@LadyNeptune
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Why are so many guys into Anal...—
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yes, I'm waiting to see some answers to this question ...
Men just want something to stick their dick into. They know good and well most women don't want that.
The challenge of convincing their woman of getting it in there may also hold appeal.
I once did anal with a guy and he was pretty disappointed when he thought he wasn't the only guy who had been up there. Not to mention all the farting that too place. 😆
I would do it again, with the right guy. 😉
Posted by MagicMona
wait...ma'am, how did we go from sushi to this? lol.ok bye now.
Having a peach for desert....and started thinking.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Does it feel that much better than vaginal sex?
It's tighter than...
Posted by MagicMona
wait...ma'am, how did we go from sushi to this? lol.ok bye now.
Having a peach for desert....and started thinking.
...peaches made you think of this, of all things. hehe
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It's been on my mind for awhile actually. Every dude I've been with cant wait to go back door. I don't understand it.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Use lube and get towels you'll be alright.
It's the danger zone
Posted by BuffaloBills28
Difference in what feels the best, and what's the most sexy, and dominating. Head feels better than all of it, but still, nothing as sexy as doing anal.
What, specifically, makes it so sexy?
Posted by MIIeFisk
Wake me up when the "I shitted on his dick" stories start. I got 1.
Why don't you lead the pack.
Posted by LunarMaiden
Men just want something to stick their dick into. They know good and well most women don't want that.The challenge of convincing their woman of getting it in there may also hold appeal.
I once did anal with a guy and he was pretty disappointed when he thought he wasn't the only guy who had been up there. Not to mention all the farting that too place. 😆
I would do it again, with the right guy. 😉
Do you think that's what it is. Getting your female to give into you and do something 'dirty and forbidden'.
Guys please confirm or disprove this.
Cuz its taboo-most people like what aint the ordinary.
Oh forgot to say breathe and relax.
Posted by BuffaloBills28
Difference in what feels the best, and what's the most sexy, and dominating. Head feels better than all of it, but still, nothing as sexy as doing anal.
So anal makes you feel more dominate? Can you explain the difference of feeling between hitting the ass as opposed to the pussy?
What about poo?
Posted by dolluxe
It just fucking scares me cause I imagine it'll be painful. If taking a crap when constipated hurts what more having a whole dick up in your ass?
Right!? And then add ontop of that increasingly faster movement...
I want clean sheets and to be able to hold my bowels.
Posted by juliette
my guy says, i asked him right now, there is no difference, it's much more that the ass is more kinky and kinky is sexy, and if we are going to be honest guys like ass action too. first hand answer with no BS!
Thanks
Posted by jeane
What about poo?https://media.tenor.co/images/e7ce376dcce0e067812bedfde41588a7/raw
The lower colon does not hold poo 24/7, if youi know your body and wash before hand this is easily prevented.
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Enema?
Posted by jeane
What about poo?https://media.tenor.co/images/e7ce376dcce0e067812bedfde41588a7/raw
The lower colon does not hold poo 24/7, if youi know your body and wash before hand this is easily prevented.
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Wash...as in douche?
Cause if the prep work takes longer than the main event I'm out.
Posted by jeane
What about poo?https://media.tenor.co/images/e7ce376dcce0e067812bedfde41588a7/raw
The lower colon does not hold poo 24/7, if youi know your body and wash before hand this is easily prevented.
Wash...as in douche?
Cause if the prep work takes longer than the main event I'm out.
You can do that but you get used to knowing if it's empty, your vagina is also right next to the colon, so you can do a finger check through your vagina in the heat of sex..
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Posted by dolluxe
It just fucking scares me cause I imagine it'll be painful. If taking a crap when constipated hurts what more having a whole dick up in your ass?Imagine all those females outr there who got into it, they once said the same thing 🙂
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You don't have either if she/he don't want to and no one should make her/him. It's her/his choice.
Posted by jeane
What about poo?
?
Posted by TheCanBull
I have not had a female who did not like anal from me but i read up on it so much that it's hard to do wrong unless she straight up does not like it which i have yet to come across.
How many asses have you penetrated?
Also please answer the original question. Does anal feel different/better than vag sex? Elaborate.
I like flowers but I'm not a fan of rosebudding.
Posted by Hare
Let's also not minimize the influence of porn.If you learned about sex from PornHub you probably think all women are bisexual and live for anal prolapses.
Thats true. Just like the belief that every woman is dying to have you jizz on her face and hair.
Posted by jeane
What about poo?https://media.tenor.co/images/e7ce376dcce0e067812bedfde41588a7/raw
The lower colon does not hold poo 24/7, if youi know your body and wash before hand this is easily prevented.
Wash...as in douche?
Cause if the prep work takes longer than the main event I'm out.
You can do that but you get used to knowing if it's empty, your vagina is also right next to the colon, so you can do a finger check through your vagina in the heat of sex..
H
Your own finger in your own vagina to check is bad?
Well it's a clean way.
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Oh I misread that. I read that as putting a finger up your bum.
