves it, because they do the same to make you happy. Not because they won't like you otherwise.
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Wisdom👌
Guys always complain I'm not vocal enough so 🤷♀️
Posted by nanobot
Moaning loudly is one thing
Why do you need to scream at the top of your lungs?
Lmao
Moaning loudly are one and the same thing. Noise is involved in both.
The nun didn't think so.
So why should I?
Posted by Damous
Posted by nanobot
Moaning loudly is one thing
Why do you need to scream at the top of your lungs?
Lmao
I'm saying tho. Am I the only one that was thinking like a rollercoaster ride scream? 😐
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Please not that kind of scream it's not rape
Dxp woman coming with their.......
Are there women who don't make a sound during sex?
yeah it can be fun once or twice, but it's generally more of a nuisance.
Idk, can't you just decide to stop shouting?
Posted by Dewritos
Fake screaming is better than her scrolling through instagram.
I just can't understand understand how a woman can be silent during sex, is it that they lost sensitivity down there or the man is not doing it right,I've always been curious
So just taking a poll ...how many of you “screamers” are single? And do you think possibly your screaming has anything to do with that?
Posted by hydorah
yeah it can be fun once or twice, but it's generally more of a nuisance.
Idk, can't you just decide to stop shouting?
Personally I can't, if I enjoyed last time what wud stop me to enjoy next time? It's not premeditated it's how a man does it.
Posted by brianafay
So just taking a poll ...how many of you “screamers” are single? And do you think possibly your screaming has anything to do with that?
That thought crossed my mind when he started making excuses when I was suppose to visit him, then he got back with his ex without even dumping me.But his actions spoke
Posted by brianafay
So just taking a poll ...how many of you “screamers” are single? And do you think possibly your screaming has anything to do with that?
I'm loud and single..
Edit: Nope.. never had a complaint
Posted by FantamRooster
Posted by brianafay
So just taking a poll ...how many of you “screamers” are single? And do you think possibly your screaming has anything to do with that?
Aren't we judgy? I'm married.
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Just a poll
I’ll judge when I have more answers
Posted by topes
If you're a quivering across-the-room squirter you may moan as loud as you please.
Otherwise tone it down.
Lol
Silent sex is boring lol
Unless she sounds like a pig being slaughtered (which I had to experience with a Libra woman years ago..) No problem
Posted by MarijuanaHaze
Posted by MyStarsShine
Silent sex is boring lol
sex isn't boring.
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It is with some people.....believe me....lol....
Got me thinking about scary movie 😂😂😂
Posted by tiziani
So you feel you got left because you were too loud?
Jesus what kind of problems do people have. Always reminded the world is much bigger than my bubble out there.
Cause the guy lived with his grandmother who was very nosy
Posted by Aquastic
Posted by tiziani
So you feel you got left because you were too loud?
Jesus what kind of problems do people have. Always reminded the world is much bigger than my bubble out there.
Cause the guy lived with his grandmother who was very nosy
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No, don’t do that to yourself.
He didn’t leave you cause you made too much noise during sex. He left you because he was using you as a placeholder until the ex let him back in. Zero to do with you.
Your too nice to be taking some of the blame on your shoulders but it is 100% all him. Stop being nice.
Posted by LadyNeptune
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Posted by tiziani
So you feel you got left because you were too loud?
Jesus what kind of problems do people have. Always reminded the world is much bigger than my bubble out there.
Cause the guy lived with his grandmother who was very nosy
No, don’t do that to yourself.
He didn’t leave you cause you made too much noise during sex. He left you because he was using you as a placeholder until the ex let him back in. Zero to do with you.
Your too nice to be taking some of the blame on your shoulders but it is 100% all him. Stop being nice.
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That hit home, I felt that. You right ,I must stop being too nice!!!and it's funny he also use to say I was " too nice" and that he said 2 weeks before he dumped me, and he said a lot of things during that 2 weeks to make me give up on him.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Aquastic
Posted by tiziani
So you feel you got left because you were too loud?
Jesus what kind of problems do people have. Always reminded the world is much bigger than my bubble out there.
Cause the guy lived with his grandmother who was very nosy
No, don’t do that to yourself.
He didn’t leave you cause you made too much noise during sex. He left you because he was using you as a placeholder until the ex let him back in. Zero to do with you.
Your too nice to be taking some of the blame on your shoulders but it is 100% all him. Stop being nice.
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M learning to live with the facts that I got played by some someone I really loved and cared for.I am desperate to get over him I want it so bad! I him out of my system,even if I don't meet a man anytime soon it will be okay as long as I am not loving that man.I hope God helps me!!!!
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Aquastic
Posted by tiziani
So you feel you got left because you were too loud?
Jesus what kind of problems do people have. Always reminded the world is much bigger than my bubble out there.
Cause the guy lived with his grandmother who was very nosy
No, don’t do that to yourself.
He didn’t leave you cause you made too much noise during sex. He left you because he was using you as a placeholder until the ex let him back in. Zero to do with you.
Your too nice to be taking some of the blame on your shoulders but it is 100% all him. Stop being nice.
M learning to live with the facts that I got played by some someone I really loved and cared for.I am desperate to get over him I want it so bad! I him out of my system,even if I don't meet a man anytime soon it will be okay as long as I am not loving that man.I hope God helps me!!!!
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Help à sister out.I have been warned that I was too loud.But my problem is I can't help it but scream during penetration .Am I enjoying too much or ?