Cattiness, Sweet, or Blunt - Which are you?

Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

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I am the woman's woman #squadlyf

Mangina alert

Sweet and/or blunt. Will push back when pushed too far. Also, depends on my emotional state.

I'm the fabulous type

None of the above 😄

There can't be only 3 types tho.

I can be what I need to be when I want to be - never what I am expected to be ... sweet and/or blunt

I don't know that I am catti, never been called that and I don't know the definition and/or how to play so I don't. I will walk away smiling. I don't have to put up with anyone's azz ...

there are men sneaking into the women's room ... at least I think they are men ...

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Posted by nikkistar
Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

which one are you? the stingy kind? the kind of woman who sits back and not want to give your one?

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Most people know which one I am here.

Posted by nikkistar
Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

A combination of two and three.

I generally support all women but will not hesitate to call a bitch out.

I'm sugar & spice & everything nice

What am I!? Tell me, tell me!!

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Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

I'm definitely the hippie accepting and loving while at times give no fucks.

I don't belong to just one category ?

I'm nice most of the time, but if a bully comes near and messes with my friends or me, I could easily put you in your place.

What category is that?

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The best kind ofcourse 😄?

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Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

I'm definitely the hippie accepting and loving while at times give no fucks.

I don't belong to just one category ?

I'm nice most of the time, but if a bully comes near and messes with my friends or me, I could easily put you in your place.

What category is that?

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I think all women have the ability to put themselves in other categories outside of one. This thread is basically me trying to observe how women see themselves. I agree with most of everyone's thoughts on themselves.

I think I'm honestly a combo of all three. I have yet to see anyone admit to the first which is just bullshit considering all the attacking that goes on within DXP itself lmao

I do my best to not tear anyone down, but toss shade, yes I have done that...

*shrug* I know I'm blunt, I am a bitch at times and I'm also nice.

Edit: never mind I see blackphase said something similar about being all three.

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Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

I'm definitely the hippie accepting and loving while at times give no fucks.

I don't belong to just one category ?

I'm nice most of the time, but if a bully comes near and messes with my friends or me, I could easily put you in your place.

What category is that?

I think all women have the ability to put themselves in other categories outside of one. This thread is basically me trying to observe how women see themselves. I agree with most of everyone's thoughts on themselves.

We're part of an analysis group, being tested...I see ?

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LOL, no. I just like to see how people view themselves. It's just the curious part of me.

I'd like to see how men look at themselves too.

There are many posting here that are self aware of themselves, flaws and all. Some that aren't, and some that ignore it as well. I mean look at this thread, you and I both know there are a few in the first category here and in real life as well, but refrain from saying anything. But then there are those that are aware of their own ability to be petty.

I mean, I can say that I am part of the first and third group more often than not. Probably more of the 3rd part, in which I am crass and blunt, and it will definitely gets me in trouble. Can I be petty? Sure, especially if a someone is sniffing around what I deem is "mine". I am territorial. And only the select few get the second category out of me. I sometimes struggle with my own flaws and demons.

I just like knowing what makes people tick at times.

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Posted by nikkistar
Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

I'm definitely the hippie accepting and loving while at times give no fucks.

I don't belong to just one category ?

I'm nice most of the time, but if a bully comes near and messes with my friends or me, I could easily put you in your place.

What category is that?

I think all women have the ability to put themselves in other categories outside of one. This thread is basically me trying to observe how women see themselves. I agree with most of everyone's thoughts on themselves.

We're part of an analysis group, being tested...I see ?

LOL, no. I just like to see how people view themselves. It's just the curious part of me.

I'd like to see how men look at themselves too.

There are many posting here that are self aware of themselves, flaws and all. Some that aren't, and some that ignore it as well. I mean look at this thread, you and I both know there are a few in the first category here and in real life as well, but refrain from saying anything. But then there are those that are aware of their own ability to be petty.

I mean, I can say that I am part of the first and third group more often than not. Probably more of the 3rd part, in which I am crass and blunt, and it will definitely gets me in trouble. Can I be petty? Sure, especially if a someone is sniffing around what I deem is "mine". I am territorial. And only the select few get the second category out of me. I sometimes struggle with my own flaws and demons.