Posted by jeane
I like flowers but I'm not a fan of rosebudding.
roses are over rated anyways
Not into it at all....
Posted by dolluxe
*Virgo Venus and Mars awakens*
What happens when you remove the plug and experience explosive diarrhea? Call the tail 'ombre'.
Posted by TheCanBull
I have not had a female who did not like anal from me but i read up on it so much that it's hard to do wrong unless she straight up does not like it which i have yet to come across.How many asses have you penetrated?
Also please answer the original question. Does anal feel different/better than vag sex? Elaborate.
Not really that different, but it's a massive turn on because it's her ass... i'm an ass man so it makes sense lol.
And there is a huge level of trust as i'm not small down there either, my first lady said she had a bad past experience but because she was so close to me and vice versa... i was extremely careful and told her to let me know any time that it's causing discomfort or anything else and i will immediately stop... she ended up loving it.
Next partner liked it anyway...
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You can hit her pussy from behind and get the same view of her ass. If it's not that different why the ass fucking preference? Especially with the risk of getting pooed on.
Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Plus cancer.
Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Good point.
Is there such a thing as Ben Wa balls for the anus? I think a see an untapped market...
Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Plus cancer.
No.
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Oh yes.
https://www.verywell.com/hpv-and-anal-cancer-3132980
Unprotected. Same as cervical cancer.
Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Plus cancer.
No.
Oh yes.
https://www.verywell.com/hpv-and-anal-cancer-3132980
Unprotected. Same as cervical cancer.
Yeah and so is cervical Cancer lol, everyone should stop dicking down any pussy too.
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Just saying, hitting the bum can result in cancer for the catcher.
Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Plus cancer.
No.
Oh yes.
https://www.verywell.com/hpv-and-anal-cancer-3132980
Unprotected. Same as cervical cancer.
Yeah and so is cervical Cancer lol, everyone should stop dicking down any pussy too.
you too go away. cancer from sex really—
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Yes! Really! Spread by hpv. Why do you think pap smears are advised for sexually active women?
Posted by LunarMaiden
Men just want something to stick their dick into. They know good and well most women don't want that.The challenge of convincing their woman of getting it in there may also hold appeal.
I once did anal with a guy and he was pretty disappointed when he thought he wasn't the only guy who had been up there. Not to mention all the farting that too place. 😆
I would do it again, with the right guy. 😉
I've never done anal so this got me curious.
Farting— How can you fart when you've got a dick inside of your ass?
No one mentions the pussy farts lol.
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Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Good point.
Is there such a thing as Ben Wa balls for the anus? I think a see an untapped market...
You people don't watch much porn, visit sex shops, or have very many close male gay friends, do ya?
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The porn I watch and the sex toys I purchase are geared towards my interests. I don't pry into my friends sex lives.
Also who goes into sex shops still? Shop online.
Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Good point.
Is there such a thing as Ben Wa balls for the anus? I think a see an untapped market...
You people don't watch much porn, visit sex shops, or have very many close male gay friends, do ya?
The porn I watch and the sex toys I purchase are geared towards my interests. I don't pry into my friends sex lives.
That's cool. If you explored a little more, you'd find that there are lots of people who have anal sex or anal play without dick penetration whose butts are in proper working order and not riddled with STDs or cancer. *giggle*
I hate to see gaping anal porn, myself. It makes me feel grossed out and a little light-headed.
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How do you have anal sex without dick penetration?
Posted by Hare
It is a proven fact that STDs are spread with greater efficiency through anal sex. Including HPV. This isn't...or rather shouldn't be...news to anyone.
Oh it isn't. The skin is so much more fragile there and prone to tearing.
The question is why nuts?
Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Plus cancer.
No.
Oh yes.
https://www.verywell.com/hpv-and-anal-cancer-3132980
Unprotected. Same as cervical cancer.
Yeah and so is cervical Cancer lol, everyone should stop dicking down any pussy too.
you too go away. cancer from sex really—
Yes! Really! Spread by hpv. Why do you think pap smears are advised for sexually active women?
ok girl, i assume you have sex with the person you know. and then you can do all this kind of weird kinky things you want to. ass, vagina, ears, whatever.
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Men don't always know they carry the virus. It's a risk. Not a huge risk but it happens. In the UK, 9 women are diagnosed with cervical cancer a day.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Does it feel that much better than vaginal sex?
So far we have....
Ass fetish
Dominance
Kinky because it's dirty/taboo
More intimate/increased trust factor
But the general consensus for you guy is that it doesn't feel that different from vaginal sex.
Posted by BuffaloBills28
Vagina feels much better, but the arse 🙂 is the sexiest female body part. Every guy has a weird fascination with a females behind. It's just really, really sexy.
It is and NO farting done here.....never have, never will. Only three guys have cum (pun intended) thru the "back door"
1. Mario (taught me how to relax first time; I was about 25 yrs old)
2. Chris (dude was 6'6" yummmy!!!!! I was 34 yrs old; he was 24 yrs old)
3. A Leo (2015); this was the Leo I told y'all was a FREAK and slapped my ass until it turned BEET red; needless to say he wasn't welcomed in my bed again! 😡
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I CANNOT have anal sex laying on my back; I gotta be on my tummy, holding a pillow under my tummy, gotta relax, and allow myself to get ready for some HUGE penetration!!! Yummy!
