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Posted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?



Posted by _DazedPosted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
What does that have to do with this thread?click to expand

Posted by MissKrabsPosted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
he is a homosekshual. and they love eating poo poo.click to expand

Posted by aquarius09Posted by _DazedPosted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
What does that have to do with this thread?
Since we’re on the topic and I know anal enthusiast will be joining, I thought I ask.click to expand


Posted by nanobotPosted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for meclick to expand




Posted by nanobotPosted by aquarius09Posted by nanobotPosted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me
How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.
I guess it would depend on the existing relationship with him. I assume this is romantic, because otherwise what would it matter
If it's a man to potentially date, I would choose to not engage because I don't find that stipulation to be realistic as a requirement and it would concern me that he felt he NEEDED IT, that it's a defining characteristic in how he views women. It also would make me think that he would feel entitled to it and want it very often.
If it's a man you are already dating, it would be a cause for concern and I would likely disengage from the situation.
If it's someone you are in an actual committed relationship with and he is hugely opposed to vaginal sex, I would be crazy suspicious and do anything I could in my power to find out the truth. I have many gay friends, and more men than you'd think get with women, get married, have kids, only to be browsing grindr behind their wife's back.
I would not confront him about anything in any of these circumstances without proof. If he claims to be a straight man seeking women, there is no way you or anyone else could get him to admit it and push him out of the closet. That has to be a decision he makes on his own, or for you to investigate for yourself. The latter would likely come with consequences, but will set you free.click to expand


Posted by Librasetting777
Lol I've tried but woman would never let me..."its to big" 😂 so I gave up even trying to do that.

Posted by jeanePosted by Librasetting777
Lol I've tried but woman would never let me..."its to big" 😂 so I gave up even trying to do that.
#humblebragclick to expand

Posted by jeanePosted by Librasetting777
Lol I've tried but woman would never let me..."its to big" 😂 so I gave up even trying to do that.
#humblebragclick to expand

Posted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
Small dick. Tighter holeclick to expand

Posted by aquarius09Posted by nanobotPosted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me
How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.click to expand

Posted by hellosaggyPosted by aquarius09Posted by nanobotPosted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me
How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.
I can say that I need a woman that is down for most things.... its absolutely no fun being limited in bed. so I'm supposed to only have sex with you (monogamous relationship)... and I can't get BJs or anal.... so we only have vaginal sex.... or you are "disgusted" by semen so don't cum anywhere in/near you....
but you are nice and can cook? nah, I'll keep looking
I've not had anal for years... its not a deal breaker, but typically your anal queens are down for other things as well.click to expand




Posted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09Posted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
Small dick. Tighter hole
No, the guy apparently has a big dick which is why it’s painful for my friend.
Maybe he gets off on her pain. Means she’s willing to suffer for his pleasure.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09Posted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
Small dick. Tighter hole
No, the guy apparently has a big dick which is why it’s painful for my friend.
Maybe he gets off on her pain. Means she’s willing to suffer for his pleasure.
I wonder how many women do this to please men? 🙄
I wonder how many men would be prepared to have an 8 or 9 inch dildo rammed up their arse?
I've only known oneclick to expand

Posted by Pandora101Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09Posted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
Small dick. Tighter hole
No, the guy apparently has a big dick which is why it’s painful for my friend.
Maybe he gets off on her pain. Means she’s willing to suffer for his pleasure.
I wonder how many women do this to please men? 🙄
I wonder how many men would be prepared to have an 8 or 9 inch dildo rammed up their arse?
I've only known one
"I wonder how many men would be prepared to have an 8 or 9 inch dildo rammed up their arse?"
the ones who watch too much porn maybe yes 🙂
and the ones who refer to their ideal sex-partner as a 3 hole thing would maybe secretly want to experience it, having just 2 hole to offer thus feeling inadequate🙂
I am rarely vulgar but some answers in this topic call for it, knowing its just a showing off, lacking good excitement in their intercourse
it would be another thing, if they enjoyed sex in general, but it seems they are not, so showing off is not credible, imho
on the other hand, I have a female friend (cancer sun) who loves anal, and other things (pissing on her etc), true
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Lol everyone is different.
Some women love anal and it can be part of a good sexual relationship with someone 🙄