I just like knowing what makes people tick at times.

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One thing I hate about my Scorpie rising is how territorial I can get lol cut that shit outta my chart and I'd be just fine and dandy! ?

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Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

I'm definitely the hippie accepting and loving while at times give no fucks.

I don't belong to just one category ?

I'm nice most of the time, but if a bully comes near and messes with my friends or me, I could easily put you in your place.

What category is that?

I think all women have the ability to put themselves in other categories outside of one. This thread is basically me trying to observe how women see themselves. I agree with most of everyone's thoughts on themselves.

We're part of an analysis group, being tested...I see ?

LOL, no. I just like to see how people view themselves. It's just the curious part of me.

I'd like to see how men look at themselves too.

There are many posting here that are self aware of themselves, flaws and all. Some that aren't, and some that ignore it as well. I mean look at this thread, you and I both know there are a few in the first category here and in real life as well, but refrain from saying anything. But then there are those that are aware of their own ability to be petty.

I mean, I can say that I am part of the first and third group more often than not. Probably more of the 3rd part, in which I am crass and blunt, and it will definitely gets me in trouble. Can I be petty? Sure, especially if a someone is sniffing around what I deem is "mine". I am territorial. And only the select few get the second category out of me. I sometimes struggle with my own flaws and demons.

I just like knowing what makes people tick at times.

One thing I hate about my Scorpie rising is how territorial I can get lol cut that shit outta my chart and I'd be just fine and dandy! ?

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Yea.... my sun... LOL

I can be super territorial. But I keep it in check lol

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Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

I'm definitely the hippie accepting and loving while at times give no fucks.

I don't belong to just one category ?

I'm nice most of the time, but if a bully comes near and messes with my friends or me, I could easily put you in your place.

What category is that?

I think all women have the ability to put themselves in other categories outside of one. This thread is basically me trying to observe how women see themselves. I agree with most of everyone's thoughts on themselves.

We're part of an analysis group, being tested...I see ?

LOL, no. I just like to see how people view themselves. It's just the curious part of me.

I'd like to see how men look at themselves too.

There are many posting here that are self aware of themselves, flaws and all. Some that aren't, and some that ignore it as well. I mean look at this thread, you and I both know there are a few in the first category here and in real life as well, but refrain from saying anything. But then there are those that are aware of their own ability to be petty.

I mean, I can say that I am part of the first and third group more often than not. Probably more of the 3rd part, in which I am crass and blunt, and it will definitely gets me in trouble. Can I be petty? Sure, especially if a someone is sniffing around what I deem is "mine". I am territorial. And only the select few get the second category out of me. I sometimes struggle with my own flaws and demons.

I just like knowing what makes people tick at times.

One thing I hate about my Scorpie rising is how territorial I can get lol cut that shit outta my chart and I'd be just fine and dandy! ?

Yea.... my sun... LOL

I can be super territorial. But I keep it in check lol

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Scorpio Sun, moon, rising and Venus = what's mine is MiNE lmao

At least my perception.

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Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

I'm definitely the hippie accepting and loving while at times give no fucks.

I don't belong to just one category ?

I'm nice most of the time, but if a bully comes near and messes with my friends or me, I could easily put you in your place.

What category is that?

I think all women have the ability to put themselves in other categories outside of one. This thread is basically me trying to observe how women see themselves. I agree with most of everyone's thoughts on themselves.

We're part of an analysis group, being tested...I see ?

LOL, no. I just like to see how people view themselves. It's just the curious part of me.

I'd like to see how men look at themselves too.

There are many posting here that are self aware of themselves, flaws and all. Some that aren't, and some that ignore it as well. I mean look at this thread, you and I both know there are a few in the first category here and in real life as well, but refrain from saying anything. But then there are those that are aware of their own ability to be petty.

I mean, I can say that I am part of the first and third group more often than not. Probably more of the 3rd part, in which I am crass and blunt, and it will definitely gets me in trouble. Can I be petty? Sure, especially if a someone is sniffing around what I deem is "mine". I am territorial. And only the select few get the second category out of me. I sometimes struggle with my own flaws and demons.

I just like knowing what makes people tick at times.