PSS: Big butts? Eva looks at her size 5 frame; not! 😉
Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Plus cancer.
No.
Oh yes.
https://www.verywell.com/hpv-and-anal-cancer-3132980
Unprotected. Same as cervical cancer.
Yeah and so is cervical Cancer lol, everyone should stop dicking down any pussy too.
you too go away. cancer from sex really—
Yes! Really! Spread by hpv. Why do you think pap smears are advised for sexually active women?
ok girl, i assume you have sex with the person you know. and then you can do all this kind of weird kinky things you want to. ass, vagina, ears, whatever.
Men don't always know they carry the virus. It's a risk. Not a huge risk but it happens. In the UK, 9 women are diagnosed with cervical cancer a day.
you are not serious. 9 woman of what, 100 women? women are usually the carriers.
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1 in 135 women will be diagnosed with cervical cancer in their life time.
It is the 13th most common cancer amongst women in the uk
I don't know if it is more common in men or women. I do know that women don't need to worry until they start having sex.
warming lube works well but I don't like particularly like it and won't do it regularly because I can't sh it right for a week afterwards and that f's with me ...
Posted by TheCanBull
My lady died and had Cervical cancer.I suggest some read up about HPV and Cervical Cancer.
HPV is spread through sex, and it can cause an infection in the cervix. Most of the time, the infection doesn't last very long because your body is able to fight it. But in some women it can last longer. Women who get their tests for cervical cancer as often as they should are much less likely to get cervical cancer.
She had other health issues like pulmonary hypertension, her immune system was not strong and needed medical attention to fix it.
She died of hypertension not Cervical Cancer.
HPV can come and completely go by being fought by the human body.
I have also been tested and don't have any trace of HPV.
Sorry to hear this. Yes, it's more common than people think. Id say the majority of us will have it in our lifetime. It's just that most of us won't ever have any complications from it and it will go on its own.
Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Plus cancer.
No.
Oh yes.
https://www.verywell.com/hpv-and-anal-cancer-3132980
Unprotected. Same as cervical cancer.
Yeah and so is cervical Cancer lol, everyone should stop dicking down any pussy too.
you too go away. cancer from sex really—
Yes! Really! Spread by hpv. Why do you think pap smears are advised for sexually active women?
ok girl, i assume you have sex with the person you know. and then you can do all this kind of weird kinky things you want to. ass, vagina, ears, whatever.
Men don't always know they carry the virus. It's a risk. Not a huge risk but it happens. In the UK, 9 women are diagnosed with cervical cancer a day.
you are not serious. 9 woman of what, 100 women? women are usually the carriers.
1 in 135 women will be diagnosed with cervical cancer in their life time.
It is the 13th most common cancer amongst women in the uk
I don't know if it is more common in men or women. I do know that women don't need to worry until they start having sex.
All sex has the risk of STD. Smart people do things to keep that from happening. I'm in my 40s, never had one. Stop ruining the sex conversation!!
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Ok
Posted by tcta
warming lube works well but I don't like particularly like it and won't do it regularly because I can't sh it right for a week afterwards and that f's with me ...
When you say you can't shit right for a week afterwards do you mean your constipated. Or is it more sinister and explosive?
Posted by Hare
Also, FYI, ass muscles =/= vag musclesVag muscles are smooth muscle tissue and will virtually always remain "tight".
The bung hole is not smooth muscle tissue and can be worn out. A woman can develop incontinence problems from too much butt sex.
Plus cancer.
No.
Oh yes.
https://www.verywell.com/hpv-and-anal-cancer-3132980
Unprotected. Same as cervical cancer.
Yeah and so is cervical Cancer lol, everyone should stop dicking down any pussy too.
you too go away. cancer from sex really—
Yes! Really! Spread by hpv. Why do you think pap smears are advised for sexually active women?
ok girl, i assume you have sex with the person you know. and then you can do all this kind of weird kinky things you want to. ass, vagina, ears, whatever.
Men don't always know they carry the virus. It's a risk. Not a huge risk but it happens. In the UK, 9 women are diagnosed with cervical cancer a day.
you are not serious. 9 woman of what, 100 women? women are usually the carriers.
1 in 135 women will be diagnosed with cervical cancer in their life time.
It is the 13th most common cancer amongst women in the uk
I don't know if it is more common in men or women. I do know that women don't need to worry until they start having sex.
ok, i go to gynecologist 1 time of the year. and i know it's enough if i get the cervical cancer to get cured. it's one the most curable cancers of all. like testicle cancer. and it has nothing to do with anal or any other sex so i wonder why do you post it here? can we have fun? sometimes? we're all going to die anyway?
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Good for you. I'm glad to hear it. I was just making a point of fact. Calm your tits.
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Does it feel that much better than vaginal sex?