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by hellosaggyPosted by aquarius09Posted by nanobotPosted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me
How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.
I can say that I need a woman that is down for most things.... its absolutely no fun being limited in bed. so I'm supposed to only have sex with you (monogamous relationship)... and I can't get BJs or anal.... so we only have vaginal sex.... or you are "disgusted" by semen so don't cum anywhere in/near you....
but you are nice and can cook? nah, I'll keep looking
I've not had anal for years... its not a deal breaker, but typically your anal queens are down for other things as well.
Have you tried receiving anal sex?click to expand


Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory
I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.

Posted by Erzsebet_BathoryPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_Bathory
I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.
Sorry about the pun lol, but do you have strong Uranus in your chart....i.e. Uranus in 7th or conjunct Venus etc, or anything in Aqua?
😀
I don't know about Houses and Aspects. Just that I have Mars in Aquarius. This is my chart https://imgur.com/a/daMj8osclick to expand

Posted by MissKrabsPosted by aquarius09
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
he is a homosekshual. and they love eating poo poo.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123
Lol everyone is different.
Some women love anal and it can be part of a good sexual relationship with someone 🙄
Sure it can, with someone that knows what they're doing.....click to expand



Posted by Gemitati
Lmao imagining he is in the ass and woman like ‘what are you doing’ and man is...’I don’t know...’ 😂😂😂
@mystarsshine

Posted by Gemitati
We had a casual conversation when he said he had anal once and he didn’t liked it because it feels un-natural because ass isn’t pussy...
I was like...well, that part is off the table...and I actually thought it’s strange because I thought ALL men love it and dream about it and feeling lucky if woman up to it. 🤷♀️

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gemitati
Lmao imagining he is in the ass and woman like ‘what are you doing’ and man is...’I don’t know...’ 😂😂😂
@mystarsshine
Were you there? 😆
Well he was a kinky Aqua guy who'd no former opportunity to kink things up so I thought I'd oblige as you do lol.....but it was a little awkward to say the least, I think he was very excited and it became a bit rubbery haha.....i wasn't disappointed as I thought rather rubbery than a hard one up there .... all in all it was a bit of a fumble...lol...click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gemitati
We had a casual conversation when he said he had anal once and he didn’t liked it because it feels un-natural because ass isn’t pussy...
I was like...well, that part is off the table...and I actually thought it’s strange because I thought ALL men love it and dream about it and feeling lucky if woman up to it. 🤷♀️
Thanks...I was looking for an explanation
I've been with two Aries guys....neither tried to "Ram"' it up there lol....I'm thinking it's because they love the feminine parts of us.....click to expand

Posted by Erzsebet_BathoryPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_BathoryPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_Bathory
I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.
Sorry about the pun lol, but do you have strong Uranus in your chart....i.e. Uranus in 7th or conjunct Venus etc, or anything in Aqua?
😀
I don't know about Houses and Aspects. Just that I have Mars in Aquarius. This is my chart https://imgur.com/a/daMj8os
Can't see it...paste to this page...
https://imgur.com/c3LZuK0click to expand

Posted by HeartofIcePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_BathoryPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_BathoryPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_Bathory
I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.
Sorry about the pun lol, but do you have strong Uranus in your chart....i.e. Uranus in 7th or conjunct Venus etc, or anything in Aqua?
😀
I don't know about Houses and Aspects. Just that I have Mars in Aquarius. This is my chart https://imgur.com/a/daMj8os
Can't see it...paste to this page...
https://imgur.com/c3LZuK0
I had a quick look and saw you have mars in aqua in 5th....kinky creative sex. Went back to look again and can't see.
If you go to Astro com, create a chart and paste here, I'll look again....
Have I asked you for a chart reading yet?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gemitati
Lmao imagining he is in the ass and woman like ‘what are you doing’ and man is...’I don’t know...’ 😂😂😂
@mystarsshine
Were you there? 😆
Well he was a kinky Aqua guy who'd no former opportunity to kink things up so I thought I'd oblige as you do lol.....but it was a little awkward to say the least, I think he was very excited and it became a bit rubbery haha.....i wasn't disappointed as I thought rather rubbery than a hard one up there .... all in all it was a bit of a fumble...lol...
Rubbery huh? How did he even get there not being hard as a rock?
Hmmm? 🐛click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gemitati
We had a casual conversation when he said he had anal once and he didn’t liked it because it feels un-natural because ass isn’t pussy...
I was like...well, that part is off the table...and I actually thought it’s strange because I thought ALL men love it and dream about it and feeling lucky if woman up to it. 🤷♀️
Thanks...I was looking for an explanation
I've been with two Aries guys....neither tried to "Ram"' it up there lol....I'm thinking it's because they love the feminine parts of us.....
Thanks! I was looking for an explanation like that!!! 🙋🏼♀️click to expand

