Why do guys automatically assume that if a girl begins to lose interest

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That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
Really? That's what you think too?

I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.
Ya then I assume he is a psycho!
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Would you call him out on that if you see a guy being mean to your cat or his own cat in front of you?
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Posted by PeanutButterandElly
It sounds like that dude was saying it as a defense mechanism. Almost like he wanted to be corrected and assured the feeling was mutual or told it was a reason aside from that.
This is genuis! Haven't thought about that. I think it is possible.

Just like when a beautiful girl asking a guy, is it because I am not beautiful so you don't like me? waiting for the guy to say, no no no you are the most beautiful girl I have met. something like that? 😄
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It sounds like that dude was saying it as a defense mechanism. Almost like he wanted to be corrected and assured the feeling was mutual or told it was a reason aside from that.
This is genuis! Haven't thought about that. I think it is possible.

Just like when a beautiful girl asking a guy, is it because I am not beautiful so you don't like me? waiting for the guy to say, no no no you are the most beautiful girl I have met. something like that? 😄
Yeah pretty much.

Water mercs do it a lot. Mercury in Gemini/Virgo do to a lesser extent as well.
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Spot on! the guy has mercuy in Pisces. Impressed!!
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Posted by firebunny
That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
Really? That's what you think too?

I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.
Ya then I assume he is a psycho!
Would you call him out on that if you see a guy being mean to your cat or his own cat in front of you?
I would cry.
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I see. I was trying to lecture my friend not to be mean to his cat. It totally broke my heart. Serena is the cat.

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Posted by firebunny
That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
Really? That's what you think too?

I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.
Ya then I assume he is a psycho!
Would you call him out on that if you see a guy being mean to your cat or his own cat in front of you?
I would cry.
I see. I was trying to lecture my friend not to be mean to his cat. It totally broke my heart. Serena is the cat.

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UGGGHHH... BE NICE TO CATS! I will yell at her if I were you. @_@
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That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
Really? That's what you think too?

I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.
Ya then I assume he is a psycho!
Would you call him out on that if you see a guy being mean to your cat or his own cat in front of you?
I would cry.
I see. I was trying to lecture my friend not to be mean to his cat. It totally broke my heart. Serena is the cat.

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UGGGHHH... BE NICE TO CATS! I will yell at her if I were you. @_@
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haha ok. giving him a taste of his own medicine it is.
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Posted by firebunny
That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
Really? That's what you think too?

I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.
Ya then I assume he is a psycho!
Would you call him out on that if you see a guy being mean to your cat or his own cat in front of you?
I would cry.
I see. I was trying to lecture my friend not to be mean to his cat. It totally broke my heart. Serena is the cat.

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We must kill him.
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It really really bothers me and I have been thinking about it all day. Maybe we should put him down and save the cat 😉
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Posted by sagsagsag
I think it's defense mechanism against rejection..

A likes B, B likes A: they meet halfway

A likes B, B doesnt like A: B pulls away and vice versa.

It has nothing to do with one showing interest. If showing interest becomes a turn off to B, then B is not ready for a relationship to begin with.


that's true. i don't think showing interest itself should be a turn off.