Guys Who Chase?

Time to take a poll:

Ladies, how many of you would say that you enjoy it when men chase you? How many of you would say that you actually want a man to chase you or rather a man SHOULD chase you? What does it mean for a man to chase you as well?

Posted by blackphase
I don't really enjoy being chased.. It's not a game for me so when I do have interest in someone I reciprocate, I don't make them chase me.

So if I am being chased, it annoys me cause it's by someone I have no interest in.

So basically not this:

We all like to feel "chased" but yes, if i am interested it won't be a chasing game. I will reciprocate and "chase" too.

Is mainly showing interest. But if you are chasing someone who keeps avoiding you then it must be because she isn't interested.

I do not like to be chased unless it's someone I'm interested in and like others have said, if I'm interested, there won't be a chase. If a guy gets too clingy without me reciprocating, it's a huge turn off. I also like a guy to be a little aloof. Give me something to go after.

My Aries rising loves to be chased

Around the bedroom, garden, beach, field...anywhere

Great fun

The getting caught is the best

😛

Posted by aquarius_beauty
I suppose that in the context of chasing, it varies. I don't like heavily aggressive pushy males. Taurus and Pisces are some of the most pushy and annoying, imo. Taurus and Aries are also very aggressive in their approach. I like smooth organic transitions into partnership.

That being said, I am traditional in a sense. I don't believe that a woman should chase a man as men are naturally inclined to chase a woman he desires. Doing so would expose the woman to heartbreak when a man shows little to no interest and just strings her along and drop her once he gets what he wants from her.

I like to be courted by man as it shows his true desire and intentions with me. If there's a mutual attraction then I reciprocate and slowly begin to open up my ways of communications by reaching out first. But, I'd never try and cause a disbalance in the courting face. As a woman and as an Aquarius, I need to know your true intentions with me before I can dip my feet in water. It's a way to protect myself, my heart, and my integrity as a woman.

Well said! I should take a page from your book!

If you want to be chased ladies, try an Aries man with Venus in Aries

Lol

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Posted by Noni05

Posted by Goateeguru
I think we should define "chase."

pursue in order to catch...

When you want something or someone and you go after it!!!

That's what I thought originally but most of the comments say otherwise. They're describing a thirsty guy...one that won't go away

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Asking the right questions.

Ladies, could define what "chasing" is in your mind?

Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
I enjoy being pursued, not chased.

Exactly. Pursue me and show me your interest. If you play games I'm gonna get bored quickly and slip away.

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Posted by LadyPootsAlot
Yeah, if I'm doing the chasing it makes me paranoid, insecure, and frankly, no fucking fun.

Someone has to bite the bullet. Preferably someone who has 0/10 fucks to give.

That was me. It backfired spectacularly. Prey should never hunt.

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Agreed! It's never worked well for me either.