Posted by HeartofIcePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by HeartofIcePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_BathoryPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_BathoryPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_Bathory
I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.
Sorry about the pun lol, but do you have strong Uranus in your chart....i.e. Uranus in 7th or conjunct Venus etc, or anything in Aqua?
😀
I don't know about Houses and Aspects. Just that I have Mars in Aquarius. This is my chart https://imgur.com/a/daMj8os
Can't see it...paste to this page...
https://imgur.com/c3LZuK0
I had a quick look and saw you have mars in aqua in 5th....kinky creative sex. Went back to look again and can't see.
If you go to Astro com, create a chart and paste here, I'll look again....
Have I asked you for a chart reading yet?
I don't think so
I'm not into reading charts per se as it takes a lot of time and energy and also i have still a lot to learn, so i normally offer if the person has a question, like with Erz and her kinky sex 😛
I have a question! Just wondering what the reason is that I'm attracting/becoming attracted to Taurus energy lately. Should I give you my progressed chart maybe? Let me know what type of chart you'll need and what asteroids/fixed stars should be included. Thanks. ^_^click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gemitati
We had a casual conversation when he said he had anal once and he didn’t liked it because it feels un-natural because ass isn’t pussy...
I was like...well, that part is off the table...and I actually thought it’s strange because I thought ALL men love it and dream about it and feeling lucky if woman up to it. 🤷♀️
Thanks...I was looking for an explanation
I've been with two Aries guys....neither tried to "Ram"' it up there lol....I'm thinking it's because they love the feminine parts of us.....
Thanks! I was looking for an explanation like that!!! 🙋🏼♀️
No problem...i have found unless they have kinky aspects in the chart, Aries men can be quite straightforward with sex. They like to try and dominate at times but not a hope in hell with women like you and me haha 😛. They also love feminine women. One of my exes loved me to dress up ... French maid, hooker, etc etc
haha...click to expand

Posted by HeartofIcePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by HeartofIcePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by HeartofIcePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_BathoryPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_BathoryPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Erzsebet_Bathory
I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.
Sorry about the pun lol, but do you have strong Uranus in your chart....i.e. Uranus in 7th or conjunct Venus etc, or anything in Aqua?
😀
I don't know about Houses and Aspects. Just that I have Mars in Aquarius. This is my chart https://imgur.com/a/daMj8os
Can't see it...paste to this page...
https://imgur.com/c3LZuK0
I had a quick look and saw you have mars in aqua in 5th....kinky creative sex. Went back to look again and can't see.
If you go to Astro com, create a chart and paste here, I'll look again....
Have I asked you for a chart reading yet?
I don't think so
I'm not into reading charts per se as it takes a lot of time and energy and also i have still a lot to learn, so i normally offer if the person has a question, like with Erz and her kinky sex 😛
I have a question! Just wondering what the reason is that I'm attracting/becoming attracted to Taurus energy lately. Should I give you my progressed chart maybe? Let me know what type of chart you'll need and what asteroids/fixed stars should be included. Thanks. ^_^
Asteroids and fixed stars make it too complicated....let me know what your progressed Venus is doing and in which house and that could give some answers...but apart from that just a natal chart would be good too
Be back tomorrow!!
Progressed Venus in Libra, 7 degrees, 46'22", House III (progressed House)
Do you need any other info?click to expand
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