One thing I hate about my Scorpie rising is how territorial I can get lol cut that shit outta my chart and I'd be just fine and dandy! ?

?I'm territorial too, but it's more in a way where I defend my loved ones from harm rather than making sure no one "touches my property".

It's manifested completely different. I'm not insecure of someone taking away my loved one. If he/she was taken away, he/she didn't really love me anyway. I don't want fake love and I don't like begging for it either.

Must be my Leo placements ?

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Haha ya I'm the same with a hint of "mine" but I know that's not a reality. Maybe the Aqua/Leo axis? 100% agree, no one can take another... They need to go lol I won't beg for love, you either are with me or you aren't.

In Vedic my chart is entirely Scorpio with a cap sun so maybe that's why I relate so much to Scorpio, I've said it before, I read your posts and think I'm reading my thoughts 🙂

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Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

I'm definitely the hippie accepting and loving while at times give no fucks.

I don't belong to just one category ?

I'm nice most of the time, but if a bully comes near and messes with my friends or me, I could easily put you in your place.

What category is that?

I think all women have the ability to put themselves in other categories outside of one. This thread is basically me trying to observe how women see themselves. I agree with most of everyone's thoughts on themselves.

We're part of an analysis group, being tested...I see ?

LOL, no. I just like to see how people view themselves. It's just the curious part of me.

I'd like to see how men look at themselves too.

There are many posting here that are self aware of themselves, flaws and all. Some that aren't, and some that ignore it as well. I mean look at this thread, you and I both know there are a few in the first category here and in real life as well, but refrain from saying anything. But then there are those that are aware of their own ability to be petty.

I mean, I can say that I am part of the first and third group more often than not. Probably more of the 3rd part, in which I am crass and blunt, and it will definitely gets me in trouble. Can I be petty? Sure, especially if a someone is sniffing around what I deem is "mine". I am territorial. And only the select few get the second category out of me. I sometimes struggle with my own flaws and demons.

I just like knowing what makes people tick at times.

Interesting....

I must be an alien, then - because I have never felt the need to compete with other women for a guy. That's the type of petty that I just never really understood.

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I think we are a bit off together about the pettiness part of my statement. This usually only occurs, for me, when I am already dating/with someone and a girl is overly flirtatious with him. Example, you are dating a guy, and she slides up to him batting her lashes, and hair flipping in front of you.

That's when I can get petty, and tell them to fuck off. However, you are right, that a lot of women whom feel the need to be petty in a competitive way, usually exhibit this behavior towards women.

I'd say I'm a combination of 2 and 3.

I don't look at girls as competition. I have no interest in competing with anyone. I'm secure enough in myself. I'll leave the mean girls to compete with each other. I'm a strong independent women and I think we should build each other up not push each other down.

I know I can come across as harsh and blunt on here sometimes but it comes from a good place. I've always been told my text style is harsh ? Especially when in a serious conversation. However I'm empathetic and I'll do anything to help anyone whether I know you or not.

I'm nice to everyone until I have a reason not to be in which case I have no problem speaking my mind. I'm no pushover and I hate bullies.

I give no fucks. I used to be seriously filterless but as I've gotten older amd my Libra bits have become more prominent, I am more diplomatic. I do still have my moments.

I still do what I want, when I want though.

I'm the blunt friend, but not in a negative bitchy way - it's almost always light hearted - everything is funny to me.

I have been accused of being the mean girl before though ??‍♀️ I like who I like, and I simply don't fuck with people I don't like just for the sake of being friendly. I'm always professional and polite I think

Sweet or blunt , never catty

The last two and more

I'm not sure.

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Just an observation on DXP as well as real life. I feel like there are only 3 types of women.

There is the "mean girl" types. The ones that throw shade indirectly, and usually have a following of like minded individuals. That, not out of jealousy per say, but out of sheer competition value, want to undermine other women they may be threatened by, with their antics.

Then there are the women's woman. The one that is accepting and loving towards all. Hippy type in a way. But they have a good aura about them, a soothing type.

Then there are those that give no fucks, and say what they want, and do what they want. Bold, and crass.

Which one are you?

When I'm happy I'm #2 when I'm upset about something I'm #3. Lol

Sweet, inappropriate, and blunt all in one!